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Hooking up at the gym

For those of you who do it, were is the most discreet place to have a little fun and not stand out or be obvious? I just joined a gym but, haven't gotten any action yet. I'm beginning to think this was a waste of time and money.

by Anonymousreply 183March 2, 2023 9:26 PM

Oh no, another slim ball creeping around around the locker room. Fuck!

by Anonymousreply 1January 13, 2012 1:00 AM

OP, does your gym have a steam room?

by Anonymousreply 2January 13, 2012 1:04 AM

The steamroom is best; suana is next; showers are your last option.

by Anonymousreply 3January 13, 2012 1:06 AM

Why am I quite certain that OP weighs 450 pounds and wears a wrestling singlet to the gym?

by Anonymousreply 4January 13, 2012 1:07 AM

lmao

by Anonymousreply 5January 13, 2012 1:23 AM

OP, before you complain about wasting your time and money, I think you need to read the list of features details in the gym's advertising --

"25,000 square feet of space, free weights, Nautilus machines, yoga/pilates/aerobics classes, etc."

What? That's not what you were looking for?

Oh, sorry, I think you may have confused us with a BATHHOUSE.

by Anonymousreply 6January 13, 2012 1:35 AM

OP, how are the showers set up?

by Anonymousreply 7January 13, 2012 1:40 AM

God, my steam room was hot today. There was this guy I watched walking around working out with this big beautiful ass. Very straight laced cute white guy, with a tiny waist, lean muscular build but a very fat muscular god-given/squat enhanced bubble butt. He was in the steam room, sitting next to a sexy tight bodied pocket gay, and they both starting JOing, first just themselves, then rubbing each other's nips. Next to them was this tall lanky long-haired European looking guy with what I assume had to be a nice sized donkey schlong. I couldn't really see because the steam was really going then, but a girl can dream.

I love to watch. Not much of an instigator of those things. But under the right conditions I have played some myself.

DB is the best for sexy guys sexy time in the steam room. Even most of the trolls are tolerable.

by Anonymousreply 8January 13, 2012 3:09 AM

What happens when straight guys come in there and see that kinda stuff going on? Don't they say something or complain to the staff?

by Anonymousreply 9January 13, 2012 5:29 AM

I've wondered that too, R9. The women's locker room at my gym doesn't see that kind of action!

by Anonymousreply 10January 13, 2012 5:36 AM

I saw a super hot guy in the locker room today drying off after his shower. Very European-looking. We seemed to be the only ones in this locker room, and I wanted to say something to him, but I didn't know what to do. Could've been entirely straight, but I was hoping otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 11January 13, 2012 6:07 AM

i've hooked up 3 times with guys that i met at the gym.(actually 3 different health clubs) Once i came onto him, once he to me, and once it was a mutual come on in the shower, ogling each other ;) ...while he was toweling off, i went up to him, introduced myself & shook his hand. He later said he noticed me getting hard in the shower. Well...yeah!

That last time we had sex in his car after he drove to the top floor of the parking garage. He had great & eager cocksucking lips. Ahhh...those halcyon days!

by Anonymousreply 12January 13, 2012 12:49 PM

I would like to see photos of these men you are rhapsodizing over.

Vulgar trolls, one and all.

by Anonymousreply 13January 13, 2012 12:56 PM

something about a nacreous permacum lawyer

by Anonymousreply 14January 13, 2012 1:21 PM

Nothing like this ever goes on in the womens locker room, this is why the strait guys put on their underwear under their towel.

by Anonymousreply 15January 14, 2012 1:15 AM

trust me r13, the quality of some of the trade that goes through David Barton gym, is mind boggling. And the quality of trade you sometimes see getting off in the steam rooms is pretty mind boggling as well.

Not that these guys hook up in the steam, but to give you an example, google Joe Lazo, Thelonius Johnson, or Frank Acosta. All three are trainers there, all straight, and are good examples of the types of guys who workout there.

TJ of course trains Anderson.

by Anonymousreply 16January 14, 2012 3:17 AM

Any luck, OP?

by Anonymousreply 17January 17, 2012 1:58 AM

Best is to meet outside and go to the guy's house to get your dick sucked.

DB is a gay gym, no straight men venture into the steam room.

In a mixed gym you can get in trouble.

by Anonymousreply 18January 17, 2012 4:04 PM

How much is a David Barton membership nowadays?

I see and participate in a lot of action at Manhattan's New York Sports Club.

by Anonymousreply 19January 17, 2012 4:10 PM

[quote]something about a nacreous permacum lawyer

?!?!?!

by Anonymousreply 20January 17, 2012 4:14 PM

r9, that happened in my gym a few weeks ago. I had just entered the locker room when I encountered a straight guy complaining to one of the managers about sex in the sauna. Now management does spot checks of the sauna and steam room on weekdays. This is the NYSC at 94th/B'way.

by Anonymousreply 21January 17, 2012 4:28 PM

R20, I'm sure he meant "layer" but I love the typo. There's something that just sounds so evil about a "nacreous permacum lawyer."

by Anonymousreply 22January 17, 2012 4:37 PM

Maybe if you used the gym for what it's made for you'd be happier dumbass! Join a bathhouse if you want to get laid. Thank you for giving straight people on more reason to hate us fucktard!

by Anonymousreply 23January 17, 2012 4:38 PM

Honestly, the straight guy's aversion to sex in the gym is pure homophobia, and has nothing to do them finding it improper. It's aversion to gay sex. Put them in a co-ed sauna/steam/shower situation, and they'd be putting the moves on chicks right and left. Besides, we're gay men. One of the great things about being gay is that we CAN have sex in these places. I don't know one gay guy who doesn't have sex in the gym.

by Anonymousreply 24January 17, 2012 4:42 PM

R24, would you want to be subjected to straight sex in the locker/steam room when you go to the gym?

