I mean, isn't the whole thing about fucking a woman is that you're getting to fuck pussy?
I wonder how many straight guys, if given the choice, would only fuck their female partners in the ass.
Their women aren't doing their kegels. The ass is a tighter fit.
op, i can attest that most men are not into anal sex.
Doesn't this thread come up about once a month?
Being heterosexual is not about being to fuck pussy anymore than being gay is about being able to fuck an ass.
Being straight is about wanting to be with a woman -- being intimate with a woman emotionally and physically, however the man and woman work those things out, heterosexual intimacy is what feels natural.
I don't think most are. Of those that are, I think some want it to make sure they don't end up with a pregnancy. Some just like the taboo. Others might be gay.
because fucking a pussy is like taking your dick out in an open room
[quote]because fucking a pussy is like taking your dick out in an open room
Says the gay man who samples lots of pussies.
I think they like it because it's probably harder to get than vaginal intercourse so it's something "new," or because it's a dominance thing, or as an earlier poster suggested, because of the taboo. But I really don't know anything about straight guys so I could be talking out of my ass (sorry for that).
Your first three points are accurate. Most straight men don't focus in on anal sex as much as gay men do, for rather obvious reasons. Avoiding pregnancy can be an issue and certainly the taboo issue is a factor.
However, just to be clear, men whose favorite sex activity is fucking women in the ass are straight guys who liked to fuck women in the ass.
R5: That is not how most straight men view anal sex with women as opposed to vaginal sex. I usually wouldn't generalize about how most people feel about anything, but what you said is wrong.
You're right, R7. Those things are part of it.
It's only the younger generation of men who are really into anal. Men in their 40s and over just don't dig as much as the young dudes in their early 30s and younger.
It's just a sexual trend, just like the shaved genital thing. People like to do things differently from other generations, they like to think of themselves as daring and different. And of course ass fucking isn't daring or different, but it is to those young guys who grew up in the boring old suburbs.
I'm not sure I agree, R10. I had a female friend who worked as a phone sex worker back in the late '80s. She told me that nearly EVERY guy who called wanted to talk about anal sex. No matter how the conversation/fantasy started, it always ended in the ass. It seemed to be a very prevalent preference. Amongst customers of phone sex lines back in the '80s, anyway.
Once in a while I enjoy going into chat rooms pretending to be a woman. (Yeah, I'm just SURE I'm the only one who's done that.) Straight men always ask whether I like anal sex.
At first I thought they were asking so they could figure out whether I was a real woman or not. I would always answer something like, "Ew, no!! That would hurt! Besides, it's nasty. Why would you stick your dick in my butt when you can stick it in my pussy?"
Well, every one of them has said they wanted to fuck a woman's ass because it's taboo and something different. A couple of them have said an ass would be tighter. None of them ever answered, predictably, that it was an issue of dominance and humiliation, but I suspect that figures into it.
Now, before everyone jumps on me for being an online fake, this is an excellent way for writers to "flesh out" characters (yeah, okay) and write the character's dialog. It's also kinda fun, in a slightly perverse way.
It's not ass over pussy for straight guys, OP, it's novelty, it's wanting both, especially since there's something forbidden and denied about getting to fuck their girls up the ass.
There's something truly ironic about reading posts by gay men which suggests that there's something wrong with straight men who are into fucking their women up the ass. Any post which suggests that a straight guy having this desire is into dominance, rejects pussy, etc., is crazy.
This also comes up often in threads about straight men who like to get fingered or have their women strap on.
Straight men have asses. Straight men have partners with asses. Some Straight men enjoy pleasure through their asses, just like gay men can. Some Straight men enjoy fucking an ass just like gay men can.
The only difference is that straight men prefer to experience these things with women, because they are more sexually attracted to them.
In straight porn, I can't tell which hole they're fucking much of the time -- lots of from the rear but not necessarily anal sex. But then I don't study the problem or stick around to find out what's going where.
There are more and more studies being done that the desire for anal sex with heterosexual men is an indicator for a desire to inflict pain and control rather than receive or give pleasure.
Link, please, r16. I'd really like to see those studies and how that's been determined, rather than the more simple common-sense conclusion, such as "wow, that chick's got a really beautiful ass that would feel so great on my dick, I really want to fuck her."
You know kind of like the way a gay top feels about a guy's butt.
The asshole is much tighter then a snatch and we have more muscular control w/ out puckers, which, of course enrages the infestation of fraus in here. Savvy straight married guys know this fact also, which is why they come to US. We give better blows and I can actually MILK a cock w/ asshole. Hearing them moan is the [italic]....best. [/italic]
No sad bleating for a dinner at Outback, no begging for a visit to Cinnabon. Just get in my bed and FUCK ME.
