What is it like?
Do they just lie there and expect you to do all the work?
Depends, but a lot are bottoms. You should try it sometime.
most are bottoms in my opinion. little children at heart. very simple
An acquaintance used to serve as a massage therapist and photographer at meets just so he could get his hands and mouth on the men - he'd bronze them up and work out their kinks and worship them. A blow jobbers delight, and since he looked like a flop-sweat Santa Claus they never took umbrage.
He branched out into massaging muscle porn and actor types - his claim to fame was sucking off Jeff Stryker when he was in his glory moment and blowing Lorenzo Lamas.
So in this case it was all service. I mention him because he built his life around it - an extreme case.
As for me - I've enjoyed relationships with muscular men, but not "bodybuilders," who have always seemed conflicted even when they want to get together. The narcissism and underlying lack of confidence don't make for a good combination. They want you to make the move - I had one guy stand outside his van for half an hour at night trying to get me to ask him to step inside it - uh, coy boy. No.
When you stick it in them, whisper in their ear, "No pain, no gain."
"and blowing Lorenzo Lamas"
Lorenzo was/is bi? That may explain the cookie-cutter types of female companionship he favors (eg. his ex Shauna Sand).
I have had a few. Most of them are not good at love making. All of them are self-centered. The interesting thing is, most of them are either average or below average when it comes to inches. I wonder if it is my luck (lack of it) or there is something with bodybuiders.
Oh, the other thing is, most of them are below six feet. -- just an observation.
I've only had one experience with a bodybuilder and it's exactly what r6 said.
R6 speaks the truth. Tiny meat and mostly bottoms. Not real intelligent, but if you are just having sex, rocket science is not really something to talk about.
I've never dated a bodybuilder. Because of their lack of confidence, they tend to only date fugly guys, it helps to boost their ego.
So that counts me out.
Get a load of R3.
I've had a lot of experience with bodybuilders. I'll agree with r6 that most bodybuilders are not attentive lovers. In general, they are very arrogant even if they are nice guys. If you want to sleep with a bodybuilder, the easiest way to make it happen is endlessly complementing their bodies. Even while fucking. They light up when you tell them how they look like Roman statues or how you don't understand how they can find clothes that fit.
In my experience, most are not bottoms. I'm top/vers usually, and out of around 20 muscleheads, I've only topped 3.
Of the guys I've been with, dick sizes span below average to slightly above average. None of them have had huge endowments, some have had smaller than average, but most were just adequate. I would not get with a bodybuilder with the expectation that he was hugely endowed. If you are like me, though, it doesn't really matter. I'm more into face and body than dick.
I dated a bodybuilder 2 times, but didn't have sex with him. No chemistry with him whatsoever, plus he called 20 times on my caller ID.
I've been with a couple of professionals, and I have since lost my interest in that type after my experiences. They were both too into themselves, very vain and self-involved, and very bad lovers. One of them had trouble cumming, had this problem for years, said it was a real nightmare for him, thought I could be the one who could make it happen. He kept his dick up for hours, but no cum. He said he did it when he jerked off, but never in front of another man. He was into sucking me off big time, but nothing spectacular to offer in that front. If there anything more to him personality-wise, it might not have mattered.
Most of these responses ares bogus. You haven't been with bodybuilders. I haven't been with a bodybuilder yet but I am bodybuilding and will compete soon. Bodybuilding breeds confidence. I've experienced it. After a certain point in development you don't care if you are nude anywhere. Getting compliments is great. I think bodybuilders would be angry if their lovers don't appreciate the work it took to get a body they built. I can see how some see bodybuilders as self-centered because it is a 24/7 lifestyle if you are competing. The guys that compete monitor what they eat, how much they weigh, how many reps they do, how much they sleep etc.
R15 just proved the point most all the posters in this thread are making.
Have you started doing private posing/festish sessions yet, R15?
It depends if we're talking about actual competiton-level bodybuilders or just guys who muscle up a lot at the nearby gym. If competition-level, then ugh, it's like R15 said.
