The '90s Lesbians Hollywood Clique

As she was listing the lesbo party attendees, I was hoping she was going to slip up and mention a name of someone that hasn't already come out publicly. No such luck.

Was also funny to hear that she dated Sophie B. Hawkins. Maybe that's been widely known before, but I'd never heard it.

wow what a group of beauties!

Rosie said that Kristy McNichol wasn't part of those parties (because of her social anxiety, or whatever?) but Rosie seemed well aware of her lesbianism anyway.

And I don't think most of them even speak to each other anymore.

Jodie? Cyndie?

Rosie said before that she had a falling out with Ellen when Ellen wanted her to join a gay rights march in Washington D.C. in 1998 or 99 and Rosie said she would do it if Ellen did something for adopted kids or crusade against guns after the Columbine massacre.

Yes, R7, because even when two control-freak, egomaniacal gay women meet up, one can recognize that turning gay rights into a transactional power play is a an announcement of soullessness.

Fuck off, R5. It's a GAY site. Homophobes not welcome.

r9 they are right.I love women, just not most dykes!! I love feminine and kind and stylish and fun get it butch!!!!

Current A / List lezzies party . Ellen & Portia , Jodie & GF , Rosie & GF, Jane Lynch & wife, Melissa Etheridge & GF, K.D. Lang, Sandra Bernhardt, Sara Gilbert & GF , Amber Heard ,and on and on

A-list Lezzie party of 1985:

Martina and flavor of the moment, Billie Jean and GF, Dusty Springfield and African American twinkette, Nona Hendryx, Carol "Blaze" Blazejowski, Rita Mae Brown and GF, Marlene Dietrich, Nancy Kulp, Gabriella Sabatini/Sandra Bernhardt/Gigi Fernandez (window dressing chicks invited by Martina), and a very curious Madonna crashing.

...at a post-Wimbledon soiree.

A bit more eclectic than today's A-list, which is a bunch of actresses and comediennes.

And Virginia!

I really hope Gabriela Sabatini wouldn't attend a 1985 lesbian party, because she would have been 14-15 years old.

So? That's when I started showing up at gay parties, r14. Doesn't mean you're gonna have sex with a 45 year old.

Marlene Dietrich??

Were you there, r12?

When I lived in San Diego, word got back to the gay proletariat that Kristy McNichol had been involved in a couple of fistfights outside some girl bars in Palm Springs. I think it was mentioned in the local gay paper at the time.

Pussy licking lezzies down on the muff, Hollywood style!

Gaby's parents and her brother were very overprotective. How did she manage to attend a lesbian party?? However, there was something weird about the teenage Sabatini because she seemed so painfully shy. She looked really fucked up. It was also weird that she mingled with adults/other celebs in Argentina. Althought shy she seemed to like to mingle with the jetset. If that party was true, those old bitches should have been thrown in jail.

C'mon, r12! You throw a bomb like that and you don't give details?!?

i thought this was going to be Jenifer Aniston, Sheryl Crow, Katherine Keener (is that her first name?), C. Cox, et al......

Sara Gilbert was so much younger than everyone else. In the 90s, she was kicking it with Leonardo Dicaprio and Tobey McGuire.

I will always envy the women who were/are able to nail Sabatini! Lucky bitches!!

Is it true the rumor about Sara Gilbert and Gina Schock (drummer of The Go-Go's)??

Sabatini has a tash and walks like John Wayne... I wouldn't fuck her with gloves on.

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r21 no apparently the dykes on this thread are obsessed with manly, uglygirls!

There must be a lot of blind people around who consider the "ugly dyke" Sabatini hot, R25. Thanks for enlightening us!!

you people are nuts. sabatini IS hot, but gigi fernandez is hotter.

R24. I haven't heard the rumor about Sara Gilbert and Gina Schock, but I heard that Jodie Foster dated Gina when she was in college.

For R24/R25, who is probably a gay boy, thinks Jenifer Aniston is hotter than Sabatini. Gigi was beautiful in her hey day but she lacked the sultry vibe Sabatini has/had. Gigi also didn't maintain her good looks.

she's looking pretty good, still.

Habba habba

Ok, I was cheating!

R31, she looks like your typical run of the mill dyke and she needs to do something about those bushy eyebrows. They're very masculinizing. The chick in the middle has a very severe case of dyke-mouth (almost no upper lip and extremely gummy smile).

Most dykes are gross!! I will never identify as a lesbian

Bi chick - Being bi is a perfectly good reason to not identify as a lesbian. "I think most dykes are gross" is kind of a weird reason.

