I am a gay Cancer male with a Taurus rising, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Libra and Moon in Sagittarius. In the past two months I have had two of the most unpleasant dates of my life and it turns out they're both Aries. First off both bragged endlessly about their good looks & material possessions, both had mystery Mercedes that were either in the shop or at home and both aggressively pursued me after I showed absolutely no interest in these people. I just want another nice Scorpio, or maybe to try a Gemini or Aquarius. What signs are you encountering repeatedly that you just cannot work with?
Specifically? Cancer male with a Taurus rising, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Libra and Moon in Sagittarius.
So are Scorpios, OP
Aires are either one extreme or the other.
Aries are often problematic, but at least what you see is what you get. Geminis can be the biggest, two-faced liars in the universe and Sagittarians are sometimes sneaky just for the hell of it.
Cancer, Taurus Moon, Virgo Rising
Water and Fire can either extinguish each other or make glorious steam. Each has it's gifts. Fire adds ego while water adds soul to the mix, and personally, I like the mix as you are not just one sign but ALL and you DO have a FIRE moon, so that's your attraction,as moon is what you seek in partnership. Cancer can be TOO loving and self-effacing. But you have a fire moon so FACE UP! You LOVE big egos. And remember,the Sun is only ONE part of you and the part you're LEARNING to be in this life. THAT'S why those Aries can seem so childish in their self focus. Usually they're learning to be full of themselves,while a Cancer is learning to share it's emotions and soul with the world and therefore can often feel taken advantage of.But that FIRE moon in Sagittarius will help you take your heart TO that world. It's a GREAT combo-FIRE/WATER. And I should know being Cancer sun-Sag moon like you. Welcome that mix in yourSELF and you will have no problem in the world. As for your question about which signs you have a problem with? Fire! But not anymore. I use my OWN to force them to feel..and get REAL!!
Uhm OP, you are a natal mess. You are a watersign with a water opposition (scorpio) as a rising sign, Taurus. You are a lazy emotional mess. Venus in Gemini adds to your unfocused, skittish emotional crazy. Your moon in Sagittarius emphasizes your tendency to delusional self centered thoughts.
Don't blame Aries.
I'm an Aries (sun). No Arian should knowingly "date" a Cancer anything. The impossibility of attempting to bend a dynamic, energetic, colorful temperament to deal with the sullen, needy, withholding and morose Cancer personality is obvious.
Of course many Aries people are assholes. So are members of every other sign. But it is typical of the Cancer persona to post a thread such as this, for no purpose except to do a backdoor "They love me, the selfish dolts."
I'm Cancer in Uranus, OP.
I'm Libra with Aquarius rising, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Aquarius, Mercury in Libra, Moon in Virgo. Will I ever find true love?
Try a Pisces, we're adorable in every way.
Mars in Libra tells the tale.
lol r6 does describe my early 20s well. Those were all flaws I had to admit to myself and still work on. r5 it's interesting you say that because my most intense and deepest relationship ever was with a Leo with Scorpio rising. I shouldn't have said all Aries are jerks and I do have some female Aries friends,
Do you people still believe in Santa, too? Astrological signs are total bullshit. It is impossible to make a categorical statement that "Aries are jerks."
I am a Virgo and Virgos get shat on all the time, so I am glad to see someone go after another zodiac sign.
I'm an Aries who loves everything this thread chooses to be.
I'm a fire boar.
R15, if my mother and sister are any indication, Cancer women are completely batshit crazy.
Well I'm a Libra with a Taurus ascendant, moon in Sagittarius, a Mercury in Scorpio, a Venus in Scorpio and a mars in Leo. So I'm a mess too, LOL...Mercury in scorpios are known for being inquisitive and nastily sarcastic. I definitely have those traits too.
...and Libra men are known for being charming, but annoyingly indesicive and flighty. And most are whores and power bottoms.
Slippery When Wet
I'm a Sagittarius with Pisces Rising and Virgo Moon. Venus, Mars, Jupiter in Scorpio.
Am I a mess?
"I like Sagittarians. You can trust them"
The crazies are out in force tonight.
What about Aries with Capricorn?
what about Aries and aqwarious
It's no longer the dawning of the Age of Aquarius. It has arrived.
