Was your first sexual encounter with a relative? Neighbor?

College roommate. It was a very good time.

Not being an incestuous predator (or the prey for incestuous molesters) myself, I've yet to have sex with a relative and don't plan on doing so.

r2 same here...

My cousin and I jerked each other off.

my boyfriend, who wasn't my relative!!! or neighbor.

First time was with a woman, who was my senior class high school girlfriend. First time with a guy was a week after my girlfriend dumped me, and it was with her best male friend.

My hand.

Some very distant cousin at an out-of-state wedding. I'd say we were both about 14. (We weren't really related, so no worries.) The reception was in the backyard of their family manse. Seriously, you should have seen this place. It was like a plantation. Anyway, he grabbed a bottle of beer, stuck it under his shirt and took me away to show me his room. He talked me into sucking his dick promising that afterward he'd suck mine. I did. He came. He said his mom would be wondering where he was and bolted back for the party. It was weird.

My first was with a guy that was going to become a relative....sort of. We were both 14 and he was the son of a chick that my dad was dating at the time. Eventually my pop ended up marrying her so he and I became stepbrothers but obviously we were never blood relatives, so it's not as salacious at is might sound. %0D %0D The neighbor thing is kind of funny because he (my stepbrother) used to boast of having given my dad's neighbor blow jobs from time to time for $5. I never fully believed he did that, although it's certainly possible. I didn't know how to confirm or disprove him without outing myself, so it remains unconfirmed since I don't have contact with any of them anymore.

[quote]Some very distant cousin at an out-of-state wedding. I'd say we were both about 14. (We weren't really related, so no worries.) %0D %0D So glad you weren't really related. That could have produced some really defective children.

College roommate as well

married cousin

Neighbor's dog. We're still together.

When I was 17 I went to a Times Square porno store and paid $20 to a hot Puerto Rican hustler to suck his big uncut dick in a booth.

A neighbour boy. He was 12, I was 11. We used to go behind his garage and take out dicks out and rub them together and chant "Wieners necking! Wieners necking"

if my dad could be considered my neighbor, yes.

Does vaginally penetrating my mother with my entire body at the time I was born comprise a sexual encounter with a relative, in the DL's opinion?

Not unless you crawled back up there, R18.

I'm similiar to OP. I was 8 and had sex with an 11 year old neighbor. I sucked his dick. I can't remember if he did anything to me. When I was in my teens I had sex with a couple of 2nd cousins, sucking and fucking with one, the other just masturbation.

Cousin when I was 11--he let me suck him off for about a year.

OP, that shit went out of style in the 70s.

How old was he, r21?

My identical twin, naturally.

Wow R21, now that's what I call staying power!

LOL--smart bitch at R25. For the record, he was also 11, and I did not suck his dick for an entire year non-stop. But got some every couple of weeks over the course of a year.

Yall some hos up in here.

nasty!

Have you seen my dad? Can you blame me?

details!!

This is why they think we're mentally damaged, thus the reason why we're gay.

I was 15, he was my 33 year old neighbor. I pursued that fucker for half a summer before I got him to fuck the living shit out of me. I cut his grass for free. I went swimming in his pool. I bent over, spread my legs and everything accept present my hole to him. Finally, he got the message and gave me what I was looking for.

What, r32? The clap?

I have memories of my mother masturbating me to make me fall asleep as a baby.

yes

An uncle who was 6 years older then me. It went on for several years.

Thank you, OP. I didn't have the $18 bucks to own yet another thread by talking about my dad.

Do the lot of you realize that you were molested? This sounds alot like child abuse.

[quote]Do the lot of you realize that you were molested? This sounds alot[sic] like child abuse.%0D %0D %0D Ignorant Fundie frau mentality invades the thread.

You all are a bunch of hillbillies.

Friend across the street. We were both around twelve Lasted a few years until he moved away.

My best friend, Ricky. I was six, he was eight. We'd kiss and play with each other. We'd suck eachother's dicks and he'd climb on top of me like we were fucking. He fingered me a couple of times.%0D %0D I love him to this day.

