If you're over 35, has it changed as you've grwn older? How much do you think your need to get off has affected the rest of your life?
When I was 25, I needed to get off about three times a day. Now that I'm in my 40s it's more like three times a week. My life is not ruled as much by needing to have sex or masturbate as much, and I consider it in a weird way a blessing.
I feel the same way, OP.
Don't get me wrong... I did experiment with recreational drugs in my 20's that certainly raised my sex drive and lowered my inhibitions. But now, the urge is just not there as much. I'm 41, by the way.
Unless I'm sick, I'm still a 3-5 times a day guy. In my late 40's.
GEESh, R2, I'm forty 43 and once a day if fine with me. Twice is nice but not really necessary unless the hot guy is helping me out.
R2. Three to five times a day in your late 40s?
I don't believe you. There's no way you get off that often. Besides, how much time do you have on your hands? Do you work? Or do you sit in front of your computer and jack-off everyday? And even then, I still don't belive you.
I find it hilarious when people say "I don't believe you" when I state a simple truth.
Yeah, I jack off to internet porn a lot.
I'm as horny now as I was in my teen years, if not hornier. I'm almost 33. Getting regular exercise really boosts your sex drive, no matter your age, I think. I have no problem believing R2. More power to him!
I'm 31 and as a teenager I could get off 3 - 4 times a day. Now, I'm a once a day kind of guy.
Well... I don't know if I should be impressed or feel pity for you.
R2 Get a life. Or get a man. Seriously.
I usually only do it once a day although I feel the urge to do it two or three times.
I'm 38. I get off every day, whether it's by myself or with someone else. There are days I go twice, so I'd say I get off about 10 times a week. When I was younger, I would get off twice a day every day, but it's not much of a difference from what I'm doing now.
Come to think of it, the only reason why I don't jerk off every morning like I used to is because I have a dog now that I have to take out as soon as I wake up. If it weren't for her, I think I'd still be jerking off my morning wood every day.
Before I started hormones around once a day. Now that I am on the female hormones more like once a month lol.
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[quote]R2 Get a life. Or get a man. Seriously.
If I could get a man, you think I'd be here?
And I have no life.
SO... internet porn.
I'm 52. About once a week for me. This is on average. Sometimes every day for a few days, then not at all for a week.
I'm 56, and it's down to about once a week. Twice at most.
Im in my 20s, I usually go one or two days out of the week without getting off. The other days I get off once or twice. Every few weeks I get super horny and I can cum five or six times in one day. And I hardly ever get off using my hands, handsfree cumming is way more powerful, more better!
I'm 46. At least once a day-twice if I am very horny. When I am busy with work or on vacation never. If I am with a great guy I can still come twice- but that takes a lot.
I'm 36 and my average has always been twice a day, either through sex or beating off. Some days I'll go 3 or 4 times if I'm super horny. There are also days when I won't get off at all due to stress/travel/being sick etc. but those are rare. There hasn't been any decrease in my horniness level or my daily cumming habits since I was a teenager.
And I envy R15 because I have never been able to cum handsfree and always wished I could do it. I never even had a wet dream in my entire life. I believe that was because I was so busy beating off as a teen that there was nothing left when I went to sleep at night!
If you're on blood pressure, cholesterol, or diabetes medicine you've lost the urge to get off.
44 - once a day minimum.
50 until the last year it was every day without fail (and when I was 40 3x a day still). But now it seems like an every other day thing.
It varies for me. Typically a couple times a week. Sometimes a crazy horn shows up and I need to get off five times in one day.
52, and only every other day.
41 here, and it's every few weeks on average. Even when I was younger it was no more than a few times a week.
48-once, maybe twice a week.
56, once a month to six weeks.
It really varies. I don't like to masturbate, as it's involved, and I have to cleanup afterwards.
I get laid 3-5 times a week, and that's great for me. I probably actually masturbate 1-2 times a month, given my sex track record.
But yeah, when I was in my 20's, I would jerk off twice a day.
Wait until you experience true suspension of sexual impulse. Most run to their doctor to artificially 'restart' themselves with viagra. But instead just experience it; the ability to identify and ward off manipulative behavior by others, the focus, the increase in other sense stimulation, the independence from need driven relationships, the personal power, all part of this new 'experience'. Also, you realized just how much time and effort was spent on satisfying compulsive sexual behaviors.
I was having sex or masturbating at least once daily until I was 49, which was pretty much stable, give or take, with how things had been all my post-pubescent life. But then POW, MS hit, half my penis went numb ( ! ), and the drugs I take suppress things. Sometimes I get sick of it and go off the meds just so I return to normal for a while, and I'm right back to where I was - numbness is better or I'm used to it.
