i.e. you have less-than-zero interest in the opposite sex?
I'm about 90-95% gay (Kinsey 5), simply because I have been turned on by precisely 5 women in my life. Not attracted to women at all in general.
Even the thought of having sex with a female would throw me into toxic shock.
I'm a Kinsey 4 and probably 75% gay. Weird admission:
I've had sex with about 15 guys in my entire lifetime (I'm 31) and the guy I was with the longest, I couldn't have anal sex with him. One of the reasons he broke up with me is because he said I treated him more like a good friend than a boyfriend/sex partner.
I've never had sex with a man - quite frankly I'd rather stick pins in my eyes.
When I see females walking towards me on the sidewalk, I step onto the grass so they can't brush against me. When a female cashier gives me change, I want to put on gloves. If I see more than 1 female inside an elevator, I will wait for the next one.
r5, that's fucking creepy.
r5 do you have a basket full of lotion?
Some women I do find attract but not enough to try and sleep with them lol I see women as friend material not for sexual purposes. I like a strong women, a woman who is independent and don't let their gender but a setback for them
They stalk me. Every freakin female I meet, wants to cuddle and kiss and worse. The whole gay best friend thing is a facade, they all want to have sex with you eventually. I speak from many, many experiences. Just stay away from them.
I second R1, I'm not opposed to pussy in total, it's just not what I'd ever prefer. When no available men exist I look at girls.
[quote]the guy I was with the longest, I couldn't have anal sex with him
what do you mean? You couldn't get it up with him, or him with you?
I want sex from guys but really respect women.
I had sex with one man, and wasn't into it at all. I like guys as friends, but I do not look at them/think of them in any sexual way.
Never say never. Fate listens very closely when you utter the word "never". The moment you say you'd never sleep with a woman (again) chances are high that fate will make you lick a clit somehow.
I like straight porn for the guys and have zero interest in the girls, but don't find women's bodies repellant either. I mean unless their vaginas get too fleshy or beefy but straight guys don't like that either.
I notice attractive women. Just never enough to get a boner.
And I have had sex with women, when I was much younger. But never without closing my eyes and imagining she was a man at some point during the encounter.
You mean, homosexuality isn't 100%?
So, homosexuality IS a choice? We thought so.
Thanks for confirming our assumptions, homosexual! Now, we can vote against gay rights without guilt. Here we thought you homos were born gay and all. Guess you claim not. Thanks!
Sex never figures into my thoughts about women. The thought of it doesn't make me sick or anything, it just never figures into my thinking. I had sex with a handful of women, early in my life throughout my mid-20s and it never really captured my full attention or interest.
I can admire a woman's body or appearance as visually pleasing and I certainly enjoy their company and individual personalities. I have many close friendships with woman.
As a gay man, I can look at and think about men, sex with men, looking at their bodies, having sex with them or beating off to them, most things to do with them sexually, ALL DAY LONG. And I think about them at night when I go to bed, when I sleep and when I wake up in the morning thrusting my erection on the mattress in the morning.
I NEVER have any thoughts like this at all about women nor do I feel like I'm missing anything. Women as sex objects is not part of the equation for me.
75% INTO girls and I do love a nice big cock!
straight guys don't go for men as much as gay men go for women, thereby proving that the vagina is an endless source of fascination and pleasure for men everywhere.
After witnessing a few arguments on L Chat with a few people insisting only 100% gay is gay and everything between 1 to 99% is bisexual, this question intrigues me.
80% into men, but I can't resist some girls (only feminine)
r22 where do you live?
femme and classy bi chick
I love women, and I love their form.
I am very much emotionally attracted to strong, independent, forthright, intelligent women.
I like the idea of having sex with women although its practical application is more of a challenge because my orientation leans toward homosexuality.
I have sex with girls recreationally if I haven't had sex with a man for a while and the opportunity presents itself, or in a relaxed environment (while usually inebriated).
So i'm kinsey 4.
