It's like the topic says: which male actors and celebrities are bisexual?
I don't mean out bisexual like Alan Cumming but the ones who you know or who are rumored to be bisexual.
Oh, OP, on DL you know you're going to get the name of every good-looking actor in the book, so why even ask?
None of them.
George Clooney, rumored to be bisexual, may very well be gay.
He's certainly not straight.
What's all this Clooney talk ? Never heard / seen anything that implies the guy plays for our team . He's gay friendly, yes, but no evidence of anything else. Commitment phobe, yes. Low taste in GF's , yes. I think people project the Cary Grant bi / down low on him, but he always strikes me as the good looking , funny , prom king , straight as an arrow type. Yes, they do exist.
Cumming only pretends to be bi - he's totally gay.
His relationships are phonier than a 3 dollar bill.
Especially this last one, Stacey something or other.
Keanu - gay-leaning bi
Gyllenhaal - VERY gay-leaning bi (like, 80%)
George Clooney I've always seen as bi as well.
James Franco. Seems obvious, he has even given comments about why people want to assume his sexuality is black or white.
Tom Hardy. I don't think an explanation is necessary.
If you believe Ted C's BIs Robert Pattinson is bi, but leans towards women.
R5, Clooney has not only long been reported to have a long term male partner in Italy by people in the know, that relationship has been the subject of online gossip blogs.
Alan Cumming actually is bisexual and he's not gay or one of those closeted gay men who calls themselves bisexual.
George Rose liked men and boys. The father and brother of one boy murdered him.
clooney is straight
Reductive OP. This topic has been done to death.
Judy Garland was an authentic bisexual.
Gyllenhaal VERY gay-leaning bi (like, 80%)
I don't understand that, he is 80% bisexual, so how can he be very gay if he is bisexual. Anyway I didn't think I could like him any less , turns out I was wrong.
Any closeted gay male actor who gets caught publicly, instantly declares themselves bi-sexual, even though bi-sexuality is virtually non existent in males,
Shut up r20
matthew rhys ?
jonathan rhys meyers?
This is an absurd thread. We all know very well who the "usual suspects" are, and nothing has changed. No one on here has any insider knowledge. The basement dwellers on DL have nothing new to contribute.
We've even exhausted the current new crop, so I find it amusing that there is a pre-occupation with Clooney. Again.
About five or six years ago, there were actual people on here who worked with celebs in some capacity, who could actually give us good gossip or at least INFORMED speculation.
Part of the problem, from a media perspective is the complete lack of real gossip. Everything that we read is either carefully controlled by publicists or the gossip blogger outlets have no idea. They work out of their basements too! LOL!
I've heard whispers about:
Gyllenhaal is more like 80% gay, R19.
Cummings always looks unwashed.
Jensen Ackles has about .05% interest in women.
What about Alexander Skarsgard is he gay, bi or straight?
Taissa Farmiga looks like a babydyke.
[quote]What's all this Clooney talk ? Never heard / seen anything that implies the guy plays for our team .
Welcome to DataLounge, r5. Yesterday must have been your first day here.
probably quite a few
do you guys remember the type of guys who did theater/dance in high school and college? they weren't exactly up for butch of the year award
so you have men who are attracted to acting - fame - whatever - it isn't the most masculine profession with only a handful of gays - its littered with them
only when they achieve fame do they need to reel it in to front an image of heterosexuality
and not to mention the gay producers, directors, casting agents - the suck my dick for this part casting couch is still in effect
I've heard from very well connected friends in-the-know that Clooney is gay, not bi. Neither I nor my I industry friends in L.A. are basement-dwelling DL twats. If you think Clooney is straight, you're just not informed. He doesn't necessarily ping.
James Franco is bi; you'd have to be utterly clueless to miss that one.
grandpa known publicly as Matt Dillon
I know because we hooked up and he was good too
He is like almost 50 now.
Oh any of u bitchy bossy pushy bottoms dont have a chance with him
he likes straight acting and looking guys
i can also confirm that Clooney is a homosexual.
ive never had him though i did have a thing for him when he was on ER, when he was much younger and hotter than he is now
I do know that before he hit it big on ER and even before all the tv pilots he was advised to watch his hand movements when he talks.
Now that he is older and mature it looks like he doesnt care anymore because he sure likes to move those hands a lot
His house in Studio City is awesome
I wish i was invited to Lake Cuomo
I guess im too young (i dont fit the demo he prefers) but i have been in the biz for almost 20 years, lets just say Seth Green and Leo D, Johnny Galecki and Jonathan Brandis are my contemporaries.
[quote]Gyllenhaal is more like 80% gay[/quote]
That would make Gyllenhaal bisexual then.
If he was gay he wouldn't have any sexual attraction to women at all.
r33.........was he a top or a bottom? Penis size?
David Bowie, Robert Downey Jr., Tom Hardy, Jared Leto, Pete Wentz, and Thomas Dekker all either came out then backtracked or ambiguously came out.
James Franco - he keeps on hinting at being no in interviews and people on the internet constantly say they know him to be openly bi
Davey Havok (of AFI) - had a girlfriend at some point but has also had rumored boyfriends
Gerard Way (as well as the rest of My Chemical Romance) - they're all married to women now and Gerard/Frank is really (probably) just part of their stage show. But there were rumors about Gerard and Bert McCracken (The Used) for awhile and he's never said he's straight and makes comments about sucking cock and hot guys. Rumors that Frank has said he's bi. And rumors about Mikey and Pete Wentz. They do have one member without bi rumors.
Andrew Garfield - I keep on hearing this all over the internet
Robert Pattinson - the Nevis Divine blind but if you look at blinditemsexposed's exposed, the first comment is someone saying they had already heard gossip about him being bi. People on the internet that claim to have mutual friends repeatedly and somewhat consistently say he's bi. Tom Sturridge is also rumored to be bi but the only reason anyone cares is because he was rumored to be dating Pattinson.
Michael Angarano and Jamie Bell I have both heard mentioned a few times respectively
You can call him anything but gay or bi sexual! He is allll man. He is pure 100% heterosexual man! Completely. Fo you get it? All. Man.
Gerard Butler's publicist calling from his Rennaissance condo in Chelsea.
r 33, Tell us -- if what you say is true, How do you know about Clooney, if you claim you manbanged Dillon, what does that have 2 do with Clooney and you knowing? Spill the tea?
DL legend David Ehrenstein says that Clooney is totally straight.
I hate when people just write a name after reading something online without any type of tea or extra info, something. Sluts!
r43 you havent spilled any teas on this thread either
r44 That's cuz I aint got any, DUH. I got ideas of who I think are gay or bi, but that aint nothin. I want real TEA. Not the same tired list based off of aura's-pinging-gaydars. I know entertainment folk sashay through here. Spill the tea!
Adrien Brody is bi. He travels with a long-term male partner, but also has legit relationships with women. He makes no real effort to hide any of this, and most people in the industry know his proclivities. It always amazes me that gossip sites don't pick up on the info, but I guess no one cares.
r46--it's probably because Adrien Brody isn't really considered "hot", so he can fly under the gaydar.
Thanks, r46. I always got a bi "vibe" from Adrian, even when he was seen in those magazine layouts with his ladyfriend du jour.
I just posted in another thread about odd looking people you are attracted 2. I love Adrian Brody... His sad clown eyes. I care. I care!
R46, that's interesting. I've thought he's attractive but have never heard gossip of any sort about him, I know nothing about his personal life. He never gave any sort of vibe off to me gay or straight, this is neither surprising nor expected.
[quote]James Franco. Seems obvious, he has even given comments about why people want to assume his sexuality is black or white.
I don't even think he's bi - I think he's completely gay.
James Franco strikes me as the sort that either "identifies as queer" or doesn't like labels.
I've heard a lot more of him being bi than of him being gay.
[quote]I've heard a lot more of him being bi than of him being gay.
That's funny because I've heard the opposite.
I personally don't care what he is though because I think he's hideous looking. He's aged like hell in the last few years and he always looks unclean. Bet he smells too.
no such thing as male bisexuality
Franco always makes me think of old cooking grease and ciggy butts.
Franco is delicious, and I would love to have him. I'm sure he'd be unclean. Would love to lick his ass. Has anyone ever had him?
David Ehrenstein always says Franco's straight, too. He said the same about Clooney?!? What a tool. He's 0 for 2 right there. Obviously not the expert he makes himself out to be.
Anyone got any dirt on 70s hottie Timothy Bottoms?
It's all in his name r57
Joseph Bottoms always seemed gayer than Timothy
I always wonder why Ehrenstein insists that Clooney and Franco are straight, when he so stridently condemns more obscure closet-dwellers and he's too much of a nobody to be on anyone's hush-hush payroll.
I can't figure him out. He's often a pretty good film critic, but based on his copious, bitchy drunkposting all over the internet he is clearly a weird cat.
Adam Rodriguez has photos of himself getting waxed and Judy Garland quotes on his Twitter account. In plain sight they often are!
[quote]David Ehrenstein always says Franco's straight, too. He said the same about Clooney?!? What a tool. He's 0 for 2 right there. Obviously not the expert he makes himself out to be.
Don't ever mention Lena Horne being a lesbian if Ehrenstein is around. His head will explode!!!!!!
Fuck all you bitches. Where's r33 who actual had a story?
[quote]Adam Rodriguez has photos of himself getting waxed and Judy Garland quotes on his Twitter account. In plain sight they often are!
