- I did an Israeli soldier during my summer after HS graduation. The sex was good. All men look good in uniforms. He looked good out of his, too. He was tough but sweet and it was a turn-on. I was still 17, and he was 22 (I think). Never saw him again.
- I have traveled extensively in this part of the world. \
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I have spent time in Yemen, what used to be Persia, Dubai, Lebanon, and Turkey. \
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There is an enormous amount of male to male activity in any place men gather, primarily hamams, (bathhouses). \
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They are not Western style with cubicles but rather a central hot stone to lay on with sinks around. \
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However there are dressing rooms, and nooks and crannies an they are often filled with men having sex. \
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There is an American assumption that the men in these countries will not bottom. Some won''t. Many will. \
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Many were used by older men when they were teens as fuckholes and they liked it. Those men will often bottom for an American.\
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Condoms are never used and I have no idea what the rate of VD might be. I never got a disease. \
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GAY is verbotten. Men can do what they like, the society is controlled by men, but they cannot be GAY. Almost no one would ever use the word or gay as an identifier.
- Middle Eastern guys don''t need to have an actual man. Their women are hairy. They just close their eyes, lift up their muumuus and do them doggy-style.
- Interesting thread I think it would be relatively easy to get a brief sexual encounter but incredibly hard to be gay. Have you seen a jihad for love about gay men in the Arab world.\
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I find Arab men very hot however I think they have a lot of pressures on them,besides the obvious death penalty in some countries there is blackmail as well,though I imagine some relationships could be explained away as friendship.
- You must remember that men and women are kept separate prior to marriage and hospitality is the rule in Muslim countries. \
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You are OFTEN thrown into bed with other men when traveling. 2 horny men in bed and sometimes something happens.
- You are correct R4, sex is easy a gay identity is almost impossible.
- {quote]You are OFTEN thrown into bed with other men when traveling. \
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Wow! How often, and how soon after I get off the plane can I expect to be thrown into bed with other men?\
Now, where''d I leave my passport...
- 25 years ago I was based in Saudi Arabia and wow, what an education.
Men walk hand in hand in public. It just means they are friends. Remember, this was 25 years ago. There are some American cities... okay MOST American cities even today, where you wouldn't dare walk in public holding another mans hand.
I met a Prince (okay you can't swing a cat there without hitting a Prince) and developed a relationship together. This included sex. Wonderful sex. Hot, passionate, sweaty sex. When I mentioned something one day about him being gay, he got really pissed off and denied being gay. I wasn't going to argue with him. After all, who else was he going to have sex with? If he got caught having sex with a woman without being married, he ran the risk of prison, or worse.
Oddly, having sex with a man is no big deal, unless you're bottoming, which is seen as somehow being undesirable or [childish epithet posted by a bigoted tool].
When I was out shopping, I learned that I'd get a better price by openly flirting with the shopkeep, who was always male. Sometimes, guys would walk up to me in the market and ask to take me to dinner. It was kind of weird so I never did it, but was flattered.
Tokyo Joe
- Sounds like a slutty bottom''s paradise.\
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I''m booking plane tickets now!
- I don''t think there''s one adult Muslim/Arab man who hasn''t had some kind of sex at least once (most likely more) in his life. The repercussions of having sex with a female are so awful (especially for the girl/woman)it''s no wonder homosex is the norm.\
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What a fcked up people.
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I don''t think there''s one adult Muslim/Arab man who hasn''t had some kind of sex with another male at least once (most likely more) in his life. The repercussions of having sex with a female are so awful (especially for the girl/woman)it''s no wonder homosex is the norm.\
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What a fucked up people.
- Tokyo Joe, did your sex with the prince include kissing?%0D\
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Also, are you now, or have you ever been, a CIA employee?
GS-15
- Will they think my caftan is a burqua?
Momma, on her way to the airport, boys!
- I was in Abu Dhabi a few months back (remember the thread about buying a persian rug?). At the time, Grinder worked in the country so I got on and met this friendly guy. At first I just asked him a few questions about what he was into. When I asked what it was like to be gay in the UAE, the replied, "LOL...I'm not gay...I'm a top."