Unless the woman just gave birth or something, ass is NOT tighter than pussy, at least not after initial entry/penetration. The other reasons given here for anal sex's appeal to straight men, however, are accurate.
What's the allure of heterosexual anal sex? A survey in New York magazine, identified several elements:
1. Variety. Another way to play.
2. Intimacy. To some, it feels more intimate than other types of sex.
3. Experimentation. We tried it. We liked it.
4. Forbidden fruit. Anal is taboo, therefore, exciting.
5. Domination/submission. It fits well into sexual power games.
Anyone interested in anal intercourse should understand that it carries health risks. Receptive anal intercourse is strongly associated with HIV risk. It's also been linked to increased risk of ano-rectal cancers. It appears that like cervical cancer, ano-rectal cancers have an infectious component and may be sexually transmitted. Condoms eliminate these risks.
OP: a thinly veiled attempt to have people declare BECAUSE ALL STRAIGHT MEN ARE GAY and ALL WOMEN ARE INHERENTLY INFERIOR!
I think anal is just the current 'in' thing mainly because of porn.
Studies are showing that a lot of young girls are letting their boyfriends do anal in order to hold on to their vaginal virginity.
I think Carla, the supermodel with the broken webcam is my new favorite poster.
OP is the same pitiful troll that sets up these strawman threads almost daily? He wants to stir things up so he states a falsehood as absolute truth and then he sits back in his lazyboy and lets the fur fly. It's so tiresome and you all fall for it every time.
Why do straight men love to have gay sex?
Why don't women ever have orgasms?
Why are all gay men over 40 unfuckable?
Why is the sky green?
[quote]The only difference is that straight men prefer to experience these things with women, because they are more sexually attracted to them.
Straight men don't PREFER anything. They only want to do it with a woman because they are only attracted to them. Sexual orientation is not a preference.
With anal sex, the straight guy doesn't need to worry about getting the chick pregnant.
Well, my straight married neighbor grew tired of his wife not letting him fuck her in the ass which is why he comes by once a week to pound my ass to get his rocks off!
Since a lot of gay guys seem to have straight married FBs, I guess it's safe to assume that most of these straight guys seek out other men for anal sex only because they're wives won't let them fuck 'em in the ass. That all makes sense to me now.
[quote] "Well, my straight married neighbor grew tired of his wife not letting him fuck her in the ass which is why he comes by once a week to pound my ass to get his rocks off!"
[italic] [bold] EXACTLY!! [/bold] [/italic]
It's a thing in straight porn now, so guys think it's supposed to be a thing in real life as well.
[quote]Well, my straight married neighbor grew tired of his wife not letting him fuck her in the ass which is why he comes by once a week to pound my ass to get his rocks off!
Thank God! Now I can finally get some peace. As long as he brings the money home to ME, he can pound your ass every night for all I care. I can't think of a better arrangement to keep him off my ass (pun intended) in his place. Thanks sweetie!
Oh, btw, come on by next Tuesday night @ 7pm. A bunch of the girls in the neighborhood are getting together for our monthly bunko night. It's a hoot! Bring your favorite dessert to share. Hope you can make it.
r18 and r33
I smell you from here!!
[quote]OP is the same pitiful troll that sets up these strawman threads almost daily?
And OP holds a gun to the head of R28 and forces him to read every message in the thread.
[italic]Doesn't this thread come up about once a month?[/italic]
No. Get a new line, honey.
Because fucking ass and fucking pussy are different pleasurable sensations.
Anal sex is HUGE in straight porn.
Double anal, too.
I'm a girl so obviously I don't have a dick. I'm not sure how really different the sensation is (only bi men can say and straight men who have both kinds with a woman) but I'd think the difference is more emotional and psychological with all the implications (taboo, power and control etc'). In the case of bi men there's the fact that the ass belongs to a man and the vagina to a woman.
I was watching a straight porn film where this woman was getting her mouth, pussy, and ass fucked by huge dicks simultaneously. How does one not explode from all that stimulation.
She's not being stimulated, she is being used like a blow up doll. Women in real life, i.e. not in porn or saying what they think will get them the guy, don't want to be just holes.
I find anal to be rather banal....
Tight male pucker trumps sloppy cunt ANY DAY. It's a truth older then all of us.
Even the way straight mainstream porn portrays vaginal sex nowadays is often about power, control, dominance, humiliation, etc. Anal sex just seems to be more of the same, with the added taboo factor.
"Why Are Straight Guys So Into Anal Sex?"
I don't know, but I've never turned down the ones who ask me to fuck them.
I've asked a bi guy about it. He says fucking a pussy is looser but all-enveloping while fucking an ass is tighter but only at one point of friction.