A neighbor girl -- and I started it. She was 13, and I was 12. I used to lay on top of her and we kissed for hours.

One day she told me what we were doing (two girls together) was wrong. I couldn't figure out why (and I still can't), but I never spoke to her again.

details!! more details!!

I was 7. He was 8, and a school mate. I went to his house, and he invited me in--his parents were out visiting his grandfather in a veteran's home. He excused himself, and when he came out of the bathroom...earrings...caftans... He was smoking a Virginia Slims and said in a gutteral voice, "Get out of that snowsuit and into Mama! Mamma like! Mamma like!: I was out of there like shit through a goose. I couldn't look at another man until graduate school. I was scarred for life!

I was a virgin until I was 19, and my first time was with my RA in college. He had a girlfriend, apparently.

Anyway, I've been boning my dad for awhile, but that didn't start until I was 25.

ick!!!

neighbor. hand job. first time I came, didn't really understand what was happening to me.

Me, too [1] -- he tried to get me top suck him off -- well, put it in my mouth by force. I gritted my teeth and shook my head and suddenly he turned aside and clutched a handkerchief to his groin. He gave me a quarter!

My patrol leader at boy scout camp. I was 12, and he was 16. He was the first person I had seen hard, and I wanted to touch it.

HOT CAMP STORIES!

would the BFF with their fanatical "daddy raped me" crap please get off this thread and start your own.

uh oh, mhb is here.

My babysitters dad play this game I was 9 it was fun I let my uncle put his thick meat in my mouth

I just don't believe that people have sex that young. My first time was in college, with a janitor I'd been making sexy eyes with for months. Finally we just found a supply closet and he had his way with me. I'll never forget the way those rough, calloused hands felt sliding up and down my smooth twink boy skin...

I was well into my 20s before I had my first sexual encounter with a relative.

[QUOTE]Mine was a neighbor and then later with an older cousin.

OP, did your neighbor later become your older cousin, did you have more than one first time, or did you start having your first time with a neighbor and then your older cousin joined in later?

College roommate sophomore year.

R57, details please!

Since we're sharing...neighbor.

I was 13 or so, smooth blond toe-head and my best friend was this tan skinned Latino boy. We had played - "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" a couple of times (he was uncut - and his dick was darker than his body, which to this day is a turn on) and grab ass in our undies. I always knew I wanted to do "more" but wasn't really sure what "more" was. Anyway, there was a sleepover at his house, I woke up, couldn't go back to sleep, went to his basement (he had nintendo!) in my tighty-whities and about 20 mins later his older brother came in (already had a crush on him - loved his hairy muscled legs) - also in his tighty-whites - but his were PACKED - I couldn't help but stare at the package and all the hair spilling out the top and the leg holes - he caught me, smiled, came to the couch - asked what I was doing - told me I was really cute and smooth talked about school, if I had a gf, asked what me and his bro did that night, asked if me and my brother ever compared, when I said yes, he pretend pouted and said he wanted to see too - I was in boy lust so of course I stood up and dropped by undies - naked in front of this HOT 18 year old Latin jock, a totally smooth boy with a hard boycock. HE asked if I jo'd (no) if I had ever cum (don't think so?) He said he was going to show me. He sucked me then and after I came asked if I wanted to see his - I did - he showed - OMG he was huge (to my boy eyes anyway, but as we later found out, he was just a bit over 7, but real thick, uncut and the dick darker than the rest), we cuddled, he kissed me (taught me to make out actually) started giving him a handy and then sucked as much as I could. He sucked me some more, we played with our asses, he let me fuck him and then very very patiently he fucked me. After all was done, we made out some more, he told me how cute I was how much he liked me and that he wanted to do this all again and again. Of course, at this point I was hooked. What a night!

My buddy was wondering why I was so tired and dragging ass the next day - I'll never tell ;-)

Post Script - that night was over 20 years ago now, the brother and I continued to play regularly for years until I went away to college. He visited a few times and of course I was home on breaks. Lost touch about 5 years after college when I moved, he found me on FB a couple of years ago and we'd hooked up a few times since. He's still a hot Latin - now older and more muscled and more hairy. I may not be the smooth boy anymore (I'm over 6'2" now and fairly muscled and hairy myself) but I love taking it from him and giving it to him and he can still give it or take it like a stud.

