I feel like I have one good big adventure left in me. Should I try for one last long term relationship and see if it sticks? (I've had two - 5 and 12 years - and both were great. Both guys are still good friends of mine.) Or should I try to do something fantastic in my career and leave a professional legacy. I have an ivy phd, but I got it later in life, so there is no big book or big body of work, though I had a pretty successful career berfore the PhD. Sorry, I'm not a multi-tasker in life. Just don't think I have it in me to do both. I know I'm going to regret the one I didn't do on my deathbed. And I may not have that much time left anyway. Who knows.
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