R34 and R35 are certainly gay guys who think Lady CaCa or Madonna are the hottest chicks around.

Well, r34. I'm pretty sure that the pouty "dyke" mouth was one of the reasons str8 men loved her. Anyway, I would like to hear more gossip than discussing the attractiveness of some people.

I've heard about those parties on the womens tennis tour.

Martina used to have a thing with Gigi Fernandez, who was later in a love triangle with Conchita Martinez and Sabatini.

I reckon Rosie romanticises about the 1990s lesbian Hollywood coven. In all probability, they met a few times via parties held by lezzies working in the industry. I doubt they were all very close because of fear outing each other etc.

Where did I fit in?

The great Fannie Flagg has to be in there somewhere. At the very least, she and Rita Mae Brown dated. Ditto, Susan Flannery, so stunning once upon a time. (If you ask me, all three qualify as the "cool" lesbians, smart classy and beautiful. Refined somehow).

It wasn't just the list of the usual suspects. A lot of famous women in hollywood choose the 90's to 'dip their feet in the pool' for some reason, however briefly. Many of them were seen at the Abbey lezzing it up. Then again, everyone was seen at the Abbey in the 90's.

Actually, R39, Gigi was in a long-term relationship with Conchita. I don't believe Gaby was ever a party to their activities.

Gigi's partner today is former LPGA player Jane Geddes.

What about Lana Turner's daughter Cheryl Crane? Her partner since the 1960s is a former model.

And if k.d. lang would come up off the muff every now then maybe she'd have a career again.

Most of the power lezzies, then and now, aren't necessarily the dykes you've heard of. Most of them are TV and movie power players who green light and fund. Or agents. They're not the 'talent'.

Ellen and Portia are probably the only recognisable A listers now. Melissa is too stoned to count as anything these days.

You know my BFF Holland Taylor and I were at all the best lesbian soirees, along with Lily, Jane, Donna Mills, etc, etc, etc...

r28 is correct.

Fernandez is just about perfect.

[quote]And if k.d. lang would come up off the muff every now then maybe she'd have a career again.

Change "muff" to "weed" and you'd be correct.

In her auto bio, r42, RMB says that FF was the love of her life.

Apparently, they quarreled and FF shot a gun at RMB's car as she hauled ass. They spoke about it years later (according to RMB's book) and FF asked RMB why she didn't come back? RMB said, "because you SHOT at me." And FF said something like, "oh, honey. You don't know women."

Where Kate Jackson and Donna Mills at any of the early 80s muffiestas?

I'm not R39 but I have heard of the love triangle thing before. Actually Gigi dated Gaby for a while and then Conchi came to the scene. Funny how Conchi was also a very close friend to Gaby (as Mary Carilo stated in their 1992 matches). Conchi and Gigi made their relationship "public" in 1994 while The triangle thing suposedly happened from 1993 to 1994 and lasted 6 months.

Gay guy here. Fannie Flagg was very hot around the "Harper Valley PTA" time. Did anyone else that she resembled Martina's ex Judy Nelson?

Fannie was , indeed, hot back in the day!

R35 - 'most dykes are gross' sorry to shock you hon but I'm hotter than hell.

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I think you are a bit confused, R50. Rita Mae Brown shot a gun at Martina, when she found out Martina was cheating on her with the closeted basketball player Nancy Lieberman. Martina, Nancy and Rita Mae all discuss this incident in their autobios.

Judy Nelson hooked up with Rita Mae later as kind of a 'fuck you' to Martina.

yeah, was confused too. Rita Mae writes story about Fannie dying her pubic hair or something, maybe trying to burn it off? And her crotch going up in flames. Right?

C'mon! Somebody must know something!

Was Jodie Foster part of this clique? I'd love to hear about what she was up to before she met Cydney.

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Lucy J = MTF.

[quote]Rosie O'Donnell Ellen, Melissa Etheridge, K.D. Lang, and Sara Gilbert.

All I gots to say about that group is eww.

(Thread now continues until 600 posts of the same names are mentioned over and over again)

I didn't know Gigi Fernandez posted here.

R64, I don't.

I've always heard that in the 90's a lot of actresses/models were diping their toes into the lesbian pool at for a night (like Kim Basinger, Cindi Crawford, M. Pffifer etc). Alot of the time it was connected with a certain A-lister Oscar Winner but... where there is smoke there's fire, right?

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I have to say that I love the word "muffiesta."

A fiesta of muff!