Ya, didn't think so. You must be a heterophobe.

[quote]Put them in a co-ed sauna/steam/shower situation, and they'd be putting the moves on chicks right and left.

No, they wouldn't. Straight men and women don't have sex in public places as a rule

[quote]I don't know one gay guy who doesn't have sex in the gym

That's because you and all your friends are old trolls.

by Anonymousreply 25January 17, 2012 4:53 PM

r24, I'm a gay guy who doesn't have sex in the gym. Not for lack of opportunity. I've always gone to mixed gyms and frankly the few guys who've come on to me were revolting.

People who defend gym sexcapades seem to think it's gonna play out like a porn movie. I doubt that's the case for the vast majority. And it's beside the point.

I'll go to the gym to work out, thanks. I agree with the poster who said go to a bathhouse if you want to get off.

by Anonymousreply 26January 17, 2012 4:59 PM

I'm a young gay guy who has hooked up in gyms. Mostly steam rooms and saunas. Never showers or locker rooms. Most gay guys I know have. Some aren't into it, and I can understand that.

I don't view it as a right, nor do I view it as a given or the main reason I go to the gym. When it's happened, it's happened, and it's been hot. My experience has been that it's more likely to happen in mixed gyms in non-super gay neighborhoods, and if anyone's ever walked in or been not into it I haven't proceeded.

by Anonymousreply 27January 17, 2012 5:47 PM

R25 is wrong in so many different ways.

Straight couples have sex in public places all the time. Just consider how mainstream the idea of The Mile High Club is. Some people, gay or straight, get off on being watched and get turned on by having sex in public.

I have gotten off several times in the steam room with other hot guys. And no I am not a troll. You don't force yourself on someone else who isn't into it. Once the steam starts and obscures the view and your sitting next to me, I'm up for a little rub and tug.

I've never seen or been a part of anal sex. Oral sex happens very rarely. It's mostly a lot of jo and mutual masturbation.

by Anonymousreply 28January 18, 2012 1:41 AM

R25 says, "Straight men and women don't have sex in public places as a rule." The only reason straight people don't have sex in gym steam rooms, bars, bookstores, etc., is because women don't want to. If women wanted to, the straight men would be right there with them. The straight men aren't pickier than the gay men about where they get off -- they just lack for partners.

by Anonymousreply 29January 18, 2012 2:30 AM

R29 has it right.

by Anonymousreply 30January 18, 2012 5:33 AM

[quote]straight couples have sex in public places all the time.

No they don't. It's rare. No one would ever say, "I don't know a single straight person who doesn't have sex in bar bathrooms (or wherever)", like has been said of gay men/gyms in this very thread. If you are going to make a case that "every" gay man has public sex (which they clearly don't), then the comparison to heteros, while a nice try, is completely false.

by Anonymousreply 31January 18, 2012 8:42 AM

R31 is splitting hairs. It's so annoying around here how desperately people try to be right - at all costs - rather than contribute something meaningful to a thread. It's what is killing this place.

Of course straight people have sex in public! Haven't you ever been to a wedding?! I've seen many straight women put out in bathrooms at weddings with guests and staff alike. I'm sure it happens in bars and clubs as well and, as we know, airplanes.

What is it with the gays around here who buy into all the stereotypes and then put straight people on a squeaky clean pedestal? It's so homophobic. Gawd, you people must be so neurotic.

by Anonymousreply 32January 18, 2012 9:15 AM

Well said R32.

by Anonymousreply 33January 18, 2012 4:17 PM

A lot of guys get horny after a decent work out. I think it's quite a compliment for guys to check each other out at the showers and in the steam rooms to admire each other's body shaping process.

Of course trolls who don't work out and rush right to the steam rooms are a disruptive force and they should indeed get their thrill at bathhouses.

by Anonymousreply 34January 18, 2012 4:24 PM

[quote]I've seen many straight women put out in bathrooms at weddings with guests and staff alike.

Wait are you saying you've seen women at weddings getting fucked or getting blowjobs -- sometimes with building staff -- and this happened more than once? You might want to examine the kind of people you hang out with.

What r34 makes sense. But come on. Straight people just don't do this in public spaces. Behind a locked door in an airplane bathroom isn't the same as a gym steamroom.

by Anonymousreply 35January 18, 2012 5:08 PM

[quote]I've seen many straight women put out in bathrooms at weddings with guests and staff alike.

What a world you must come from.

by Anonymousreply 36January 18, 2012 5:12 PM

[quote]A lot of guys get horny after a decent work out.

Reminds me of a guy I knew who was in the Navy. His shipboard office was next to the Marines' gym. Some of them used to stop in his office at night following their workout.

by Anonymousreply 37January 18, 2012 5:13 PM

What I love about Datalounge is seeing how many of you get your ideas of reality largely from porn movies (and the opening sequence of "The Godfather").

by Anonymousreply 38January 18, 2012 5:18 PM

I've been using my gym for years, know all the staff, regulars, etc, so hooking up there would be tacky, embarrassing and, ultimately, out of question. If there's mutual interest, I live 5 minutes away from the gym, we can go there and it makes things so much easier.

by Anonymousreply 39January 18, 2012 5:23 PM

the issue is the lack of nice gay bathhouses, there is clearly a market for it, and they did exist at one time. they may still exist but are run-down and bad quality. the gyms are everywhere and nice looking.

by Anonymousreply 40January 18, 2012 5:39 PM

There was once a bathhouse in Canada that had two doors.

Hot men went through the green door, Trolls of all types went through the red. Separate but equal.