Yeah. Real sexy.
I would tell you, but my face would turn red.
Mid 40s here. Three or four times a week is fine.
I'm 57. Not so much that I "need" to, but I get off 1 to 3 times/day, depending on how bored I am.
Maybe a few times a week. Oh wait, is cupcake wars on? Maybe afterwards then.
R2 here again... I should point out if I'm REALLY bored on a weekend, I've gone as much as ten times in a day.
3 to 4 or 5 times a day, is not normal at any age.
Please tell me this thread is one big parody.
"Normal" means average, R35. Not everyone is average.
There's a difference between "Need" and "Want"...
R28 = George Costanza
57 here - It depends what's going on. Average 2-3 times a week. Sometimes it will be everyday for 4 or 5 days but then I can go a week or 2 solid w/ zilch.
Pot used to make me super horny so that was always once or twice everyday but it's been a few years since I gave that up.
67. I won't tell you because there's already too much sadness about the future for you young guys. Just keep believing you'll be doing 3-4x forever.
in my 20's .Used to get of 3 times a day..but since i alway feel horrible after getting off i have decided just to be celibate till further notice
50 here. Generally 2-3x a week. When feeling particularly randy, I can still do 3x in a day. But I generally do not feel like sex anywhere as often as I did in the past.
Mid-40's. 2 times a day on average.
It varies for me. If I'm with my partner, around once a day. Masturbating, it's probably once every couple of weeks, although that 'once' might mean a couple of times in succession.
I'm 42. I get off 2 or 3 times a day. Definitely once in the morning and once at night and then once during the day if I find myself looking at porn.
I'll be 59 in a couple of weeks.
At least once a day but usually more.
It wakes me up before I go-go.
And knocks me out before I snore-snore.
I get that, but for me I prefer the build up when I wait util I can't wait any longer.
Who are these two/three times a day people? What are you 16 with no job?
why do you feel bad about getting off, r40?
Serious question. How long does it take you guys? I could never do it several times a day even if I wanted to. No time. For us gals it's a whole ritual. I have to be relaxed and comfortable, have to read something sexy and warm up to it. It can take over an hour.
R49. Girl, an hour? Hell no, guys aren't like that. We can take care of business in a matter of minutes.
Once a day at least. Sex with my partner is great but we do that about 1-2 times a week. I jack off inbetween thinking about the facial he's going to give me!
My doctor told me that I needed to ejaculate at least once / day. It keeps the prostate clear and is just good for overall health. So, I try to do it at least once per day, if not more. I'm 53.
i am 63 and i do it every day... o i love it
26 Theres no time period. If im horny and in privacy ill do it. I get off in a matter of seconds. I can never do it just once. Its usually 3 or more when I do.
I hate the phrase "get off".
28. Usually its 2-3 times a day.
But, how those people who don't jack off and don't have regular sex survive? I mean I tried to celibate for a week once but at the end of the week i wanted to RAPE everyrthing that was moving or even not moving!
1-4 times a day, late 40s. It reduces your risk of prostate cancer so I don't care what prudes think of my jerk-off habits, I'm emptying my prostate as often as possible.
At least daily
[quote] have to read something sexy and warm up to it.
I usually jerk off in bed, not in front of the computer. But it helps a lot if I'd spent some time looking at porn beforehand, because it makes whatever image I focus on while masturbating more vivid. For some reason it's very hard for me to come up with a vivid image to jerk off to if it isn't something I'd seen in the last 6 hrs or so. With all the hours I've spent looking at porn, you'd think my brain would've permanently stored some favorites in high definition, but it doesn't seem to be the case.
[quote] I should point out if I'm REALLY bored on a weekend, I've gone as much as ten times in a day.
I still occasionally have a 10 or close jerk off day, but that's not more than a few times a year. Have you ever gone over 10? I've said this before on DL and wasn't believed, but it's true a few times I jerked off about 20 times in a 24 hr period. The cum just got thinner and thinner until it was practically just water. If I did it I'm sure there are other guys who have.
I agree with R59. It's like images become weaker if they aren't fresh in your mind. I guess that's why we're always on the hunt for new stimuli as well. You can't keep going back to the same images and get the same "high" you got the first time you saw it.
44 Usually twice a day, once when I wake up and another before I fall asleep. Sometimes on the weekends, if I have nothing going on and a bag of tree, I will spend hours jerking off and nut 4 or 5 times.
R19 go see your doctor. I was put on Bystolic for blood pressure and I lost all my sex drive. Didn't even think about cock or getting some. Told my doc and she said stop taking it immediately. Put me on another med and I'm back to normal, which is getting laid when I'm in the mood, or jacking off which is usually daily.
