Do You Feel Guilty When You Find a Teenager Attractive?

I''m not talking about 13/14 year old boys but like 17/18 year old guys. I''m 22 and my brother is now a senior in high school and some of his friends are like really fucking hot. I know most of them are 17 but a little eye candy never hurt anyone. Plus, I would never act on my attractions by sleeping with a 17 year old dude.

• [quote]I''m 22....\ \ Right.

• I''m 54 and I love to look at 17-19 YO''s

• No. We LOVE chicken here. The younger the better.

  Typical DLer

• If you really are 22 this is a ridiculous question.

• Why would anyone feel guilty about finding an 18 yr old attractive???\ \ That''s the nation legal age. In many states the legal age is 16.

• The age of consent in New York is 17. In New Jersey, it''s 16.

• There is a huge difference between finding a teenager attractive and communicating that to him in any way.

• You''re innocent if you leer.\ \ You''re guilty if you steal their underwear.

• You Americans are so silly and unreal when it comes to sex.

  European

• You guys make me feel a lot better. When I drive past those high schools I always see those hot, young guys participating in their after school sports, and I''m thinking to myself "What''s wrong with me?!"

  OP

• OP, you''re only 22, you can fool around with anyone of legal age ok?

• it''s not even remotely inapropriate.\ Can''t remember the creepy actors name who''s 50 something and just married some 16 yr.THAT is inapropriate

• OP is more like 42.

• If you gay dudes get off on looking at my teenage bod I say go for it

  Justin B.

• I''m not sure if OP is 22 or not, I tend to think not, but I remember being at 19 thinking it was ''all over.''%0D\ %0D\ I grew up in the ''80s, when the fear of AIDS pushed me into the closet so far I found an old Christmas gift from the ''50s.

• Apparently Anita Bryant has one of your nuts in a tight grip, and Andrea Dworkin has the other one, OP.\ \ What a debased spectacle to see you apologizing for your most basic and natural sexual desires.\ \ You should fuck as much 17-year-old ass and suck as much 17-year-old cock as you can possibly get while you''re still young.\ \ Stop trying to be a "good gay".

• I''m 59 years old and I find older teenagers attractive. They''re sexually mature. There''s nothing wrong with that. \ \ I don''t act on my feelings, of course. Am I supposed to find them unattractive?

• [quote]You Americans are so silly and unreal when it comes to sex.\ \ True. Here we have an additional factor. Victims of sexual abuse propound the argument that finding youth attractive is a perversion. OP''s question makes no sense absent this environment.

• No, not at all. I''m 33 and find teenage guys hot. Any guy, straight or gay, that says they never look at teenagers is lying.

• I honestly haven''t found teenagers attractive since I was a teenager myself. I like my men full grown.

• [quote]Any guy, straight or gay, that says they never look at teenagers is lying.\ \ I don''t. Much more interested in their dads. Even when I was a teen, I was much more attracted to guys in their 30s/40s.

• I only feel guilty when I send them home begging for more.

  Hot daddy

• I never sexually attracted to teens, they look silly and smelly.

• R9= Roman Polanski

• [quote]I only feel guilty when I send them home begging for more.%0D\ %0D\ I''m quite sure that all your tricks leave wishing there had been more. Consider becoming a bottom.

• I never had sex of any kind except masturbation until I was 19. The first few men were at least ten years older. I was glad to have them teach me about gay sex. Seriously. I proceeded to have sex with men both my own age and older, until I got older and the had a few affairs with younger men. As long as they are legal and consenting, there is not a problem. I am happily partnered with a man who is 6 years older for many years.

• If i find a teen to be good-looking, i just say that he''s gonna be really hot when he turns 23 and worth the wait.

• A 22 year old would not be feeling guilty about sleeping with a 17 year old. A 22 year-old is still essentially in the same class as a 17 year old. %0D\ %0D\ I can''t imagine why someone postng on an anonymous thread would lie about their age.

• r27 - poor is the man whose pleasure depends upon the permission of another.

  M. Ciccone, hot and bothered in a French hotel corridor

• When I was 17 I actively pursued older guys all the time. If anything *I* was the predator! I was definitely a "daddy hunter". I get embarrassed when I think of the wanton behavior I committed as a horny gay teen.