I think I was about 7 or 8 and my neighbor was around 10 or so. We used to play in this old garage and every once in a while we would get naked and run around. One day he asked me if I would suck his dick and then he would suck mine. I said sure. I began to hold his dick, which was at least 7 inches long. I had never seen such a huge dick. I began to put in my mouth and try to suck it. It felt so good. After a few minutes we heard someone coming and I had to stop. He neer did suck my dick that day.

Cousin.

We were both nine and didn't know what we were doing.

A lot of cousin sex in this thread.

Welcome to the neighborhood!

[quote]Cousin. We were both nine and didn't know what we were doing.

I hope you're grown and figured out how to do it.

I've sucked my dad's dick, but I was well into adulthood, and it was hardly my first time.

What's with all this cousin sex? Do a lot of you queens come from rural areas where it's commonplace to fuck your cousin or some other blood relative? I'd rather jerk off than have sex with a relative. It seems so repulsive.

I was with a male peer/friend and we watched each other masturbate.

My dad would grow a beard and moustache for hunting season and he wore nice tight jeans. In my early teen years when I started going with him to camp I took every opportunity I could to whack his butt either with a newspaper, magazine, a stick of wood or my hand. He either laughed it off, ignored it or said owwwwwwwwwwwwwww or heyyyyyyyyyyyy especially if he had a few beers in him. Does that count? I didn't think it would but just thought I'd throw it in.

Mine was with our next door neighbor, a married man, probably around 30, and I was 13. My bedroom window looked down into theirs and I used to watch him get ready for bed every night. He always stripped down to his underwear and would come in and out of the room several times before finally turning off the light. His wife would only come in once, take off her robe and get into bed, and that's it, but he always took a long time, and I loved it. He had dark hair and a hairy chest, not built but hunky in a middle aged man sort of way. Finally he caught me watching one night, it was obvious he saw me and he closed the curtains. I don't remember how long after that it happened, but he was in his garage and saw me shooting baskets by myself and called me over, confronted me about looking in his window and asked what I was looking at. At first I said "I don't know" but eventually said "you." He asked if I liked looking at him in his underwear and I said yes, and that was it, we went inside and I sucked my first cock. It was HEAVEN and I didn't feel molested at all. We did it two more times before they moved away later that year. And he always kept his curtains open after that!

I was really young my first time was with a girl I grew up with as a child...I remembered late at night we would slide our hands under each others pants at night and play with each others vagina's and clit..I don't speak to her another more but that's how I ound out I was into guys and females now I'm engaged to my future husband

OP = Jerry Sandusky ?

Forgot to add that I jacked off to swatting dad's ass. My goal was to somehow deflate it because it stuck out in those tight jeans. I also never missed a chance to give him a birthday spanking but those pretty much stopped by the time he was 45 and I was 20 not because he said no but because I didn't do it anymore. I live in a different state now and don't see him much at all anymore....I still don't think this qualifies though but do wonder if other gay guys jacked off to their father. Is that incest to think of a relative while masturbating?

When I was three, he was 12, he's my step-sister's half-brother.

Not to hijack this thread but what's the biggest size penises you men have been with, being totally honest and no exaggerating fellas. Mine was this black guy I went on a date with. He was close to 10 inches if not slightly more. Kinda skinny though.

relative. A second-cousin. She was 25 I was 15. Boy was she HOT... and incredibly horny! And I was young and totally in-experienced. Except for the regular masturbation sessions I had no other experience at all.

I was spending a week of my summer holidays with her and her parents. She was an only daughter and an only child. She had her own room and total privacy. No one even seemed to wonder what we used to be up-to in there.

She was working as a school teacher and used to be away working in another state and she too used to come home for holidays only.

We were close, liked each other and enjoyed each other's company.