But in either case I have found the following tendencies:
- Amazing bodies to feel and explore
- Some flatulence issues due to their huge caloric/protein intakes
- Many are lazy/narcissist/inert sexually as R6 and others complain... but the ones who have tapped into their erotic/sex-partner potential can be interesting and hot. Especially re: kink. Extreme weight training requires intimate knowledge of pain and discomfort... BBers have the potential to make excellent BDSM bottoms (or tops if they have that energy)
Why do people think experiences with bodybuilders would be the same across the board? That wouldn't be true of any other bodytype? Even if you want to say the fact that they wok out obsessively is indicative of a common set of character traits, that wouldn't even be true.
Many bodybuilders are narcissists and exhibitionists. Their idea of hot sex is for them to stand still or make a pose while the other guys worship their muscles.
And they have extra tight ass muscles.
It's less fun than you'd think. There bodies are hard like statues and they are more fun if you're a muscle worshipper than if you are anyone else and want to cuddle as well as fuck them/be fucked by them.
They do tend to expect you to do all the work.
Indeed. I prefer a bit of chunk on my hunk as it has more give when at play. Total BBers are beautiful but too hard (and vain)
I've been with two body builders, one top who expected me to do all the work, and the other the complete opposite, a bottom who expected me to do all the work. Neither was at all interesting in bed -- if the lights were off, anyway.
The top, incidentally, was smaller than average, the bottom was much larger. Ah, irony.
r23 brings up a great point - some of them are so thick and solid that they are not flexible in bed at all. It's like trying to roll a huge boulder over.
The bodybuilders I have been with were not at all exciting in bed.
I used to be a bodybuilder. When I was in my prime shape, I would mostly just let guys blow me. You would be absolutely shocked and appalled at how forward and aggressive guys were about wanting to suck me off just because I was built. I almost never reciprocated. I'm far from narcissistic, but I realized these guys just wanted to worship my body, so I let them. I'm very well hung, btw.
I suffered some injuries from lifting, so gave up the heavy lifting.
I have a fuck buddy now who's a body builder. He's married with kids, but loves being used. I tie him up and just fuck his mouth and hole. He likes to feel humiliated and used. He doesn't want anyone to touch his body or his cock. Just his mouth and hole. He's hung average.
So...there's the story of two bodybuilders, and their experiences couldn't be any different. Ergo, you can't make any assumptions about what they might be like based on body type. people come in all shapes and sizes.
OMG, r15 - you have proved everyone's negative experience with narcissists like you. Too funny!!! Unless that is supposed to be a mock post.
I met most of my bodybuilders off CL. Had a huge fetish for them. After three or four experiences, they all proved they were duds in the bed. It soon cured me of my fetish, and I started to appreciate the more leaner male form.
Had sex with a bodybuilder in Boston and the sex was awful but we got along great otherwise. Really fun and nice guy but total bore in the kip.
[quote]You would be absolutely shocked and appalled at how forward and aggressive guys were about wanting to suck me off just because I was built.
Gawd, get over yourself. We're gay, nothing shocks us, everything appalls us. So what? You think you're the only guy people want to suck off? I'm a power lifter, have a really big build and plenty of strength to go with it, plenty of guys are turned on by that and want to blow me, want me to fuck them, be their daddy, etc. What's wrong with that? I love those oral freaks, they'll just suck and suck and lick my balls and slurp and suck for hours and then I stand up and cum all over their face. Big deal. They like to suck, I like to be sucked. There's nothing shocking or appalling about that.
Not to mention, if you have a big muscular physique OF COURSE guys are going to look at you. It might not be what you're looking for or what motivates you but it's silly to act like that's somehow SHOCKING!!
Get over yourself, ya Big Mary.
[quote]So what? You think you're the only guy people want to suck off? I'm a power lifter, have a really big build and plenty of strength to go with it, plenty of guys are turned on by that and want to blow me, want me to fuck them, be their daddy, etc.
I'm glad our bodybuilders are working so hard to disprove their stereotype as obnoxiously narcissistic.
