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Flirty Straight Friend

My best friend is the sweetest, most generous guy in the world. The problem is that he flirts mercilessly with every straight guy he meets, especially after getting a few drinks in him. It doesn't matter who it is, if he has a dick and balls my friend flirts with him. I'm not talking about mild joking around, I'm talking about overt sexual innuendo. I can see that guys are often very uncomfortable with this, and both my partner and I have spoken to my friend about it.%0D %0D The problem is that we are having a big Fourth of July party this year with family and friends, both gay and straight. I just had a phone call from my brother-in-law and he asked me if my friend would be there. He said that he has been debating whether he should talk with me or just skip the party altogether because he feels very uncomfortable with my friend's advances. He said he wouldn't accept the same behavior from a woman, and he shouldn't have to tolerate it from a man. He feels uncomfortable because he doesn't want to be perceived as homophobic if he says anything. He said if a woman spoke to him the way my friend does, he would tell her that she was being inappropriate but he doesn't say anything to my friend because he doesn't want to make waves.%0D %0D I feel like I need to lay it on the line to my friend. He has already been invited to the party but I think I need to let him know that his behavior with the straight guys needs to be toned down. I want to be able to have a nice mix of gay and straight, male and female, and kids; and I certainly don't want to have people staying home because of his actions.

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