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Boyfriends mom keeps telling him to dump me

My boyfriend is an only child and his parents have no friends. Boyfriend works for his dad and is basically on call all the time for what his parents want on and off the job. They call and drop in a lot. His mother sits at home during the day with a lot of health problems (real & imagined) and her life is her husband and son. The parents are classic narcissists and I have tried to be patient with my boyfriend because his family is so fucked up. Last night he got drunk and talkative and let it slip his mom has been telling him to get rid of me. I have a feeling that in her mind I am taking time away from her that she could be spending with him. So datalounge, how do I handle this? My first inclination was to call her and confront her. Also the best revenge may be to act like I am really happy with bf so this will burn her. But my boyfriend does not show affection in public so it's not like I can hang on him. What would you do?

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