Seems like that's the prevalent attitude: everything up to bottoming is ok. We did end up hooking up. Imagine my surprise when a guy dressed like the guy in the link showed up. His grinder pix were either shirtless or casual American style wear. Anyway, since he was only 22 and claimed to not be gay, I assumed he would be kind of awkward and hesitant. Hell to the no!! He knew what he was doing. There was no question of our roles; he was the top and I was the bottom. I gave him head and then he fucked me. I was really surprised when he started kissing me while fucking. It was great, NSA fun. He came in me, showered, and then left. R9, you are exactly right. A sub bttm's dream!!
I will say, I've never been very patriotic but the experience left me so paranoid that I had a newfound appreciation for being gay in the US. We still have a long way to go but at least I don't live in fear of some police force hunting me down.
http://ksenyaprekovic.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/traditional-emirati-dress-241x300.jpg
- BTW...the UAE shut Grinder down a couple of months after my trip. Not sure how they technically managed that but I read about it afterwards.
R14
- Male friends showing open affection for each other, such as holding hands, walking arm in arm, or arms around each other''s shoulders, is common in half of the world. It is seen all throughout Asia, the Middle East, India, and some of Africa.\
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This can get confusing for some of us... some of us may get signals crossed.
- Men also walked arm in arm and hung all over each other in Armenia, at least in the late 80s. I would think they still do today, but I can''t vouch for that.
- Good lord, some of you are sheltered. Displays of entirely platonic affection between two men, such as holding hands and/or walking arm in arm, are both commonplace and completely normal in most Arab countries as well as some Hindi ones. There is simply not a connotation there that such actions constitute anything remotely "gay," just as it''s common for two young female friends to hold hands while walking down the street Stateside and have it not be anything at all sexual in nature. Hell, even the Bushes held hands with various Saudi men when they were over there. When in Riyadh...
- I''d hardly say people are sheltered for commenting on this behavior. It is odd when countries claim there is no homosexuality in their culture, but it is normal for men to be hanging on one another. Granted, such behavior doesn''t mean the men are gay, but it is strange to many westerners.
- Hot brown meat!
http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=SrQ77-G454-
- I sucked a lot of dick in Dubai many years ago, but it was mostly white western dick. I trolled the hotels and beach clubs.
- I always believed being gay was nature Vs nurture, but having lived in the GCC for 5 years now, I can not believe how many "men that have sex with men" there are. It does have a lot to do with keeping men an women separated for most social events. My Qatari buddies tell me about the "mentor" program that happens during that special time when you are discovering your self and your urges, your family introduce you to a buddy to hang with, usually he is a couple of years older and you are his to do what he please with, once he reaches his early twenties he gets married ( usually to his first cousin) and you then mentor some other dude. Also I am convinced that the entire country of Lebanon sucks cock. \
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Society is quite homo erotic, as a single man I am not allowed to share a home with a woman, hanging out with all men is not considered odd, sharing hotel rooms with men is cool, in some place if you share with a woman you need a marriage certificate \
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Plenty of Lesbo''s here as well.
no room for rainbow flags
- GCC? Sorry for being naive.
- Gulf Coast Countries? (As in Persian Gulf?)
- "There is an enormous amount of male to male activity in any place men gather, primarily hamams, (bathhouses)."%0D\
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Ricky Martin''s tweet from Istanbul, Turkey:%0D\
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Experiencing turkish hospitality at it''s best /// Experimentando la hospitalidad turca en su m%C3%A1xima expresi%C3%B3n. WOW #hammam%0D\
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17 Jun
- I think this thread has attracted DL''s biggest whores, a la Ricky Martin.
More stories please!
- Gulf Cooperation Council
- Having sex in a hammam will get you shown the door.
- No it won''t R28. It happens all the time.
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Yes, our sex included just about anything you can imagine, including kissing. I know where you''re going with your question though. %0D
Tokyo Joe
- "No it won''t [R28]. It happens all the time."\
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In Turkey, some of the hammams are literally gay bathhouses. One that I went to was all working-class turks looking to bareback tourists. Crazy.
- [quote]One that I went to was all working-class turks looking to bareback tourists\
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Names and addresses, please!
slutty bottom, booking a flight as I type
- I don''t know if R32 was joking but R31, could you seriously let us know which one you went to that was..."welcoming"? I''ve considered a vacation to Istanbul and looked into the hammams.
- No I wasnt kidding. And some of the hammams don''t even have names. I was lucky enough to have a guide who was in the "know." \
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If you want, go to Squirt.org, get a username and password and under cruising choose Europe, Turkey. It lists the places along with directions.
r31
- OP, thank you, thank you, THANK YOU for granting my wish. How very kind!!!