Getting diabetes definitely changed my ability to get it up but with the help of pot and porno, I can squirt out a load but not anything like pre diabetes when I could hit the wall with a good shot.
66 and still once a day. Occasionally, twice.
I've never really been able to do it more than once a day. I remember once when I was 17, I got off 4 times in one day, but that's an all-time record that has stood for nearly 20 years.
Now that I'm in my 30s, I'm lucky if I feel the urge once a week.
I will never understand how people find the energy to have actual sex with other people multiple times a day. Besides, doesn't your penis start to hurt?
Oh...I need it daily after working on the farm all day...The fresh air, tight jeans and jock really make me want some action.. At 54.. still at once a day...
More than once a day is not natural and there is something wrong with you. You are a sexual deviant and should speak with a doctor.
Bitches, please. 2-3-4 times a day?! Do you people work? Even once a day doesn't always happen unless your 16.
Do most guys not wake up with a hard on as you get older? It rarely happens for me anymore
I'm about the same as you, OP. It's changed my life considerably, not so much in the need to get off per se but in the loss of being sexually excited in visceral sense, feeling sexual, sexy and alive.
It seemed to change kind of overnight, and now I wish I could have experienced a happy medium. I was oversexed for most of my life, and find myself near asexual now.
I'm 46 and I still get off at least once a day - sometimes twice and occasionally more. It's just part of my routine - if I haven't come yet that day I'll jerk off before bed. It's a big part of stress management for me. I haven't noticed a decline in my horniness level since my 20s. I do notice that it takes me longer to be ready for round two.
R70. I still wake up with a hardon, but not with the rock solid intensity of my youth--and not everyday, but most days.
In my teens I need to get off at least 4 times a day. In my 20s, I got it down to 3. Now that I'm 31, I need to get off at least 1 time a day, but can go up to 3 or 4.
Well I'm 58 and I get off about five times a week. Don't laugh. I will say that it takes longer and it is extremely pleasurable. Nice and slow.
I take my time whether I am with someone (top) or enjoying a bj, or using my own hand. Sometimes I want it two or three times in one day, so maybe say 24 times a month.
Not bad for an eldergay. I will say when I come, I am drained. I want to sleep or at least drift for a while. It's not like it used to be.
66 here...I jack off every day, and sometimes twice a day...always have. Been married 43 years and no intercourse for the last 10. My wife does not like oral as well...giving or receiving. She also doesn't know how often I jack off. If she did she would say I'm sick and perverted...but I don't care. I've been doing it since I was 12, and I love it. I jack off whenever I get an opportunity...at home...in front of my computer...or with movies or pictures. It feels as good, if not better than it ever has! I will do it as long as I am able!
If there's anything that will cause a loss of hornyness is hearing about old farts over 50 getting off.
I agree old people can get off too but please
keep it to yourself. Nobody wants hear about it.
I don't know what everyone does for a living here, but age and stress has greatly affected my urge. I'm 42 and I am down to 1-2 a week, with one of those being jerking myself. I am in a semi relationship and it seems like every Friday night has become my fuck night but I don't always look forward to it.
I was kind of on the wrong side of the hill
(the one where you are traversing downward)and then after discovering a community like BateWorld, where masturbating is the reason for the site's existence, lately I am back to jacking off a couple times a day in addition to "actual" sex. I am 55 years old.
Once a month, believe it or not.
I'm 32 and I don't believe I'm any less horny now than when I was a teenager or in my early twenties. Yes, I probably did jack off a bit more then, but mainly because I had more time. Nowadays, I jack off at least once a day - more at weekends and still have a pretty decent sex life. Jacking off is part of my morning ritual and its very rare that I don't start the day jacking off to relieve my rock hard morning erection.
R80, glad I saw your post. I'm 45 and down to about once every week or two. When I was young, I'd do 2-3 a day up until about I turned 38. Then I noticed I'd have ups and downs. Sometimes daily, then sometimes just a few times a week. Gradually it lessened and now I'm down to once every week or two. It sucks. I miss my sex drive.
I am 37, I jerk off about 2 times a day but since I have been working out and exercising my sex drive is back like the old days. I've been jerking off three times a day every day. I love it! I want to take one day off and just jerk off all day long to see how many times I can do. When I was in the 20s I used to jerk off 6 times a day. Feels great...
I'm retired at 46 and wank up to 3 times a day most days. Even after that I still wank without intention of cumming, just enjoy pulling my cock and watching porn.
36: once a day at most. Depending on how busy, I can go as low as once a week. Even as a teen, I never was more than once a day--couldn't generate enough sperm.