"I think anal is just the current 'in' thing mainly because of porn."
Anal sex, straight and gay, has existed forever, and straight anal is not a recent innovation in porn, it's been a mainstay of straight porn at least since the 70s. So your argument is completely unpersuasive.
Men want anything forbidden to them.
End of story.
If women denied them on the vagina like they do on the ass, vaginal sex would be a fetish.
Most straight men do seem to prefer fucking a vagina.
More interestingly, what is the benefit to a woman with having a big ol' schlong tearing her ass up? There's no prostate, no pleasure. If they say so they're lying. Which means they'll do anything for money.
Straight men are typically attracted to the asses of sexually attractive women.
It is not surprising that many straight men would want to penetrate the ass of women they want to have sex.
Certainly very few straight men would refuse the offer from a woman he found attractive who was into anal sex.
Not exactly a newsflash. It's not at all surprising. In fact it makes perfect sense.
There is no less reason for a straight man to want to fuck a woman in the ass than for a gay man to want to fuck a man in the ass. Both men and women have asses.
That's all there is to it. End of story.
[quote]There's no prostate, no pleasure. If they say so they're lying. Which means they'll do anything for money.
As a woman, I'd say more accurate to say they'll do anything if they have bad self-esteem.
Also, most women don't go for it or try not to make it a habit. So apparently most women are honest.
r43 do most gay men like feeling like just a hole?
This is why gay bottoms should keep their asses and holes hairless. Nothing is grosser than a hairy ass and hole. Straight men and most gay tops want a smooth bottom. FACT
Like Carla the supermodel with the broken webcam, I sometimes pretend to be 22-year-old Amy in chatrooms, and often persuade horny straight guys to put on a show for me.
I can confirm that they *always* want to fuck me up the ass.
yeah hon, my pussy's real wet
R53 is correct. The only reason most women would agree to do it is to hold on to a guy or for money.
Someone should start a "do straight women like anal sex", thread.
"More interestingly, what is the benefit to a woman with having a big ol' schlong tearing her ass up? There's no prostate, no pleasure. If they say so they're lying. Which means they'll do anything for money."
Ok. Then where is the pleasure to a man of having a bi ol' schlong fucking your face? No prostate or clit there, honey.
Yet, as we know, there are men who swear they love being on the receiving end of that! Are they lying?
It reminds them of their Boy Scouts days.
So, r53, then how do you explain the fact that some men who have had their prostates removed still enjoy getting fucked?
Sorry but there are women who enjoy anal sex. The ass contracts during orgasm. Anal penetration during this contraction can be extremely pleasurable. Women can achieve orgasm through manual stimulation, either her own or her partner's, while she is being anally penetrated and for some women, this can be exciting. There are nerve endings in the anus other than the prostate. And anal intercourse, like vaginal intercourse, does not directly stimulate the clitoris in any event, rather the motion of intercourse is in itself exciting to some women, and not just physioloically but psychologically. Also, women may enjoy the fact that they are pleasin their partners, as men also do during sexual activity.
This women are victims bullshit is the antithesis of feminism.
There is one woman on Datalounge who ALWAYS pipes up that she is very against anal sex.
It's just one woman who keeps posting this.
[quote]This is why gay bottoms should keep their asses and holes hairless.
I never used to get my hole waxed till a few years ago. It seemed like the height of vanity but I did it anyway and boy ... I love the smooth feeling, and it makes me more sensitive.
For some weird reason, anal sex helps reach a woman's g-spot. The lining between the anus and vagina is very thin, and the cock positions itself in just the right place in the anal canal which puts pressure on the other side of the lining, the exact spot where the g-spot is located inside the vagina. It's hits it perfectly. The anus doesn't give much room to maneuver around another spot within it. It's an exact tilt. It's quite fascinating, but this is the reason a lot of women love it.
[quote]For some weird reason, anal sex helps reach a woman's g-spot.
Complete bullshit, R64. The g-spot is on the front wall of the vagina. Nice try though.
That's a correct description of the different sensations.
I am straight male, and I have been real slutty at times, some 30-35 lifetime partners.
There are some women who seek out anal sex, enjoy it a lot, and have powerful orgasms doing it. My sampling didn't turn up large number, but without any doubt at all it turned up a few.
It wasn't a power trip on my part, it wasn't something the woman did to keep me, because doing that isn't very significant to me -- it is more work all things considered, women wouldn't have to do it to keep me, and anyway there wasn't any keeping to be done when both sides know it is a one-night stand.
It's pretty hard to say it is always a male-dominating, abusive, painful type thing when a woman repeatedly asks for it, and I really didn't want to be bothered, which happened.
