Anyone here have any Str8 male friends who liked to get "pegged" by their wives/girlfriends?
Inquiring minds wanna know.
What does "pegged" mean?
Well then they're not straight then are they?
"Pegging" = ass-fucking with a strap-on
so interesting. 100% gay here and have no desire to get fucked.
So i believe you can be 100% straight and crave anal penetration but not be attracted to guys.
They're still having sex with a woman, not a man, R2.
There is a bizarre obsession with closeted gay men who claim to be straight (str8...eye roll) on this web site.
Some of my female friends talk about their boyfriends liking it, but none of my male friends are as upfront.
sure, some have admitted to liking a finger, but not a full-on pegging.
Don't rattle the "straight guys who fuck guys" cage, R2. That's a no-no in Datalounge. That's their ultimate imaginative fantasy.
then why do they want to be fucked up the ass by a penis like object then R5 Gaydegayitygaygay is what they are .
[quote]fucked up the ass by a penis like object then
Well you certainly can't be fucked by a vagina-shaped object, can you? Don't be so dense.
Prostates are not exclusive to gay men, R2.
If it feels good, people will do it.
[quote]So i believe you can be 100% straight and crave anal penetration but not be attracted to guys.
Of course. It's when they start sucking the dildo that I get suspicious.
Oh wait R10 I get it now that's why they do it.
This desire to be fucked by a large phallic object by a seemingly straight man is perfectly natural then.Thank you for clearing that up.
Straight men love cock.
Bi girl here, dated a guy who was ONLY interested in me pegging him. He didn't seem to think he was gay. And I'm not into anything anal. It didn't last for obvious reasons.
I suspect that any straight man with such proclivities would not be anxious to discuss his experiences with friends.
I don't think this really has to have anything to do with being gay - unless the object was truly a penis. In this case, I think it has more to do with loss of control, being dominated, being fully submissive to a woman and actually, being used.
Could be gay related, but doesn't have to be.
I used to work with a guy who was at least straight in practice, though we had a pretty flirty relationship. He told me that he had a suitcase full of anal sex toys that his girlfriend used on him.
Like many "straight" guys, he had enough gay curiosity that after a little alcohol to loosen the inhibitions, he let me know that he could probably be had. Didn't go there, though.
Thank you proving my point R18 "Straight" their ass they are.
At the very least they have to be bi.
This thread BORES me, and Im an exclusive top.
It really is as simple as that R11.
It is so sad when gay men don't understand what being gay means. Being gay means you are attracted to men (and not women). It has NOTHING to do with whether or not it feels good when your prostate is stimulated.
R21, of course. BUT...men who are gay want their prostates stimulated by MEN. Men who are straight want their prostates stimulated by WOMEN. That's it. End of story. A LOT of gay men fail to understand this. They are not stimulating the prostates of straight men as much as this turns them off.
I didn't prove your point, R19. I just gave one anecdote about one guy who was functionally heterosexual in practice, but who also had some level of bi-curiosity. I have no idea if he ever actually followed through.
I think there are plenty of men who are not sexually attracted to other men, but who also like to have their prostates pleasured.
yes you did R23 even if you don't realize it.
No sweetie. A single example can not ever do that.
One of my oldest, straightest male friends has admitted to liking it when his wife fingers his ass during a blow job.
He had never had it done before, and she just sort of surprised him with it....now it is part of their day-to-day.
And there is nothing gay about him at all.
My VERY straight best friend loves for his GF to fuck him. He's pretty open about it too.
In my 20 years of being out, I've met, and had sex with, several guys that seem 99% straight. They just liked me, thought I was hot, and decided to give it a shot. Only one of them ever eventually came out as gay, and most of the rest are happily married. People that believe that one sexual encounter with a man makes a guy gay for life are delusional and don't know what they're talking about. If that were true, half the population of people under 40 would be gay.
I know two quite well. We've even compared notes whn drunk. They're still straight though
R27, you are THAT hot. I agree.