- A former friend of mine used to fly to Dubai at least once a month for business. He claimed that he had never had as many hook ups as there (mostly other Westerners) since everyone was on their smart phones and laptops arranging for sex. According to him, it wasn''t uncommon to just sit at a bar and get instant messages from other patrons looking for sex.\
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Lebanon is also very gay. I think there was even an international Mr Bear contest there a couple of years ago. And, yes, it''s easy to negotiate a happy ending on a massage table in some Istanbul hammams.
- [quote] was in Abu Dhabi a few months back (remember the thread about buying a persian rug?). %0D\
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Don''t leave us hanging with this bit of info. Did you get a rug? Size? Did you get it at a good price?
- Fwiw...%0D\
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A long time ago I had a hot, hot affair with a Turkish TA at the school where I work. He could suck the chrome off a hubcap, and was in DL terms "a voracious bottom." Adorable, funny, and very bright. One more thing.%0D\
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He was not, repeat, not "gay." He was a devout Muslim, prayed 5 times a day, and told me that his family would eventually chose a wife for him. They did. The relationship was a "don''t ask, don''t tell" sort of affair since it made no sense to me how a guy that good in bed could (or would)be married.%0D\
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And yes about the Lebanese. Major flirts, and they love to give head (and get it). Again, they are NOT gay, lol. One Lebanese guy told me a long time ago "it''s just something I do." Right.
ranger
- r8, just by some chance, do you live in New Brunswick, Canada?
- r28 = a Muslim who is tormented about surfing Datalounge.
- Well. in truth, it is the West that is all hung up about labels and categorizing people. What the hell is "gay"? I have had many friends accuse me of not being "properly" gay because I can''t stand Steisand, have never seen the Wizard of Oz, love Everybody Loves Raymond, and hate to shop for clothes. But I luvs me some men.
- Wow, this really puts those "gay-free zones" in London into perspective.\
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Fascinating thread.
- I said this in the Morocco thread, like r38''s guy most Muslims are devout and obedient, which means they are wild sluts behind closed doors. I think a Muslim boyfriend would be ideal, but then you have to deal with the identity issues.
- A Muslim boyfriend would not be ideal however a Muslim fuck buddy would be absolute heaven!!!!!!!!
- "I think this thread has attracted DL''s biggest whores, a la Ricky Martin."%0D\
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Ricky isn''t a slut, he is a nice guy who didn''t want to hurt his hosts'' feelings by refusing to visit hammams in Istanbul and Bursa.%0D\
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- Mmmm, Ricky martin in hammams. I got the vapors!
- If there were no STD''s I''d totally be at a hamman now with Turkish dick in my ass and mouth.
Twink
- Middle Eastern society may not want to label men "gay," because they don''t want to even admit that gay exists. Not admitting that someone is gay is their way of denying gay and keeping people in the closet. %0D\
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So while the West may be obsessed with labeling people gay or straight, it''s the Middel East that says, "Oh yeah, I have sex with men, but I''m not gay."%0D\
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Now that''s big time denial.
- [quote]it''s the Middle East that says, "Oh yeah, I have sex with men, but I''m not gay."%0D\
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Is Anderson Cooper from the Middle East?
- im a filipino and i know for a fact that middle eastern guys pursue us filipino , gays or str8, like crazy. but its dangerous as well as i know of a few who got kidnapped and raped.
- Gay Arab here, lived in the middle east through my teens and early twenties, now live in England.\
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Although there is a lot of intimacy between Arab men, having sexual contact together is ver hard and fraught with risk.\
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Which is why Most homosexual Arab men prefer to trawl for gay westerners, who are the discreet NSA option to act on their urges.
- r51 part of the Middle East are you from r51?
- [quote]I always believed being gay was nature Vs nurture,\
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Huh?
- I''ve never been to the region, but I did work as an escort for an agency with a lot of Arab clients while I was in college in the 90''s. \
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The average Middle Eastern business men tended to be very timid, nervous yet extremely aroused and quick to climax, often only from frottage. Almost all of them insisted we both wash our junk with soap, hot water and a washcloth prior to any activity even though oral or anal activity hardly ever took place. \
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The wealthy ones were hardcore. They didn''t like to "pay" and preferred to give "gifts" for services. We were also never allowed to do overnights or leave the city with them and if they wanted a full day we had to call in every hour to ensure we were okay. Kidnapping was a big concern.