Seriously? I'm gay and even I don't know any Judy Garland quotes. What kind of quotes are they?
The only quote I've ever heard regarding Judy Garland is actually a line from a film. They played it on NPR yesterday. "Hello everybody -- this is -- Mrs. Norman Maine."
Seems like they are all bisexual and hardly are gay. I suppose they could be professionally bi privately gay.
But I doubt it, I'm a realist, I don't really believe they are more than a small handful of gay actors currently working the industry. I'd say (including British celebs) maybe one percent are practicing gay men if were lucky.
R67 = Naive
Not that there were any Adrien Brody doubters on this thread...but just in case:
"Adrien Brody spent Thurs night in Manila hanging out with Jeremy Renner. Spotted at gastro-pub Draft and at the Peninsula Manila hotel."
Josh Hartnett? Has he not been spotted in gay bars in NYC more than once?
Ugh where's r33??????????????
[quote]R5], Clooney has not only long been reported to have a long term male partner in Italy by people in the know, that relationship has been the subject of online gossip blogs
He shops at "Beards Are Us".
Exactly, R73, where is Waldo these days? He used to pop up in pictures with Clooney but not so much anymore.
Josh Harnett is 100% straight than any actor in Hollywood.
R25, I just now noticed that you listed off the entire male main cast of Friends. Maybe one of them is bi and the rumors spread to the other two? I have no clue, I don't pay attention to any of them. It would be a somewhat amusing coincidence if they're all bi.
[quote]He shops at "Beards Are Us".
Is that the same shop Henry Cavill goes to?
Gary Sandy, Eric Martsolf
Anything about the guys of Gossip Girl?
Chace, Sebastian Stan and Ed?
This trio ping hard,any gossip?
Any gossip about the Gossip Girl guys? What an amusing little tongue twister.
I have no clue which one's which or what they look like but blinditemsexposed.com informs me Chase Crawford is Cresent Kumquat.
What is Crescent Kumquat alleged to have done?
Visconti was bisexual.
R70 being seen in gay bars means nothing. I am about 95% straight, and I have always preferred gay bars. They play better dance music, they cater to a better looking clientele, nobody gives a shit who you dance with, and they are simply more fun overall.
Teresa Giudice Has Ugly Kids
Hey fagola at r84, come ovah he and get yo skull bashed !
[quote] David Ehrenstein always says Franco's straight, too. He said the same about Clooney?!? What a tool. He's 0 for 2 right there. Obviously not the expert he makes himself out to be.
Ehrenstein may be right or he may be wrong but I'd listen to a gay man willing to name himself on this board before I'd listen to "anonymous."
Obviously every closeted gay mam or woman has their reasons, but out of curiosity why would George need to beard anymore? He's barely in the running for romantic leads now - though I know he still does them now and then. He doesn't even need to do them - his much better work is in non-romantic roles. It's not as if he wouldn't work any more or even lose money. He's proven himself a good actor, a good director and a good producer. None of that would end if he were truly gay and came out.
Just a thought. It's sad thought to see how he is not aging that well. Is it the back issues and pain or just too much Irish blood?
Ehrenstein is a tool and a liar.
No way Franco and Clooney are hetero, and it's like claiming that DiCaprio and Travolta are hetero.
[quote]Clooney has not only long been reported to have a long term male partner in Italy by people in the know, that relationship has been the subject of online gossip blogs.
So who is Clooney's long term male partner?
Though I don't know who he's with now, R88, he was with a guy named Waldo for quite a few years. I have no idea if that pairing is still active or not. At one time we had links to photos of the two of them but those threads went away with the DL housecleaning several years ago.
Keep in mind that his last girlfriend publicly declared dating George was like having another father rather than husband. It's also funny how she went from being a waitress to now not having to work. Those confidentiality agreements are serious $$$.
There was a story a couple of years ago regarding Chace Crawford. He admitted to being on JDATE and pretty much screwed himself when people found out. Apparently Chace had set up a MH account and hooked up with a guy. They smoked weed, blew each other off, and that was that. I called bullshit at first but then the fool did an interview talking about being on social sites looking for love and the queens connected the dots.
I don't know about any other Gossip Guys and I don't know about Chace either. I used to be friends with one of his really good friends Toby, who is also an actor, but that was around the time Chace was dating Carrie Underwood.
R90, that doesn't mean anything. Some lovers - especially older lovers - can also bring a fatherly, mentorish quality to a romantic relationship. Men say that about women and wives all the time, "She's maternal to me." It doesn't mean they aren't having sex. Could also mean the older one is bossy.
Okay so if we know he's gay and we know with whom, let's hear the names of his boyfriends. You expect me to just take one first name? Waldo? If it's so well known then we should know full names because you can bet plenty of people around them would know - and I don't mean just discreet friends. But people with no particular loyalty to them. Same with the others.
I can believe all these people are gay and live a life where they live their true selves.
I just don't believe that in this day with the almost impossibility of keeping things secret for long that we would not have names and places and pictures and that someone would not have come forward with a story to sell. And I'm not buying that this hasn't happened because everyone in the world has signed an ironclad confidentiality agreement. Even if they had someone would be willing to break it to get the fame or a chance at big money.
What say you?
I bet all the actors that take cock up their ass, are gay. Not sure, just guessing.
LOL! Get me a picture, 93. Pretty pease!
Waldo was his hairdresser, he has been married for over a decade.
Clooney is straight so is Pattinson.
Sorry big gay conspiracy theorists. I'm not sure why anyone wants them to be gay in the first place though.
R95, do you have inside knowledge or is that just your opinion?
I'm Reply (93). Sorry I couldn't help being a smart ass. Some of these threads crack me up.
can some explain to me why people think henry cavill is Gay?? or because his somewhat shy and doesnt prance around his hetreosexuality like many alist actors do?
[quote]Waldo was his hairdresser, he has been married for over a decade.
Well there's no doubt that a married hairdresser could possibly be gay. It just doesn't happen. All married men are straight. All hairdressers are straigt - especially the ones who live in George Clooney's house.
Thank you r95 for clearing that up. We really owe you big time.
Yes in this day and age there are so many gossip blogs and paps that you would expect to know much more, but its all about politics. There are many gay men that are closeted in the media that Hollywood knows all about but very few will speak about it. In Hollywood, you must be politcally correct, especially when it comes to powerful actors.
There is a whole thread about Henry Cavill here. I won't recap it but just search for it, there is good reason for doubting that Cavill is heterosexual.
Jeremy Renner was in Manila filming the Bourne movie but why was Adrien Brody there? At least there was no bar this time.
Re: waldo: why would he get married if he were gay? He isn't known to the public as clooney's secret boyfriend.
It is of course possible, that George is secretly gay and is sleeping with a lot of women ( not just the ones you hear about) as an attempt to convince himself and others he's straight. I seriously doubt it though.
Luke Macfarlane is an out bi guy.
What r100 says sounds a lot like the recent discussion about how entertainment industry insiders are reluctant to post firsthand gossip to DL for fear of it being traced to them and damaging their careers.
[quote]Michael Angarano and Jamie Bell I have both heard mentioned a few times respectively
Any details on either?
R105 Wrong!!! Luke is not BI, hez an openly OUT GAY MAN!!!
R46 Adrien Brody seemed like a horndog & an oaf, the way he pawed Halle at the awards show. In light of this revelation, just comes off as a very stereotypical, very horny bisexual, looking to fuck anything with a moist opening.
Can any one LINK ME TO THE thread about HENRY CAVILL ....i searched and not a single thread popped up??? probably cos i am not authenticated or something ...please...
i want to read cos it baffles be why people keep calling him gay when there is nothing to show that he is
I think it's reasonable to assume that celebrities, such as Adrien Brody, Keanu Reeves, James Franco, and Jeremy Renner, who are well into their 30s or 40s and have never been married are either bi or gay. Jake G. is edging into that age bracket too.
r95,Waldo was only his hairstylist?
In this recent interview Geroge admits that he cuts his own hair since he was 15.
r111 is absolutely right - big earning stars may not want to get married any more in case they lose a lot of their earnings in an inevitable divorce, but some of them are just never seen with women ...
it would be interesting if these butch-looking actors like Jeremy Renner were seen as openly bi, if not gay.
I was impressed at how very handsome, gorgeous and young looking Tom Cruise was in the Oscars. I would have dropped to my knees and serviced him if I was Will Smith.
R111, that is not why I think any of those actors might be bi or gay. Especially in James Franco's case, there are far better reasons to make that assumption. I wouldn't consider that a reasonable assumption.
If you live in NYC and interact with a few people who are involved with the University scene over the last few years, they have all kinds of sexy Franco stories and STOP THE PRESSES, a lot of them involve men.
[quote]If you live in NYC and interact with a few people who are involved with the University scene over the last few years, they have all kinds of sexy Franco stories and STOP THE PRESSES, a lot of them involve men.
Now don't just tell us that and not give us some examples. We want to hear some stories!
BTW, I've seen him at Pride on more than one occasions hitting on every hot guy that came his way. The reason I didn't tell the stories was because they're of the "friend told me" variety.
But since you asked:
1)A friend of mine went to NYU and she said it was no secret to her and the students that he was bedding multiple people there including men.