BUT...these were not straight, bisexual or gay. deal with it, babe. I know it pains you and it lowers your ego about how hot you are, but you need to realize that these were gay or bisexual men who not only fucked you, but lots, and LOTS of other guys too. You just never knew about it.
bi and in denial the lot of them.
They remind of men in prison who go gay for the duration of their sentence "cuz it doesn't count when you're inside".Yeah I bet it doesn't
These sexual scientists who call themselves "straight" have many test tubes, and many labratories that only employee men. They are experimenting often, always, and forever.
Dr. Str8, PhD
I heard Prince Albert got pegged by Pink during a threeway with Christina Aguilara after one of the World Music Award shows.
R30, those guys have gay sex in prison, and out of prison. You know it.
Wow. How completely clueless some of you are. 99 times out of a 100 a straight man will not admit to another man if he likes even a finger in his ass.
It usually is the female that will talk about it with other women.
R11 speaks the truth and if some of you can't grasp that then you are truly dim and shortsighted.
Is a lesbian who gets fucked by a woman wearing a strap-on straight? Does a gay man who only tops, putting his dick into "vagina-like" mouths and asses, secretly want to be straight?
Your sexuality does not change the myriad ways your body can experience pleasure. Sad that these straight guys are more open minded than some queer men.
Men who seek out sex with men are gay or bisexual. Period.
[quote]Does a gay man who only tops, putting his dick into "vagina-like" mouths and asses, secretly want to be straight?
That makes no sense.
If a straight man is into kink, like having his ass fingered, he will seek out a female to do such things. No men.
I'm not disagreeing with you, R37. I'm replying to the argument that by allowing a phallic sex object to give him pleasure, he is automatically gay.
I could contribute I guess, but I can't get past cringing at the idea of a woman't long fingernail up in my cooter.
all I know is your all GAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY.
R39, if you're going to stick your fingers into someone, male or female, it's only polite to trim your fingernails. That's why most lesbians have short fingernails.
But straight women like their nails, and trimmed or not, it's like a. Knife. Blade.
I've been told by straight guys that they love getting nailed. So, yes to OP's question, but even more: they want the woman to command him. Smack him around, dominate him, and let him know what a filthy and shameful whore he is. And, yes, straight men love this.
[quote]I suspect that any straight man with such proclivities would not be anxious to discuss his experiences with friends.
they are if they're uptight douchebags. a lot of straight guys aren't that way
God, the people here that think that every man who has one or two sexual experiences with another man, or likes a finger or dildo up his ass, is gay are limited.
If every guy that I've slept with, fucked or been fucked by, is gay then half of all men are gay.
Is every woman that has kissed her GF, or had a lesbian experience in a 3way, or just gotten high and fucked with her best GF a lesbian?
Those times I fucked girls (even after I told them I was gay- I never had sex with a girl that I hadn't told I was gay) must mean I'm secretly straight.
I have a straight female friend who loves assplay but instead of a guy penetrating her, she gets off on fingering them (which then she works up to dildo play). I don't think any of her boyfriends have ever said no to the dildo. Apparently she takes her time getting them used to getting fingered during oral before she moves onto something bigger. In real life shes really sweet and caring yet I wouldn't be surprised if she had a secret dominating side in bed and thus attracts men into that type of control from a woman.
ive seen 1 or 2 "straight couples" on Cam4 but most that i come across are guys alone with dildos and high on meth or something
I still have a problem with the "im straight and self suck" guys.
I saw one doing himself- sucking and i thought i dont think that is still straight..more like bent jajaja
Francis would if you could get rid of the wife part.
R11 is correct. I have straight male friends who did tell me how they liked to have their GF or wife rim them, massage their prostate with a finger or two, and a few told me how they took a vibrator but they didn't get "pegged" or fucked by a woman with a strapon dildo.
Whether they know it or not, most men need some anal
R45 is correct, those men and women who are having same or even opposite gender sexual experiences are bisexual, not gay or lesbian.