The Fifth Dimension - Aquarius / Let The Sun Shine In - 1969
r30, not so fast, actually.
Sunrise, dawn takes approximately 30 minutes.
If an age lasts 2 millennia, the dawning of that half hour equivalent would be about 40 years.
By most accounts we are still in it.
I'm Libra with Aquarius rising, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Aquarius, Mercury in Libra, Moon in Virgo. Will I ever find true love?
Dear r10, Hmmm, the problem with you is that you are so self righteous, Libra and Aquarius rising, and so focused on making the world a better place that there is no place for a relationship. However your Venus in Scorpio leads to a deep and complex emotional sexuality.
Find a non=profit run by ex-priests (the gay ones not the pedophiles), preferably Jesuits (you have been a bad boy)...
r14, I'm a Fire Monkey climbing the hill.
I'm an Aries with Libra moon and Scorpio rising. Cancers are just too needy, sensitive and passive-aggressive. My partner is also an Aries and it works out pretty well, although we do have our clashes. We understand each other in all our rudeness and self-centeredness.
Fact of that matter is, Aries is a self-centered sign but so is Cancer. Cancer tends to whine about it, though. Cancer, you need a nice Scorpio, Virgo or maybe Capricorn.
R29, from my experience Aries and Aquarius can get along really well and have great sex - but the Aquarius may break the Aries' heart. They are just so impersonal and can't be tied down.
I avoid anyone who believes in astrology.
I thought we were over this.
Watch out for signs of empiricism or rational thinking -- clearly this will be incompatible.
Uh, for some reason this thread is not all about me. I'm losing interest.
You blame voodoo because you can't connect with someone?
And you wonder why you are single.
As a Cancer I know their bad news, but I just can't help it those Air sign boys get me hot.
I know hardly anything about the zodiac and horoscope. I am a Libra born on October 21, 1982... can someone analyze me and my love-life?
There's nothing as fucking juvenile or stupid than astrology freaks.
I'm a Taurus sun, Taurus moon, and Virgo rising. Am I good news or bad news?
I'm an Aries and my husband of 22 years is a Cancer. Some people put way too much importance on astrological signs I believe.
Aquarius (Jan 23 - Feb 22) You have an inventive mind and are inclined to be progressive. You lie a great deal. You make the same mistakes repeatedly because you are stupid. Everyone thinks you are a freaking jerk.
Pisces (Feb 23 - Mar 22) You are a pioneer type and think most people are dickheads. You are quick to reprimand, impatient and full of advice. You do nothing but piss-off everyone you come in contact with. You are a prick.
Aries (Mar 23 - April 22) You have a wild imagination and often think you are being followed by the FBI or CIA. You have minor influence on your friends, and people resent you for flaunting your power. You lack confidence and are a general dipshit.
Taurus (April 23 - May 22) You have a dogged determination and work like hell. Most people think you are stubborn and bull-headed. You are nothing but a damned communist.
Gemini (May 23 - June 22) You are a quick and intelligent thinker. People like you because you are bisexual. You are inclined to expect too much for too little. This means your are a cheap bastard. Geminis are notorious for thriving on incest.
Cancer (June 23 - July 22) You are sympathetic and understanding to other people's problems, which makes you a sucker. You are always putting things off. That is why you will always be on welfare and won't be worth a crap.. Everyone in prison is a Cancer.
Leo (July 23 - Aug 22) You consider yourself a born leader. Others think you are an idiot. Most Leos are bullies. You are vain and cannot tolerate criticism. Your arrogance is disgusting. Leo people are thieving bastards and enjoy masturbation more than sex.
Virgo (Aug 23 - Sept 22) You are the logical type and hate disorder. Your shit-picking attitude is sickening to your friends and co-workers. You are cold and unemotional and often fall asleep during sex. Virgos make good bus drivers and pimps.
Libra (Sept 23 - Oct 22) You are the artistic type and have a difficult time dealing with reality. If you are a male, you are probably queer. Chances for employment and monetary gain are nil. Most Libra women are whores. All Libras die of venereal disease.
Scorpio (Oct 23 - Nov 22) You are the worst of the lot. You are shrewd in business and cannot be trusted. You shall achieve the pinnacle of success because of your total lack of ethics. You are the perfect son-of-a-bitch. Most Scorpios are murdered.