Here is what I don't get about these discussions on anal sex for women, and they always turn out the same way. There are a couple of prudes that jump in and are really offended at the concept.
This is a community that enjoys, celebrates, as it should, the wonderfully diverse ways that people can express sexuality. It fights against repressive attitudes about the way its members find sexual satisfaction.
Women have the wonderful ability, many, not all, to achieve climax more often and in a greater variety of ways than men.
Why is it not a really positive thing if some women say they like anal sex, it gives them great climaxes, or they don't come that way but it is really a turn on.
Why can't we just say, "OK, that's your thing, that's cool?"
R64 has been pedaling that bullshit about how anal sex gives her incredible vaginal orgasms because, y'know, the wall between the vag and ass is so thin, blah, blah, blah...
More proof that women's orgasms are all mental.
That's actually a great question R66 and it comes up in a variety of ways when the topic of women's sexuality is raised. There are people who strongly believe that ANY sexual activity a woman engages in is not entirely by choice, and that women are motivated by other things besides their own desires: money, coercion, the need for security, etc. I happen to believe that to be the case for 'most' women when it comes to certain things like porn, s & m and anal, but not most other sexual activity. You can call me a prude if you want, but that's just what I believe. At least I don't go so far as to say women don't enjoy any kind of sex....like our resident "women don't have orgasms troll."
I don't know any who are, particularly. And for those who are, I imagine it's a dominanation/degradation thing, 'cause anal sex is degrading for a lot of people.
For me, it comes down to this. Before you can fuck however you want, you have to be able to have shelter and eat.
The more security you have with food and shelter, the more liberated you will be with what you like to do with sex.
Women are in a more precarious position than men in terms of financial security, we all know that.
To gain sexual liberation, we have to get everyone to the point where food and shelter will never again be an issue.
More than that, we will have to have moved beyond that time to a point where no one even remembers when people had to worry about food and shelter, so that the young people will have left those fears far behind.
Then a woman can do what she wishes with her body and have no obligation to do anything other than what she wishes with her body with a man or a woman.
If she is not comfortable staying in this place, there will be other places she can go, and she and her children will be safe.
But that's a long ways away, and until then, if a woman likes anal sex, don't stand in her way.
I can't believe people are still posting this "All women hate anal sex" BS. It's just not true. I know many women who like it and enjoy it, and yes, come really hard from it. Not because we enjoy being degraded and humiliated but because it's fucking hot.
I holeheartedly agree w/ Miss R71. I'm a Gay male and well, ....J'ADORE having anal sex. Having a straight married man driving down my Hershey highway is, for me at least, sheer heaven.
For women, anal pleasure may be achieved through clitoral extensions of the clitoris stretching along the vaginal lips back to the anus.
From what I have heard many times by so many women, that they find it degrading and its another from of male domination over women. Many have expressed that they think it’s a kinky from of sex and sickening. Of course, most men are going to say that women love to have anal sex because they went people to believe that BS because they get what they want out of the deal.
Also, many women feel that women who engage in anal sex have low self-esteem. Many women who have low self esteem hunger for attention from males at any cost and are vulnerable to please men sexually no matter how degrading it is. Whether it’s a one-night stand or a long-term relationship, many women hunger for attention from men because they were messed up some in some way in their childhoods. Women are sexual beings, and to say that women are not sexual beings is a myth and Victorian. But, they do not want to be used by some male who is a pig and a selfish loser to get what he can out of women to sexually gratify himself.
I know this is an old belief, but I think it rings so true, but I strongly believe guys who like to engage in anal sex with women are closet gay men. Or, many men are subconsciously gay and they aren't fully aware that they are gay. I have heard from many psychologists who have said that men who want to have anal sex with women and some other types of sex are sexually addicted because they are constantly looking for sexual gratification, but they are never satisfied and they want to have sex this way and then that way etc. and it escalates to a very self destructive behavior that it will eat the guy for lunch.
[quote]clitoral extensions of the clitoris stretching along the vaginal lips back to the anus.
Oh, so now we're completely fabricating info about women's physiology?
Okay, I'll play. I've read over and over again from MANY sexperts that 65% of all women get the strongest orgasms from having their left knee cap stimulated. It's true.
Because straight men are sexually selfish that's why
Here's a link about the erectile tissue of the clitoris, the dark tissue being the erctile tissue. It reaches the anus quite nicely, especially if there's a penis in the anuscausing pressure to the erctile tissue. Biology has made it possible for women to enjoy anal sex.
You Americans don't have anatomy in schools, or what?
I have trouble following the logic.
Suppose I am with a woman who understands her body and her mind. She knows at that moment the most intense orgasm would occur if I had anal intercourse with her, and she asks for that.
