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Help with an eldergay problem?

I'm in a movie group that's about a dozen gay guys, mostly in their 30s. It's an offshoot of a bigger group we all left because of stupid drama. We organize the group via an ongoing group message on Facebook. We all pretty much agree on the movies we want to see, and most discussion boils down to when an where we're seeing it. We have one member who, as he always says, is old enough to be our father. I liked him at first, because we share similar taste in movies and he's recommended a lot of pre-70s movies to me that I've enjoyed. Lately, though, he's turned into a real pain in the ass. He's become negative about almost everything, and when we went out last night, he ended up giving us all a lecture about how none of us need smartphones. Everyone else is ready to get rid of him. I want to give him another chance because I don't think he realizes how he's coming across. But I also think he's going to freak out when I bring up the topic. Any advice?

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