Although this is an old post, IMHO, it’s still relevant, seeing how so many people have been isolated from each other and such.
Last year, I was laid off from a new job due to the pandemic and California going into lockdown. So at the age of 57, I now had a lot of time on my hands, and porn being so ubiquitous, easily available, and now with the ability to cast porn to a big screen tv, I’ve been watching lots of porn and of course, at the same time, trying to look for work. When watching porn, I like to edge and wait until I find the right porn scene to cum. So that is my life during the pandemic. ... job hunting and masturbating.
Recently, on a particularly horny day, I jerk off 9x to orgasm in 7-8 hours or so. Excitedly I called my husband at work to tell him this was a new record for the long in the tooth, middle-aged me, and he just laughed and told me to “just fuck off, I’m working all day and you're playing with your dick.” lol.
Most mornings, I wake up with morning wood. While he (46) doesn’t. Plus, he’s grumpy until he has some coffee in him. But by that time, I’ve taken care of the morning wood situation. Simply said, we have different sex drives and I told him mine is higher than yours and he should be relieved that on the day I was so horny I jerked off 9x when easily I could have logged into a Grinder-type app and fuck around with another guy, I didn’t. That seemed to assuage his faux annoyance.
But that 9x day was a big outlier. Normally, it’s once a day to handle my morning wood, and if bored in the afternoon, another one. My orgasms have lost a lot of their kick. Where once I was a shooter, hitting the headboard behind me. Now it just burps out and puddles around the base of my dick. But if my partner and I are having sex, my organisms seem stronger. We’ve been together for 10 years and at first, we couldn’t keep our hands off each other. However, with time and his stressful job, the best way for him to decompress is simply to go to sleep. For me when I’m stressed or feeling in any way “off”, I simply jerk off. Weirdly, I don’t like solo jerking in front of the person I’m involved with. Of course, if masturbation is part of our sex play I love it. But to whip out my dick and start jerking off when he’s watching tv, is not very sexy. So I jerk off when I have free time and because of this pandemic and not being able to find work this past year, I have lots of free time.
I need to start working again if not for my relationship, for the very least my dick is starting to hurt too.