Secondly you don't have to be gay or bisexual to enjoy internal prostate stimulation.
I've met straight people who think that I take it up the ass but actually I don't like receptive anal sex.
Honestly if a girl asked to peg me.. I would drop my pants down and bend over(;
I do! He's almost 400 pounds and is named Larry and he used to work in the storeroom at a local Marshall's before he got canned.
Do you still want to hear the details?
I've tried and even bought a small strap-on but he will not let me. He said it would be too painful.
Prostates are exclusive to gay men. If a guy wants to exclusively have sex with women, then he's straight, even if that means he's constantly taking it in the ass.
*aren't* exclusive to gay men.
[quote]then why do they want to be fucked up the ass by a penis like object then
That's one of the dumbest things ever posted at DL. OTOH, maybe r9 likes to get fucked with a snow shovel or washing machine.
I know a writer of a very well known show that is into this
Its something to be said though, when I first met him he pinged so hard! Mind the pun.
Let me guess, R59, it's Matthew Weiner, right?
I always give props to straight guys who are willing to try anal play/prostrate stimulation. A lot are too freaked out to even see if it is something they might like. Rather sad really, the guys out there who might love it but never have the balls to even see.
Cam4 is full of straight guys who bang themselves with various objects for cash but don't want or experience men.
They can be EXTREMELY homophobic, too.
Straight men who tend to be submissive at times, enjoy a finger or tongue massage, or a dildo up their ass, or even getting pegged. More dominant types like to do it to their women.
Children, children..... you know that thing that sits on top your neck? Hard bony thing with a soft, marshmallow-y thing inside? THAT's the thing that tells you if you're gay or not. A hundred dildos up yur butt, or getting pegged, does not make you gay. Unless whilst doing so, you're conjuring up images of Tom Selleck or Larry King or Janis Joplin or Viveca Lindfors.Does NO ONE remember the term SEXUAL ORIENTATION, and what it means? Pay attention, willya'? There's gonna' be a short quiz next period.
My sample may be skewed since I only bang bi guys, but every one I've been with has loved ass play. Sometimes it takes them a while to warm up to it psychologically, especially going past one finger, but they always love it eventually.
I should clarify that these guys are bi but "seem straight" and pretty much only form romantic attachments to women, often quite boyish women- in manner, not necessarily in appearance. They probably appear to just be artsy hyper-sexual straight men, but straight men don't love sucking cock. Just because he's not going to fall in love with you (for whatever reason) doesn't mean he's straight, boys.
Even my guy who is super rough and dominant enjoys turning the tables and having his ass ravaged. Based on all the other replies, it sounds like there are actual straight guys who enjoy it too.
r9 That is like saying lesbians that use strap ons actually like dick. That would be a bizarre and homophobic. While I think it is strange for a straight guy to want to be penetrated, jumping to the conclusion that he is gay is hypocritical.
I have two very open-minded straight male friends who have no problems discussing the fact that prostate stimulation gives them mind-blowing orgasms. They're not into *only* being pegged, however; more like their gfs sticking a couple fingers up their bums while the girls are being fucked.
I do have one rather "prim" female friend who came to me a few years ago, rather mortified. (Imagine a blonde version of SATC's Charlotte.) I was half expecting her to confess some horribly sordid deed, but it turned out all she wanted was advice on selecting a "small" anal device, since her new-ish bf had recently confessed his enjoyment of prostate stimulation to her. I whisked her off to the nearest "female pleasures" store and helped her pick out a "starter model," along with an explanation of the basic of lube. (It hadn't occurred to the poor dear that men, unlike women, do not self-lubricate, never mind that women only lubricate "up front.") It seems he rather enjoyed her initiative, but alas, they broke up shortly thereafter for unrelated reasons.
Back in the Dark Ages, aka my early 20s when I still dated guys here and there, I dated a guy who was very submissive, and in the spirit of adventure, he agreed to let me peg him. He ended up really enjoying it, asking me to do it a few more times, and being really embarrassed about it every time. He's still straight and married to this day, nearly 15 years later, and to my knowledge has never dated a man and is very happy with his wife.