2)Someone I know online said this: "Old news, but currently interesting I suppose due to the drag spread he just did in Candy mag. Franco’s gf is rumored to be cool with being used, agrees possibly in order to further her “acting” career–currently she’s filming the movie “The Help” and likely wants to continue to climb the success ladder. All who know Franco well, also know his partner, Vince well. V. I’m told is over the-top-possessive, with jealousy that rivals any girl. He is rumored to have been the man in question on the Canadian film set whom Franco took with him–having supposedly lived with Franco for the last decade. I’m told Franco behaves lately as if he has lost what was left of his mind….not just based on weariness and/or lack of sleep. Keeping secrets while trying to appear completely transparent must be exhausting."
folks did anyone watch the Adele interview on 60 minutes the day of the Grammys?
well in that interview she said she figured out a way to tell which friends and help were selling stories to the paps.
She would say one thing to one friend and another thing to another friend.
And when the so called thing was published by the paps, she automatically knew who leaked it.
I personally cannot say more than i already have because otherwise i will be outed as a leak.
You would think its easier to come out when you are famous and rich but its more complicated and quite the opposite because of expectations and commitments
think about this perhaps you are the reason why 100's of people are employed on a tv series or movie and you figure that its a sacrifice you are willing to make in the beginning because the benefit is worth it.
That back injury is like karma and he knows it.
I will end by saying that "actions speak louder than words" so pay attention and look at what your favorite athlete, actor or singer do, not so much at what they say.
I'm always amazed at all the Clooney rumors, because I just dont see him as gay. I'm not saying he isn't - I honestly wouldn't know - but I just can't envision it no matter how often I read it.
I'm noticing that Americans tend to think that there is no such thing as a bi male whereas Brits do.
Is this generally true?
R121, Americans seem to believe that all of the married-with-children men posting M4M sex ads online are really just "straight but curious" or "closeted gay", rather than the more logical bisexual. Truth be told, there are probably more pure bisexual men than the fake attention-whoring bi girls.
He seems very open-minded.
[R121] It's observable that Americans seem to work in absolutes particularly concerning sexuality.
Proportionately, this stringent application is nowhere near as widespread in the UK.
No one here questions bisexuality to the degree it is questioned in the US.
Metrosexuality has been the biggest proponent of this fresher attitude.
channing tatum ..there something about him which sadden's me..he seems so deeply troubled ..almost always..he has a deep internal sadness if that makes sense...i can always just tell it by looking at him ...i dont know if its struggling with his sexuality or what but its sad really
can somebody also explain why folks think Jonathan ryhes myers is bisexual ..has there been any indication of such any rumours or so..cos i have heard absolutely nothing and i dont get a bi/gay vibe from him at all
[quote]That would make Gyllenhaal bisexual then.... If he was gay he wouldn't have any sexual attraction to women at all.
I believe the original poster stated s/he felt that Gyllenhaal was a GAY-leaning bisexual which fits the pattern for many men on the Kinsey scale that don't like to label themselves but tend to go more for men than women if given the choice.
In short, he'll end up with a man, despite all the Hollywood chichas he parades around for film premieres and PR coffee runs.
R126, there have been rumors about JRM for years because he looks androgynous, particularly when he was younger. He's been asked about it in the past and has always said he is straight, but open-minded.
He has apparently dated women, but he's pushing 35 this year and has never been married or had kids.
We really don't do "bi" in the U.S. I can't think of any well-known examples of such, except for maybe Ellen's ex, Anne Heche.
You either a woman who's gone through a phase, or a guy who's experimented on the way to your true orientation.
I wasn't trying for dialect, I'm just kind of drunk.
Gay experiementation is generally swept under the carpet unless you want to sound edgy and pretty much no actor aiming for an A-list blockbuster career would claim to have homosexual experience in the past out of fear of not being considered for high paying roles. And a lot of those who said so in the past backtrack.
funny how gay people discriminate on bisexuals the most ..talk about irony ..you are not even willing to believe someone sexual orientation but expect people to take you serious
Jonathan Rhys Myers is not gay. Actually "he" is not even a real person. "Jonathan Rhys Myers" is just Scarlett Johansson in drag.
HaVe always been baffled by the talk that male bisexuality is a myth. "Then what am I?' I ask myself.
It must be easier to be gay than bi because a gay man can more easily come out and say "This is who I am" and get on with it. Many women are threatened by bi men and gay men often ridicule bisexual men.
I do believe sexuality it fluid, but society forces people to pick a side for centuries now and we are so obsessed about putting a black or white label on things (not only sexuality) that we practically beg to complicate our lives with gray areas so we can have some TV drama conflict in our own lives.
I hear ya, Franco.
When i was younger ...the notion that you had tobe gay or straight nearly made me insane cos didn't know what was going on with me....i am sexuality attracted to girls one day and the next day guys ..its fluctuates most of the time so feeling like society was forcing be to pick a side was just almost too much to handle
trust me being bisexual is probably the toughest of all orientations because not only are you discriminated by Gay and straight people who believe you are just in denial ..but the internal turmoil you go through is no joke either ..
Aaron Eckhart is so far under the radar I don't know if he is Bisexual, or a sexual, or homosexual, or heterosexual. The guys is in his 40's and he's a well known actor and we know absolutely nothing about him. Nada. And I happen to think he's hot.
[quote]David Ehrenstein always says Franco's straight, too. He said the same about Clooney?!? What a tool. He's 0 for 2 right there. Obviously not the expert he makes himself out to be.
Make that 0 for 3. He swears Keanu Reeves is straight too.
I think Jared Leto is bisexual.
I think Alexander Skarsgard is, too, but he's not American and is from a culture where male bisexuality is a relative non-issue.
Billy Zane is openly bisexual. Thomas Dekker claims to be, but I think he's just plain gay.
I think Jared Leto is too... I also think he's probably a massive slut.
I never would have thought of Billy Zane I always just think of him as they guy with a funny name from Titanic. The mention of his name always amuses me.
Thomas Dekker made that comment in Out magazine where he sort of came out but sort of didn't:
[quote]I’ve only really had relationships with women, but I’m certainly not closed to it. If there are possibilities of being able to do anything in life, why would you say you would never take any up? In the later chunk of my teen years I was so all over the place with sex. It was terrible. I never really had a real relationship at all. During puberty, it’s all about sex, and it’s all about figuring yourself out. I think I overdid it when I was younger.
Basically, I interpreted that as he went through a anything-that-moves phase in his teens and has never been in a serious relationship and he has a keep-your-options-open approach to dating. He reminds me of Brian Molko and I buy him as bi partially on that basis.
R141 I don't think that Jared Leto is bisexual.
He is a "ladies man", You can tell that he likes women. He like those blonde skinny models, He's definitely straight.\t
WTF do you mean you THINK Jared Leto is bisexual? If you have no story, tidbit, tea, etc then why would we care what you THINK?
Are you psychic? Can you read Auras?
I think this based on quotes like at R142. Same with Dekker.
There are a bunch of photos of Aaron Johnson floating around of him making out and half naked with guys and girls at various parties in his teens pre Mrs. Grandma too.
"Billy Zane is openly bisexual."
Male bisexuality falls into 2 camps,
Gay men too fucked up and ashamed of being gay to accept being gay,
Or the vast majority of bi guys are just bi curious straight men having fun and experimenting before they settle down women.
Gale Harold. Anyone mention him?
Jared Leto has a huge cock according to a female porn star who had sex with him.
R147 ....another gay person saying that bisexual's dont exist ..yet you want me to believe that you were born gay....talk about irony
R147 is your typical bigoted biphobic gay man, and it's just as hypocritical as people like Rick Santorum or Rev. Fred Phelps.
Bisexuality exists in men and always has. You'd have to be an idiot not to understand it or to understand human sexuality.
Gay men who are closeted who call themselves 'bisexual' never are or have been or will be bisexual.
Straight guys don't have sex with other men, despite all of the queens here who actually need that fantasy it only happens in prison and it's all about rape and controlling someone apparently.
No question bisexuality exists r152, but bi guys are always gonna bow to social convention, it's only natural and I don't blame them for that. If I was attracted to girls I'd def go down that route and get married and try and keep my sexual feeling for guys to a minimum and jerk of to gay porn the odd time.
But all most all truly bisexual guys, not just the closeted gay ones, are choice women over men 9 times out of 10. Any guy who has dated bi guys know that.
[quote]but bi guys are always gonna bow to social convention ... But all most all truly bisexual guys, not just the closeted gay ones, are choice women over men 9 times out of 10
r156, let's estimate that about 97% of women sleep with men and only 5% or so of men sleep with men (Not exact statistics, just an estimate). It doesn't require any sort of malevolence or bowing to peer pressure on the part of bisexual men to end up in a relationship with a woman when there are about 19 potential female partners for every 1 male. If they're choosing men 1 time out of 10 that's still statistically about 200% higher than it should be.
I know the title says "male actors" but I'm not spending $18 to mention that Gillian Anderson (Scully from X-files) just came out as bi:
Attention BORING MORONS. "Bi" does not equal someone you fantasize about in your dream world having one or two sexual experiences with a guy.
It is an actual state of being, so if you dont know what it is, please refreain from posting unsubstantiated "I THINK" bullshit on this thread.
All of them.
Bisexual men always end up with women, living conventional heterosexual lives, regardless of the reason why, it is still a fact and that's why most gay men don't trust them to be anything more than a hook-up.
R157, they're also chicken shit. Even if they found the perfect gay man, they'd still opt for women to get society's approval. You give them a lot more credit than they deserve.
