Do a google search for "G0y". There are about ten billion web sites with their own official domain names, dedicated to this very topic.
so in other words, they are gay.
goy? Isn't that what that jew called Annie?
Goy? Surely they know that's already a word, right?
It's pronounced gZEROy
I had one of these guys approach me on-line dating. He ended up being a fucking log-cabin freak. Totally not into anal, just frottage etc. I am fine with that. However, after meeting him, I realized what a nut job he was. Self- loathing, strange sexual kinks and clinical dialog re; " your penis is so beautiful, may I masturbate it to ejaculation"
He was fucking beautiful though...like they say, beauty comes from within, and under his beauty was really ugly.
Sad, pathetic, delusional, deeply disturbed, mentally diseased individuals.
Some kind of 1990 frottage thing, as I recall.
The plural is GOyim.
I ran into one. "Just a guy wanting to be with another guy and see where it leads." Wanted to jerk me off and jerk himself off, kiss with no tongue, and talk, and look at my dick and tell me how big it was compared to his.
And then it turned out he was a Catholic staffer for the Archdiocese.
"Goy" sounds so unmasculine, so gay. They need to find a term that is more manly, more dudely, like brosters or dudesters.
For God's sake, just fuck already.
We had a freak pushing that bullshit here for a while: anti-buttfun, anti-ERA, faux-hyper masculinity bullshit.
I named him the manifesto troll - very long winded and most probably drunk at 7am.
Whoever designed that website certainly DOESN'T identify as gay, that's for damn sure. The way it's laid out is horrible.
R10 is a pedo apologist.
R18 is an idiot who is unbelievably wrong, but too clueless to realize it.
OMG! I can't stand those g0ys (thigh fucking, dick rubbing self hating homofucks.)
I don't identify as gay because I have no interest in wymyns' clothing styles and such like things.
Do they wear eyepatches?
I don't identify as g0y because I fuck g0ys in the butt and now they are anti-g0y.
I can in some ways relate to some of it but it's disgusting for this reason:
[quote]The 'GAY'-Male community seems preoccupied with making the beautiful, -hideous. Seriously. If I'm lying, -then why all the preoccupation with trying to make anal-sex acceptable? GAYS play in SH1T and call it "sexuality". Then they try to understate the well-documented outcomes of that bizarre fetish (& others). And that's Fuck'd up. It's just so, eh: GAY.
I don't get anything much from anal, and I'm inclined to think it's often just a replication of heterosexual sex, but the above quote is just a crock of homophobic crap.
You WANT them to be self hating, but instead they hate you.
"I don't get anything much from anal, and I'm inclined to think it's often just a replication of heterosexual sex, but the above quote is just a crock of homophobic crap."--Reply 24
"You WANT them to be self hating, but instead they hate you."--Reply 25
You can hate me...I love converting g0ys into booty loving anti-g0ys.
Not really R26. Five years into my relationship and the sex is amazing.
As for the G0y site, they are so anti anal sex it's ridiculous, like they can still cling on to being 'normal' because they never ever 'butt phuck'. Pisses me off that anal is so often viewed as the ultimate sex act between two men, and all else viewed as foreplay.
"Pisses me off that anal is so often viewed as the ultimate sex act between two men, and all else viewed as foreplay."--Reply 28
It shouldn't piss you off. You aren't doing it or getting done, right? It shouldn't be YOUR concern about what gays do...what straights do...what bisexuals do. I am not pissed off at anyone having sex the way they WANT to have sex.
So, if a g0y wants to thighfuck or dick rub another g0y. Be happy...but don't hate on a gay person's personal choice to buttfuck.
I am very happy R29, and I don't hate on a person's choice to buttfuck. I enjoy it sometimes, and everyone has different sexual preferences. However, sexuality is rather more that being just a matter of what a person gets off on.
I'm certainly not a 'g0y', but some questions there amongst the twisted stuff, are interesting. Please feel free to twist my post to suit your own agenda.
[quote]We also go into great depth to explain the rationale behind what was & wasn't prohibited in the Torah.
a bunch of goyim doing a Torah study? Even with a zero, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
"I'm certainly not a 'g0y', but some questions there amongst the twisted stuff, are interesting. Please feel free to twist my post to suit your own agenda."--Reply 30
Oh...I don't have an agenda. I am definitely not g0y either.
This is a flashback to 1991, right?
Why does my friend Woody Allen call me one of these?
R28 is a pedo apologist
anal is fun, most straight guys like it when the try it too.
G0ys just wanna have fun.