Bathhouses need to have a 'discretionary door' to keep out the trolls.

by Anonymousreply 41January 18, 2012 5:44 PM

[quote]There was once a bathhouse in Canada that had two doors. Hot men went through the green door, Trolls of all types went through the red. Separate but equal.

This never happened.

by Anonymousreply 42January 18, 2012 6:40 PM

Right, and who gets to distinguish hot or not?

by Anonymousreply 43January 18, 2012 6:46 PM

I've gotten so much quality straight, married dick in the sauna/steamroom. Best gyms for that are the ones down near Wall St. The hot straight alpha masters of the universe look to get sucked off on a daily basis, and my mouth has been only too happy to oblige. I guess all the stress of their jobs gets to them, so they look for release in the only places they can find it.

by Anonymousreply 44January 18, 2012 6:50 PM

Every straight person I know admits to having had sex in public at one time or another. On the beach, in a bar bathroom, an after hours party, etc.

Most gay guys I know wouldn't ever have sex in public, for fear of getting gay bashed or arrested, or at the very least embarrassed and made fun of.

Let's not forget the inherent 'gay guilt' we have over our heads, boys.

by Anonymousreply 45January 18, 2012 6:51 PM

[quote]I've seen many straight women put out in bathrooms at weddings with guests and staff alike

No you haven't, R32. Well, maybe in porn you have. BTW-- is "splitting hairs" the new code for "makes sense, rational, logical?"

Haha R44, you need to stop "occupying" Wall Street.

Poor R45 thinks it's opposite day.

by Anonymousreply 46January 18, 2012 7:17 PM

I find it silly that some posters insist that only gay men are wild animals who cannot hold back their urges and have to fuck and suck out in the open whenever they feel like it. There are a lof of straight people out there and quite a few do and enjoy outdoor sex where they can get caught.

by Anonymousreply 47January 18, 2012 7:25 PM

Well R47, I can say with confidence that no straight woman would spend a lot of time on Wall Street, on her knees, unless there was some money being exchanged.

by Anonymousreply 48January 18, 2012 7:49 PM

[quote]Every straight person I know admits to having had sex in public at one time or another.

EVERY straight person you know? Your mom? Your grandmother?

If some of you would just try to make reasonable claims people might actually listen to the points you're trying to make. But you rationalize like such idiots.

by Anonymousreply 49January 18, 2012 7:56 PM

Actually my grandma is dead...but my mom did admit to fucking my dad on the beach once...so no, R49, I'm not exaggerating.

by Anonymousreply 50January 18, 2012 8:02 PM

R46, R48, R49 seems to have a lot invested in the purity of straight folk. For the record, the "world" I come from was that of a former event planner and waiter. I probably worked 100s of weddings in my time as well as other events and while, admittedly, it was never something I saw at Jewish weddings, there were plenty of times when straight people had indiscriminate sex in the bathroom, often with other staff members. Bartenders were particularly likely to get laid on their breaks because their stationary position lent itself to chatting up desperate single women.

I mean, you're fucking kidding if you think straight people don't have indiscriminate sex. It's called HUMAN sexuality for a reason, fool. What exactly do you have invested in this? Must be some 40 year-old virgin frau.

by Anonymousreply 51January 18, 2012 8:14 PM

My sister fucked her fiance in a utility closet at our nephew's bar mitzvah last year. I hooked up with a waiter in a vacant room at my cousin's wedding. Straight or gay, everyone likes the thrill of sex in public. It's human nature, with the thrill of being cought. We gays just probably do it more often because we have willing partners. If women were less uptight about their sexuality, straight guys would be fucking them in the ramble. Men-gay and straight-are dogs. To quote Blanche Devereaux, we'd "do it in the mud" if we could.

by Anonymousreply 52January 18, 2012 8:31 PM

I find it hard to believe that even 'desperate single women' would sneak into the men's room to get laid, especially at a WEDDING where she would be likely to know many of the guys who walked in.

"Oh Hi, Jim! Great to see you. Yeah didn't the bride look beautiful? I was just feeling a little lonely so I thought I'd hang out here and snag some cock. How does my lipstick look?"

by Anonymousreply 53January 18, 2012 8:35 PM

I don't see what is so hard about hooking up. IMO, I made the mistake of hooking up too many times that when I really did want to work out, I'd see AT LEAST two of my prior hookups there and I just wasn't comfortable working out with that sexual energy there. I've changed gyms three times! Lol.

by Anonymousreply 54January 18, 2012 9:07 PM

I remember a few years ago at a Bally's in NY. The showers face each other with curtains. This one guy across from me kept bending down to present his hole and began fingering himself. The guy in the stall next to me noticed and went on a homophobic rant, calling the guy a fag and claiming that he probably has AIDS. Although the gay guy probably shouldn't have been fingering himself, the straight guy went way over the top. I felt sorry for the gay guy. Management threw him out and revoked his member, while the homophobe got to stay.

by Anonymousreply 55January 18, 2012 9:13 PM

[quote]I find it hard to believe that even 'desperate single women' would sneak into the men's room to get laid, especially at a WEDDING where she would be likely to know many of the guys who walked in.

Nicole and Chook fucked in the laundry room on Tania's wedding day in Muriel's Wedding.

by Anonymousreply 56January 18, 2012 9:14 PM

Me and just about all of my friends have hooked up in parks. Van Cortlandt Park in the Bronx during the summer months is teeming with Latin trade and closeted married guys looking for sex. We all do it. Just one of the perks of being gay in an urban area IMO.

by Anonymousreply 57January 18, 2012 9:20 PM

r56, that's a movie.

by Anonymousreply 58January 18, 2012 10:15 PM

R31 obviously has never heard of DOGGING. Heteros are fucking each other all over the place.