"You would be absolutely shocked and appalled at how forward and aggressive guys were about wanting to suck me off just because I was built."
I am shocked and appalled!!!
Beat you to it, R32.
R31, that's not narcissism. That's reality.
Does sex with powerlifters count? Beefier but just as much narcissism.
I can't stand that 2% body fat look. Along with the fake tan. This is my ideal body. It' perfection to me. SFW
R3 need to be slapped [italic] QUITE [/italic] viciously.
You queens need to give hotgymnast.com a looksy. That guy brings ont he crazy.
Picked up a gorgeous one at a bar in Baltimore back in the '90s. Got him in bed and all he wanted to do was roll around (i.e. picking me up and rolling under me, over me, etc.). Plus, he kept asking me to say "I love you". I must have said it 1000 times before the big dumb fuck busted his nut, not sure I ever did. He left his wallet in my room - I had to call him and he had to come back and get it. That's the last thing you want from a bad one night stand, to actually have to SEE them again. Ugh all the way around.
don't know about farting. but ... bad breath. not too big of a deal since exploring parts other than his mouth was fun
Scaredy cats. Always ran away
[quote][R31], that's not narcissism. That's reality.
Yes indeed: for you, narcissism IS the whole of your reality.
Oh come on R43. If you haven't noticed that big guys with muscles get a lot of attention in the gay world, you haven't been paying attention.
Great tits on the guy in R13's pic
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I've slept with lots of them, and almost every one was a nutcase.
Have sex with one every time I'm on the West Coast. He's hot as hell, has done a fair amount of porn, has an ass to die for (and he loves me to eat it), cock and balls are small due steroids, but he's sexy as hell, gives great massages and loves my cock and balls.
R38/R39 = roid snorter from her pinky nail, wearing WWF caftan.
[quote]cock and balls are small due steroids,
Not true. Cock does not shrink from steroids. What else did you make up in your post?
In my experience, bodybuilders are just as diverse as the general populace. Some make great lovers, others are not so good. I don't think I can generalize about them.
For me, some of them have been wonderful. Others not. Just like with everyone else.
r51 is obviously a deranged troll. Fuck off r51 .
I'm not sure what R43 is trying to sell us but I'm not buying that he even knows what word narcissism means. I'm pretty sure he needs to get laid though.
Oh shut the fuck up, r46.
[quote]I'm not buying that he even knows what word narcissism means.
Oh, you don't know yourself what it means, do you honey?
Oh poor dear--how lost and frightened you must be here!
Um, bodybuilders are average to below average in dick size? Uh, you bitches havent seen Black Body Builders, huh!
According to R43 / R55, I have sex therefore I am narcissistic. Thanks for that. I thought it just meant I was sexually active.
Surprised no one has said it...the reason guys work on their bodies like this is usually because they:
1. are short
2. are ugly
3. are not hung
Pics please of said sex acts
As a pocket gay, I've been lucky to date big and short BBs. They seem to like having a little guy ride them. A few let me top them. great fun. one guy let me plow him doggie style while he crawled around on all fours. It was like an X-rated carnival ride.
I briefly dated a semi-professional bodybuilder years ago (he's still in the biz now), and he was pretty good in bed. Attentive. He was a cranky bitch when starving himself before competitions though.
Did yOu slap him?
Bodybuilders fuck like champs, unless they bottom
The bigger the boy, the bigger the bottom...
More about big boys
Gross, generally. If they're like this guy, sensibilities aside, sure. I've rarely seen guys this buff with big penises, to boot.
usually good bottoms. they can hold positions longer (cowboy etc.).
I haven´t fucked a bodybuilder, but i really would like to.
There are many reasons, i have already read in the posts:
a) they can hold positions longer
b) big tight muscle ass
c) hot phantasie to top a stronger and bigger Muscleguy
tell me more about your experience with bodybuilder bottoms.
PS: i hope we all speak about the same, meaning what a bodybuilder looks like..;-)
Are more of them smaller guys or bigger?
How did you contact them or what will help to find out, they like to be bottom or that they are straight/gay?