R24 is correct. They aren't self-loathing, they're other-gay-people-loathing.
Do they have mussies or not?
Dudes just wanna be dudes, not some other category of non-dude.
"Dudes just wanna be dudes, not some other category of non-dude."--Reply 40
G0ys...come on. You know you can get deep booty loved and still be dudes.
"They aren't self-loathing, they're other-gay-people-loathing."--Reply 38
Just like those Log Cabin Republig0ys...
"Do they have mussies or not?"--Reply 39
G0ys shave their sphincters and are pre-lubed for my convenience.
R42 your point?
I used to know someone like this. He was a real nice guy, but so fucked in the head. A lot of the times, I was wondering if it was just an act, as if pretending to be such a challenge he would attract more guys. Of course the exact opposite would happen. In a weird way, I felt sorry for him. He was completely unable to be honest with himself. It must really suck.
I'm not the OP but definitely think I'm one of these guys. I've only had a dick in me twice in my life and never got any pleasure out of it. It wasn't that it was too painful to take, but the pressure had me telling him to stop every 5 minutes or so as I had to get up to piss (and I was around 30 at the time so U was not some fossil with an eggplant-sized prostate).
Conversely, I tried fucking guys a couple of times but the idea repulsed me and I never really stayed hard enough to satisfy them.
Now, mutual muscle worship and nipple play for hours with a bj or hj to finish off is something I will never tire of.
I don't care whether other guys love getting plowed in the ass--that's their business--I'm just not one of them. And I would expect the same non-judgement about my sexual preferences.
Did he live in San Diego, R44? I knew a guy there who--despite always begging to hook up with me--swore up and down he wasn't gay. I found the whole thing quite humorous so I'd always interrogate him about it whenever we'd chat online. He said he was only going to mess around with guys until the age of 30 in order to "get it out of his system", then he said he was going to marry a woman. Of course that never happened (the marrying a woman part).
Such an unf0rtunate name they've ch0sen f0r themselves. H0w d0 they ever expect t0 be taken seri0usly when they have t0 say "with a zer0" every time they pr0n0unce 0r publish their name?
R45 Sounds like you just dont care for anal sex. Nothing strange about that. Its not for everybody
R46 No, this was when I was living in Jersey. His act (again, I dont know how much of it was an act how much of it was real) was to play dumb. He would say things like, "I dont understand why this guy keeps talking to me. Hes older than me and we have nothing in common." Or he would go to the sauna at the gym and say, "its so strange. I go in there and its empty. But no sooner do I sit down and all these guys start showing up." I would ask myself, "is he really this stupid?"
It is primarily a religious website that does to many gays exactly what it is asking gays not to do to them - judge them harshly. Many on that site consider anal sex to be immoral. They have nothing to do with masculinity and everything to do with rejection of who they are.
And you thought gay Republicans were tedious and tiresome.
Leave it to sh1ksas to come up with a term like this.
Here is my question after reading these comments...where do gay men who aren't into anal sex fit in?! It seems pretty clear to me that some of y'all think we have intimacy issues or that we are somehow "less evolved" sexually. Put the shoe on the other foot...how would it make YOU feel if you shared our feelings? Maybe the g0ys are coming together because they feel ostracized by gay guys who think anal is the only way to be completely intimate with someone! I'm not saying that because I'm in support of g0ys...I'm saying that because I genuinely think that's part of the issue. I don't care what someone does in the bedroom, but I'll be damned if I'll sit idly by and let someone scoff at me because I'm solely into oral, frot, mutual masturbation etc. We're not in 6th grade and this is not a joke!
Obviously insane, probably driven by a single fetishistic queer thing with severe OCD and schizoid tendencies.
What is the big fucking deal about not wanting to fuck? Why is this some sort of game changing revolutionary idea, and how does it differentiate these nuts from other gay guys?
A lot of gay men don't do anal, for all sorts of reasons. And it's not a big deal or some line of demarcation. This "masculine" shit, with the bizarre "zero" fixation, and all the potty talk about asses, is so truly self-loathing.
Fuck these assholes!
You're right. They're truly self-loathing.
I fucked a g0y and he liked it,
I lubed his tight ass with my spit.
I fucked a g0y just to try it,
Hope his dumb wife don't mind it.
He says it's wrong,
he leans far right.
Don't mean I'm in love tonight.
I fucked a g0y and he liked it(he liked it).
I consider myself g0y, not gay. I hate anal, and I'm not fond of lip-glossed limp-wristed, scarf-wearing fashionistas. I like real men.
you're not g0y, you're a girl.