I've never had to do the whole "coming out" thing. I'm masculine presumed, straight unless someone asks, and remain an enigma to many because I don't endorse any stereotype.
I attribute this same ethos to straight men who may have fooled around or have had sex with other men, but know they are straight.
Rarely attracted to women, but it has happened before. Can't imagine having a relationship with one though.
I choose 100% bisexuality.
I had sex with six women before I was 22. Before, while and since those "experiments" I've had sex with several hundred men; but, by OP's standards I'm "bi"?
r26 I live in Los Angeles
once is youth, twice a phase, maybe; more than that and YOU LIKED IT, r28.
[quote]I attribute this same ethos to straight men who may have fooled around or have had sex with other men, but know they are straight.
Come on, everyone knows that this scenario happens on an infinitesimally smaller scale than the gay guy going for women does.
I love women, am respectful to women, love being around women, know a beautiful sexy woman when I see one, but have absolutely zero sexual attraction to women. 100% gay male.
[R31] If it serves you to believe that, then you will continue to do so. It's not "right" or "wrong".
In my experience there are plenty of gay men who have sex with women recreationally more than occasionally, and definitely still identify as gay.
Their orientation definitely leans toward homosexuality, just not exclusively. Although they are not overtly turned on by women, if the opportunity arises out of whatever circumstance, they'll have sex.
I wouldn't fuck anyone unless I liked them, R30. That still doesn't make me "bi".
Missy pretending again at R27. The whole thing was a fake, from Day One.
[quote]In my experience there are plenty of gay men who have sex with women recreationally more than occasionally, and definitely still identify as gay.
Which is exactly why it's a choice, as I've said.
Never, not once have I popped a boner over a woman. And I've popped A LOT of boners.
Heterosexuality never would have even occured to me if it hadn't been shoved down my thoat by every friend, family member, TV show, book, advertisement, billboard, movie, teacher, mentor, etc.
Seriously, to this day it makes zero sense to me. I only believe it exists because there's so fucking much of it around here.
There is no such thing as the Kinsey scale. You're either gay, straight, or bi for women. It's so funny seeing these queens try to twist the Kinsey scale to work for them. "Yeah, I find Angelina Jolie attractive. I guess I'm a 7 on the Kinsey scale."
The Kinsley scale is a weapon used against the Gay community by emotionally needy women.
No, we are not just waiting for the right girl to come along. Sex with any female is gross!
The Kinsey scale exists. You are either 100% gay. 100% straight or somewhere in the middle.
It's not that complicated.
Personally, I'm a dead on 3 (male) and have had LTRs with both men and women. I can't change it, can't deny it any more than someone who is 100% gay.
Nor can I be cured of the homo part. Or the hetero part.
r41 is a woman hating flaming faggot!
I've never met a genuine bisexual male. Ever.
Im gay but I like more feminine looking guys. More feminine and submissive in general. I also love to watch women have orgasms and I do get turned on by pussy, but Im not interested in the rest of the woman, and I could never have a relationship with one. In my perfect world, bottoms would have fully functioning vadges and would be able to have my babies!
[quote]It's so funny seeing these queens try to twist the Kinsey scale to work for them. "Yeah, I find Angelina Jolie attractive. I guess I'm a 7 on the Kinsey scale."
I fingered and sucked on a womans clit, and though I liked it, it's normally men that are the object of my desires and fantasies. I don't like sex enough with a woman to sustain a relationship, so I guess it's died a natural death, however, in the right circumstances, I'd have sex with a woman.
My ex bf told me he fingered a pussy once. I was horrified and never forgave him.
It never ceases to amaze me how so many of you here think that if YOU have never felt or experienced or personally know of something it cannot exist.
[quote]Personally, I'm a dead on 3 (male) and have had LTRs with both men and women. I can't change it, can't deny it any more than someone who is 100% gay.
Just because you've has long term relationships with women doesn't mean you're not 100% gay.
I had a girlfriend in high school. I kissed her and lost my virginity to her so therefore I guess I'm a Kinsey 5, a straight in the middle bi man.