I would love to have sex with a bodybuilder.I would encorage all the time to vet bigger.I love seeing them flexing on stage. If I get to date one I would go to all his shows. I love huve muscle men.
If a bodybuilder see my posting let me know #65 here
i want to be fucked by 2 bodybuilders at once!
Well, SMELL Miss R9!
[bold] M.A.R.Y. [/bold]
I hope a bodbuilder respond to me. I would like to have a good time. Mark
My first BF was a bodybuilder. It was a huge disappointment for me since I as I was new to sex and wanted more than what I got. Somebody posted above something that I had the same experience with. He had a negative image of himself. Our sex was always me rubbing him all over with oil him flexing and then JO or rubbing our bodies together. I had to discuss and describe each muscle as I was rubbing him. Very boring for me. He had a small dick and he's not tall. He had an obsession about loosing his hair. He is gigantic today, over-developed - he looks like a super-hero cartoon. I have talked to his current BF and he has to do exactly what I used to.
When we talk on the phone I have to spend the first 10-15 minutes commenting on the most recent pictures of him. Still he's sweet in his own way, it just couldn't work for me. I am 6'5" and a big blond guy, I never had any issues about my body, was never pushed around.
Dated one for a few months. Fun to be seen in public with. He was always online trolling for encounters which he insisted went nowhere - but he had a CONSTANT need for adoration and approval. He had MAJOR daddy issues.
Dick was average (on such a big build, it just looked small). He LOVED to have his ass played with and craved prostate stimulation.
Is the sex good with a bodybuilder? Or, better than average?
r56 I wonder if that cock would paralyze a person, from being raped with it?
Body builders tend to be gassy and poor wipers. Good thing most of them are prissy enough to shave their cracks.
R79 - I think you described my "boyfriend?" to a T.
If there is a bodybuilder that reads this I would like to worship him.
But i still think they have the best asses to be used
Bump for all you whores that sucked off the bodybuilders love ya.
Anyone made a experience with bodybuilder escorts? mostly they are straight acting and have, so i think, thight holes and also hard butts ;-)
What we've learned here, phags, is that you should take the time to know a person's personality first. If he seems egotistical and boring, you can't expect the sex to be great lol. Talk about what he likes to do in bed...If you don't like the same things, it doesn't matter how hot the bodybuilder looks; you won't enjoy it.
I want a lesbian bobby builder female to luck my pussy
some more experiences?
The guy who was described in R3 - when is his book coming out?
Is Lorenzo Lamas as well hung as Daddy Fernando, who Esther Willians wrote had quite the impressive cock?
Depends. Just like sex with anybody else.
Can you luck my pussy?
dyslexic @ R89
"The bigger the muscles, the bigger the Mary!"
Always true. But if you're into Mary's then go for it.
[quote]Depends. Just like sex with anybody else.
I use Depends just like anybody else!!! Do boydbuilders?
My bodybuilder would fill my mouth with creatine farts. I would then "present" them into his mouth while he struck various poses. We would reexchange gases all night.
They look hot but the really big ones and the powerlifter types look really stiff and inflexable.I always thought Bob Paris was the ultimate stud,his boyfriend/ex-husband had a great body too but his face always looked odd.
Well, R98, he's out of prison now, so maybe he'd be up for it.
I would love a romp with Frank DeFeo or his bff Powerman Priest. I have dreams about those guys. In love with their own bodies. They have all the negative characteristics mentioned by everyone in this thread. .. Okay by me. I'd give it a try. Especially Frank. .. Anybody else got the hots for them?
I posted before, but forgot to say, in my experience at least (just one guy), he was well-endowed, black, orally giving, so what others say about them being terrible is not across the board.
I can't remember for sure, but I think Damon was short. Good looking, though, drove a Porsche (which was too loud and I wished he drove an Acura like everyone else back then) and was sponsored by a semi-famous rapper who lived in our area (this was 20 years ago). He was also reasonably intelligent. I'd never before met a guy who read the nutrition facts on the licorice package at the movie theater.