One day when we were alone at home, we were talking about stuff and my hand brushed her breast. She held it there for a while thrusting her breast against me, said - that feels nice and before I knew it - was undoing my pants :-)

She initiated me with a hand-job, then normal sex and then over the next few days, did it all over again and even gave me a couple of mind-blowing blow-jobs.

We did it 2-3 times daily and it was one of the best time of my life. She was petite and a bit on the chubby side with lovely legs and hands and felt really good to hold and love!!!!

Maybe I should be getting in touch with her again, sometime soon. It's been years - but I still remember those few days - and if I can re-capture any of that magic, it's be something to remember forever!

First, let me say I am not advocating sex with kids. However, having said that, I do think it's pretty common for boys to have their first sexual experience with an older neighbor, friend, or relative. People get all freaky about it now and call it abuse, but I'm not sure that's the case. Yes, if an older person has sex with a kid it is, but in many cases it's an older teen who does it and it's a mutual thing. I'm probably not explaining this well, but my point is, kids experiment and it's often with someone who's older (I don't mean a ten year old kid with a ninety year old man).

Several years ago, my handsome downstairs neighbor (whom I hardly knew) asked me to help with virus on his computer. He kept distracting me, and finally blurted out "You know, I've never kissed a man". I asked if he wanted to try it...and the hot kissing led to full-on, stark naked sex in his bed. We repeated this several more times, until he needed to leave town (for different reasons). He always claimed he was confused by what we were doing because he was 'straight'....I never gave him an argument because it was so freakin' hot and I didn't want to scare him off. About a year after he left, he called me from across country to say he had really liked being with me.

My first cousin

I don't want to shock anyone but, I sucked my brothers dick. I was 13 or 14 and he was 16. He then let my try and fuck him and he was so tight it didn't happen, then he fucked me. We shared a bedroom and afterwords he said I had best never let anyone know that I like this kind of thing and we never did it again. Not long after his friend Charlie who had a huge dick and was movie star good looking stopped to see him. He was in bed sleeping so I asked if I could blow him. He was all for it and we went into the basement and I sucked his dick. Then I asked him to fuck me. I got some lube and he asked me to suck him some more before he fucked me. Then he fucked me. I had seen him in the shower at school and saw his big dick. He was not circumcised and I thought there was something different about his penis as I had never seen an uncircumcised one and had no idea what that was about. When I sucked his cock it was just like mine and I thought I had not seen it right. Was some time later that I figured out that I was cut and not everyone was.

Neighbor. He was older. I was 6. He was 7.

Any more meetups with him R59?

You realize that was from 2011?

Which allows plenty of time for more meetings.

Never with a relative. With a married neighbor, though. There was a big guy who lived two houses down from me. His name was Gary. He was in his late 30s, 6'4, curly hair and a thick mustache. He was a contractor. He had a big barrel chest but definitely had a stomach that got worse over the years. He always walked around in the summer only wearing skimpy shorts. His whole body was tanned, or at least the part I could see. You could see his bulge in his skimpy shorts. I think he liked showing it off. He was always very friendly. I always stared at his bulge in his shorts and his big barrel chest. He definitely caught me a few times staring when we'd chat on the sidewalk if we ran into each other.

About a year after I moved in, my dog got loose one summer evening and I was wandering around my neighbors' back yards looking for him. I cornered my dog in this guy's yard. He came out on his back deck and asked if I needed help. He was of course wearing nothing but the skimpy shorts. He and I were able to grab my dog and I brought him back to my house. Oddly Gary followed. I thanked him for his help and asked him if he wanted to come in for a beer.

After a couple beers, he told me his wife was gone for a week visiting her mother out-of-state. I kept staring at his big, tanned chest. I was kind of shy and not sure what to do. He must have done this before because he flat out said that although he was married, he liked men. It helped his business to be married. His wife didn't know. He said he had always wanted to get with me.

Well two seconds later we were all over each other. I was not disappointed when he pulled out a big, thick dick. We went up to my room and I sucked him for a while, then he said he really wanted to fuck my ass. He pulled me up and started fingering my hole. Pretty soon he put a condom on and started to enter. It took a while to get used to his size, then he fucked me. We did it twice and both of us came each time. He was very gentle like a lot of married men. He was very cuddly afterward. We hooked up several times that week. Each time he came over after it got dark, always wearing the skimpy shorts and nothing else except flip-flops.