R161, The first post in this thread mentions Alan Cumming, who has ended up with a man.
Brunhilda Frau F alert at R161 and R162
Fuck you, R164. Not a frau but a gay man who has seen too many chicken-shit bi men who take advantage of men but marry the fraus because they are, indeed, chickenshit.
Yes, I don't know why they didn't stay with a gem like you, r166. Certainly they didn't fall in love with those women or anything. Nope. It was all a grand cowardly conspiracy against perfect, precious you.
R161 & R166 are telling the truth. Bisexual men will end up settling down with a woman 90% of the time because it's easier for them to live a straight life than a gay one. I've delt with this shit two different times and both men settled down with women eventually. I've seen the same thing happen to friends who were with bi men.
Not worth it.
you sound fat, R168
Since when is male bisexuality a non-issue in Sweden?
You're not from Sweden, are you, R141?
R161 Most gay men don't trust other gay men for more than a hook up.
Just look at all of the posts here where people write that 2 gay men can't be monogamous or they'll write about their gay male partner or husband cheating on them.
R168 not true, bisexual men can and do settle down with men. I know a lot of bisexual men who have male partners and as someone else said Alan Cumming who is bisexual is partnered or married to a man.
R156 That's BS I know a fair amount of bisexual men who are partnered with men.
R159 well said. There are lots of biphobic bigoted Marys on this thread like the Fraus at R156, R161, and R162.
LOL the MARY is you, R173. What the hell is your problem with R162 and how are any of your examples likely to be written by straight females? You are ridiculous.
Few of the bisexual men are interested in becoming involved in a romantic/emotional relationship with a man. They enjoy man-sex but are only capable of settling down with a woman.
Uhm, Chaz considers himself straight.
[quote]you sound fat
Whatever, just grow up already.
[quote]David Ehrenstein always says Franco's straight, too. He said the same about Clooney?!? What a tool. He's 0 for 2 right there. Obviously not the expert he makes himself out to be
That's because none have flirted with him, so he assumes they are straight.
Btw, Franco doesn't believe it labels.
Details, please, R180. If you got 'em. Never heard that one.
About Dave Matthews - I've heard it. May have been Stern show, but some rocker insinuated Matthews hit on him , then went on to say he"s done it to a lot of guys.
Adam Rodriguez recently broke up with his longtime girlfriend Melanie Fiona this week, further fueling rumors that he gets dick on the side.
[quote]a fair amount of bisexual men
Edward Norton has bisexual voice.
Back in the late Nineties, on the old "Is He/She Gay" gossip board, Dave Matthews came up a LOT as a topic.
R175 is full of shit. There are a lot of bisexual men who are partnered to other men, and who have romantic attractions to men.
The dirty little secret that never gets addressed in the so called "gay" world is the fact that many gay men do go through a second coming out and re-identify as bisexual. These men may still overwhelmingly prefer men, but their orientation and identity are not exclusively towards men. Their attraction to both sexes manifests differently as well.
There are a whole shit load of latent bisexuals masquerading around as gay men because they are ignorant of the fact that bisexual doesn't only mean an equal attraction to both genders or they're too scared to admit it because they've invested so much of their time and energy cultivating a gay identity, and because of the way some gay men are bigoted and completely hypocritical towards bisexual men. Bisexuality in men is a good thing even if some queens think that it's not.
[quote]Few of the bisexual men are interested in becoming involved in a romantic/emotional relationship with a man. They enjoy man-sex but are only capable of settling down with a woman.
In my life, I have only known "bisexual" guys who have ever been with guys. I have known so many who date women for short periods of time, then it's right back to guys.
Then there are the guys who claim to be "bisexual" who marry women, but fuck guy after guy while married. The amount of cheating that goes on with a "bisexual" married male is mind blowing. It's quite digusting actually.
I know I'm in the minority with this opinion, but I tend to think "bisexuality" is males is all BS. I think sexuality is very black and white. There is just a negative stigma attached to "gay" in the US, and other parts of the world. But, that's the problem of the coward, not the word "gay" or gay men in general.
[quote]Bisexuality in men is a good thing even if some queens think that it's not.
Proudly one of those "queens".
Bisexuals are skeevy, duplicitous mind fuckers. Masters of excuses and explanations and dodging commitments. They are never to be trusted. All of them. Everywhere.
If I were a female, I would never date a bisexual male. I would be cheated on, lied to, and betrayed over and over again. Besides, he's gay. He's into men. Not women. He tries to be into women, and I am a ploy used as a disguise and his attempt at "straight", but I know the truth. We can be friends, however.
Comments R1087 to R191 have nothing to do with which male celebs are rumored to be bisexual. If any of you want to discuss bisexuality in general I invite someone to create a thread.
Can somebody make a thread?
Why can't you make your own thread? I'm bisexual so the idea of starting a thread for people to post on saying bi people don't exist isn't high on my list of priorities.
Do you want a general "Bisexuals" thread where bisexuals can discuss things among themselves, similar to the "African Americans" thread?
What is this "bisexual voice" you speak of, R185?
Thanks, R196. That is very kind of you to ask.
How about a thread about whether or not male bisexuality is myth or not. Something along those lines.
R196, now that you mention it, yes please. That sounds like a good idea.
Nick Scotti who starred in one of those cult indie flicks, is bi. Saw him at the G Lounge one year during Pride.
What about Sean William Scott? Is he bi or just into experimenting?
Read a story once that Tom Welling and Ashton Kutcher had a one-night stand during their modeling days.
Nick Scotti is bi? I assumed he was just gay.
I thought Nick was into women. Guess not.
There was a photo of him in a gay bar posted here last year.
Adam Levine sets my gaydar off as being a sexy bi-sexual bad boy.
I've always assumed Adam Levine is just plain gay.
Seems Keanu has sex with the occasional women, so he can keep up his bi image. I think he is in love with Tiger Chen and unless Tiger gets tired of him, I think they will be together for a long time.
Ehrenstein knows who is gay...he lies.
It seems to me that Jon Hamm and Michael C. Hall are both gay but no one ever says anything. I think they are the best looking men on TV.
Paul Bettany's father, Thane Bettany, who used to be an actor, is bisexual.
He was in the Doctor Who vampire story 'State of Decay' with Tom Baker in 1980.
Was Klaus Kinski bi-sexual? I know he fucked anything in a skirt but did he fuck men too?
Not sure too, R211. He was like an animal and very crazy, but I think he was basically just with women.
Thanks 212. I guess I would say he was simply straight, with a side of daughter.
[quote]you sound fat, [R168]
And you need to grow up.
What about Ryan Gosling? Any stories about him?
HMM Ryan Gosling *Drolls*
Kevin Smith is apparently bisexual and closeted but it's not that hard to tell this about him.
Vusamazulu Credo Mutwa
R218, Kevin Smith has referred to himself as "bi-curious" before.
Ryan lived with Timberlake when he was a teen. Now you can't tell me those two didn't have a few jerk-off sessions.
There used to be some rumors about the actor Stephen Collins, who was very handsome as a young man.
Stephen Collins was hot.
Any word on Danny Pino?
Michael C. Hall is the gayest 'straight' man I've ever seen.
I think Peter Sarsgaard takes that title, R225.
Don "Miami Vice" Johnson.
Heard several stories about Don, R228. I remember hearing something about him buying a dildo and running up a tab at a gay porn shop or something. He did have one great ass back in the day.
Chord Overstreet. Strange kid but definitely bi at the very least. Pretty repressed about it until the least year or so due to his very conservative family. There's a lot of gay guys working on the Glee set but he's weirdly into Chris Colfer... always trying to get his attention and awkwardly flirting when they work together, but Chris just laughs it off.
Cory Monteith is bi/gay. Messed around with guys a lot during his younger years for drugs. Doesn't really hook up with anyone any more other than PR romances with Taylor Swift and Lea Michele (she's also bi, a lot of stories about her from her Broadway years).
all creative people are bisexual or gay. next.....
was the bi myth thread ever created ??
For this trailblazing work, Clooney gets a pass in my book:
R234 That's Sal Mineo and Don Johnson in a stage production of "Fortune and Men's Eyes." R229
There's something about Taylor Swift that annoys me. I don't know if it's her endless "bearding" or there isn't really anything interesting about her. Country stars seem to always make it big despite being dryer than paint.
i know country music pisses me off with how much they support over hype mediocrity
none of them are bisexual. They're gay. They label them bisexual so it's not such a turnoff and women will still think they have a shot at them and buy movie and concert tickets.
Tiger Chen know shit about the real Chinese Kung Fu, nevertheless...since Keanu is crazy about this lame Chinese cun who's from a very poor place of China and actually is not a real gay but would be anything for money & fame. Thus, he gained the major role in Keanu's new Kung Fu movie. What a evil world!
I thought I was the only one who thought Keanu and Tiger were having an affair. Hummm
I got the impression that Alan Cumming was a little confused about his sexuality at first but once he got it sorted out decided he preferred guys.
Trying to sort out the sexualities of David Bowie and Lou Reed gives me a headache. Perhaps they're true bisexuals.
I think Lou Reed is kind of a lying sack. I think he's actually gay but couldn't accept it. I don't think Bowie is even bi-sexual. I think he's straight.
R242, Alan Cumming recently did a bi visibility campaign, I gather he still considers himself bisexual.
David Bowie and Lou Reed were part of a certain scene of the 70s... surely they both fucked men, women, and people that were neither/a bit of both.