Why you would go to such lengths to defend heterosexuals and their sexuality against homosexuals is beyond me. I really don't get it.

And DOGGING is purely heterosexual. The gay version is called COTTAGING.

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by Anonymousreply 59January 19, 2012 1:06 AM

Yall some hoes up in here.

by Anonymousreply 60January 19, 2012 1:12 AM

Don't do it. I did it and ended up getting raped - and pregnant.

by Anonymousreply 61January 19, 2012 1:26 AM

Those were the days, young, hung and full of cum. A complete workout always included a quick "o" with a fellow hottie, in the steamer.

by Anonymousreply 62January 19, 2012 1:29 AM

ew, gross. have some self respect and for others. I am glad I wasnt around back in the 70s. Degenerate stuff.

by Anonymousreply 63January 19, 2012 2:40 AM

I sucked off a guy in the steam room last night. Big thick black cock, just what my mouth had been watering for. I think he's on the DL, cuz I've seen him working out with some chick who looks to be his gf. He seemed very affectionate. As I was on my knees servicing him, he kept stroking my face and hair. It was hot. When I think about him and his gf, I giggle at the fact that he probably went home and fucked her with my saliva on his dick. LOL

by Anonymousreply 64January 19, 2012 5:11 PM

"I remember a few years ago at a Bally's in NY. The showers face each other with curtains. This one guy across from me kept bending down to present his hole and began fingering himself. The guy in the stall next to me noticed and went on a homophobic rant, calling the guy a fag and claiming that he probably has AIDS. Although the gay guy probably shouldn't have been fingering himself, the straight guy went way over the top. I felt sorry for the gay guy. Management threw him out and revoked his member, while the homophobe got to stay."

So do a lot of people there not close the curtains when they shower, r55, or was that just part of this one dude's come-on behavior?

by Anonymousreply 65January 19, 2012 5:57 PM

Most men don't bother with the curtains at many gyms. Straight and gay alike curtains are often left open.

by Anonymousreply 66January 19, 2012 6:22 PM

None of the Ballys in NY has curtains. They're all open stalls facing each other, except for the Chelsea location which has doors half-way up and down the stall, so you can see the action but still have your goodies covered.

by Anonymousreply 67January 19, 2012 6:25 PM

R53, in fairness, it did seem that the lady would usually drag the fellow into the ladies room though I'm not saying it was always that way.

by Anonymousreply 68January 19, 2012 6:43 PM

So at the several weddings where you witnessed this behavior among straight people, did the couples know each other beforehand r68?

You caught a woman getting laid in the ladies room, so you're a female right? Or, you're a guy but you heard about it because ... all your straight macho guy friends brag about fucking skanks in restrooms at a wedding, or the women brag about snagging cock at a wedding?

I am doubting this ever happened.

by Anonymousreply 69January 19, 2012 7:19 PM

Liar at R68. You never saw any fucking, just drug use.

by Anonymousreply 70January 19, 2012 7:19 PM

I've noticed the 'towel dance' seems to be happening more and more in the past year or so. I think it's funny, but it's also kind of sad that people feel either ashamed of their bodies or victimized by leering trolls.

by Anonymousreply 71January 20, 2012 6:30 AM

Oh R69, you're so naive.

Get yourself to a Hostess Going Out Of Business Sale already.

by Anonymousreply 72January 20, 2012 12:15 PM

At my gym the guys doing the towel dance are often the ones jerking off in the shower.

by Anonymousreply 73January 21, 2012 5:05 PM

Speaking of the towel dance, its funny how some guy that you've just blown/rimmed/had mutual jo with/and, or fucked/been fucked by will all of a sudden get shy in the dressing room of a gym or sex club afterwards.

I was recently in a bath house in Tokyo and had a great time with this tattooed Japanese guy. Afterwards, we were both in the locker area - no one else around, and he did the towel dance as he put his underwear on. We just finished blowing/rimming each other and NOW you get shy?

Re; gyms. I've hooked up several times at a popular gym in Tokyo, which is/was pretty much known for sexual activity going on. One morning, this Japanese guy was in the shower stall across from me on the floor with his legs up over his shoulders fingering his hole. A+ for effort but it was a little over the uh... top. I did nothing with him, but there was the occasional brave soul that would come right into the stall with me or reach their hands around close to the wall and into my stall looking to jerk me off.

Then there were the guys who spent all their time in the showers. You'd never see them actually working out - but they were constantly either in the showers or in the locker room.

I met a pathological liar once in the whirlpool who started playing footsie with me. He was hot, built and we went back to my place. Turns out that nothing that he said was true so we only had sex twice but it was pretty hot.

Good times!

by Anonymousreply 74January 21, 2012 8:19 PM

In my younger days I was cruised incessantly. Of course I rebuffed almost all advances.

I'm more predator than prey. That's probably why.

by Anonymousreply 75January 21, 2012 9:49 PM

Last week I was in the locker room of my gym with this amazingly hot guy who was just finishing a swim. I'm 32, in good shape but nothing compared to this guy, I'd say he was 24 with the best ass and abs I've ever seen. Anyway, he went to take a piss and I was at the sinks. He leaned back from the urinal and basically showed me his impressive dick while he was peeing.

Then a few days ago I walk into the locker room after worrying out. He is in there buck naked again about to shower. He got to the showers before me and went into the farthest away shower stall but he put his towel on the hook on the one across from it. He now had to walk back and forth across the shower room to get his towel. He moved back and forth between the two stalls a few times. I watched from behind my shower curtain, aroused and confused.

We both were back in the locker room after showering. He was dressed first and when he went to leave he says to me "take care man". I said " see ya". We have never spoken before.