We were neighbors for five years and did it a few more times over the years. Once I told him I was on "staycation" and would be home all week. He basically took the week off and we fucked all day for a week. Eventually he and his wife had a baby and they moved to the suburbs. Never saw him again after they moved. By that time, he had really put on a lot of weight and I hadn't been with him for almost a year. Never said goodbye or anything. Never did anything like that again either.

Cousin. He was developed, hung like a horse, and I was mid-puberty, hard like a rock. He was 15, I was 14. He came thick and milky, I came clear.

It all happened during a sleepover (his unsuspecting brother quietly sleeping on the next bed).

We lost touch. Fast forward 35 years, I'm very out and he's a married doctor with three wonderful kids. He put on a few pounds as have I, but his steel-intense stare and cute dimples are still there.

He showed up as a surprise, lovely wife and kids in tow, to a family gathering I was hosting. Our embrace was long and truly meaningful. Then when we unlocked I approached his face to kiss him hello on the cheeks and he turned to have his lips meet mine with a friendly peck. Truly a cool guy, showing affection, letting me know he hasn't forgotten, but also making it evident that he would not be looking to betray his nuclear family (which I admire).

It was truly a pleasure to meet the product of his copiuos seed and the recipient of his huge dick. I was happy to see they were all bright, engaging human beings.

Meanwhile, his brother on the other bed (my younger cousin who always pinged to me), having adopted a bunch of foster kids throughout his very religious marriage with never one of his own, is now divorced, in great shape, full head of luscious hair that he dyes to soften his 49 years, and(not making this up) he runs a theater company...And I'm not the least bit attracted to him.

Neighbor story. I lived in a mostly white neighborhood peppered with some black professionals. I was with an ex at the time . The people next door were a professional black "straight" couple, both in their late 30s. The man worked out of his home. He did some kind of consulting. He was really tall, 6'5 and husky. I guess he was a good athlete in high school and college but his body had gotten softer over the years. The wife was nice but he was the friendlier of the two. My ex used to say he thought the husband was into me. It definitely gave me fantasies.

My ex and I had broken up but were still living together, and occasionally sleeping together. It was a weird time. I was 28. Anyway, my ex was right about the husband. In May I had accepted another job offer and didn't have to start for 6 weeks. I had a lot of vacation built up (back when you could carry over a bunch), so I gave my notice immediately and ran out my vacation before going back for my last couple days, so I was home for about 5 weeks. I thought I might never get a chance to take that much time off again so I did it. It was nice out so the husband and I would chat each day outside. After about 4 days of seeing each other every day, and him dropping hints, I asked half-joking, half-serious if he wanted to mess around. He looked me dead in the eye and said why do you think I've been coming over here every day?

I invited him in and we went straight to the bedroom. I'm smaller so being with such a big guy was a turn on. He was over 8 inches and very thick. He was a very good top, very sensual, lots of kissing. We did it three times that day. We hooked up almost every day I was home. My ex would still want to have sex at night, too, so I was drained that whole time. Good thing I was still in my 20s.

Older neighbor boys forced me into doing unspeakable things. I loved it.

[quote]Neighbor's dog.

I don't quite understand. Was the neighbor's dog a relative?

[quote]Older neighbor boys forced me into doing unspeakable things.

R87, do you suppose that you could be talked into speaking of them?

My uncle, my dad's brother. He and his wife never had kids. I always wondered about him. He and I had always gotten along really well. When I was 18 I stayed with them for a week one summer before I went to college. His wife used to take sleeping pills at night that knocked her out. The second night there, he came to my room, got on the bed next to me and we just talked for about an hour.

He had a robe on and it was mostly open to his navel and loosely tied. I was just wearing shorts. The robe slowly opened more and he just let it fall open. He was semi-hard and I kept looking at it. He finally reached over and touched my face and said he knew what I was and it was ok. He asked if I'd ever been with a man and I said no, which was true. He asked if I wanted him to show me some things and not to worry about his wife as she had taken her pills. I was so turned on yet scared, so I just shook my head yes. That first night we kissed a lot, I sucked him off and he jerked me off.