- Years ago there was a great bathhouse in Lisbon that attracted a lot of Arab men. Even there they all only topped. I lost count of how many I sucked off, but I had a few dozen beautiful uncut Arab cocks fuck me in the three months I was working in Lisbon.
- r55 Is there even such a thing as "uncut Arab cock"? It''s part of their religion (unless they were Christian).
- {R55} What a crock of bull. Most Arabs are Muslim and are cut! The vast majority of Christian Arabs go to France not Portugal for business or pleasure so I think your story is a flight of fantasy.
- [quote]often only from frottage\
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I love frottage r54! If most Middle Eastern men like that, then damn, we''ll get along just fine. I wonder why more men don''t get off on that but I guess that''s another thread.
- Sounds like a risky venture is unprotected sex is so common. What are the HIV rates?
- r55 has watched too much gay porn, where they usually substitute Hispanics for Arabs, forgetting (probably deliberately) that the vast majority of Arabs are cut.
- Arab or Latino?
http://www.tube8.com/gay/ebony/dessert-storms/158277/
- I firmly believe that the legend of Arab men having sex with each other all over the place in the Middle East is a myth generated by white Westerners, who have always demonized, feminized, and sexualized their dark and oh-so frightening Eastern counterparts.
E.Said
- [quote]Ricky isn''t a slut, he is a nice guy who didn''t want to hurt his hosts'' feelings by refusing to visit hammams in Istanbul and Bursa. \
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Yes he is, Im sure he has had plenty of choice Arabian cock! He is also a nice guy.
- R62 ''all over the place'' not at all. In fact no one on this thread claimed that.
- Arabic dick all over the place
- It is primarily in Hamams and some private homes. It is not everywhere and it is not everyone. \
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It is a larger percentage of men because of the separation of the sexes.
- [quote]Wow, this really puts those "gay-free zones" in London into perspective.\
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What on earth does this mean?
- Here ya go, r67:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-13620882
- bb
- I want to hear more about sex with soldiers in the Middle East.
- Bump for latent middle eastern homosexuality
- Soooooo many people on this thread think gay is just sex. It is not sex. \
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What about spooning while sleeping, watching movies curled up on the sofa, kissing and holding hand over dinner, talking about your emotional feelings for each other over wine and music? Gay is not sex, many men just want a sexual release and don''t care if it happens with a female, male or camel.\
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Being Gay is different.
- I thought the title of this thread was "sex in the Middle East," not "gay in the Middle East," or "relationships in the Middle East," or any thing similar. I am R1 and I am surprised that no one wanted to know more about my summer with the Israeli soldier, but everyone has his/her own interests.
- r73, you didnt indicate that you had more to tell. Spare us no details!
- how about pakimen?
- Pakimen are the hottest!
http://images.teamtalk.com/08/09/800x600/Amir-Khan-Breidis-Prescott-Preview-02-_1168525.jpg
- I visited Morocco with my best friend and her husband back in the late 90''s. Her husband (who is tall and dark) kept telling me to ignore the stares, catcalls, and rather intrusive touching from some of the locals. He explained that they weren''t used to natural blonds and were curious about them, both male and female. At first, it was rather low key and easily dealt with, but as the night got later, the attention became more aggressive. As we were hoping to score some weed, I couldn''t exaxtly come across as Charley''s maiden aunt. Still, it was rather creepy to be fondled and probed and have my hair examined as if I had lice. BTW, never did get to score the good stuff.
- amir khan is hot but is he typical of pakimen?
- Pakman eats it all!
- I hope he is r78, I want me a middle eastern man that looks just like him!
http://i656.photobucket.com/albums/uu289/ronaldofanatic/Amir Khan/ak11.jpg
- more about sex with soldiers
- R1 here: Not sure if my experience is typical or not. Many American Jewish girls in my group that summer had fantasies (fetishes) about hooking up with an Israeli soldier, but only a couple did. The IDF soldiers were respectful. They could have gotten laid a lot more often than they did. Now back to me: My Israeli soldier was a cutie (of course). He was about to get out of the IDF and go to university either in Israel or possibly in the USA. He was a big flirt with me and other guys and girls. When we hooked up for the first time, it was mostly kissing and jacking off. We advanced to oral sex after a couple of sessions. We didn''t fuck until nearly the end of the relationship, though I was willing to take this thick cock much sooner. I think he thought I was too young.