You are absolutely correct when you say that she has been conditioned to feel that way. Social conditions have played a part in making the act seem pleasurable. We all pick up attitudes about what feels good and what should feel good from our society.
Her physiology plays a role. Every woman is different. Some like butt play, some don't.
Believe it or not, many straight men are socialized so that their pleasure is enhanced when the woman has pleasure at the same time they do. That's the situation with me. The only way to figure out what she likes is to listen to her.
Are you saying that as a man who respects women, who wants to give sexual pleasure, whose pleasure is heightened when the woman likes what it is that we are doing, that it is my responsibility to decline, saying, "No, I won't do that. You like doing that for the wrong reasons?"
If I demand that we substitute my judgment for hers about what she should be feeling, am I not a chauvinist?
Those illustrations are frightening at R77's link.
[quote]Suppose I am with a woman who understands her body and her mind. She knows at that moment the most intense orgasm would occur if I had anal intercourse with her, and she asks for that.
R78, you are basing your whole argument on a false supposition. A woman's "most intense orgasm" doesn't occur through anal stimulation, no matter what she tells you or what you tell yourself. There is no physiology to support your claim.
Please refer back to my sarcastic kneecap analogy @ R75.
As to men who like anal sex with women being gay, that is incorrect.
People who prefer to be intimate sexually and emotionally to people of the opposite sex are straight, and then what it is they like to do with the people of the opposite sex when they have sex is all over the place.
Look at it this way. There undoubtedly are many, many women who identify as straight who prefer receiving oral sex from men over any other sex act. The reasons are pretty obvious.
Is it your opinion that these women are closeted lesbians? I thought being a lesbian had a broader significance and a deeper origin than liking one sex technique more than another.
So you would tell a woman that she is mistaken when she reports what she experiences because that doesn't fit with your perceptions.
That won't fly in the real world.
Two obvious reasons why straight guys like anal sex with women.
1) no babies
2) tighter hole
It's only tighter at one point, as has been stated.
And some women like it because it feels good, but some women hate the concept for whatever reason, and they can't deal with idea of other women liking it and they want men and women to stop doing it because they don't like it.
Well, ain't going to happen.
You can't bring a social construct into the bedroom and announce that it applies to what people do there.
What you can do is to change the way society operates and hope that down the road people treat people better, that works.
It is so close to this -- the fact that men all over the world hate the concept of men having anal sex with men so they try to argue and legislate to stop it, that you would think this person would see the illogic of making her argument on a GLBT website.
"Straight men are typically attracted to the asses of sexually attractive women."
Nope. Most men are more into breasts than ass.
Control. Power. Because the smell of shit is preferable to the stink of dead fish.
I don't think straight guys want anal over vaginal. It's in addition. I don't want to give TMI, but when I get off after intercourse and the dude flips me over and goes to town on my ass, it's the absolute best sex ever.
I found it done when I orgasm before he does and I'm in my little refractory period and my ass is more relaxed and open to it and he is still wanting more. I love how they take control and I am their bitch. So part of it maybe that they are wanting to release sooner than later and need the next hole ready.
It's rarely been the only thing on the menu. Maybe once or twice because it was that time of the month or dude said he had never tried it did I allow the penetration to that region alone.
Question for you R88. Did you have to "learn" to take it up the ass? I've had the impression (partly from pron, I know, hardly reliable) that women often find it easy to be penetrated anally, rarely painful. (Whether or not they enjoy the experience is something else.) Obviously we're built differently "down there" and I just wonder if it generally comes more easily to women. While many men are enthusiastic bottoms, most will say they had to learn how to relax and take a fucking, and that at first it was quite painful.
[quote]So part of it maybe that they are wanting to release sooner than later and need the next hole ready.
But is your next hole ready? Do you enema every time you have sex with the expectation that the guy is going to stick you there? Or do you just leave it?
I have never had an enema before sex. It's not part of the thinking. The condom is used and I haven't found guys to be worried about it.
To answer question from R89, it only seems ready after I come. It's right after vaginal sex so that natural lube is used (it's okay to go vag-anal but not anal-vag). Never used any other lube.
However, when it's been just going straight into the butt because of reasons I stated in 88. it is less successfull, the hole does not want to be ready and fingers and prodding are necessary and the excitement about it is gone, and I just rather skip it.
The key is being in a post orgasmic state, where you don't tense up. I'll allow nearly anything when I'm in that state. I don't know if it works for guys but maybe you can get the bottom off prior through oral or jerking off, and then plow his ass.
r89 Why would a woman's ass be any different than a man's?
Because it's naughty.
Men WANT women to love anal, hell, they want women to cum from anal -- any old lie so they can get off whereever they want.
Y'all some hoes up in here.