Sagittarius (Nov 23 - Dec 22) You are optimistic and enthusiastic. You have a reckless tendency to rely on your luck since you have no talent. The majority of Sagittarians are drunks. You are a worthless piece of dung.
Capricorn (Dec 23 - Jan 22) You are conservative and afraid of taking risks. You are basically chickenshit. There has never been a Capricorn of any importance. You should kill yourself.
"I am a gay Cancer"
Yes, you are, dear.
"You have the gay Cancer."
The folks who sound so oddly angry about astrology should just stay out of the thread, you're not going to change anyone's opinions if they're interested in it.
Aquarians are the sexiest men by far
Here are some famous Aquarian men.
Paul Newman, Clark Gable, John Travolta, James Dean, Burt Reynolds, Justin Timberlake, Chris Rock, Elijah Wood, Robbie Williams, Taylor Lautner, Joseph Gordon-Levitt, Ashton Kutcher and Christian Bale.
Adam, you left out the Fish. Perhaps because you don't like them?
I'm Aries but I'm one of those "too nice" guys, almost opposite of jerk.
Matthew Broderick is an Aries, he certainly doesn't seem macho and abrasive, he seems like he's very low key and sweet.
Geminis are the worse. I have never met a Gemini that wasn't a backstabbing, two-faced phoney.
This takes me back to the '70s. I went to many parties. Some guy always asked me my sign. I would lie. He would say he KNEW I was that sign, and he would tell me why. I must have let 30 guys tell me why they KNEW I was something I wasn't, before I told them what I really was. I doubt it changed any of their minds about astrology, but it amused me to no end. Nowadays, normal people know that astrology is a crock of shit. But it was fun then.
Gemini is the sign of the twins.
Geminis are great lays though.
are cancer women really crazy?
I knew one who threw herself off of a building. She was the most charming woman I've ever met. I think of her often and it saddens me that she is not around anymore.
I'm friends only with Gemini's and Libra's. They're too flighty & I'm too serious (a Capricorn with Aries rising)
I fall in love with Cancers
I laugh a lot with Leo's but get into tons of arguments as well. Lots of passion but easy to burn out on.
Aquarius--they're too cool & I'm too hot. We tend to avoid each other.
Taurus--We butt heads a lot but understand each other
Scorpios--Strong personalities, Makes good friends
Virgos--Good for intellectual stimulation
Sagittarius--Can be airheads
Capricorns--It's like looking in a mirror
Aries--Know very few of them but I've heard some people think they're jerks
String together some words.
I'm a Water Tiger with a Goat ascendent.
I don't buy into astrology, but I can't help but notice that every last one of my close friends is an Aries or Aquarius. Every person I genuinely can't stand is either a Gemini or Scorpio. Very weird.
I have a question for anyone with a good deal of astrological knowledge. I am a Cancer, but my Mercury & Venus are in Gemini. All my life I have felt divided in everything I do, basically like I'm two people and I want incompatible things. I feel like the two sides of myself can never be united harmoniously and although I have basically learned to deal with this it still drives me nuts occasionally. Is this because of all the Gemini in my personal planets, or is it something else?
I don't ascribe much to astrology but I do know that Sagittarius is a fire sign and Cancer a water sign.
And this fire sign loves water!
OP---try a Taurus man! They are THE best! Smart, witty and down to earth. Plus--IMHO--they are GREAT in bed! Slow, sensual and can go ALL night! Plus, they love cuddling and kissing!
Avoid Gemini men! BAD news! From my experience, they are self centered and crazy! They also tend to be quick on the trigger, if you get my meaning!
[quote]Geminis are great lays though.
They're usually uninhibited, willing to try anything, anywhere and sort of kinky and they like VERY dirty talk in bed.
Geminis get all the shit !!
We can be screwed up but we are not the only ones. Try Saggitarious Virgo and Pisces.These signs all have two sides as well.
On the other hand I am a Gemini with a Capricirn moon and a Leo rising Gemini Venus and Cancer Mercury ,so I'd Say I am the most fucked up here:)
You start thinking your great then are totally insecure then your split in the middle about doing anything about it.Then having Cancer means I have all this emotional shit as well :)
Pisces water ox here. Cannot stand Aries, I only ever seem to meet the worst stereotype of the bad-tempered drama queen Aries. Scorpios are way too intense, moody and stalkerish for my liking, and Cancers and Libras I find too demanding.