- Sexy sluts
- Bumping for Muslims who like cock, whether in Scandia or Syria.
- Any examples of gay harems?
- Of course men in the Middle East are very touchy-feely with each other while out in public.\
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All the women are at home covered in sheets in the basement like furniture until some ''male member'' of the family comes home and uncovers them.
- You say that like it''s a bad thing, R86.
- I onced worked in jeddah saudi arabia at a restaurant called herfy. I never find the place enjoyable because it's very different from the place I was from. I have always been a person that enjoys walking alone and i did that in jeddah. On my way going to baqallah there was a small quarter where a pakistani house caretaker stays, he saw me and gave me a whistle, he invited me to go inside. He let his bird out, hardened and thick and wanted me to blow it , but i didn't, I just ejaculated it. Another scenario was, I was left by our company service car so I had to ride TAxi and the taxi driver(pakistani) intentionally turn the cab into a silent place and he tried to fuck me, ut it didn't happen because there was a police car roaming and maybe he was afraid. One day as well, i went on jogging. When I passed by a certain house. Near the garage there was a young yemeni guy sitting ang watching his phone and called me to come, and he was watching porn. I smiled and he invited me to go inside the elevator and he tapped my ass and sticked his hardened penis beside me..till we get to the third floor, he removed my shorts and fucked my ass...whoooooooooohooo...that was too painful, i cant forget that. that was crazy. Another incident was when I was walking through the seashore, there was a car went near and a man in white came out and ask me..where are you going, i said just breathing fresh air.....then he invited me inside his car. I thought he will bring me to my villa but he brought me to his house and fucked me there...and i went home...that was too painful again. Aside from that..this was the most delicious. I was walking in a Filipino village and an arab inside his car saw me and stared at me with sharp eyes..then followed me by his car... he let me in..brought me in an internet cafe.. He stood beside the chair i was seated and he let me suck his dick and he cummed inside my mouth, then he left. After that, I transferred to another net cafe and a young boy maybe sixteen, was looking at me and wanted me to sit in his dick, omg...since, i didn't want...he just came near and stood beside my chair then put his dick inside my mouth, sticked it and cummed....and then I and he felt good....hahahahah..what a crazy experience....
anonymous
- Is r88 Mahmoud Ahmadinejad? That is some intense syntax!
- [quote] in truth, it is the West that is all hung up about labels and categorizing people. What the hell is "gay"?
I hope you're kidding.
Surely you can see the difference between a culture that tolerates man to man sex only as long as it remains unmentionable (and treats women like chattel) vs a culture whose political leader recently said openly gay couples should have their commitments recognized legally the way straight couples do.
Do you really need someone to explain what 'gay' means?
- Is R89 waleed? extremely syntax error even for a question.
anonymous
- I really hope for the most part that posters aren't making up any stories, as I (and I'm sure others here who have not gone to the Middle East) are truly curious.
My question is, where are the hotspots in these countries to find the rich guys? Got specific place names? Is there anyway you can go not to cruise, but to just meet someone who will talk and possibly have sex with later? Also do they just assume white guys are open to have male sex? lol
- You must follow the local mating rituals to get the homosex. A simple Yumm will not do.
http://www.wimp.com/indiapakistan/
- its true most of the ME men indulge in gay sex.
Even students in a class fuck each other.
And as for Pakimen, they are in the front row
and they do it to their own relations i.e. incest, in border areas of pakistan and afghanistan. And sure they are very hot and horny while in action with each other.
Loroo%20gul%20khan
- I once fucked an Egyptian guy in Cambridge, MA--his name was Muhammed. He was very hot--he worked at the Au Bon Pain that used to be in the Holyoke Center building. But he was very uptight about people he worked with (who at the time were all Egyptian) finding out he was gay.
- what about young boys? i hear that it was normal for the rich men to have young boys around them for who knows what!
- It's all about loopholes. You don't go against your family and religion when you refuse to call what you do gay or define it as gay.
A lot of closet cases from Western Civilization take the same approach (as long I don't define my hook ups with men as gay I am on the safe side and still be the masculine straight son, brother, friend, colleague for the outside world).