My question is: was he cruising me? Did he notice me looking at him and wanted to acknowledge that he knew I was staring? Or does he sound like he's just an exhibitionist? I want to hook up with him but not sure if he even pings.

by Anonymousreply 76January 22, 2012 12:35 AM

R76. He sounds like an exhibitionist who is glad he has found such an eager fan.

by Anonymousreply 77January 22, 2012 5:42 AM

[quote]I just joined a gym but, haven't gotten any action yet. I'm beginning to think this was a waste of time and money.

Before joining any gym, you need to read their Yelp reviews to see if it's a waste of time and money. See what the other customers are saying.

by Anonymousreply 78January 22, 2012 10:53 AM

Yelp is the WORST source of reviews. Hysterical Brittanies will be glowing over a gym because of their crush on a yoga teacher or trainer.

They are usually wrong and never objective.

Go and see the gym for yourself, ignore the yelpers.

by Anonymousreply 79January 22, 2012 4:56 PM

r61, is that some kind of sick joke? if not, I'm sorry, but i can't imagine this happening.

by Anonymousreply 80January 22, 2012 7:37 PM

ugly guys are the only ones trolling for sex in the gym. sickos

by Anonymousreply 81February 1, 2012 3:44 AM

and another nysc and troll search result.

by Anonymousreply 82July 13, 2012 10:14 PM

there were some very hot guys at the gym tonight and i had fun stroking cocks with them in the steam room -- i have to admit i enjoy the anticipation and the camaraderie. when you have a critical mass of gym fit guys who want to beat off together, and there are a number of other guys there who you know want to watch (not block the action), i think it's even better than the scene you would get at a sex club or bathhouse. i was flattered by the cute latin boy there who wanted to flirt with me and suck my cock.

what does it say about me that i enjoy the ongoing conquest of strangers?

by Anonymousreply 83February 23, 2013 3:19 AM

How do you talk to heteroflexible dudes that flirt with you at the gym?

by Anonymousreply 84October 7, 2013 5:14 PM

Acme Chop House, San Francisco, slow Saturday afternoon. Friend and I are getting nicely hammered at the bar while a hetero couple does the same at the opposite end of the bar. Woman stumbles off the bar stool and walks off towards the restrooms. Short time later, the guy, trying to look casual, walks off in the same direction. I had to piss, and I was curious so I waited a couple of minutes and went off to the men's room myself. Nobody in there, so I finished and went back to the bar. Str8 couple is nowhere to be seen.

Just when we think they must've skipped out on their tab through a back door, some middle-aged woman comes screaming out of the ladies room about a couple that is 'being completely inappropriate'. Female manager rolls her eyes, goes into the ladies room, drags the couple out, collects their tab, and shows them the door. Bartender tell us it happens all the time. My feeling is that their mistake was choosing the ladies room, not the mens room, as most guys would just laugh it off if they heard hetero fucking in the next stall.

So, yeah, straights do it in public too.

by Anonymousreply 85October 7, 2013 9:43 PM

The dudes on the basketball court are the hottest. Shoot hoops and meet hot dudes.

by Anonymousreply 86October 12, 2013 4:12 PM

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by Anonymousreply 87January 25, 2014 9:43 PM

dd

by Anonymousreply 88June 21, 2014 5:01 PM

Tired. Real tired.

by Anonymousreply 89June 21, 2014 5:07 PM

In my gym there are guys that seem gay and they (we) mostly get in, work out, shower up, leave. If you want a peek, no big deal.

The trolly guys just seem uber creepy. Don't really work out, ogle/glare at people (do you think you're invisible?) Most seem closeted. Two at my gym are married, they work out with their wives.

by Anonymousreply 90June 21, 2014 5:12 PM

The widespread perception is that the trolley dudes who lurk in the lockeroom or parade around naked are gross, unattractive, or perverted. The hot dudes are almost never engaging in that type of sketchy behavior.

by Anonymousreply 91June 21, 2014 5:18 PM

R91 speaks the sad truth

by Anonymousreply 92June 21, 2014 5:24 PM

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by Anonymousreply 93June 27, 2014 2:50 PM

How do you know that women don't like sex in public. As far as bath houses and places like that there just are none for women. Society will not allow women to be free sexually like that.

I just learned from a gay friend of mine that New Orleans have a bath house and I would love to go, but since I am a female I can't. I do think that it is unfair.

by Anonymousreply 94June 27, 2014 3:27 PM

[quote]The hot dudes are almost never engaging in that type of sketchy behavior.

Maybe you should try a different gym.

by Anonymousreply 95July 5, 2014 4:45 PM

R94, just pretend you had trans surgeries and changed your damn mind.

by Anonymousreply 96July 5, 2014 4:55 PM

trashy sex addicts

by Anonymousreply 97August 5, 2014 3:05 AM

Some people lack the morals of sewer rats.

by Anonymousreply 98September 6, 2014 3:03 PM

[quote]Nothing like this ever goes on in the womens locker room, this is why the strait guys put on their underwear under their towel.

Not just the straight guys. Fuck I'm sick of my gym as a bathhouse.

by Anonymousreply 99September 6, 2014 3:08 PM

Yes R99. Cruising/trolling gays should not conflate gyms and bathhouses. Maybe specifically gay gyms where steam room or locker room sex is accepted would be okay, but otherwise, leave the gyms for those who come for fitness, not sex. That includes gays and straights.

by Anonymousreply 100September 6, 2014 3:18 PM

I think the difference between straight people and and gay men as far as sex in public places goes is that gay men deliberately go out to find sex in gyms, parks, wherever, whereas for straight people it tends to be one thing leading to another.

Would a straight woman start a thread on a forum asking how to get sex at her gym? Would she think it was a waste of time and money to join a gym but not get any sex at it?