Pisces and Virgo aren't supposed to get on, but on the rare occasions I've felt an instant attraction to someone, they always turn out to be Virgo. The (unrequited) love of my life was a Virgo too. I just find I have this weird instant connection to them. But I guess I'm too soppy for them. Oh well.
Gemini with Scorpio rising here. Seem to attract a lot of Cancerians (and lots of gay men seem to be Cancerian) and we spark for a bit but then there's always an explosion and someone gets hurt. Okay for friends, though, as long as you can tolerate the periods of whiny introspective bullshit :D Most of my friends are Capricorns, oddly.
I think I'm about to start another relationship with a guy on the cusp of Virgo and Libra again. That was what the last one was. He got too clingy and couldn't spark my interest at all after a couple of months. I ended it after 3 months.
What am I in for, do we think?
R65 Cancer wondering if he'll get it together...
I have something exciting to tell you later..in a day or 2.
I would question anything OP says. Mars and Pisces in Libra and Gemini....lying and rationalization are big part of how OP operates. He will be more comfortable with others who also shade the truth.
I don't know whether to laugh or cry reading through this thread.
Some of you faggots must be too dumb to dress yourselves.
I'm a Sagittarius Sun & Moon, Taurus Rising, Scorpio in Venus, Mars AND Mercury, bitches!
Scorpio in Venus, Mars AND Mercury, bitches!
by: Top That
We can top that with an Oh, dear in the first house.
Best fuck ever---a Scorpio with Moon & ascendent in Taurus. My ass still tingles with the memories of that expert cock working my hole.
WORST fuck ever---Virgo with Aquarius Moon and Gemini rising. Was paranoid about finding a stray dingleball and didn't like kissing.
I attract Sagittariuses like the plague. My last 4 relationships have all been Sags and they've all ended.
God help me if I attract another one!
Aries can be fun but always self centered...aren't they?
A scorpio will cheat, imo.
A taurus is loyal to a fault. Virgos are sexy but complainers and picky.
Geminis often are attracted to water signs because they don't fully understand them and they differ so much emotionally - they find them mysterious and perplexing and Geminis love a mystery. They get bored if someone is too easy to figure out. Gemini and Cancers sometimes get on because of similar senses of humor, think Gilda Radner and Gene Wilder.
So all I knew before this thread was that I am a Libra. I googled and found that I am Scorpio rising with a Taurus moon. What the fuck does any of that mean?
R85 must be pretty damn hot with that astrological combo going on.
R85, rising sign is supposed to be the face you present to the world. Scorpio rising - you you are probably more intense, more decisive and less diplomatic than the average Libra. Taurus moon - moon rules emotions. You like security and luxury and are probably more down to earth than the average Libra. I would venture to say that you are probably attracted to Tauruses. You are very sensual, probably a good lover.
r84 funny you should mention that. This past year I have had Geminis & Aquarius chasing me & I'm a Cancer. I do really love spending time with Geminis, but they always break my heart.:( I've never gotten close serious enough with an Aquarius to know. The last Aqua guy I was with was extremely predatory when it came to sex and basically jumped on me and got forceful as soon as we were alone. I was surprised because I had always been told they weren't too sexual at all.
Cool, dude, but sometimes I think astrology is just another way of putting people in boxes like organized religion. But, then you start to see general similarities among the signs. I'm a Cancer who loves Scorpios. The hottest sex I ever had was with an Aquarius. The longest relationship was with a Virgo.
Sun and Venus: Cancer
Resident astrologer? What's my motivation. I must be a realllly late bloomer!
Interested enough to know my planets
[quote]The hottest sex I ever had was with an Aquarius.
I thought they lived in their heads and were rather cool, not particularly sexual.
Same r90, but my own experience with them has been quite the opposite of that too. They will fuck you hard!
I'm an Aries with Scorpio rising.
Sometimes I wish I wasn't though, because everything in my life has always been incredibly intense. My feelings, my relationships, my anxieties, my highs and my lows. I'm not bipolar, nor do I feel that way, but everything is always level 10, and everything means so much to me that it is actually a detriment.