It's like self proclaimed virgins in Western Civilizsation who suck cock and get fucked in the ass. 'In the Eyes of God' they are still virgins even though they most likely have visited the free health clinic more than once treating some nasty STD.
- R39, I'm not the guy in New Brunswick, but I know a guy in NB that I was there with....
small world?
Tokyo%20Joe
- [quote]Good lord, some of you are sheltered. Displays of entirely platonic affection between two men, such as holding hands and/or walking arm in arm, are both commonplace and completely normal in most Arab countries as well as some Hindi ones.
It's so common, in much of Africa, to see grown men walking down the street holding hands. Very interesting to see the look of bewilderment in tourists or new expats when a friendly local grabs their hand or puts his arm around them.
- The Lebanese people do NOT do those things.
Jamie%20Farr
- I have seen personal videos of a guy living in the ME. He is American, lives there, is always the bottom. An eager cocksucker and can take it up the ass well. He needs to. The Arab is often,well hung, sometimes hairy, almost always well built.
The Arabs are relentless is fucking him in the mouth and the same when they fuck. Usually the
Arab and the American are completely naked.
Some of the videos have more than one participant, the others in white robes on the side watching, commenting and copping feels of the guy getting fucked. You can see them jacking off under the white robes.
Fucking a gay boy can be group sport
- How is the body odor?
- Mike from Shahs of Sunset is a hot fuck.
Reza
- R103? Agreed.
http://www.bravotv.com/media/imagecache/photo-scaled/photos/onelinersshahsofsunsetseason1galleryariahotelvegas10.jpg
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http://www.libyaherald.com/2012/11/26/extremists-threaten-mutilation-and-death-for-seized-homosexuals/
- Wasn't there a PBS show a few years ago about men in Afghanistan having young boy lovers. They said they took turns with one boy in the back seat of a car. Surprising that the men agreed to admit it on camera. There was a DL thread about it.
I find Turkish men to be hot. If there weren't any STD's I'd take a sex vacation there, but from what I've read they all want bj's and to fuck without condoms.
- r98, the guy from Saint John, NB, Canada told me a similar story about his relationship with a Saudi Prince when he was working there as some sort of medic. He also told me about an eccentric princess who had a harem of gay boys as her followers - she was highly sexually charged, had breast implants and loved showing them off to admirers, consumed lots of gay porn, and carried around a gun. Fascinating stories of sex among men and adventurous women in the elite circles in a society that would jail or kill its lower-class citizens for indulging in similar behavior.
- R107, must be a different guy from NB.
See, I told you you couldn't swing a dead cat without hitting a Saudi Prince!
The year after I left, there were a number of Canadian women nailed as collateral damage in a sting operation to capture illegal rum-runners. They showed up at a party uninvited. A guy I know who was dating a princess (yet didn't know she was) was basically blackmailed to help set the sting-party up to nail the liquor makers or go to prison. You can't make this shit up!
I remember being at a party in a house where you were locked IN the house, and the house had secret rooms behind false walls etc.
Tokyo%20Joe
- Tokyo Joe, he also told me about tents set up to house 24-hour Studio-54-type parties - the tent even had a huge disco ball hanging from their centre. Drugs, sex, anything you could ask for was offered.
r170
- R170 I suppose that is possible, though I never saw anything quite like that. It could also depend on what part of the country he was in.
I was in Jeddah, which was (30 years ago) more liberal than say, Riyadh . I had friends who lived in Riyadh for several years in the '90s and hated ever minute of it.
It seems that the "glory" days are over and a return to fundamentalism has occurred Kingdom-wide. I haven't been back since, but this is what I'm told from friends still there.
Tokyo%20Joe
- How about Morocco?
- I was just in turkey recently and some turks are really flirty with me;P
- I would eat Amir Khan's asshole till the CAMELS came home.
Yum.
Mama.
- [quote]Wasn't there a PBS show a few years ago about men in Afghanistan having young boy lovers. They said they took turns with one boy in the back seat of a car.
The Bacha Bazi of Afghanistan.
http://youtu.be/zNUxq8rI6lM
Mullah Omar
- I wish more Arab dudes were naturally smooth. I can't get with all that body hair.
- [quote]I would eat Amir Khan's asshole till the CAMELS came home.
Hell yes!