R79, I wouldn't expect there to be many Yelp reviews for which gyms to have sex in.

by Anonymousreply 101September 6, 2014 3:20 PM

[quote]The hot dudes are almost never engaging in that type of sketchy behavior.

Keep working out and maybe they'll think you're worth trying for.

by Anonymousreply 102September 7, 2014 5:46 PM

I once had a friend ask me if there are public cruising areas for lesbians like there are for gay men. As if women operate like that at all.

by Anonymousreply 103September 7, 2014 5:51 PM

have some morals, dudes

by Anonymousreply 104September 27, 2014 6:21 AM

OP, you are why they HATE US. Well, you and Frankie Grande.

by Anonymousreply 105September 27, 2014 7:06 AM

I can't help but feel bad for the poor guy who goes into the sauna to relax after his workout and ends up sitting in some perv's leavings.

by Anonymousreply 106September 27, 2014 3:45 PM

In a public space like the gym?

Why don't you herpes-ridden perverts do it in the middle of I-95?

by Anonymousreply 107September 28, 2014 3:22 AM

R105? Let it go.

by Anonymousreply 108September 28, 2014 3:29 AM

[quote]Why don't you herpes-ridden perverts do it in the middle of I-95?

I-95 is too far from Omaha so we won't intrude on your cruising ground.

by Anonymousreply 109September 29, 2014 5:43 PM

gross

by Anonymousreply 110October 10, 2014 4:39 AM

meet him in the sauna

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by Anonymousreply 111October 10, 2014 10:03 PM

yum!

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by Anonymousreply 112October 10, 2014 10:05 PM

I've had hotter sex at the gym than the bathhouse.

by Anonymousreply 113October 11, 2014 12:00 AM

WHat dym?

by Anonymousreply 114October 11, 2014 10:31 AM

R114, get help, dude,

by Anonymousreply 115October 11, 2014 12:48 PM

Vintage gym muscle rub

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by Anonymousreply 116October 11, 2014 4:18 PM

I've always thought that David Barton gyms are essentially bathhouses disguised as gyms. Is that true?

by Anonymousreply 117October 11, 2014 4:45 PM

d

by Anonymousreply 118October 27, 2014 2:10 AM

It depends on the location and the staff R117.

by Anonymousreply 119November 6, 2014 7:47 PM

It's exciting and fun, and you know what you're getting.

by Anonymousreply 120November 6, 2014 7:56 PM

Another sleazy gym lizard.

by Anonymousreply 121November 6, 2014 7:56 PM

Did somebody say, "curtains?"

by Anonymousreply 122November 7, 2014 12:20 AM

I've never done anything at the gym, but I have invited guys home, and been invited likewise if there was a spark.

It's not a bathhouse. I go to those too.

by Anonymousreply 123November 7, 2014 12:26 AM

This thread is infested with mincing, nelly sex-negatives.

by Anonymousreply 124November 7, 2014 12:33 AM

So, to summarize:

1. The wet areas are the places you'll most likely find sexual action at the gym. Look for places where you can stop unwanted parties from joining in, such as closed-curtain showers and single-use restrooms (I've even messed around in bathroom stalls).

2. Straight couples hookup in the wet areas occasionally, too, but nowhere nearly as often as men having sex with men.

MANY straight women come to coed jacuzzis in bikinis, ready to socialize and PLENTY of straight men oblige them. Especially evenings on the weekends. They flirt, cuddle, kiss, make out, etc. LOTS of couples who already know each other do this regularly at my gym. They use the coed steam room for this, as well.

I once witnessed a heterosexual couple using THE SWIMMING POOL WHILE SWIMMING to frontage each other!

They were socializing loudly and laughing, swimming on top of each other, back and forth in the swimming pool for 30 minutes, groping and humping through swimwear, before the gym staff had to intervene. They were thrown out!

3. Very hot, openly gay men tend to avoid cruising and hooking up this way, whereas trolls are shamelessly always there.

I think the "A gays" at the gym have plenty of better options constantly without having to resort to gym sex. Plus, they're more closely watched and judged. Plus, they would set off a maelstrom. Whatever the case, hot gay men are usually too proud to suck and fuck in the sauna.

4. Hate or shame those of us who've cruised and hooked up in public spaces all you want. The truth is, most of us ARE respectful of innocent gym-goers who don't want to see this activity in public spaces. We, the fuckers, almost always take pains to ensure that nobody sees or experiences this activity who isn't on-board.

We do this by checking for visual confirmation (seductive stares) plus physical confirmation (self crotch grabs) from all parties present before going to town. We also try to seclude ourselves in areas sectioned off from the public or closed doors where the uninvited won't see or roam.

In every cursing situation I've ever witnessed, the participants all pulled up their pants and shut the behavior down if a stranger entered the premises.

by Anonymousreply 125November 7, 2014 12:53 AM

There are people who go to the gym only to hook up.

by Anonymousreply 126November 7, 2014 5:03 PM

Have some morals and self-respect.

by Anonymousreply 127November 13, 2014 12:00 PM

Gross

by Anonymousreply 128April 17, 2016 1:23 PM

Hmmmm

by Anonymousreply 129April 18, 2017 2:04 AM

I suppose it was another era of lower security. I studied in Geneva and Paris and I was poor and always used the gyms in luxury hotels. I just walked in and used them. Things were sleepier. Pools, saunas, weight rooms, they were empty. This was before they all built "spas". The Ritz in Paris was good. Often empty in the basement. A couple hotels in Geneva. Strangest thing was extremely rich young men from oppressive cultures assumed I was the trainer. I was tall and buff and handsome. A couple of times I was asked for "massage" and I played along and we fucked. It was a kick.