R39 is an ignorant moron. And just plain wrong. On all counts.
R48, you're a fucking moron.
I'm straight, but would have sex with Brad Pitt.
Why do DL posters usually say gay male instead of gay man? I've been wondering this for a while now. I don't subscribe or I would make it a separate topic.
R53, because you can be a gay boy as well. I knew I was gay-gay-gay from age 10.
r54 I bet you are a flamer too!
100% gay and never more happy to be so. 99.9% of the female gender make it soooo easy -- can not imagine how horrible it would be to need that gash between their legs and therefore have to put up with the games. Ugh. :)
Almost at the point where I want nothing but male lovers, male friends and male co-workers. Almost. Figure there are plenty of horny dudes to help the women anyway so I only champion and help men's careers now. (The women in my biz truly fuck it up anyway and no matter what you do for them, it's never enough).
The bitter truth, ha. Nah, not bitter, just the truth. Go sit over there, little girl, leave the big boys alone.
R55, you'd guess wrong.
Apparently I don't ping on gaydar. I've had more than a dozen people over the years claim they had no idea I was gay.
But I assure you, I'm 200% homosexual.
(and no, I'm not "butch" or anything either... I personally find it hard to believe I don't ping, but it's clear I don't. I'm mostly just a nerd.)
R56, you sound like a jerk.
Straight acting gay guy, and proud of it!
r56 is so envious of women because he lusts after straight guys
I've had sex with two guys and two women. I crush on women and rarely guys.
LOL, nah, I'm just fuckin' with you ladies.
You asked. 1000% gay and I thank God for that every day. :)
How can I be more than 100% of anything?
Bitter homo who wishes he was a woman.
I am happiest in male only company. This not possible often enough imo.
r62 HATES women!!! love aids
fag hags need to realize that gay men HATE women!!!
I am 100% straight.
LMAO @R68. I was having drinks with a straight Republican friend the other night, and even he made a joke about Marcus Bachmann being gay (he also said he was disappointed in Obama for not supporting federal recognition of gay marriage!).
R69, and did you say that you were disappointed that Republicans have a long rich history of anti-gay legislature?
[quote] (he also said he was disappointed in Obama for not supporting federal recognition of gay marriage!)
He has in the past. He does in private. If re-elected, you can bet he probably will in public.
He's already vehemently against DOMA and has ordered his AG to stop enforcing it.
I'm gay just not fabulous.
[quote]I've never had to do the whole "coming out" thing. I'm masculine presumed, straight unless someone asks, and remain an enigma to many because I don't endorse any stereotype.[/quote]
You sound hot, R24.
No, R67, take that pill and relax, they're not important enough to hate.
But they sure annoy the shit out of me on a daily basis. Even their voices! Lower register, ladies, like the Europeans do. You're not 12 anymore, girly girl.
Spanky, President, He Mans Woman Haters Club
I'm 100% gay. Never been with a woman. No desire. Could never get hard for a woman too. No thank you.
My penis inverts for women.
flaming fags can't get it up period so they get their faux pussy pounded
R77, I just tracked your IP address and I will be at your house to beat your ass on your porch. We'll see who's a flaming fag then. See ya in a few.
bring it on nancy!!
Love many women, but can't imagine having sex with one under any circumstances.
I'm a 3, woman.
gay men FEAR women!!!
Because kunts really do have teeth, r82!
I think I'm a Kinsey 5.5. I LOOOOOVE men & the almighty cock, but every once in a blue moon I'll be shocked to find my eyes traveling over a woman's body and wondering what she looks like naked, what it would be like to fuck her, etc. It's really rare and I'm always momentarily shocked, but it's happened enough that I know it's genuine.
I did girls before I came out so there is no mystery there, but I was only going through the motions with them and trying to appear straight in high school/college...not fun times. Lots of nervous, bad sex (and, ultimately, performance issues) because I knew I was gay and really wanted guys, and a special one to love, eventually. Once I realized I was just using these women I couldn't do it anymore.