I've only ever heard of Bowie fucking women. I think Bowie fucked both Slash and Keanu Reeves, mothers and if Reed did fuck women, he probably had Keanu's mom.
Alan Ludden--when he was alive.
Well, everyone heard about Bowie fucking Mick Jagger, right?
I heard about Bowie and Jagger but I didn't really believe it. I think they just got drunk, got naked and fell asleep in the same bed.
Charlie Rose said that Lou Reed propositioned him when he was on the show. Charlie said he turned him down.
I always enjoy these threads where DLers conflate their attraction to an actor with that actor's sexuality. It's always interesting to see that actors in the league of Oliver Platt or Ray Romano never appear on these lists regardless of their orientation.
See Lou is a big old phony. He's gay but he got married so he could look straight.
I'd fuck Oliver Platt in a minute. Is he gay?
Hey JH at r239, is the film in trouble? What's the problem? Did Tiger get hurt?
Keanu never sued this surgeon for saying he was bisexual.
Report: Plastic surgeon reveals Keanu Reeves has a secret gay lover and facelift?!
The doctor said he signed a confidentiality agreement but I guess he didn't honor it.
Jamie Campbell Bower according to a Ted C. blind item. Grain of salt.
I think the French actor Alain Delon was really bi. However, maybe it's just the era he lived in, and you had to be married or whatever, although he's French so I don't really know what it was like to be gay in 1950's France. He's got several kids and her numerous marriages and affairs, including Romy Schneider and Nathalie Delon. But he's also talked about having sex with men.
I don't think Bowie is bi or gay either. I think he's even said he was just trying to shock people or try everything for the hell of it. Same with Jagger. Just experimenting.
Marc Bolan, legend?
Back then you were bi to be cutting edge, even if you really weren't. It is said Marc Bolan walked into a recording session where Tony Visconti was waiting with a college aged male. He announced to the waiting shaggy, straight engineers and studio techs: 'This is (name here). I fucked him last night'.
All eyes to the floor and walls with shock. Bolan had to keep up with Bowie, The NY Dolls, et al. Drugs and a go-for-broke attitude were the fuel.
Times weren't as fascistic and policed (by straights as well as naziqueens) as they are now.
Jagger has described himself as "not totally heterosexual"
Keanu Reeves is simply gay. Always has been, always will be.
I think Sean Avery is gay.
Is there more info on Slash?
Chris Meloni owns this thread. And fucks it in the ass.
Elijah Wood? I heard about him dating some guy but also about him dating the female drummer of Gogol Bordello.
"I think it's reasonable to assume that celebrities, such as Adrien Brody, Keanu Reeves, James Franco, and Jeremy Renner, who are well into their 30s or 40s and have never been married are either bi or gay. Jake G. is edging into that age bracket too."
Keanu is the oldest of this group and he never even dates.
Witchcraft, explains Keanu's fabulous career path.
Very true R111
Indeed R263 indeed!
Oh, OP, on DL you know you're going to get the name of every good-looking actor in the book, so why even ask?
[R265]Why a man who has a great harem at his beck and call would marry??? You don't seem to know anything about Keanu...
From yesterday's ONTD:
Some gossip blogger (Lainey) had a meet & greet or something and threw out some tidbits for the crowd. One juicy item was that Gordon Joseph-Levitt allegedly had a relationship with Michael Pitt.
Andrew just called Ryan Goosling a dream boat...I guess he has gotten over Jessie.
joseph gordon-levitt and michael pitt?! ooh, that's pretty juicy. deets
not to be a debbie downer and bring up old sads, but were keanu reeves and river phoenix ever a thing before he died?
Apparently River had a huge crush on Keanu and they had a little something but apparently Keanu liked older guys.
Alain Delon bi? Str8,gay or bi-I don't care,it is Alain Delon. He needs to be shared!
Keanu is either bisexual or as I've heard gay and closeted.
David Bowie and Mick Jagger are but this is very old news.
I guess we can add frank ocean to the list
Danny Pino is a delicious Cuban bisexual. I would love to sniff his Cuban hole.
Clooney is/was with Manuele Malenotti so I guess he's bisexual..
Pino is married, with kids - no evidence of him being bi / gay. Just wishful thinking. Any proof ?
Joe Manganiello is either BI or gay - but NOT straight
Is it true that MLB player Carl Pavano for the MN twins is bisexual?
What about Mike Piazza?
[quote]Pino is married, with kids - no evidence of him being bi / gay. Just wishful thinking. Any proof ?
Oh so Danny Pino is married with kids? Just like Tom Cruise. Silly me! I guess that automatically discounts all the times he played party bottom at Manhattan fuck parties, giving himself a high colonic with exotic dildoes and stretching device's for the studio heads throwing dollar bills at him.
R6 actually Cumming is bisexual and isn't pretending at all.
It amuses me that in this day and age when any of my fellow homosexuals totally discounts the possibility of someone not being gay, or at the least bisexual, just because they’re married, with or without kids. C’mon now people, particularly r284. I get so tired of that. Are we projecting some of our own self-hate or personal issues having to do with being accepted into the “straight” world?
I've known so many gay men who chose marriage when they were young...how do people not know that? I've also known guys in their late 30s, who finally make a commitment to a marriage. Usually religious guys who can't seem to accept the fact that they are gay.
Actor Christan Slater is Bisexual, acording to his exwife and SteveO.
Slater wishes he was bi but unfortunately, he's just plane old straight.
I don't believe Cummings is bi and I don't think Keanu is bi either. I don't think Keanu was EVER bi.
R95 is a complete idiot. Corrects?
So what have his ex and SteveO said about C. Slater? Who did he do?
In 2006 SteveO claimed he was sexualy prop. by Slater. Slater told him he was a good looking young guy and told him he (Slater) was a good looking guy for his age then asked Steve O if he would go with him. I can,t remember the exact quotes but, generally this is what was said. Steve O later called Slater's exwife and told her about this encounter and she replied - this is what happens when he gets drunk, he turns gay.
I am convinced that Keanu is gay. Read about his interviews in 1990 what he said and then check out the pictures. LETS NOT FORGET ABOUT THE MOVIE HE DID WITH RIVER PHENIX - ANYONE WHO DOES GAY NAKED PHYSICAL SCENES LIKE THAT MUST BE GAY! THE MOST RECENT INCIDENT IN 2008.
[italic]Posted by someone at another forum where the topic was about pissing in a mens room next to someone famous:[/italic]
The only "famous" person I can remember was Richard Benjamin pissing in the IC commuter terminal men's room in downtown Chicago. I was cruising for a BJ down there and this guy, who vagely looked familiar, was slowing stroking his cock...obviously looking for a little action also...stood about 2 urinials away from me just playing with his average tool.
It was only the next day that I was reading the newspaper and saw an ad for a play he was in that I realized who he actually was.
I didn't avail myself of Mr. Benjamin's services because by his actions in that pick up location he wanted a BJ too AND at that time in my life I considered myself a 'top' and wasn't much into getting on my knees in some back alley location and blowing a guy who was older and not into my sort of activity. Talk about lost opportunities!
[quote]ANYONE WHO DOES GAY NAKED PHYSICAL SCENES LIKE THAT MUST BE GAY!
Even for this board that is a ridiculously stupid comment.
I don't believe Keanu played gay. His character had sex for money in Idaho. I remember in one of his early interviews, Keanu mentioned that John Cusack was cute. Do most straight guess mention that their competition is "cute"?
Some people say his gayist film was Point Break...I think The Matrix was pretty gay but in all honesty, his gayist film was Prince of Pennsylvania.
What do you think Keanu did in 2008?
Keith Mayerson said he saw Keanu's dick, while standing at a urinal...I guess he didn't suck him off but I have no idea why not.
I don't know where folks are getting thrir facts about alan cummings and keanu reeves but they are married... google it!
lol... i know got dome oh you feverishly googling... Don't you ferl alil silly? its not true but who cares who is... if thry are and not near us... what is the point really?
Keanu has never married.
When ask, Cummings said, "I've never even met her."
Keanu did spend a great deal of time with Geffen.
Most people, with the exception of out gay people (who are a minority of the population, and are sometimes genuinely not be bisexual and many other times, especially if male, prone to deny their bisexuality given that bisexuality has become so out of style in the last couple of decades), are bisexual.
Therefore, most celebrities (since there are so few out gay celebrities) are bisexual.
Sometimes I wonder if Leo DiCaprio might eventually come out.
How about being discriminating, selective, and picky about your sexual partners? Monogamy is not just morally superior, it also is healthier/cleaner.
R299\tI hope that none of the Paula Prentiss Trolls read that.
r249, Ray Romano is bi?
Bi guys are kind of confusing to girls and most girls don't trust them.
From Jezebel, to Lainey this dude has been hung out to dry.
I'm sure someone must have said Bruce Willis upthread.
There was a blind item about George Clooney which implied that his longtime BF is Rande Gerber and that Cindy Crawford picks out Clooney's girlfriends depending on who SHE likes. For herself. If you google pics of Rande and George together, there does seem to be something there.
What's the deal with Joaquin Phoenix? I know he dated Liv Tyler many years ago but he hasn't been linked with anyone since.
Almost every male actor in Hollywood is an active bisexual. Even the most ardent "family men" would, for example, receive a bj from a male model and not give it a second thought.
I agree with Bruce and JGL.