by Anonymousreply 130April 18, 2017 2:37 AM

Sad and pitiful

by Anonymousreply 131April 18, 2017 2:39 AM

I got fucked on the steam room on Sunday. Gym was empty due to Easter, so we had some privacy. It was condomless, since I'm on PrEP. Jealous?

by Anonymousreply 132April 18, 2017 2:44 AM

I always peek into the sauna/steam room at my gym before opening the door, and there's usually guys jerking each other off. The second the door starts to open, everyone covers up. I've seen oral and only one time did I see anal. I've participated in the jacking, won't do oral with strangers and think anal in the gym is gross. If someone ugly enters, all action stops. Every so often a straight guy comes in and everyone covers up before he can realize what's going on. It's usually pretty easy to tell who's straight because the gay guys keep the towels open far enough to get a glimpse of a semi erect penis and look everyone in the eye.

by Anonymousreply 133April 18, 2017 4:00 AM

R44 I would never do this, but I could see it. They literally think they're indestructible and that their cum should just be taken by somebody every day like some sort of garbage service.

by Anonymousreply 134March 4, 2020 3:18 AM

What???

by Anonymousreply 135April 13, 2021 11:58 AM

R134 weird spam troll - just a reminder to fuck off for bumping stupid old threads

by Anonymousreply 136April 13, 2021 12:00 PM

Pre-COVID, the sauna or steam room in any New York Sports Club was prime cruising grounds. In our past pre-pandemic lives when we all actually went to work, I would work out 3-4 of them at either the NYSC on 49th and Broadway or the one on 44th and 5th and I would say roughly 90% of those workouts ended with getting off in the sauna, usually with more than one other guy. If you weren't in there to cruise, you were clearly in the minority. And the quality of guys was often pretty good. Sure, there were trolls, some more obnoxious than others... but being a good looking and fit guy, I often had no trouble getting off with other built and attractive men. I miss those days!

by Anonymousreply 137April 13, 2021 12:34 PM

bump

by Anonymousreply 138February 11, 2022 9:41 PM

Ok here is how you hook up in the steam/sauna at the gym:

1. When sitting down, your towel should never been full closed. The top of your towel should barley cover your package and part of your ass should be slightly showing from the side, but in a way that just looks casual.

2. Follow the lead of the other guy. If he scratches his balls, you scratch your balls. If you mirror, it should escalate quickly or you'll tell if it's a one off.

3. If you are both shy and you want to take the lead while being discreet, see item #1, take to top of the loose towel and wipe your face showing your cock and balls, but looking like you are getting the sweat out of your space. Usually the other guy will either mirror, spread, or if doing no response, he's probably a no go.

4. Always be on the look out. If someone comes in, immediately stop and look natural. If the guy is gay and hot, he might just sit down and either have his towel open or maybe adjust himself to show he;s interested. If everyone is comfortable you can continue jerking off, otherwise abort.

5. The handicapped shower with the curtain is where you can go if you are more advanced and fearless. I have seen guys full this off and even glad door shower stalls. It also depends on your city and gym vibe.:

6. Phones are not permitted in the sauna/steam most places, but there might be the oblivious douche bro who doesn't care. Never do anything if someone has a phone in the sauna. You have to play it straight.

7. You can clear a sauna of people by putting your arms on your legs and letting the sweat drip onto the bench below. This only works in a sauna where you can hear the sweat drops. It even grosses me out, but I have found this can clear the other person.

by Anonymousreply 139February 12, 2022 12:47 AM

Don't make some poor guy sit or step in your jizz or santorum.

by Anonymousreply 140February 12, 2022 1:56 AM

Try this

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by Anonymousreply 141April 25, 2022 2:19 AM

The Anytime Fitness I belong too has two individual bathrooms with showers. I always thought they would make a cool place for a late night hook up. Fuck in the shower etc., but I think that would be a crummy thing to do to the owner. This is his livelihood and I don’t want to be responsible for the place picking up a bad reputation.

by Anonymousreply 142April 25, 2022 2:25 AM

Be better

by Anonymousreply 143February 20, 2023 3:44 PM

OP is Defacto and he’s not getting any action at the gym because he looks like he has a Cornish game hen superglued between his eyes. That and micropeen.

by Anonymousreply 144February 20, 2023 3:49 PM

I was 10 years old when this thread started.

by Anonymousreply 145February 20, 2023 3:52 PM

Who is De Facto?

by Anonymousreply 146February 20, 2023 3:59 PM

Well, have most gym saunas and steamrooms in various countries reopened after the Covid shutdowns?

Or never will at this point?

by Anonymousreply 147February 20, 2023 4:05 PM

r145 = Catherine Zeta-Jones

by Anonymousreply 148February 20, 2023 4:07 PM

They're all open around here, R147. The only change has been the installation of shower doors on all the stalls. Nobody uses them anymore...

by Anonymousreply 149February 20, 2023 4:54 PM

I’m not there to hook up with trash

by Anonymousreply 150February 20, 2023 5:29 PM

I've seen it at my old gym in Chicago. But people didn't blow their loads all over the place. People were tidy. Some of your crusty old queens will invite some methed out pyscho into your home off grindr but you wouldn't lend a handjob to the hot and hung investment banker in the Equinox steam room. Who's the freak?

by Anonymousreply 151February 20, 2023 6:25 PM

[quote] I’m not there to hook up with trash

Me neither!

I’m there to hook up with the other hotties.

by Anonymousreply 152February 20, 2023 8:09 PM

You mean guys at high risk of STDs

by Anonymousreply 153February 20, 2023 8:15 PM

Are you typing from the 1980s?

What makes where you meet someone a difference in their potential to have STDs?