Shit, wait until you hit 50
I am 67, jo more days than I don't. About 20 times a month.
48 years old, down to 4-5 times a week -- though I'm in the crowd that will hit a spot where I don't do it for 5 days or so, and other times I'll do it 3 or 4 times in one day.
As far as duration: 10 to 15 minutes is about the right amount of time.
57 - about 6 to 8 times a week.
50 - usually once a day, but twice sometimes
When I first met the man with whom I spent five years, we each came 14 times from Friday night at 11:00 pm until Sunday night at midnight.
Neither of us had ever experienced anything like it, before nor since.
He was 27 and I was 26.
Condom wrappers all over the apartment.
57...twice a day.
41. 3x per day and usually get fucked at least 4x per week.
once a year on my birthday I'm 55 :(
57 - always twice a day, and now through masturbation only. I swore off relationships with the last one, a much younger borderline personality disorder who after 6 years is still following me when I go out and files one lawsuit after another and has vowed to destroy my life and is doing a good job. SO I have lost my urge for any type of intimacy with another. Jerking off twice a day keeps my drive diminished. I recommend lots of masturbation to my younger friends when they are in that falling in love mode... you become totally blind and controllable when you are too horned up and sexually under the love object's spell.
42 years old.
I need to get off 1-2x a week, that's it. Sometimes it's 2-3x a month.
I don't really jerk off though, since that's about the amount of sex I have anyhow.
That's normally how it is.
But I've had a boyfriend for 7 months now, and we have sex 2-3 times a week. I think that increased my sex drive, somehow, because I still manage to jerk off 1-2 a week anyhow.
In my late 20's and have not had an orgasm for a little over a year. I'm not joking. This has been of my own choosing. I wanted to experiment with celibacy, I guess an extreme celibacy where you don't even get off alone, and I kind of like it in its own way.
My post killed this thread lol
With all the masturbation being portrayed here, how do you bitches have energy enough left to come in here wielding your pipes and words at each other?
i am 75 years old and i like to get off at least 5 times a week, usually average 6 times
Late 40's - Few times a week and I'm good.
44 y/o male, just as horny and erection-prone as I was 30 years ago. Ideally I need to come at least once a day, but I could probably go two, easily.
The problem is, I'm in love with my partner of 12 years who, despite clearly loving me back, has almost zero interest in sex. We have sex about twice a year and its never great. So I jerk off about 3 times a week to porn and grit my teeth a lot.
Varies depending upon what is going on in life. Sometimes I am just so worn out a week or better can go by. Other times, daily.
oh, I am 60, BTW. (#105)
I am 48 and unemployed, which is awful.
However it gives me a lot more time to masturbate, which I do at least twice daily.
My sessions with myself go for at least 40 minutes to an hour.
Since I watch Kelli and Michael Strahan each morning, my craving for interracial porn where the white guy bottoms (which essentially defines ALL interracal porn) is insatiable.
I'm 55, and I usually get off once or twice a day. Once in a while I can still get off three times. Sessions usually last 45 minutes to an hour or so, depending how much I'm getting into it. Still wake up with erections, though not as often as when I was in my teens and twenties.
I go to the gym at least three or four times a week. And also unemployed.
34 and try daily other wise every other day. depends on my work schedule. if no time i do a quick jerk in the shower and clean the drain too lol
i'm just as horny as when i was a teenager and a college student.
all my boyfriends ive ever had loved me for that...they nicknamed me the horny fucker.
i like to pump it fast deep and hard an ass that is.
im also OCD and ADHD and bipolar. been off meds for 2 yrs. because made me gain weight and killed my libido.
butt soon i have to get back on them since i had a manic episode in front of and went off on my mom and dad a couple weeks ago.
Sometimes i feel like Patrick Bateman butt just the anger. no killing and no blood.
i love to jerk off lying in bed naked and i can edge for up to 2 hrs. touching my cock, balls and butt hole. i love to shoot on my stomach and since i got big balls im full of cum and can release 6-7 good size squirts of warm cum!
i just finished jerking off 2 hours ago.
Did you wash your hands?
Once a day, but it exhausts me. It has to be before I go to sleep or when I can take a nap afterward, so mornings before work are out of the question.
Now in my 40s, I wake up in the middle of the night and jerk off. Then I can sleep a few hours and wake up feeling fine.
Howard Stern openly admits to jacking it 3 times a day at 60!
And he says that meeting Beth didn't change anything...he loves masturbation. But then again, this is a man who can't have sex without a condom with his wife.
You mean he openly admits to *being* a jack off.