I was always this way, and a friend did my chart and told me it makes sense with those two signs. I'm not saying this as something to revel in, the intensity is wearing. It's like everything I feel and think is always level 10, and I don't know how to turn it off. I don't know how to not be this way. It's cost me relationships in the past from people who didn't want to deal with it (and shouldn't have had to)
I don't know if astrological signs are real, and the date and time you were born matter, it's just that i've always been this way, and when I saw the thread, I thought i'd share the signs I fall under.
I have Cancer friends-- male and female-- and my greatest love was a Cancer. To a person, they are hyper-sensitive, which is okay with me because I'm sensitive too. The problem I have with Cancers is how they act when they feel like they've been wounded or slighted. They pull deep into their shell, just like a crab, and won't communicate or tell you what's wrong. You're not given a chance to explain yourself, and they are like judge, jury and executioner. It's maddening! And wow, can they ever hold a grudge.
I'm Taurus sun, Libra moon, Scorpio rising, with Mercury in Taurus, and Venus and Mars in Cancer. My love is a Cancer, Pisces moon (WTF?), Virgo rising, Mercury in Cancer, Venus in Taurus, and Mars in Virgo.
Anyone out there care to take a crack at that combo?
Cancer here who manages to have spectacular relationships with spectacular failures. First husband was an Aquarius, who adored me until he needed to cheat and leave, and blame me for it all. Second husband was a Leo, who adored me until he needed to cheat and leave, and blame me for it all (which was rich since he was having an affair with our friend, a nasty Virgo, whom he moved in with immediately on breakup). I seem to always be in 2 month torrid affairs with Aries, and contentious but deep friendships with Geminis, and I never seem to meet Pisces or Virgos.
Now I am torn--being pursued by a multitude of men, but consumed by two: an Aries-Taurus cusp who is utterly magnetic, and comes back to me for more, but seems to be all about his own pleasures, and a Gemini with whom I have incredibly kinship, affection, and chemistry, but who will not consider risking the friendship to try a physical/emotional relationship. I feel strongly for both, though I am trying to move it along and date the others who are coming along, since neither will make a commitment to me.
[Sun and Mercury in Cancer, Moon in Sagittarius, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Taurus]
R91, that really surprises me, but I'm glad you had fun!
I am laughing at and feeling superior to anyone who actually believes in this garbage.
Boyfriend of R94: "You, YOU put that dick in my mouth! It was YOUR fault!"
I think Roy the Cat is a Cancer - vindictive little fucker climbs under the blanket to kill your feet.
r93 I'm a Cancer and when I get into my shell and pull back it is mainly because I feel so foolish. I feel like I was an idiot to trust someone and they hurt me. My emotions go nuts and I imagine that they were playing some kind of vindictive game with me and I fell for it. I feel like if I pull away I'm salvaging what's left of my dignity and protecting myself from future hurt. It's horrible, but I have cut off contact from friends and lovers completely when I felt hurt. Like blocking cell numbers & email address'. As I get older I'm beginning to see that this is truly fucked up.
R98, thanks for your honest answer. Help me out with this... what is the best way for someone to bridge that gap with you? When I approached this person (Cancer male) he went even further into his shell. I had no idea I'd made things worse by trying to get him to talk. He may have been hurt, but I guess he didn't realize that his silence was even more hurtful to me.
I'm a very loyal friend (and lover) and would have never done anything to hurt him. I know he's a proud person and wants to remain independent to avoid being hurt. I'm exactly the same way, but at least I don't push people away from me when they've made only an error in judgement, or spoke too rashly. My best friend is a Cancer and she does the same thing too. We'll sometimes go months without speaking because she has her nose out of joint about something or other.
Life's hard enough with turning it into a rollercoaster. So r98, is there anything that works to get through to you when you're in one of your moods?
r99 With me it's just being really gentle...talking this out and being sincere.
I am also gay Cancerian with Taurus Rising & Venus in Gemini. We should swap tales.
Here's some Cancerian comfort for your hungry Mars:
Ariens live in a world of themselves.
Like a distant cosmic sibling of Libra, the Arien keeps his sanity balanced through a steady assumption that everyone else feels the same as him. He assumes you're all in his world and that it's is the only world.
The Arien might not understand why you aren't bragging, but that's not going to stop him from feeling worth while, from flexing his mars and any direct relators.