You type homophobic.

by Anonymousreply 154February 20, 2023 8:35 PM

You type homophobic because you associate linking up with random strangers to have public sex with being gay.

by Anonymousreply 155February 20, 2023 8:44 PM

Moreover, you don’t have to be an epidemiologist or CDC expert to know that having sex with random people who likely have not been exactly selective or discriminating in sexual partners or conduct is inherently risky, unwise behavior.

by Anonymousreply 156February 20, 2023 8:46 PM

A person having sex in a public place is likely someone with sexual addiction and compulsive disorder. They likely also have substance abuse issues. All those are factors in contracting STIs.

by Anonymousreply 157February 20, 2023 8:48 PM

If Someone is so desperate and out of control to have sex with you in a gym, or similar Publix place, why would you think they have been wise and careful with all their previous sexual conduct?

by Anonymousreply 158February 20, 2023 8:50 PM

Most people who hook up in the locker room are not having anal or oral to completion. It's almost always jerking each other. And half the time no one comes. So I think all this STD scare talk is misplaced.

by Anonymousreply 159February 20, 2023 9:34 PM

Well, we all know that oral isn't sex.

by Anonymousreply 160February 20, 2023 9:38 PM

Steam rooms were made for jacking off among gay and straight men. If you're offended, stay out.

by Anonymousreply 161February 20, 2023 9:59 PM

^ Seriously?

by Anonymousreply 162February 20, 2023 11:47 PM

Yes, seriously.

by Anonymousreply 163February 21, 2023 1:07 AM

Smh

by Anonymousreply 164February 21, 2023 1:22 AM

[quote] to have sex with you in a gym, or similar Publix place

Are you the cumdump behind the salad bar at my local grocery? Mind keeping your creamy goodness away from the actual ranch dressing?

by Anonymousreply 165February 21, 2023 1:25 AM

The sanctimony of you whores never fails to amaze me.

What you're doing is inappropriate. Full stop. I'm not saying don't do it, I'm not denying what happens to men when their brain transfers to the end of their dicks. Go for it. I get it. But the entitlement is astounding. No, it's not the right place to do it. Normal people know that. Again, I'm not saying don't just stop kidding yourselves or demanding the rest of us tell you it's OK. It isn't.

by Anonymousreply 166February 21, 2023 3:41 PM

[quote] Full stop.

*eyeroll*

by Anonymousreply 167February 21, 2023 4:22 PM

[quote] or demanding the rest of us tell you it's OK. It isn't.

Ain’t nobody asked for your permission.

by Anonymousreply 168February 21, 2023 4:23 PM

There is absolutely ZERO health benefit to the steam room. Any “study” you may link is junk, so don’t even try.

The only reason to go to the steam room is to jerk off. The cock blocks (either the trolls who know they’re dick wilters or the guys who don’t participate) are the wrong ones here.

by Anonymousreply 169February 21, 2023 9:47 PM

The vast majority of people who go into gym Steam rooms do not jerk off there. You’re delusional

by Anonymousreply 170February 21, 2023 9:49 PM

R170,

I don’t know which gym you go to, but the gyms I go to often have about 5-6 guys trying to get off and then one comes in and puts an end to it.

Perhaps you have no situational awareness.

by Anonymousreply 171February 21, 2023 10:07 PM

No gym designer or gym company says lets add a steam room so people can jerk off. That's such idiotic thinking there's not much more to say.

From a P&L perspective, why they do it I don't know. It's a useless cost and causes more trouble than its worth.

by Anonymousreply 172February 22, 2023 1:01 PM

Steam rooms in NYSC , pre-COVID, we're Epic. I've seen guys doing anal, sucked off, makeout....! I've participated and it's almost every time I was in a steam room there. Many NYSC gyms have closed down now.....

by Anonymousreply 173February 22, 2023 2:10 PM

Ewww

by Anonymousreply 174February 22, 2023 2:13 PM

R173,

EQX is still busy.

by Anonymousreply 175February 22, 2023 2:13 PM

R165 if ur gay & u frequent EQX

ur toxic

by Anonymousreply 176February 22, 2023 2:29 PM

Why R176?

by Anonymousreply 177February 22, 2023 2:30 PM

bc eqx owner donate to trump and a trump fundraiser R177

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by Anonymousreply 178February 22, 2023 2:38 PM

His politics don't matter when you get Chlamydia from a hot guy in his steam room until someone interrupts. Jeez, priorities, standards.

by Anonymousreply 179February 22, 2023 2:43 PM

r179 it does when ur gay dollars go into his trump donation via the insanely overpriced eqx bill monthly

by Anonymousreply 180February 22, 2023 3:36 PM

Which gym in NYC would you recommend? None of the gyms with multiple locations are as clean. NYSC smells like a homeless shelter.

by Anonymousreply 181February 22, 2023 9:44 PM

Those last few coments are from gross fatties who can't get any...at the gym or anywhere. I've been trolling my gym/s for years. Plus, I also enjoy tee-room "fun". It' mostly mutal masterbation, sucking, and maybe rimming. NEVER fucking. Recently I've SEEN guys fuck in the gym sauna. It's hot, but. cum on! Guess what? I can't even remember the last time I had an STD...but I do remember the doctor saying " Did you have sex in the front or the back?" I answered " Seat of the car?"

by Anonymousreply 182February 27, 2023 6:42 PM

Hooking up a tthe gym is like dessert after a nice meal! Its the reward for working out! NYSC, despite all its shortcomings, is the best to hookup in its saunas. Very few have a steam room now as they used to break down constantly. If there are both, steam and sauna rooms, its double the size of the playing ground.

by Anonymousreply 183March 2, 2023 9:26 PM
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