Bruce has a thing for twinky guys.
Riiiight!like anyone on this board knows details about celebrities orientation. "80% gay, 20% bi or gay leaning bi or obviously gay" Such wishful bullshit.
Sure some of those mentioned may be gay, may be straight, may be bi but no one knows unless the celeb came out specificallly and said so.
Most actors/actresses have experimented with with the same sex at some point but not all of them are really bisexual.
For instance Brad Pitt has but he is straight, wouldn't really be accurate to call him bi.
People like Michael Pitt, James Franco, Tom Hardy, RDJ, Jonathan Bennett are actually deserving to be called bi.
R[R322] Who has Brad Pitt been bi with? When? Where? Was it a well known, producer or what? Where was this "reported" i.e. where did you get this "story". Has Brad Pitt ever been asked about this? What was his answer?
Backup your statement that most actors/actresses have experimented? Was there a scientific study? Did most actors/actresses admitted this? if so, who?
I've often wondered about Bruce Willis's friend Johnny Messner, I get a bi vibe from him. Anyone know anything about him for sure?
I'm sure Pitt has had sex with at least one man...why not, it would be a good experience and I don't believe he's worried about his sexuality.
R322 yeah well if someone's actually hetero they're not going to have sex with the same gender at all.
I agree with the person who said how Christopher Meloni is bisexual but that's old and obvious.
R309 I agree about Duchovney who played Fox Mulder being bisexual but DiCaprio is gay and a total closet queen. If you've seen pics of him he hasn't aged well but he drinks a lot, still smokes, and is bloated up like a horse both with his gut and his face from all the booze.
I remember here on DL someone posted pics of him with one of his beards that was taken for a UK newspaper and he looked totally BORED and was on his phone probably looking up dudes to hook up with or male prostitutes who are discreet.
I've heard that Nick Cage is bisexual but that's not surprising neither is Bruce Willis.
R147 I don't know if I buy the "bi curious straight men' concept. Straight men who are "curious" in the sense that they are turned on by gay sex wouldn't if they weren't attracted to men. They're not straight- they may be bis that lean toward women.
Straights aren't attracted to their own gender anymore than gays are aroused by the opposite sex. I believe there are gays and straights and bisexuals and the last group can have different degrees of attraction to one gender or the other.
It depends on your definition of bi, I guess. DiCaprio definitely had sex with women, but I agree he is really gay. I also think that Hollywood is full of straight guys who had sex with men. Most people will have sex with their not preferred gender if they live in a society that encourages it.
I guess where we differ is the "preferred" part. I honestly believe there are a lot of people who cannot be turned on by certain anatomical bits. It's not just a preference like "I like apple pie but I'm into chocolate mouse way more". I have even know girls in their 20s to say they were into same sex when I knew for a fact they weren't. There are a lot of social environments where it's thought to be cool and it's been like that for a long time. College is one, arty circles....
What about Daniel Craig? any Bi or gay rumors about him??
Actually R147 you're wrong, biphobic, and a bigot since biphobia is just as bad as homophobia is from straight people.
Gay men who claim that they're bisexual when they're gay are not bisexual at all and never will be.
If a guy is actually hetero or straight he's not going to have sex with other men or "experiment" with men at all.
Bisexuality is its own sexual orientation, and yeah there are guys who are bisexual but identify as gay for a period of time, or they came out as gay first before discovering that they're actually bisexual.
Why would a guy who is involved in a longterm relationship with a man, feel the need to pester one of their faghags for sex? How should she turn him down without ruining the friendship?
Sigh R332, you are claiming that a "straight" guy who once drunkenly got his dick sucked by another guy should identify as bisexual?
Every gay men who had some sexual relationship with a women should identify as bisexual?
I mean you can argue that, but to me it makes the term bisexual pretty meaningless
One sexual act should not define your sexual orientation.
What actual straight/hetero guy lets another guy suck his dick even once, and even if he's drunk?
It's not like these guys are in prison or being forced into having sex with men, and they're rich celebrities so they could easily find a woman to have sex with or hire for take out if they want to do that.
I thought nobody still believed the "OMG I was drunk!" excuse?
I do find it amusing that some queens will swear up and down that they've been with an actual "straight" guy-since they're full of self loathing and need this fantasy and they think there's something wrong with being bisexual or gay and a man.
I suspect that these male actors are bisexual: Jude Law, Russel Crowe, Colin Farrell, and maybe even Ben Afleck.
[quote]What actual straight/hetero guy lets another guy suck his dick even once, and even if he's drunk?
Husband's of frigid women who want to get their rocks off.
Oh dear, it's "Husbands."
In that case R337 if they're actually hetero/straight they'll just cheat on their wives with female prostitutes, female strippers, or meet a woman and have an affair with her.
bisexual = gay, i am straight and will never be with a man.
the kid from the wallflower movie with hermoine
R341, i.e. Ezra Miller. And he's pretty much out.
Anyone mention Kurt Cobain? Back in the day before Courtney got her claws on him, he was a cute little guy with a boyfriend named Marty.
Can't win if you're a bi guy. If you settle down with a woman, you're just running back to your straight privilege. If you settle down with a man, you're just gay and in denial. If you never settle down, or you have poly relationships your whole life you're a two-timing slut.
You could stay closeted, and it's not hard to see why most bisexuals do stay closeted their whole lives. But then, you'll get accused of being "chickenshit".
No matter what you do, everyone will hate you for it. Pretty much every DL thread about bisexuals goes through the same motions.
I don't know. Maybe it's just this country. Maybe there's something in the water that makes too many people stupid here. Americans... the laughing stock of the world.
Quoted for truth. Gay men and lesbians who are biphobic are bigots and just as bad as Conservative politicians like Santorum, the Bachmanns, etc. and the whole Westboro klan.
[quote]Can't win if you're a bi guy. If you settle down with a woman, you're just running back to your straight privilege. If you settle down with a man, you're just gay and in denial. If you never settle down, or you have poly relationships your whole life you're a two-timing slut.
You could stay closeted, and it's not hard to see why most bisexuals do stay closeted their whole lives. But then, you'll get accused of being "chickenshit".
No matter what you do, everyone will hate you for it. Pretty much every DL thread about bisexuals goes through the same motions.
I don't know. Maybe it's just this country. Maybe there's something in the water that makes too many people stupid here. Americans... the laughing stock of the world.
VANILLA ICE ! HE IS STILL SO HOT AND A NOTORIOUS BI-SEXUAL TOP.HAS FUCKED RICKIE MARTIN, JOHN TRAVOLTA AND ANDY COHEN.(TO NAME A FEW...)
I once danced with the older actor, Yves Montand, in Paris at Le Club Sept, a gay disco. But I also saw Bianca Jagger there dressed in wedding gown. This was summer of 1977. I should have followed Yves into the toilet, he seemed quite fond of me.
I think he's since moved to a more celestial zip code.
Bisexuality = homosexual pleasure shrouded in heterosexual privilege.
[quote]Bisexuality = homosexual pleasure shrouded in heterosexual privilege. The end.
What a fresh perspective on the topic.
Trent Spent Blind Item, aka Brad Pitt
Okay since I have been reading about fantasy's and delusions of only wanting The HOT actors etc to be gay or bi, who are the not so hot ones that have fizzled under the radar? The non traditional?
I think Jon Tenney from the Closer is hot. Any stories about his sexuality?
hollywood keep going on about george clooney being handsome , he got a lot of false teeth few years ago . lets see what he looks like with his false teeth out
Cary Grant. I have never understood why he is refered to as gay so often. His relationships with women were not all bearded ones. He seemed to have a real attraction to women. He damn near stalked Sophie Loren in trying to get her to marry him. That guy was bi not gay.
Maybe he was bi but really, why would he marry Diane Cannon?
R346? Vanilla ICE? Whaaaa? You know something? He is much more hotter now than when he was younger. I checked your link but I didn't see anything on him. Where did the information on him originally come from? I watched his show last year on flipping mansions. Apparently he dose that for a living now a days and he is making a fortune. He has a daughter and he thinks the world of her so made he settled down and he doesn't have flings anymore?
People who make "end of discussion" statements about the definition of something they personally don't profess DO realize that they're just operating within an extremely narrow-minded psychosocial framework, right?
R346, anybody? Did Vanilla Ice have those flings with men before or during his marriage? He said recently he has been happily married for 15 years ,and before he got married and had two children, he was a drug addict, alcoholic, and had a lot of sex ,but when he got married and had a famliy, his life changed for the better. He said he hated that image before. However, recently TMZ showed a picture of him on stage with a huge bong smoking pot.
He is thee only guy I find extremely hot which the guy's tattoos don't bother me very much. I think he is much hotter now than when he was in his 20s. His wife is one very lucky lady!WOW!
R155, all I know about Jon Tenney is that he is indeed very attractive, and he was married to one of the Desperate Houswives babes. I don't remember which one, but she said on some talk show that they went years without sex. It was not clear which one was not willing, and she was complaining about having been raped or molested as a child or something like that, so it might have been her that wouldn't have sex.
is Danny Pino a bisexaul?
no such thing as male bisexuality.
no such thing as male bisexuality.
According to American gays.
Tenny was married to Terry Hatcher..so he must like dick.
James Franco & John Mayer
R335 wrote: "I do find it amusing that some queens will swear up and down that they've been with an actual "straight" guy-since they're full of self loathing..."