Mid-40s and I had gone down to about once or twice a week. But when I'm dating someone it can be at least once a day. After a few days of that, I need a day or two off.
In a long-distance relationship now and we've agreed to see only each other. We see each other on the weekends and due to holidays we've been able to spend a couple near full weeks together and fucked a lot. I'm struggling, though, with thinking about hooking up during the week.
I was once 13 months without cumming - and I am married with my partner, we have an active sexual live, about 2 or 3 times a week. While he cums, I just let it go naturally as possible. Now I've cummed about 1 time every 2 or 3 months (handsfree, botton). I love the energy that becomes avaible for everything when I save the cum, I feel healthier and I fell less anxious too. Being a practicioner of meditation and into all those esoteric stuffs gives me a phycological support for keeping this way. Did some Tantra Yoga too. Until my 30 yrs I used to masturbate everydays, watching porn or not, but I got some signs from my body that I should stop with this, I believe every individual being is unique and has his own path, and for me to reach my life goals, which includes turning an old vitalized man, with brilliance and a brightfull sembland, I think is necessary to save cum. But, againg, it's what fits to my needs as a whole person. I began to think that the orgasm is not the goal, but is just a consequence.
sorry for the english!
i get off twice a day. When my wife is around I do not since she might want some too. I am 45 and consider myself very hot yet.
People who say they get off 5-6 times a day usually have no lives and just spend their days watching porn. No stress due to a job or relationship. Hell i'd be the same if that were me.
I'm in my early 40s and I get off once a day most days. Sometimes I go a day to a few days without due to a) don't really have the drive cause of other things in my life or b) if i go that long without getting back into it feels amazing
r104, find a way to get him back into. You guys are killing it softly. Do something you don't think has ever crossed his mind and see how he reacts.
50, everyday when home. No interest, too tired when on the road for work.
67 and daily at least once
No one over 13 is jackin it more than once a day. It's biologically impossible to be doing it up to five times a day if you're male. What a bunch of liars.
Does anyone elses sex drive come in waves?
Like high for a while, but then low for a bit, and back and forth forever.
Wow. What planet is R121 from?
I am 54 yo I masterbait 3 to 5 times a day, because I work away. When at home love to have sex the same amount each day. I am always thinking about sex 24 hours a day.
A planet called reality, R123.
Not R121, but still smelling the bullshit.
WOW, people, it is time for some of you to realize that everyone isn't exactly like you.
Yes it is possible for some to masturbate 10 times per day and it is also possible for some to go years without masturbating. Not everyone is exactly like you. Get over it.
I find this thread interesting with people disbelieving the fact that men that are a bit older can have more than one orgasm per day. I'm 55 and I always have my first orgasm early in the morning. I would go into my office before anyone arrived and would sit back in my desk chair while watching porn and blow my first load of the day. Sometimes, if I was very horny during the day, I would go to the bathroom, drop my pants and stroke a load into the toilet. In a few minutes I would be back in my office. At least three days a week, my secretary would have me sit on her desk and suck me off. Sometimes she would have me take care of her first, but always had me fill her mouth up. There were a number of occasions where I'd come home and my wife would want to partake as well. While my secretary has moved on, I still have between two to three orgasms per day and sometimes four. If my wife isn't in the mood at the end of the night, I will simply go into another bedroom, sit in a chair or lay on the bed and stroke myself off onto a hand towel. A quick cleanup and I get a wonderful night sleep. Will always keep it up!
Once...every Leap year.
I shoot a couple of times a week. I edge quite a bit while online even if I don't cum.
If I had more time, I'd probably cum more. But I work a lot so I have to rely on jacking off when I'm online looking at porn, which is sporadic. I like making out and jacking off in the showers with this one guy at the gym when no one is around at 8-8:30pm. It's fucking hot. He and I have fun.
Anti-depressants really put a downer on one's sex drive. About 5 times a week. And I'm 33.
51 and I blow 3 to 5 loads every day. Without fail, my boyfriend swallows my first load before I get out of bed in the morning. If he keeps sucking after I cum, chances are good that he'll get another load out of me. When I come home and sit down he's usually on the floor with my cock down his throat. He just can't get enough of my cock which is fine with me. Sometimes I don't cum, but if he doesn't get my load before dinner, it usually winds up being his dessert. He says he loves to eat my cum and every time he gets a load out of me, it gets me hornier to give him my next load. So, yes, not only is it possible, but happens to me everyday.
R121, !I am 49 & masturbate 2 or 3 times a day.
I have never smoked or gotten drunk or even had a single marijuana puff.
I work out a lot and simply avoid the processed food we all should avoid.
I also drink a lot of water to insure maximum ejaculation.