The next night he started playing with my asshole and asked me if I ever fantasized about being fucked in the ass. I said no even though that was a lie. So he did a lot of rimming and ass play that night. By the end of the night, I said I thought maybe I wanted to try it. He told me about tops and bottoms. Jeez I was so naive and had no idea about all this but it was nice someone was teaching me. He said we'd try it the next day.

The next day he surprised me and took the day off and we spent it together. He told his wife he and I were going to do some running around and she said she'd go to lunch with friends. She was so oblivious. I think she was on valium or something. She always seemed out of it. Anyway, he taught me about proper hygiene "down there" before fucking. He rented a motel room since it was during the day and the wife could come home at anytime. We took our time. When I was ready he started to try to enter, and I mean try. I was tighter than a drum. It took several tries but he was very patient. He was about 7 inches and somewhat thick, so it seemed big enough for first timer like me. He did not wear a condom and I didn't even ask him to, which was stupid but I never have tested positive these 20 plus years later. He fucked me once very slowly. I remember just thinking it hurt so bad but by the end started to feel oddly good. I didn't cum but he did.

The next night after his wife passed out, he came to my room and we fucked a couple times. The second time I actually came while he was fucking me. I started to really shout while I was coming and he put his hand over my mouth, so I whimpered softly. Man it was so intense. We fucked every night thereafter until I left and I came every time he was fucking me. The last night he said he really enjoyed our time together and hoped it wouldn't make things weird for us. He also said how important it was that we never discuss it with anyone, and honestly I never did. I said I just really appreciated him showing me all these things that I'd fantasized about and it was nice to have someone I trusted do it.

I saw him a few times over the years but we never had time to get together until my dad's funeral about 7 years later. He came to the funeral by himself and stayed in a hotel. We hooked up a couple times at his hotel. He was such a good top. That was the last time and I haven't seen him since then as we live very far apart.

Okay, I've got a question for you folks, regarding an encounter that would have been my first if it had gone to what I now think was its logical conclusion. In my freshman year in college, I returned to my dorm room from the bathroom down the hall. I'd left my door unlocked, but locked it as I entered. I stood in the little hallway that led to the room itself, undid my robe (this was a long time ago; I still own some old bathrobes, but can't remember the last time I wore one), and was about to hang it in the closet, when a voice came from my bedroom, advising me "I'm in here." Not visible from the hall, a guy who lived down the hall a bit explained that he hadn't wanted me to get naked or anything. I put the robe back on, and stepped into the room, where he was lying on my bed in his underwear. I lay down too (there was only one chair in the room, a really uncomfortable desk chair), and we talked for a couple of hours.

In my jaded middle age, it seems implausible to me that he was lying on my bed in his underwear for any platonic reason. But I don't think that sex occurred to me at the time. (I'd have been terrified, but thrilled.) WAS there something besides sex that could have been on his mind?

Older cousin came to my house when I was alone and seduced me with playboy mags to get me hard and then commented about my erection. It all was his method of finally getting me with my pants down and him sucking me and then me sucking him.

My first sexual experience was terrifying. After all, I was alone.

[quote]This is why they think we're mentally damaged, thus the reason why we're gay.

What makes you think straight people didn't play the same games? I didn't have real sex until I was 18 but I did play doctor games with a bunch of neighborhood girls and boys as a kid. We always knew it was naughty and there was sexual element to it although it never went that far to sucking or stuff like that.

R91 your post does not make sense.

[quote] My first was with a guy that was going to become a relative....sort of. We were both 14 and he was the son of a chick that my dad was dating at the time. Eventually my pop ended up marrying her so he and I became stepbrothers but obviously we were never blood relatives, so it's not as salacious at is might sound.

This is the premise of DRAKE & JOSH.

Mine was definitely with a neighbor boy. We were both around 14 years old at the time. We did the show me yours, I'll show you mine. He taught me how to suck cock a skill that to this day I cherish.