Dear, you know nothing about sexuality.
And this howler: "What actual straight/hetero guy lets another guy suck his dick even once, and even if he's drunk?
You know nothing about the world.
a straight guy with some beers in him will let you do a lot of things. I have gone down on a lot of friends or friends of friends who can never remember the next day because they drank too much. One guy I blew, rimmed and fucked..seems like the only thing they won't do is kiss. I swear first time you get a tongue on a straight guys ass you got em.
R369 you're delusional and you're the reason why people hate gay men. Ask yourself this question if you were drunk would you let a WOMAN no matter how good she looked do shit to you?
That's what I thought.
And for the record before I get flamed, I do believe in male Bisexuality, I also believe that a VERY SMALL PERCENTAGE of men might experiment.
But for the most part the thought of doing anything sexual with another guy freaks out and repulses most straight guys.
Even straight guys who aren't homophobic and have gay male friends, the thought of a dude turning down pussy and messing around with another dude is really strange to them.
Prison studies have shown that men fall into one of three nearly equal groups. One group shuts down sexually. A second group engages in various forms of homosexual acts with some regularity. The last group does not usually participate but on occasion has been known to participate.
R371 and again if that was the case, wouldn't all these gay men be participating in heterosexual sex acts every now and again?
Most men are straight
A small percentage is gay.
And a decent amount (more that is reported) are bi.
R370 wrote: "But for the most part the thought of doing anything sexual with another guy freaks out and repulses most straight guys."
Maybe over there by you.
But it's a big big world R370. Not all cultures are the same. Sexuality comes in many, many shades of grey.
R373 I've had a number of straight guys friends tell me I'm good looking, but they could never imagine doing anything with a guy.
Even for a guy to admit that a guy is good looking in our society is still pretty radical a lot of straight guys will tell you that they can't even tell if a guy is good lookng or not.
I also STILL get hit on by girls who are surprised when I tell them I'm gay, they almost always proceed to tell me that since I'm so masculine that I can't be 100% gay, I have to be bisexual and that's hot.
And the question still remains if so many so called straight guys who up with guys then how come gay guys ain't hooking up with women left and right?
R373 wrote: "I've had a number of straight guys friends tell me I'm good looking, but they could never imagine doing anything with a guy."
R373, it's not about you and your friends.
[quote] a lot of straight guys will tell you that they can't even tell if a guy is good lookng or not.
Oh, they can. Observe a good looking guy in a pack of uber straight men and watch how they either eat out of his hand or (especially if he's new) they're threatened by him and triggering their competitive juices or insecurities.
Ditto what r373 and r376 said. Absolutely.
Typo: my post (375) was directed at R374
R376 the only time I hear straight guys acting insecure is when women (who's pussy these guys would kill for) mention thay the guy is attractive, usually the straight guy out of insecurity will say something like that dudes ugly (when the guys obviously not) you need a guy like me.
[quote]Not all cultures are the same.
They pretty much are as far as in born sexuality, it's just that some people & cultures are a lot more accepting & tolerant & intellectually able to conceptualize that not all people are the same or should be expected to be.
But just as you frequently read *here* how gay men are repulsed with the thought of female parts, that's how straight men & women feel about same sex parts. It's just that open minded people don't believe everyone has to be the same.
[quote]Sexuality comes in many, many shades of grey.
Yes if you happen to be bisexual it is grey.
R380 You're mostly wrong. You wrote:
"But just as you frequently read *here* how gay men are repulsed with the thought of female parts, that's how straight men & women feel about same sex parts. ".
The saying here in Italy is: "Whether male or female, an ass is an ass."
Straight men in some societies have sex with gay men because:
- women are unavailable, because of social mores, it's difficult to have just casual sex with them.
- prostitutes are unavailable (and cost money)
- sex is conceded to in return for money or favors... a recommendation for a job, a meal in a nice restaurant, the chance to know "the right people" etc.
- the men are simply more comfortable physically with one another: walking down the street arm in arm, sleeping together... the edges are blurred and the step to sex is not dramatic ...as it would be in the US.
R381 as a gay man and hard up for some sexual relief, will you
A. Hook up with a female friend who makes her self available to you with no strings attached, even though the thought of being with a woman REPULSES you, but hey it's jusy getting off it don't make me straight!
B. Pick up a gay Guy online or choose a hot hustler.
Practically every gay guy will pick option B because
STRAIGHT MEN DON'T FUCK WITH MEN
GAY MEN DON'T FUCK WITH WOMEN
R382 You are confusing the issue. You are making false equivalencies.
Live for a while in S. America, the Middle East, Eastern Europe, parts of S.Europe.
Like many Americans you are totally ignorant about other cultures.
You believe that man-on-man sex as it is understood and practiced in your narrow minded reality, is the way things are for everyone.
[quoteGAY MEN DON'T FUCK WITH WOMEN
I think the instances where they do it's because they are indoctrinated into terrible shame about being gay & they are fantasizing about men because they can't get off if they don't.
Of the gay men I have known more have slept with women than have not. I have always been gay. I am not bi sexual but I have slept with many women.
If you (and the & the many other "gay" men you know) get off on women R385, aren't you (& they) bisexual?
@R347 What made you think that Gale is "definitely bi"? It's all just rumors. No substantial evidence at all. He has been dating women since the end of QAF.
Zach Galifinakis came out on Bill Maher tonight. That means that the whole Wolfpack in the Hangover movies are gay!!! Hilarious.
bump I agree with R382. Let me guess R380 you think that most Latin men-Italians and Spanish and Latin-American men are bisexual, oh can't forget Arabs and Berbers as well. That's a stereotype/myth. Then again you're one of those queens that needs the fantasy that he's actually been with a hetero man or has the hope of having sex with a hetero/straight guy.
Actually what you are describing to a T R349 is a closeted gay man married to a woman, not male bisexuality as bisexual men can and do partner with the same gender as well as opposite gender, and most gay men and lesbian women are closeted, married or in a relationship with the opposite gender and not out. Biphobia is just as bad as homophobia and even more hypocritical when it comes from within the LGBT community.
Stephen Fry doesn't identify as bisexual. He has stated that he has found particular women attractive but there were very few relative to men ie he is a lot higher on the kinsey scale so he may as well identify as gay. His bf is 27 yo I believe but looks barely legal. Next to Fry its quite sad. Midlife crisis much?
Rachel Weisz and Daniel Craig are both bi. It suits them both as they have an open relationship. She sleeps with women, he sleeps with men on the side.
Bono's wife has had a long affair with Helene Christensen which he is fine with. Not sure if it is still going on.
The majority of Hollywood is bi not gay.
George Clooney, Ed Norton, Sam Mendes, Frank Langella, Kevin Spacey and Darren Aronofsky are just some big Hollywood players who I know are bi.
I'm not sure about Hugh Jackman but it appears like he was in a real marriage with that older wife of his but it became a marriage of convenience whilst he had a relationship with John Palermo. She allowed it. Not sure what Jackman identifies as now.
Christian Bale is straight however he is into BDSM - hes a very submissive boy with women and a prodom has forced him to bottom for a gay porn star.
Leo Dicaprio is however G A Y. And never coming out of that closet. Obvious why.
r385 = Insanely delusional.
Bisex men: Channing Tatum, Daniel Craig, Ashton Kutcher.
Any big Hollywood female players that are gay/bi, R392?
Channing Tatum was definitely an active bi boy back in his stripper and modelling days. When he was a stripper he looked like an ugly twink bordering on white trash. Eyebrow ring and number 2 peroxide blonde hair. Somebody must have cleaned that boy up and got him into modelling.
As far as I heard he is monogamous to his wife.
I find it weird that despite an old interview where he stated his bisexuality (which is now conveniently hard to find) he has not been asked what his sexuality js. Hes definitely got good PR/paying the right people. Same goes with Dicaprio - hes untouchable.
I assume you mean in the closet gay/bi females?
Well Zoe Saldana has recently stated shes 'vaguely bisexual' which is a joke. Shes an active bi woman. Her whole former relationship with Cooper was for publicity. She was very much playing the field the whole time. Anytime you saw them together or when she was with Cooper's mom - guaranteed those paps were contacted by his or her's PR.
(Cooper is very much gay btw and is a guy who if he could would take a straight pill asap)
Charlize Theron is bisexual but incredibly discrete. She would prefer however to settle down with a man to have a father figure for her child.
Evan Rachel Wood is openly 'bi' however I believe shes more just a straight girl who has sex with women. I don't even think she does anymore which is strange considering Jamie Bell is most definitely bi.
Julie Andrews is gay and has been outed by several prominent figures in theatre. Just google 'julie andrews ian mckellen gay'
Hilary Swank is gay. Won't come out in order to keep her career. However she has veered more into production and she is getting older so who knows. But tbh isn't she married with kids? The ones who have gone ALL THE WAY with a charade are the deepest in the closet since they face the shame of being a fraud.
Tbh its a little bit harder to get the info on closeted female gay/bi Hollywood players simply because they are a lot more discrete.
They don't tend to hit on masseuses or frequent gay baths or parties like their male counterparts.
Will someone please tell me whether Joe Manganiello is gay or bi
r397. No gayface, not gay. Not str8 either. Bisexual.
R398 I thought so too!
Rick Domeier, QVC host, is bisexual
Thanks for the gossip, R396. Anything else you can share about the gay/bi women of Hollywood? I would love to here about the older generation. I've always felt that the older stars had a better time and were more free with their sexuality than the new set of actors/actresses.