• When I was 17, I was always attracted to other guys my age. I''m not sure if I ever grew out of that. Although I''m also not sure if it''s absolutely necessary.

• When I was 17 I lusted after most any guy over 30 years old. I practically raped my 40 year old math tutor who wasn''t that interested, but finally caved to the power of my man pussy. Now I am 40 and my man pussy lusts after 17 year old cock.. the tables have turned..

• I drive by this high school in Beverly Hills and there''s this one kid I find extremely hot.%0D\ %0D\ I get a "vibe" from him.%0D\ %0D\ My friends tell me I''m way too old for him, but for some reason I just don''t think it''s age inappropriate.%0D

  http://www.google.cm/imgres?q=trevor donovan&um=1&hl=fr&biw=1013&bih=548&tbm=isch&tbnid=k7HefOXssYwYrM:&imgrefurl=http://features.outinamerica.com/2010/08/19/hot-guy-the-new-gay-guy-in-90210-trevor-donovan/&docid=yk9WK77usu-RZM&w=830&h=800&ei=WN5OTv3KI4_O

• I only feel guilty if they gag.

  RancidOldKunst

• r20, honest question.... Are you [childish epithet posted by a bigoted tool]? Same for others who are posting similar things. I''m not trying to insult, it''s just something I''ve noticed among people who claim to have those tastes.\ \ I can''t imagine anyone with good vision NOT thinking teen guys are hot, so I''m wondering if the ones who are claiming they only find much older to be hot are maybe letting something psychological override the physical beauty.

• ...but seriously, if I did, I wouldn''t feel guilty. \ At 15 I had my first boyfriend who was 19, and it was fantastic sex, and we were friends for long after we broke up. He was a very special guy, and it made the sex better that he wasn''t new to it like I was.

  RancidOldKunst

• I''m a woman and I find teenage boys attractive as hell. I would never admit that anywhere but here though.

• Yall some hos up in here.

• R28 nailed it for me. Eighteen year old teenage guys tend to change and mature slower than teenage girls at the same age.%0D\ %0D\ By age 20-21, guys that I thought were hot at 18 are much more sexy two or three years later. Just my opinion.%0D\ %0D\ (I teach at a university.)

• Haha. Three local high school football players just came to my door in their jerseys, soaking wet ''cause it''s pouring outside. They were selling some discount card for a fund raiser. I told them I didn''t want the card but I gave them $20 bucks anyway. \ \ I got a good chuckle out of it because I thought of you all and what you might have done instead of just shoving a $20 bill thru a crack in the door and sending them on their way.

  Mom of teenage boys so... no, not interested.

• OP needs to read "Destroyer" to remove the stick from his ass (and replace it with teenage dick).

  http://blog.destroyerjournal.com/

• Are you kidding, r41? There''s a difference between what OP is talking about (mature teenage boys), and the stuff on the pages of that link. Those are really, really young boys.

• I don''t think I''ve ever found a teenager hot, even when I was a teenager. Always preferred older men, hairy chests and facial hair.

• No thanks [R41], they don''t look even look like teenagers. Barely hit puberty from the front page of the site you posted.

  RancidOldKunst

• Do women(of any orientation) do this?%0D\ %0D\ If not, what''s with these teacher banging the student stories that crop up occasionally?

• Ewww, R41''s link is creepy. Those boys are barely pubescent!\ \ There''s a HUGE difference between a 17-year-old teen who looks like he''s 13 (like Justin Bieber), and a 17-y.o. teen who looks like he''s 22.\ \ The second scenario is ok, but the first is not.

• Well, r44, I''ll admit that Kazakhstan pic is a bit icky, but also rather unrepresentative.\ \ The covers give you a better idea of what the mag was about.

  http://destroyermag.com/

• OP, to answer your question: Yes!\ \ I''m 30 and I''d probably date, or at least have sex with, an 18 or 19 year old if the chemistry was right...I just would never pursue a teenager.\ \ One recent incident (as in last night) that made me feel pretty pervvy:\ \ I was invited to a friend of a friend''s house for dinner, and the couple''s 16 year old son was there. He was okay looking in the face, but he had a great personality and nice bod. What''s worse is that he wasn''t wearing any shoes or socks. I had to really try not to stare at his feet or even THINK of anything sexual.