As it goes, I didn't feel chemistry with him, and beyond enjoying the body as a novelty, I wasn't too attracted. The body was stiff, not cuddly. He always wanted to fuck at the hot tubs, and he never expected me to pay for anything.
It might be true that he had low self-esteem? I'm definitely cute, but not smoking hot. When he hit me up at the gym to hook up again months after we faded, I turned him down. He did expect me to compliment his large TV (was a big deal 20 yrs ago) but I'm not the type to be impressed with toys.
When offseason, I hitting 280 at 6'2". So, I'm a huge bodybuilder. I do like muscle worship like most bb'ers. But as I am aggressive in the gym, I'm also that way in bed. I am a alpha male top and hardly have bottomed. I've only had to bottom for bigger bodybuilder buds than me.
R104 - we need pics.
Come back R104. Tell us more. Photo please.
Muscle queens bore me stiff. They are not as bad in bed as some are portraying but they are preferable to chubby men.I like a nice toned body but an overly built muscle queen looks exaggerated . In the same way that Nicole Kidman uses too much botox.....
I have had sex with two. one would cry at night sometimes, i never found out why.
the other was a raging drunk, the worst I've seen, and would call me in the middle of the night wanting to be gangbanged.
When I was 27 I had a fb who was 44 and had been a pro bodybuilder in his teens and 20's. Still had a bb build. He was bi (or so he said) and he loved for both of us (I was built like a brick shithouse back then but no bb) to put on speedos and posing trunks, stand in front of a mirror and flex. then we'd rub cocks, exchange massages and suck. never took the trunks off.. this was a turn on for him... we'd pull our cocks out of the leg opening. Used to tell me stories of how he'd go to bb competitions and would always hook up with another bb or they would be a group shower after a show and they guys would circle jerk. He got married about 10 yrs ago and moved away. Married a female bodybuilder who looks like a man. Go figure.
Be prepared to do ALL the work. They're mostly lazy bottoms used to having their muscle holes serviced.
Hairloss seems to be a big issue for body builders; maybe something to do with the steroids. I have had a couple who wore hair pieces. One was chill about his rug, but the other was very reluctant to acknowledge he was wearing. Touching his hair was strictly off limits, and he was always uneasy if it was windy or going in the sea in case it would give away his piece. The ironic thing was, it was fairly obvious anyway, because his side hair had receded and left his wig stranded and obvious looking.
Anyone else into the muscle mafia porn or muscle Matt? I've never bought one of their videos because they're insanely expensive but I have enjoyed the free stuff on myvidster. Supposedly him and his body builder friends get into cock worship from adoring fans. They never show their faces which can be frustrating but fascinating as well while you wait for a camera slip.
If I wanted a whole lot of issues, I'd subscribe to The New Yorker.
I dated a bodybuilder for a couple of days, but didn't have sex with him...he wasn't my type. And yes, he was a bottom!
[quote]Be prepared to do ALL the work. They're mostly lazy bottoms used to having their muscle holes serviced.
From past experience, you are 100% right.
WellI had a long term relationship with one, (two years) and dated a few others. First one was a total bottom, average meat but he was amazing in bed. Loved his ass eaten it made him purr like a kitty. He was very loving and attentive, loved to fall asleep spooning me.
I have yet to be with one who is an asshole. I was wtih one who had a huge cock, was a top, other two were bottoms average sized. Being they work out a lot - they have some really good stamina.
Any thoughts on the Mr. Olympia in October?
I think that Jay Cutler might make a good run for it, although Phil Heath has the more angular and shapely body.
Any opinions on Kai Greene? Does anyone here think he'll ever make it past third place? I love the guy, he's been poor his whole life but stays focused and determined. I do think that his hair style might be holding him back--it doesn't flatter him.
It's similar to humping a pleather sofa, except the conversation's not as good.
some of the Bodybuilders I've fooled around with have actually been kind of smart. but you just couldn't get them started on their workout routines.
I know a guy who is a bb and his husband is an amateur BB and they fucking wear board shorts now when they compete.
Board shorts? How unsexy.