I heard the rumor about Sara Gilbert and Gina Schock, also the one about Gina Schock and Jodie F.

Useless Gina S. trivia: She was once in a band with Ellen DeG's brother.

out lesbians are SO ugly!!! I like bi and straight chicks!

Closeted lesbians are stills lesbians, R70.

Models seem to have bi tendencies. Which former supermodel seem to be very good "friends" with Alison (Bono's wife)?

bi chicks are not closeted

[quote]Models seem to have bi tendencies.

No models tend to have attention whore tendencies.

[quote]Models seem to have bi tendencies. Which former supermodel seem to be very good "friends" with Alison (Bono's wife)?

Helen Christensen. It's an old rumor.

Kristy McNichol used to hang out at Peanuts in Hollywood in the early 80's. I used to see her there.

Yep, it was Helena. Thanks, R75.

i like feminine straight acting chicks

They don't like you r78.

BTW, this is you isn't it? Oh dear.

Cindy Crawford ia a (repressed) lezzie.

I wonder who's part of this decades lesbian clique.??

To add to R69s useless Gina Schock trivia - her band with Vance deGeneres was called "House of Schock". They had a song I really liked called Middle of Nowhere that was featured in the movie Bull Durham.

Gina looked great back in the day.

Any especific rumor about Cindy Crawford?

R81, Leisha Hailey, Katherine Moennig, Clea Devaul, Ellen Page, etc. may be considered one.

Troll-dar R2. One poster, one thought. And nothing else.

From a translation of a La Semana article (July 13, 2009 edition):

"Gabriela has her reason to say goodbye so soon. Her life has been complicated on a personal level. She discovered that the media was publishing intimate secrets that her entourage didn't like and she couldn't control the situation. The solution was "bye, bye to tennis". Gabriela has quit the sport and fame to live a quiet life with her friend, a physiotherapist of the WTA. With her retirement Gaby claims to have the right of privacy. No more paparazzis following her every step. No more inventions from the Argentine press to simulate something that is not true. No more boyfriends that don't exist. Not anymore."

[quote]Any especific rumor about Cindy Crawford?

Some porn actress said Cindy made a pass at her in a party.

Henri Laconte still claims to have dated Gaby and Steffi. I think the only way he could have had both was if they had a 3way. By 3way I mean Gaby and Steffi going at it while he watched. Lol

r84- EWW!! who cares about these fugly butches?

r79 is a gross bulldyke

Thanks, R87. I always thought she pinged somehow.

I read Melissa Etheridge's autobio, and she talked about the lezzie crew too. She said she, Ellen, KD and Rosie (and others) would get together at a house (whose house I can't quite recall) and just hang.

There was a BI a long time ago about two women that used to meet at the Beverly Hills Hotel for afternoon trysts and many here believed the women to be Cindy Crawford and Carmen Electra. I remember hearing rumors about Cindy being gay for years but nothing concrete.

big rumors on Jennifer Aniston and Courtney Cox!

Hey R91, see link.

Lezzie get together? What did they do. Read Popular Mechanic together?

Dyke suspects nr1 and nr2 promoting perfums

Yes, I did just bump up this old thread. What of it.

Bump!!!!

Rosie on Alec Baldwin's show if anyone is interested. It is actually kind of interesting

wnyc, here's the thing

Judy Nelson was quite the hot snatch back in the day. Martina hit the gold mine with that one. Then she blew it when she had an affair with closeted Olympic skier Cindy Nelson, who freaked out and ran back into the closet after the press got word of their liason. Then Marti dated Hunter Reno, Janet Reno's niece who was a model/lickalotopuss and then that really not attractive chick who sued her ass, before she got with that hot Russian piece that she's with now.

Rumor has it that Martina would NOT do it with Pam Shriver because Pam had a "bunny tail"

Wow, bunny tail. I learn so much on DL!

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who was the older lady who deflowered Darlene Conner?

Um, Sandra Bernhard.

90s lesbians were great. Especially with all their womyn events! Ellen's coming out was huge. I remember Roseanne's lesbian kiss almost made society crumble. They had to tape different versions, lasting different seconds for the kiss.

thanks for answering the question. Makes sense. But still...

Hilary Clinton, Dolly Parton, Jennifer Beals, Celina Dion.

Potlucks for days.

Um, hello! Why has no one has mentioned my Lady's Night parties in Malibu back in the 80s?

Long ago I recall Rosie talking (probably on The View) about those house parties and describing how she objected underage Sara Gilbert should not be there. My question would have been what were they doing that underage was a problem.