• PS: When I say I wouldn''t pursue a teenager, I mean that when I''m looking to date, I prefer guys who are 5 up or 5 down (25 - 35). Even though I would have sex with an 18 or 19 year old if the opportunity presented itself, he would have to pursue me...because it''s not going to happen the other way around.\ \ Fortunately, I don''t think I''ll ever have to deal with a teenager who wants to get in my pants.

• R41/47, those covers are even worse!\ \ Destroyer mag was SICK SHIT, I''m thrilled that it''s no longer publishing!

  not a prude, but not a pederast, either

• I just F&F R41. I''m glancing at my door waiting for the FBI to come after clicking on that horrible link. **shudder**

• When I was in my early to mid 20s, I still found some high-school guys attractive. Not that I pursued them, but I still looked at them as a possibility (even though it really wasn''t possible at all).%0D\ %0D\ Once I hit my late 20s, any of those lingering feelings ceased. The older I get, the more I appreciate being with my partner (eight years and counting) who is a year and a half younger than me. It''s almost impossible for me to fathom actually having any sort of relationship with someone significantly younger.

• They''re my favorite thing in the whole world.

• I don''t find teenagers attractive, generally, but in those rare occasions when I do, I don''t feel at all guilty. Perhaps if I felt tempted to actually have sex with one, I would feel guilty; but I don''t. I merely acknowledge the young man''s beauty.

• Society has really gotten sick if people have to ask for an ID before they can decide if someone is attractive or not. %0D\ %0D\ OP is afraid to look in the window of a pet store because people may think he''s into bestiality.

• My boyfriend and I call them "plus tens", as in the have the raw material and in about ten years will probably be really hot. But right now, they''re just pretty to look at.\ \ Beauty is beauty, and can be found at any age. Appreciating beauty is not a sexual act (if it were, I''d be bisexual).

• There is nothing to feel guilty about. The problem is when you act on it. I always love these people who see a teen and go, "Oh, he''s gonna be so fucking hot when he''s 18."\ \ No dumbass, he''s hot now. Just admit it. As long as you don''t try to fuck him before he''s legal and admire his attractiveness for what it is and from afar, then you''re okay. \ \ It was like straight guys lusting after the Olsen twins and Lindsay Lohan. They were hot to them before they were legal, but were too embarrassed to admit it.\ \ A hot guy who is 17 and 364 days old, doesn''t automatically get hotter when the clock strikes midnight and he turns 18. Their hotness doesn''t change.

• You cruise by high schools to watch them play sports? And you know they are 17 how?%0D\ %0D\ This is pretty gross, but you all knew that.

• Nope. Only a liar will claim they''ve never found a teenager attractive.%0D\ %0D\ Here''s the important bit: I never ever act on it.%0D\ %0D\ Hell, I''ve seen some guys in real life that I thought were in their 20''s, but who were only 17. I swear some of those high school football players are using testosterone and HGH or something. I thought one of them was pushing 30 in fact. I was so stunned when he mentioned he was still in high school that I almost wanted to ask how many years he''s been a Senior...%0D\ %0D

• None of us are interested in twinks here. So, be gone! Before a house drops down on you.

• Incidentally, r47..you are one sick fuck! None of us are amused.

• Why would anyone - young, old, straight, gay, male, female - feel guilty for finding 17/18 year old guys attractive?!?

• I''ve never found teenagers sexually attractive, even when I was one myself. I like my men to be men, not skinny barely post-pubescent twinks, and always have.

• R63, not all 17-18 year olds are "skinny" twinks. You sound like an idiot.%0D

• R63 - I think it depends on the teenager. This one...

  http://i52.tinypic.com/343gbrc.jpg

• R64, you sound like a pedophiliac asshole.

• [quote]A hot guy who is 17 and 364 days old, doesn''t automatically get hotter when the clock strikes midnight and he turns 18. Their hotness doesn''t change.\ \ No, not at 18. They''re still babies.\ \ Men aren''t men until 30 or so. Until then, they''re just potential.

• I''m 23 and I love 17 year olds. I wait until they are 18 though

• [quote]You cruise by high schools to watch them play sports? And you know they are 17 how? This is pretty gross, but you all knew that.\ \ R58 is not allowed to look.

  http://cl.ly/3t3g3i2c3r2B1f0t0P0B

• Lol