I'm a bodybuilder. My real age is 58 but sometimes get taken for a college student. I work out a lot, so guys need to be patient and also flexible with my intense work out routine. I find that bros who are attracted to me tend to be college age, so they are busy too, so it's cool. Plus, they have the same sexual energy that I do, which is non-stop. Dudes who don't work out very much I tend to find them to be sloppy and have low testosterone. And, their loads are weak.
Young bros appreciate that I work out so much. I have a ton of energy so I like sex a lot. We relate to each other a lot, and I find I have more in common with bros who are 19 than dudes who are 50's. I tend to stay away from anybody who's 40 and older.
Man, you and your bros are made for each other, dude at R121.
r121 where is this fantasy land where you are 58 and mistaken for a college student?
I believe that it is a joke of some sort
I guess the only give-a-way must be your testicles hanging out of your board shorts r121
I don't get why BB's wear boardshorts now when they compete? Why so shy? I thought the point was to show off as much as possible.
[quote]My real age is 58 but sometimes get taken for a college student.
By the blind man who begs on the corner.
The old muscleservice message boards were an interesting community that was a jarring mix of good nutritional and weight training info, bitchy commentary rivaling DL, updates on the health of famous (to them) bodybuilders and LOTS of porn clips and info on muscle worship. I haven't been on in years so I have no idea if it is still like this now.
I believe the story from r121 was a parody.
Black muscle god Samson Biggs is the 8th wonder of the world.
Has the concept of sarcasm completely fled Datalounge? R121's post wasn't even subtle.
R121 is mistaken for a student of the Electoral College.
What a coincidence! I too am a 63-year-old bodybuilder who's constantly mistaken for a college student!
SamsonBiggs is type of dude I seek.
[quote]I'm a bodybuilder. My real age is 58 but sometimes get taken for a college student....I find that bros who are attracted to me tend to be college age... I find I have more in common with bros who are 19 than dudes who are 50's. I tend to stay away from anybody who's 40 and older.
Please tell us this a Tom Bianchi satire.
"My real age is 58 but sometimes get taken for a college student."
That's hilarious, bro.
I've had several encounters with a very sweet bodybuilder. He has a strong and a very nelly side. Extremely sensual - loves touch, great masseur, loves nasty talk, cum, but roids have shrunk his junk, and he's a total bottom.
I got fucked for hours by a body builder while on a biz trip to Las Vegas. I had to change my flight and stay in bed the next day to recover. Best sex ever.
[quote]roids have shrunk his junk,
They like to milk loads with their power glutes.
r142 where did you meet?
Jeff Stryker and Lorenzo Lamas are muscular, but not "body builders".
They're nice to look at and they have great munchable asses, but they're not much more than that.
Are any of the well know pros known to be gay/bi?
Arnold Schwartzenegger was a body builder, what does that tell you?
Fifi the maid
I'm right there with R140. He clearly abuses steroids, but Nick Steel/TJ Cummings is pretty damn hot. He was pretty twinky when he did gay porn in the late 90s, but now he's an aggressive muscle stud who does straight porn.
Oh, and he's also one those annoying assholes who tweets a thousand times a day.
I had sex with one and it was great.
He was very attentive. Very sensual. Everything about it was so erotic, even the way his big, fumbling hands slid off my manties before he took my penis in his mouth.
I fantasize about getting my juicy on with Zeb Atlas. His face and body are so masculine looking. Is he for rent?
500 a pop (r154)
Wow, that's a lot, r155. Do you know what his limits are? Is he strictly stand and pose, or can you suck him off? I heard he's straight, so I'm guessing fucking is out of the question.
Full service. But he won't bottom.
Anyone who spends so much of their life doing a rather pointless repetitive task merely to achieve a rather unnatural and temporary look has got to be incredibly boring by definition.
Well, r158, a lot of these guys make money escorting on the side, so I wouldn't exactly call it pointless.
My experience was pretty typical. He had a small dick and was a total bottom. I'm fine with both of those, but unfortunately he was a wet noodle in bed, which I wasn't fine with. All he wanted was his "pussy" worshiped.