I'm assuming your own Libran warrior is in the battlefield of the sixth house, crunching numbers to fill the order of the season.
The trouble is Aries' number don't add up.
He's using a different system than you. Imperfection prevails in this organic dance of life, but rest assured: You did your job beautifully.
That's all there is to it.
thanks r101 that was really cool and actually helps me understand them more.
Scorpio sun with Aquarius rising and Capricorn moon.
I might as well be a self flagellating monk.
I loved Arles, charming.
You are all astonishingly retarded.
I'm actually dating a Virgo now, for the first time ever and it's awesome. he's 20 years my senior and loves to dominate in bed. He's very kinky too which is hot. Most importantly we can talk for hours.
Is that virgo a big grouch...always finding a problem everywhere he looks?
Get your self a Libra they very good with relationships and romance... but some can go extreme so if you get a libra that is stable in his life you good.
I'm pretty rational about things in general, but yes, I believe in astrology. Not enough to plan my life around it, but I do find that people tend to fit their astrological profiles pretty well.
Aries just want you to like them. they brag like newborns waving a new toy. at least they're not liars.
gemini sun, venus, mercury and mars all also in gemini, leo rising, aries moon. i'm always attracted to scorpio and taurus- both men and women from each sign. the most nefarious, duplicitous asshole i've ever met was also a gemini with my same birthday, but a few years older than me.
You met two shithead Aries and extrapolate that all Aries are jerks.
Think about this OP.
What else do they have in common? What else to they have in common that only 1/12 of the world's population (or less) might have in common.
For instance were they both Americans? If so would you then conclude that all Americans are jerks? Were they both Caucasian? Were they both gay city dwellers? Were they from the same city? Did you find both of them initially attractive? If so, was what attracted you to both of them the same thing?
[quote]but I do find that people tend to fit their astrological profiles pretty well.
True. I don't buy into horoscopes or predictions, but everyone I know has the traits of their zodiac sign, it's pretty accurate.
Aries and Leo. Great passion.
Geminis are always attracted to water signs like Cancer and Scorpio because they can't figure them out and Geminis love a mystery.
I'm an earringed, caftan-wearing distraught freeper queen!
Aries is the first sign of the Zodiac. Sometimes they don't realize that other signs came after theirs and other people's needs actually exist. If you want the truth, ask an Aries. Brutal honesty is their trademark, emphasis on brutal.
As self-centered as most Aries are, they are also "starters" in the world. They will probably lose interest and not follow through but the world does need people to get things started.
Also with the Aries, chivalry is not dead. They are the last of the knights errant.
r118, what are aries women like?
They're all cunts, R119.
Virgos. Totally superior to everyone, in their own minds, the only ones who work hard, the only ones who do everything correctly, the only ones who suffer. Always seeing the nit picky little details in every situation and grouchy as hell. Passive aggressive like a motherfuck. Won't tell you they are displeased, and you won't know until they either get really quiet on you or say something really cutting and mean out of nowhere.
"Scorpio sun with Aquarius rising and Capricorn moon.
I might as well be a self flagellating monk."
OMG, I am a Cancer sun, with a Scorpio rising, Cap moon and Mars in Aquarius. I am Saturn's bitch. My Cap moon vetos all fun, affection, ease and comfort. If a job is easy, I find work to make it hard. Never believe anyone loves me, has ever loved me (except my mom, the Cancer kicks in,) or will love me. Accept my perpetual state of being alone as how it will always be and actually kind of ok with it. I have work.
Aries women are great.
So you accept everything that has happened to you because of your astrological sign and suns and moons? So you're incapable of going out and having fun and finding affection because you're Saturn's bitch? Maybe you'd be a loser whatever sign you were? If you let Saturn control you, perhaps you have bigger problems than a scorpio rising. Sounds pretty frightening to me to let this crap control your life. Grow a pair?
Every last one of them, R123? Every woman who is an Aries is great?
You people are more frightening than the whiny republicans who can't accept any of the blame.
Are Capricorns good or bad? I need to knoe
Aries women are actually pretty crude and bratty, with an overestimation of their sexual prowess. While extraordinarily bitchy about other women's "failings", these indulgent firebrands rarely have it together to sweat off their latest booze roll of fat.