Why is it such a struggle for these guys. If they're genuinely stereotypically masculine (not acting) and still like men, so be it. Many gay men don't conform to every gay stereotype.
I just don't understand they're perceived burden. They talk about this seemingly overwhelming "gay community" that only encompasses all of their feared gay stereotypes. But, it's just not true. The community (or communities) run the gamut and if these were truly just "every day guy" gays (again, not putting on some production), then they'd know that, and they'd be comfortable.
But, they seem to be trying so hard to carve out this area where they're, you know, "gay but not gay". They want to have sex with men, but not be associated with anything "gay." They seem to want to push away from the stereotypes so they can (a) not be seen negatively by others (the straight community), and (b) not think negatively of themselves (since they're SO disgusted by gay stereotypes).
It's so narrow minded and stupid. Seems like G0y is simply "self-loathing" or do you honestly think there's more to it?
TBH, I don't think there's more to it.
As a g0y, I think there is more to it.
As a very masculine man who is attracted to other very masculine men, I feel as if I don't belong. We are a minority, and like any other minority, must protect our rights.
Here's the thing. I can pass for heterosexual very easily.
It's a website for only straight guys to read.
Haha, you're just a gay in the closet, R63.
You are not in the minority R63- most gay men are more masculine than feminine. You're just hung up.
Nothing wrong with not liking to fuck- lots of gay men the same. Relax, have fun with other stuff- relax- I know guys who only fuck and won't suck- so what? Don't be put off by the judges and stay away from the goy thing- another example of misanthropes finding each other due to the Internet- self loathing definitely is at its core.
I only loathe the gay, and I'm g0y. So how is that self-loathing?
G0y people need a serious mental therapy.
It's a paradox. Because a "straight masculine regular guy", the abstraction they mimic, wouldn't give a fuck about gender roles, what others think, what is soft or not soft. He just does whatever the hell he wants, and fuck the world if they don't agree. That's why gOys (oy!) will never get where they want to go. They can't accept themselves first, the way the real deal would.
Look at this beautiful love story between two obvious closets. And I say this as someone that doesn't think anal is the best you can get. So sexually, I agree with them to an extent. I don't seek to fuck and be fucked very often. I prefer all the other stuff. But their assertion that it's a proxy cunt is incredibly juvenile, and flies in the face of what we know about prostate massage.
Plus, this talk of hypermasculinity and wrestling seems like a lot of beating around the bush to me, and not much fun.
"You're a sad and pathetic man. You're a homosexual and you don't want to be, but there's nothing you can do to change it. Not all the prayers to your God, not all the analysis you can buy in all the years you've go left to live.
You may one day be able to know a heterosexual life if you want it desperately enough. If you pursue it with the fervor with which you annihilate. But you'll always be homosexual as well. Always, "G0y." Always. Until the day you die."
--Harold, THE BOYS IN THE BAND
"Seems like G0y is simply "self-loathing" or do you honestly think there's more to it?"
No, it's a coping mechanism, and a bad one. They're projecting all their fears about themselves and their role in society onto those AWFUL LOATHESOME UNMASCULINE WORTHLESS other gay men, and they're determined to blame others rather than thinking about the real issues.
Guys, the G0y website is strictly for straights only. Why waste your thoughts on these confused men?
Obviously, being a "gOy" also means you have no basic HTML or web design skills.
And the owner of that hideously-designed site is obviously spewing his contorted illogic all over this one.
this is not even a thing
Wait, I still haven't heard an answer to the pronunciation question. Is it pronounced like the Yiddish word for gentile? Or are you supposed to say "G-Zero-Y"?
I would like to point out that more than six months after the OP posted this thread this term is STILL not happening (except to describe non-Jews).
Butch Dike is to Lipstick Lesbian
Flamboyant Male is to....Flamboyant Male.
Because there's no such thing as Masculine Gay Men who like to fuck ass or get fucked? Give me a break!!!
Whether it's self-loathing or not, it is loathing other people -- people they identify as gay -- that is certainly homophobia.
Every person should be respected, from the flaming queen (who so often took a lot of shit that many others didn't have to) to the leather daddy.
These guys are welcome to do what they want to do or not do what they don't but the put down of the gay community -- or communities -- is what is so disturbing about this little movement. Homophobic, for sure. No one should be homophobic like that.
this is NOT a thing
do they still exist?>
Just a spoonful of sugar helps the antiretrovirals go down
The antiretrovirals go down
Just a spoonful of sugar helps the antiretrovirals go down
The antiretrovirals go down
He's the most delightful gay
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