Wow! R77, that is gross! Many say that guys ding dongs are ugly and gross. honey? that website proves those people who think ding dongs are gross are blind.
When straight people perform anal and oral sex and then they turn around and say how sick and perverted gays are what is the difference? they are doing the same thing. The only difference its done between a couple who are the opposite
sex. I think they are hypocrites.
If some straight people who do not agree with gay people and they don't engage in anal and oral sex, then at least they practice what they preach.
I'm straight and have never fucked a man in the ass I have a few times at the request of a woman attempted to do so to them but since my cut dick is 8 and 1/2 inches it never progressed too far before she wanted to stop. Speaking for myself the attraction is to trying something new that might feel good and provide a deeper level of pleasure. We have the same equipment as you and sometimes we just want to take it out for a test ride to see what it can do.....
all the boys in the yard cum for my hairy anal milkshake
HAHAHA R3! The last thing men want is emotional intimacy with women! They just want to stick it in their pussy!
R81, you're joking. If a woman only wanted oral sex, you think she would prefer that from some oaf of a man who doesn't know what he's doing instead of a skilled lesbian? Please.
R91, in my experience, once the bottom cums, anal penetration is more painful and challenging, no longer pleasurable.
[quote]If a woman only wanted oral sex, you think she would prefer that from some oaf of a man who doesn't know what he's doing instead of a skilled lesbian?
Yes, if she's straight. That's how sexual orientation works.
Thankfully some straight guys LOATHE anal sex.
Don't know whether it has been mentioned yet, but supposedly alot of guys are having their wives/girlfriends strap on a tool and fuck them up the ass too. Pegging? It really doesn't make sense to me as he can get the real thing in any gay bar or bathhouse.
[quote]Men overwhelmingly report positive experiences following performing anal sex on a female partner. But, more than half of women who have had receptive anal sex describe it as an unpleasant experience they probably wouldn't repeat
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Straight men are OBSESSED with anal? No they're not. But assholes aren't gender specific anymore than mouths are. And straights like kissing women & getting BJs from them. It's variety.
as Borat said-she vagine like sleeve of wizard
[quote]Doesn't this thread come up about once a month?
Sometimes it skips a month.
Straight guys are porn consumers; their sexual tastes are formed and manipulated by porn. In 10 years time, it'll be something else.
Most women HATE anal. It's unhealthy and painful
[quote]Why Are Straight Guys So Into Anal Sex?
With only women, though. You forgot that part, OP.
This thread is hilarious. I was particularly amused by the person who swears up and down the g-spot can't be stimulated through the anal wall. And the insistence that anal can't be enjoyable for women because there's no prostate in there- well, there's no prostate in the vagina either, and yet women seem to enjoy getting fucked in there. Go figure.
I think more women would be open to anal if it wasn't seen as such a degrading, whorish thing to do- the way oral used to be regarded, something only prostitutes do.
(FWIW, I would never admit to my female friends that I enjoy taking it up the ass. Some things can only be admitted on an anonymous forum.)
Female here. It just makes me feel like I have to go to the bathroom and I'm always worried about just that while doing anal. Still, different strokes and all that.
Not in a million years.
If he wants to do a little tongue or finger play, fine... but no dick up my ass.
I would just get a new bf!
I love all the earnest analysis here about why straight guys are 'so' into anal sex. It's hilarious.
Sorry to disappoint you silly queens, but they aren't "into it" all that much. OP is just engaging in some wishful thinking (hoping), that if a straight guy wants anal with a woman, it's only a short leap to doing it with a man.
[quote]OP is just engaging in some wishful thinking (hoping), that if a straight guy wants anal with a woman, it's only a short leap to doing it with a man.
Never going to happen. Ever.
Straight women are being expected to do anal because porn whores like Belladonna will take two and three dicks in their ass and pretend to love it on camera.
You don't have much of a sexual imagination do you, OP?
It's funny to see people come into threads like this to announce that any guy who likes his ass played with can't be straight.
Ok. Here IS why straight men like anal sex.... I being a female who has had anal sex with straight men have asked them why they like it. I was told because its tighter. I've been told its because it causes a woman 2 have a major orgasm like they have never had!! And I can honestly say that's the truth!! I've never in my life had an orgasm like I had with anal sex!! Yes it hurts till he gets the tip of his cock in but the key 2 doin it is be gental & easy & carin & go at it slowly. Most men wanna just ram it in & that's such a turn off 2 women & it hurts & damages them not only physically but emotionally & mentally & sexually!!!! So remember men when u do it do it slow & with love!! That's the entire experiance behind anal sex!!!!!
That's right, OP. The only reaason straight men are straight is about the vagina. It has nothing to do with being attracted to women for any other reason.
JESUS FUCKING CHRIST!