But soon after I started coming out (and completely stopped pretending to like/fuck/date women) I noticed I really did have a latent attraction, but one extremely small and incidental in relation to my overwhelming attraction to men.
Sorry, ladies. You can be quite pretty to look at (especially dolled up), boobies are a fun and different attraction, and your snatch is nice to fuck...but in the end, I need a cock. Sometimes literally! (bah dum bum)
Do vaginas have teeth? Jesus, with those gums, who'd need 'em?!
Which feels better: vagina or anal?
And, does a specific lube contribute to anal feeling better?
Joke's on R82, wait until she learns that straight men hate them even more, barely try to understand them, and REALLY hate 'em unless they are directly supplying pussy or the possibility of pussy and even that urge goes away with time. Watch 'em in the work place, it's a blast. And it's not getting better except by law (and we're all learning how to sidestep that one).
We may be outspoken, woman, but without us, you are truly screwed. :)
Chris Rock hit it: "Men are taught to keep their women happy. Joke's on us. There ARE no happy women." (And gay guys get to experience this too).
still fuckin' with you? maybe, maybe not
straight men hatred of gay men borders on the pathological
[quote]straight men hatred of gay men borders on the pathological,
Because these "straight guys" are actually gay guys hating themselves.
80% straight leaning to men about 15% for women and R56 you're asshole.
Disagree from experience... think guys are guys and am almost amazed how easily gay and straight guys blend, especially these days. And I include religious and smalltown and redneck even -- maybe because I have only hang around the relatively educated. (Am always shocked at how cool certain straight men are about gays, indifferent really. And I grew up in the South).
Only ones I ever saw give gay men shit or tried to use homosexuality against them/me ended up being closet cases trying to divert attention from themselves. Every single time.
(I speak, of course, of adult years only... anything post-high school. Before that, yeah, it's a fuckin' cesspool free for all)...
Me too, R91. The homophobic pricks were always gay. Always. I know one right now, who is 25 (!), and he's pretty homophobic. He tans, he's a body builder, shaves his body hair, vain, etc., (has a butter face though) is always using some homophobic slur for or against gay people. Come to find out, he gets his cock sucked by a gay dude at my old gym after his work outs. The gay dude also told me he was straight when I asked him if he had a partner.
Homophobic gay guys are sociopaths.
Of course not, nobody is 100% anything. This is real life, not fiction.
Why do women think that gay men want to be them? This is such a miscnception, and the easiest thing for women to hold over our heads when they get upset with us. We lile our penises and are content with our gender, only pre op transgendered want to women or desired gender.
Speak for yourself R93. I'm 100000% gay. If all men suddenly disappeared off the face of the earth leaving just me and a bunch of women, I'd be celibate until the day I die.
Sociopaths and very dangerous, R92. I love how later in life, we would meet again and they would try to laugh off their damaging behavior as part of youth. "Who knew I'd turn out gay myself?" (after I almost ruined another's life by trying to get him kicked out of the fraternity or whatever...)
I knew, for one -- and I never laughed it off, even though they never came after me. I wrote them off as no-character assholes and never went back.
Keep that in mind, younger dudes, when you're getting bullied -- again, especially after high school. I swear, odds are you've got a closet case there, far more dangerous than any straight guy I ever met.
[quote]We lile our penises and are content with our gender, only pre op transgendered want to women or desired gender.
R94, admit it, you're jealous of women.
I've never had sex with a woman. I have had fleeting moments of curiosity, but never enough to do something about it or make me think I'm missing something. I have, however, occasionally found girl-on-girl porn hot.
No, not 100% - probably around 80- 90%. I like sex with women, and that includes giving oral, but I don't like it enough to have a relationship with a woman as we would both be unfulfilled. If I knew I would never have sex with a woman, I wouldn't care at all. If the same were true of men, I'd be really pissed off about it.