"tbh"? What dat?
I don't know anything concrete about the closeted older generation in terms of the women. The oldest I know certain details about is Julie Andrews.
I have heard the same gossip as everyone else about Katherine Hepburn.
tbh=to be honest
Thanks, R404. In that case I'll take any gossip you care to share with us.
In terms of being more free; I agree. In today's world of social networking living freely is made impossible.
That being said the charades and vehicle that is Hollywood was created by the older generation of execs and PR Offices.
They were the ones that came up with the Rock Hudson marriage charade that is still used today. The public images that are created which nowhere coincide with stars in reality (Colin Farrell is not as much of a bad boy as the media amped up in the early 00s. He's a pussycat compared to Sheen and Downey Jnr). The paparazzi tip offs.
They made the rules and to this day they still stand.
Oh and since you're interested in gay/bi women...I couldn't really help with the older generation but a particular starlet who I think is just drop dead gorgeous and could go far if it weren't for her sexual orientation is Amber Heard.
Her PR have her saying she doesn't define herself. Playing the ambiguous sexy hot chick. In reality she is a lesbian. If she comes out I guarantee she will be the next generation's Portia De Rossi. Which is a shame - she could be up there with Scarlett Johansson and Jolie. Then again she could just play the bi card and be up there with Jolie.
Rick Domeier -- is also a cross dresser.
Joe Manganiello is straight. Not gay. Sheesh.
Anybody's heard something about Chris Cooper? I have a big crush on him, wow!
R410 How sure are you?
Amber Heard has no talent so she attached herself to Johnny Depp and his midlife crisis to get some attention.
I have lived with a gay man for 19 years. I am female and he is the love of my life! I have been divorced from a straight man, and had two other similar. When sex is there, it is ugly for the female.
Laurence Olivier loved Danny Kaye. Cary Grant shared a house with Randolph Scott.
R402 the first two are GAY, no idea about the last two and I've never heard of them.
Verve Exculsive: On the Record with Marlon Williams of MTV’s “The Real World Portland” Real & Uncensored
We live in a society where there is a need for labels, categories, and pretty much shoving people inside our own little boxes to understand them. Indeed, abstract thinking has pretty much been abandoned when it comes to the understanding of human beings in particular. Why we should even feel a need to impose our personal limitations of thinking onto another person’s way of life is beyond me. However, it lead me to cross paths with an individual quite like myself in terms of thought. Today we visit “The Real World”, I’m sure you might be pondering as to what I’m making reference to for it is apparent that if you are reading this you are already in “The Real World”. ”The Real World” I’m referring to is a reality television program on MTV originally produced by Mary-Ellis Bunim and Jonathan Murray. It was first broadcast in 1992, inspired by the 1973 PBS documentary series “An American Family”. It is the longest-running program in MTV history, one of the longest-running reality series in history, and it is credited with launching the modern reality TV genre.
A genre that has taken the platform and almost made a parody of life so much that one may ask, what would make a man who is already so educated and well-documented in accomplishments participate in such a program. This question can only be answered by the man himself, which is the 25-year-old Abilene, TX native Marlon Williams, cast member of MTV’s “The Real World Portland”. Marlon responds by saying, “being a thrill seeker I felt it was a good way to meet real people coming into a melting pot of sorts comprised of real stories, no scripts and still displayed on film.
How much of “The Real World” is actually real? Of course I know there is editing, but do you guys get sort of coached into taking situations in a certain direction?
Marlon: It is real, no coaching! They fly you in and just drop you off in the house. No, as the public you don’t get to see the entire full-picture of what happens in the house, but there is no one there telling us to do this or that.
What was life like for before television? I know you were a star athlete in college, but who is Marlon? Did you ever have ambitions of going professional at all, and how do you feel your life has changed since “The Real World” has aired?
Marlon: I was just a college student who tried out for professional Canadian Football, has drawn blueprints for buildings that have actually been constructed, and raps. I have opened up for acts such as Snoop Dogg and members of YMCMB. I’m also a year away from completing my industrial engineering degree. I’m always trying to get better at things I guess you could say I’m a workaholic, which granted me the opportunity to perform at South by Southwest this year.
As for the show, I would call it a love/hate situation. Of course there is loss of privacy but I like connecting with the fans, which can get overwhelming. It’s like being a mini-celebrity you must posses the personality to deal with people. You go to bars and people are buying you drinks and asking to take pictures it all goes along with the territory.
Now you’re willingly disclosed some personal information about yourself on television, and the information you disclosed was that you are bisexual…is that correct? What made you decide that this was the time for you to let something so personal about yourself be known publicly?
Marlon: Yes I am bisexual, but on the show I said I was straight. I admit it was terrible timing that initially started as a joke, but after I said it everyone in the house got quiet so that required me to be more detailed about the situation than I wanted to. At the same time I’m not trying to hide anything I’m not seeking long-term relationships or dates with a guy, but I’m not closed off from having that contact with a guy. I’m still a manly man who likes relationships with women; with guys it’s more of a fetish.
In your own words define what you consider to be bisexual, and how do you feel it’s possible to equally share an attraction to both genders without some bias?
Marlon: I don’t understand why you can’t like both. Social-norms have nothing to do with it. For me, with a man of course there is an attraction that is purely physical its just sex that’s all it is… I’m in and I’m out. Whereas, with a woman its sex combined with longevity, a relationship, the question of do we vibe-well, and having children.
Do you feel the other cast mates treated you any differently after the information you disclosed to them, and more importantly how did people you were close with before the show treat you?
Marlon: They actually came and talked to me more because it was judgment free zone. That opened the door for me to have a closer friendship with everyone in the house. As far as everyone else they treated me the same obviously they asked questions, but to them I’m the same old Marlon.
Since using such a public platform to disclose this topic, do feel that the stereotypes and bullying of other individuals because of their preference will be viewed differently in our society?
Marlon: Unfortunately I don’t think it will be viewed differently in our society, but I do hope to inspire other men in my situation to know that they are not alone. I want people to also know it doesn’t have to strip you of who you are, I’m still a man it, doesn’t change that and it doesn’t change the fact that I have played football on a level that most men only dream of being 20%- 30% smaller than the average linebacker you can’t strip me of my masculinity because of my sexuality. So I just hope that maybe other guys can be more open about who they are and have a positive reaction.
What do you have on your agenda next?
Marlon: The big thing right now is making music telling my side of life! I want to share things I have gone through, but making it more radio friendly so it bridges the gap of the general artistic style of rap to where all people can relate to the music. I want the fans to actually get to know who I am as oppose to talking about just money, cars and women. I want to be secured in the upper echelon of entertainment yet still remain a person. Aside from that I’m starting a “WAVY” movement. WAVY is an acronym that stands for (Wild And Visual Youngsters) helping people in life be better people, helping them be a comfortable with themselves, and taking that confidence to help others along the way.
After talking with Marlon Williams, I see a brilliant example of a man that exemplifies the definition of the term “WAVY”. He leaves no further question in this world about who he is and why we are who we are.
R396 that is sad about Bradley Cooper being described as taking a straight pill if he could - it means he is miserable with his existing life, instead of enjoying sex with porn stars and Leo DiCaprio.
Who is Rick Domeier?
[quote]In short, he'll end up with a man, despite all the Hollywood chichas he parades around for film premieres and PR coffee runs.
You posted this on 03/03/12 and I'm sad to say Gyllenhaal is STILL participating in PR coffee runs at the age of 32.
I don't understand why Gyllenhaal won't just be glass closeted. His bearding has done absolutely nothing for his career, perhaps even hindered it. Just don't talk about your private life and focus on turning in a good performance for once.
[quote] (Cooper is very much gay btw and is a guy who if he could would take a straight pill asap).
Whilst I think nobody is ever truly happy or fulfilled in Hollywood (until they get out of it), I bet if he met the right man that was loyal and swept him off his feet he'd have a different perspective. He'll be out there, just probably not in Hollyweird.
As it is, I think most of these actors lives revolve around PR stunts, endless interviews and filming and transient flings because they are unable to put down roots or feel safe with all the ladder-climbing and backstabbing going on around them. It's too competitive an industry.
R421, he's unfathomable by now. I really think he wants to still prove to himself that he isn't Toothy Tile.
FFS, just embrace it Toothy, and let it all out.
You don't stumble into a Hollywood career. You learn early and often that success requires subordinating everything in your life to your career. That includes friendships, family, and yes, being honest about your sexuality.
Actors have very few normal friendships or even working relationships.
R409 If only.
I'm sure there are lots of bisexuals in Hollywood, I mean they are all surrounded by lots of attractive people from both sexes. After you throw in drugs and alcohol I'm sure people's inhibitions goes down. Also if there are casting couches opportunities from either sexes why limit yourself.
r421, There's hope yet now his career has cooled.
Bisexuals are celebrated as a rare bird and even get a small stipend from the city to spread their unique world view.
DL, you gotta love it.
Actor who has sexual heat on screen, nevermind that it's opposite women. Must be gay!
Actor who never has any sexual chemistry with his female co-stars. Must be gay!
Actor who's never been married. Must be gay!
Actor in 20 year marriage to a woman. Bossy gay bottom!
I love it when we get a newbie flyover sort fresh in from Fraus R Us.
2 of Jodie Foster's male co-stars from the nineties:
And now Ms Damon.