OK, let me try this another way. OP, if a gay men wanting to fuck someone only had to do with ASS he could do that with any sex partner, as we all have asses.
With me so far.
But you see gay men are into men and straight men are into women. As in entire human organisms, body and soul. It is not about just pussy, ass or any other part of a human being.
OK. Just pretending that R125 is being honest about what (s)he prefers. However, from what I've heard about vaginas -- don't know much about them, I'm a gay guy -- BUT I've heard that the vagina is an actual muscle and it grips the cock all the way through the sex act. The sphincter is a muscle, yes, but it's just like a big, (hopefully, depending how much you abuse it) muscle ring. Once you go beyond the sphincter ... there's nothing there. No pressure, no tightness beyond the actual sphincter. I know this for a fact. So, it's really about straight guys wanting instant gratification. They just want to penetrate that tight, taboo hole, even if the actual sex act might be less satisfying. Not surprising. Newsflash: Men are pigs.
I see all these things about there's no way in hell a guy can like it in the ass without being gay. Wellll you can say whatever you want about me but I'm completely straight, I live with my gf, and has had countless numbers of girls but I have loved fingers or a dick in my ass since I was little. I think about a cock in my ass or a nice big dildo sometimes. But I could never everrrrrr live without a lovely wet pussy in my life
Straight chick here who is dating a guy who likes it. I don't particularly care for it as it's uncomfortable and I don't get anything out of it. I asked him once if he ever thought of trying to have sex with a man. He said no, he just liked knowing every part of a woman's body. An intimacy thing I guess plus he's an "ass" man. Some prefer tits. Some really like nice legs.
You're wrong r57. There are women who love anal. A lesbian friend of mine told me that the only time she liked sex with a man was anal sex.
A 25 year old friend of mine told me that her husband gets very annoyed with her because she only wants anal sex.
People are different in every way but especially in sexual preferences. To say a gender only likes a certain type of sex for the purposes of manipulation or money is just ignorant.
if women don't like anal because they don't have a prostrate, how come I like sucking cock so much?
R131 No one has a "prostrate." It's an adjective.
My BFF really loves anal sex. That's her choice.
For me, it hurts like hell and I hate it. I flatly refuse to do it. That's MY choice.
But I've had PLENTY of men ask me to fuck them in the ass and I will happily oblige them.
Some guys want to try "pegging" to see what it feels like and some guys actually like the prostate stimulation. Some guys won't even let me finger their ass when I give them a blowjob. Does it matter to me? Fuck naw. Why would it? It's their preference and there are plenty of other things to try.
Different strokes for different folks.
Has anyone mentioned that some men like it because they perceived that their partner is less likely to fake a reaction to being fucked in the ass than in the pussy.
Well, good riddance to the absolutists at r51, r53, r68, etc. trying to claim that no women enjoy anal sex.
At link is a recent Redbook Magazine survey of 100,000 married women, of whom 43% said they had anal sex; of whom 40% found it "somewhat" to "very enjoyable."
And that is just a recent survey of many from a source LESS scientific in its methods, character and interests than readily available through research.
But scientific methods are only for people honest and objective about the subject, not those making up claims based on their own experience and desires.
Sure, some who try it hate it. It seems likely that a lot of women do it at the behest of their boyfriends or even get coerced. Receptive anal sex does involve pain, it's definitely worse without lube and gradual opening; it does involve feces sometimes -- even after enemas!
But that doesn't mean it's not hot and enjoyable to a minority of people of all genders and orientations.
r68, does receptive anal always = low self-esteem? How can you prove that?
Is wanting to please a partner more than most low self-esteem?
Is wanting to please a partner more than most wrong? Or necessarily dangerous? Or inferior to what you like?
I don't think so always.
r72, please don't waste our time with repetition.
Isn't "I'm a gay male" and "J'ADORE ..." redundant?
r89, as a vers gay male, I can tell you bottoming is NOT pleasant without GRADUAL opening -- lots of lube, fingering and slow entry at first.
Porn edits all that stuff out!
I doubt it's any different for women, but I notice some bottoms have less trouble than others; they're looser than others. Of course, some enjoy it WAY more than others.
r88/r91 your insight is fascinating. I don't think a lull between orgasms would work to reduce a male bottom's inhibitions or comfort, because men don't really get lulls when they're ready for more.
When we climax, we're done for the night! Usually, a man is very sensitive against sex after cumming, we want to rest and our sensibilities rush back in.
My understanding is that females can keep on humming as you described -- they can enjoy waves of multiple orgasms over more time than a man, though usually orgasms less intense than a man's.
But one trick that helps a LOT of gay bottoms is to jerk their own cocks while they're getting fucked. This mitigates a LOT of the pain with pleasure, like drowning out foul-tasting food with sugar, spices, sauce or dressing.