Im 100% gay for sure, even before i knew what the word for it was I had feelings and dreams about other boys at my school aged like 7 or 8, I have always been attracted to boys/men later on and have not been attracted to a single female in my life, also I dont get on with females in a friendship kinda way either all my friends are male be they straight or gay like me, Girls have made it obvious they wanted me in the past but I simply did all i could not to do anything with them not even kiss i was so grossed out by it the thought of it,
Some girl once kissed me in the high street and then tried to kiss me again a random stranger and when she tried it a second time i made a very quick getaway, another girl i knew had a major thing for me so i palmed her off on a rather ugly straight mate of mine she asked if i wanted to kiss i said why not kiss him instead lol and she did atleast he got something out of it.
I have never dated a girl/woman i never pretended like that to be straight I am however quite a matcho kinda guy not fem at all so never was asked if i were gay even tho i never dated any girl ever odd huh, Now Im in love with being gay lol
Bi chick here --- in a long-term relationship with a woman, but miss a good, hard cock inside of me and the male "essence." I'm about a 4 on the Kinsey scale.
Where do I fall (other than obviously a hot mess)? I'm a man whose emotional attachment - albeit a rare phenomena - has always exclusively been with males. My attraction is also exclusively to the male form (as long as it's in fairly decent shape and youngish). Yet I never mentally undress any man I find physically attractive nor do I have any particular interest in having sex with men (I have none whatsoever with women). I'm currently gaga over a much younger straight married man (who has remarked on our chemistry and told others that we're in a bromance). But despite my craving to be in this man's presence, all I want to do is hold him and cuddle with him. One more thing to consider. Back in the day, when I saw psychologists over an extended period, each of the 3 analyists independently concluded that I was a closet heterosexual. One - a woman (the other 2 were a man and a woman) - said my mother was, in her opinion at least, a word that rhymes with bunt, that she could see why I wouldn't want to get close to a woman.
Jeez, R103, none of that sounds like fun.
I have no idea where to put myself percentage-wise. I'm interested in men only, most of the time, but there are some special women I fantasize about. The other day, I encountered a girl from Louisiana; we had a moment. I blushed when we parted ways and couldn't wipe the grin off my face. What was that all about?
When I was a prepubescent kid, I would engage in same-sex play with a handful of friends. This went on for years, but I was never attracted to any of them per se. Never fantasized about grown men. Never got boners looking at naked men. Always lusted after women. Boobs, pussies, girls. That was what did it for me. Never was even capable of recognizing whether another male (kid or grown-up) was attractive. Always had crushes on girls. Was too awkward to get anywhere with most of them.
Then in high school, I started fooling around with a huge-dicked, flamboyant friend, mostly because I was starting to miss the same-sex play of my pre-teen years. Once I got a taste (and whiff) of that big, thick man cock, the tide really turned for me. In my 20s I dated a girl but often fantasized about men while fucking her. She had a hot, curvy body, with full, delicious boobs, and I could get aroused just by her alone, but to make myself cum while fucking her, I had to think about men. It was around this time I started noticing how hot a lot of guys are.
Then I moved to New York. Now I don't even look at most women anymore.
I don't know, to me the whole trajectory seems kind of weird. I've gotten to the point where I truly don't like most females, not even as people. I see them behaving in really awful ways in public that men don't. They've made my life really unpleasant at times. I've worked in customer service for years (although thankfully that's ending soon), and I can say that probably 85% of the nasty customers were women. And I don't sell women's clothing. Isn't that odd?
I'm 100%, I would say, haven't had sex with a woman (or very many guys for that matter). I much prefer to bottom, and I don't really like the 'friction' of active penetration. In other words, penetrative sex with a woman is highly unlikely. That said, I think very many women are absolutely stunning and I always catch myself staring at women's asses and chests. The female form is genuinely beautiful, but looking is as far as I can go.
There is no such thing as 100%, 98%... If you call yourself a homo then you're 100%.
When I was younger I had a huge sex drive oriented towards both men and women, though more excited by men.
Now there are few men who genuinely excite me.
Perhaps it's a far less sexy time. That, and I'm aging.