He would have the most violent, spine-curling orgasms whenever his prostate got massaged with that dildo. He barely needed any other stimulation, and he said that the orgasm was very different than the ones he had with just a vagina, hand or mouth. I thought it was interesting, in a sort of scientific way.
The guy Spencer on Big Brother right now has often said on the 24 hour thread of having thoughts of strap ons.
Very interesting, indeed, my dear old lesbian, r70.
I believe they exist, but are extremely rare. Most of my platonic friends are straight men and lesbians. I've met a precious few guys who are genuinely bisexual. They are emotionally attached to women but like certain guys on an aesthetic basis and are absolutely not interested in receiving prostate stimulation.
Not one of my current straight male friends, no matter how liberal, open-minded, or kinky, has ever told me that he's interested in being "pegged". A few have tried it, but it wasn't something they'd want to pursue again, and certainly not with a male.
I did meet one male co-worker in the Dark Ages in 1980 before there was religious stigma against homosexuality. We were both young, great looking, and horny. He was very handsome, short, and had a cute bubble-butt. He attracted a lot of top gay men and really wanted to understand and try homosexuality.
We got drunk and stoned and I fucked him a few times at his behest. I prefer being a bottom. He eventually got into it physically, but is just not into guys. He absolutely loved it when I gave him blow jobs but his eyes were always shut tight and he was clearly thinking about one or more of the Charlie's Angels. We never kissed; I think that would have grossed him out.
None of my other straight male friends has ever expressed an interest in being "pegged" either by their gf's/wives/or other guys. Meanwhile, I love prostate stimulation, but half the fun comes from the intimacy of being with another guy; it just wouldn't be the same with a woman with a dildo. While I could probably orgasm, it's not something I'd choose to do regularly, and that's I suppose what makes me gay.
I strongly believe that I am biologically gay. There might be a small element of "preference" but that's uncomfortable.
You and I might have some fun stories to exchange, but isn't it nice to just feel happy and natural to be with someone of the same gender? It goes on way beyond plumbing and physics.
R60 'When God closes a door...'
R68, As a doctor friend once explained, many men love having their prostrate stimulated. It has nothing to do with being straight or gay.
Yes. This is one of the main topics of conversation among straight guys.
actually, i've had straight friends ask for advice about this, they all seem to be into it
Giving up control to a female and letting her do as she wills is my pleasure from pegging. Yes it feels that good that I will follow orders and be rewarded. And for that time my stress levels are non existant.
Younger men are getting away from the idea that all anal play is gay. They hear about what feels good and they want to try it.
Ha! Former Aston Villa goalie Stefan Postma loved to be pegged. He jilted his girlfriend who put up a tape on the interweb in retaliation.
I am gay but based on the straight porn I watch (where the guys are hot) the women eagerly lick the asses of Manuel Ferrara and Ramon Nomar.
Therefore it only goes to figure that if women are already into licking straight guy's asses, in reality pegging is the next logical step.
The guy will say it's about being dominated by a woman. Then why is he almost always facing away while she pegs him doggystyle?
She's just a replacement for the cock he wants up there. A lot of str8 or bi guys think all gay men have AIDS, so they don't want their penises anywhere near them.
A lot of straight guys don't mind if a finger is stuck up their ass while their ladyfriend is blowing them but a strap on? I don't think so.
Unlikely to be gay, just secure in their sexuality and want to have adventurous sex. Rare to find a 100% straight individual at any rate.
I have a friend who let his girlfriend fuck him with a dildo. He kept begging her to let him fuck her ass and she told him the only way that was going to happen if he would let her fuck him with a dildo first. He let her do it! He said it didn't feel that bad and he kind of liked it. He did say that he fucked the shit out of her ass after.
I also have a straight friend who has been fucked by his girlfriend with a dildo. I was shocked when he told me one drunk night.
Lots of my straight male friends love it, they ask me for advice too