I would imagine anally receptive women could achieve the same effect by stimulating the clitoris while getting ass-fucked.
To r106 and others:
Cam4 is FULL of straight and woman-oriented male models who LOVE playing with their asses for money or otherwise -- so they claim.
Gay porn also has these gay-for-pay men who love receptive ass play and prostate stimulation as well.
I will refer you to a model who goes on different cam sites as "prostateparty." Like many other male webcam models, he swears he's straight -- never been with a dude nor a real dick and doesn't want to because it's the whole package of a woman he's attracted to and needs.
They often say they don't get enough or ANY ass penetration they want from females for various reasons.
Thank you, r66 and r88 for sharing.
Your posts seem genuine and helpful to others for understanding the diversity and complexity of sex.
My only regret is that we live in a world that doesn't talk about this stuff more openly and bravely.
That leads to a lot of ignorance, myth, bigotry, chauvinism, dysfunction and immorality when it comes to sex and all the consequences we pay as a result.
Because straight guys are actually gay. Haven't you been keeping up?
if you are into anal sex why don't you just fuck a guy? And why do all Arab men just want anal sex? Are they saving themselves for their wives?
That would be like asking why are straight guys into legs and blow jobs. Straight ways are into WOMEN and that means from head to toe. If Jesus is the reason for the season, pussy is the reason for the erection. Straight men aren't sexually attracted to men legs or men's asses. Nor do they want oral from some bearded fagot.
Straight guys are into penetrating women, period (specially women who like men). They are also into dominating, earning, and conquering valuable assets, including the female sex (don't confuse this with hurting or abusing).
They are also into analyzing, building, and using things in a practical way. So yes, a tight hole nesting on a beautiful female ass with a pretty pussy next to it is in high danger of also getting licked, penetrated, and pounded for the sake of physical and mental pleasure (aka fucked), if not bound to it. Location, location, location.
OP, they arent
1) straight men are sexually attracted to women. (You know just like gay men are sexually attracted to men)
2) many straight men consider a woman's ass extremely sexually exciting. (just like many gay men consider a man's ass extremely sexually exciting)
2) when one is sexually excited by a part of the body, one may well want to have sex with it. (just as may gay men who are excited by ass may well want to have sex with it)
3) having sex via the ass is "anal sex." (no matter what the gender of that ass happens to be)
4) Therefore a great many straight men are into anal sex.
Now, I have a question:
Why couldn't you possibly figure this out yourselves?
the vagine is like sleeve of wizard
R143, it's spelled faggot, not fagot. Fagot is a French thing.
Anal sex definitely has a taboo aspect that makes it exciting. it also provides a different kind of stimulation than vaginal sex, and for couples that aren't using birth control, being able to come inside your woman without pregnancy worries is huge!
Like Carla and Amy, I too can verify straight definitely want to try the backdoor action. I did my share of catfishing when the internet was young.
According to OP, only men have asses.
OP, probably from porn. Most straight guys always want to flip me over and slam it in my ass, because I think it's supposed to be demeaning. It's like breaking her ass is showing who is in charge. It turns me on also the feeling of being overpowered somewhat and he is in charge.
And they don't get to see your face, and it's less intimate.
[quote]A woman engaging in anal sex shows her desire and willingness to have sex in a purely physical way, with no thought of pregnancy. She is embracing, to some degree, a willingness to make her body a sexual object.
[quote]In some relationships where bondage and discipline factors play a role, the pain a woman might experience in anal sex is part of the allure.
[quote]For many men and women, anal sex is seen as a form of "gift" from the woman, given out of love and regard, and wanting to give him something special and rare.
[quote]Some people see a man having anal sex with a woman as a form of dominance, where the man is "having every part of her body." The "flavor" of dominance, and misogyny, plays out in the current (disturbing) porn phenomena of "Ass to Mouth," where a man puts his penis in the mouth of a woman, after performing anal sex on her. However, in most porn, the women are portrayed as the fantasy women who are always ready, always hot, always excited, and always willing. Another way of viewing this is that the actresses are expressing and displaying their willingness to violate any and all taboos, no matter how "distasteful," because of how aroused they have become, rather than an expression of female degradation.
[quote]Men overwhelmingly report positive experiences following performing anal sex on a female partner. But, [bold]more than half of women who have had receptive anal sex describe it as an unpleasant experience they probably wouldn't repeat.[/bold]
I remember when us gays were vile fudge packers, now that straight men are doing the same thing with females, it's not disgusting & they aren't ridiculed or put down for it. Y is that?
Tiger Woods loved Ass to Mouth. Made him feel like a big man..... even though he was paying for it.