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2012/10/12/article-2216650-156C5D06000005DC-248_306x423.jpg
- Seriously people?!!! You have a wrong image of Arab men!
I'm from the middle east, And many men are heterosexual, they are not gay, though we do have gay people.
In our culture white skin with light colored eyes is considered a feminine thing, and there are many gay Filipinos work in gulf area, and the reason why they always encounter Gay Arab men because gay arab men will always follow them once they notice that you look gay!! and normally straight men will ignore you!!
And holding hands is a normal thing in many areas in Middle east doesn't mean that it's gay.
and maybe some men aren't really gay, they can't easily have sex with a women, so they do it with gay people just to fulfil their sexual needs, that explains why they are always on the "top".
There are certain areas where homosexuality spreads in middle east (some villages or counties) it's almost like a social thing but it's unspoken, they usually look for younger person usually (cute looking) and they molest him or trick him and he grows up and do the same thing to a younger person, they are just pedophiles, or they like to do it with a less manly-looking person, in these areas having sex with a person (when u top him to be exact) is considered as a manly thing and you stole his manhood or something, it can even be just "showing them that I'm a man" more than homosexuality, these men eventually get married to a woman and forget about the past. and some will stay like that forever because they enjoyed it and it restores their stolen manhood in their younger age,
- R117, you mean Arab guys will be "gay" in their youth, then go hetero when they're old and unappealing?
Oh the horror!
- If this often happens because of the segregation of the sexes, it must happen with the women too.
I am actually Arab, but was born and grew up in the West.
I would love to know more about the gay sub-culture there, male and female, but especially female.
Problem is that I could never ask my Arab cousins, parents, or aunts and uncles, because they don't know im a lesbian. (I will come out to them eventually, but not until I have enough funds to move, so I don't have to spend the rest of my life looking over my shoulder)
Anyway, stories of gay women in the middle easy would be appreciated, I've seen some movies (caramel, circumstance, the secrets) but would like to know more of the reality beyond that.
Even if the gay men here saw/heard things in passing during their m/m hookups.
- Like in the Western World it's men's social duty to marry and have one kid or more and provide for them. If he manages to have a mistress, a male lover, or anonymous hook-ups while still providing for his socially required family that's totally his own deal.
Of course, the women are screwed and supposed to go along with everything. They may negotiate private side deals with their husband about hooking up with someone else from time to time, but she's on her own when this becomes public knowledge by accident and she will most likey be stoned to death for it.
- Ive heard stories similar to r117, the men usually keep one teenaged boy, a lot of them Filipino, in their house for sexual pleasure. Im also curious about what the women do since the only time they have sex is to create children! What a strange society.
- I would love to keep a Pinoy in my house, love them Pinoy boys
- There are accounts of similar things in Native American culture. A feminine male might live in his own tent, adopt womanly ways, be part of yet apart from the tribe. Young men would visit the she/he for sex until they were of sufficient age to marry his own wife.
- Bacha bazi, the tradition of keeping young male "companions" in Iran.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bacha_bazi
- R124, that is so wrong and sick
- A former friend was a banker who used to travel to Dubai all the time, at least once a month, on business. He got laid there regularly. The whole setup was through instant messaging: you go to a bar or a club and guys would cruise each other using cell phones. This was all in the pre-Grindr, pre-sex app days. Apparently, prostitution (straight) was also rife there and was conducted in a similar manner.
- How about Pakistan?
- Pakistani dudes are so hot.
- I read that in Turkey you have to be careful because a hot guy will pretend to be interested and then rob you, beat you.
- SO long as he is a top, I'm fine with that
- They're almost all tops, but their cocks are about 5-6 inches.
- americans are so prudish and boring. the idea that men in others parts of the world can be open with their affection for fellow men is so great. it's so lame that women in america are promoted to be touchy feeling with other women, but men are shamed and even attacked for doing the same thing.
- I love Pakistani men too, they are usually very handsome, you hardly ever see any in the US
- r133, one of my closest friends is Pakistani-American
- R131 I found them to be almost all bottoms.
- Is your friend a he r134? Is if so is he handsome?
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- Pakistani
http://arabiandelights.tumblr.com/post/45959409182/guest-hottie-pakistan
- When my husband was deployed to Afghanistan, he had about 20 Afghani men who would come to the gate daily to see what kind of help was needed on base. Thursday's were a bit atypical- they referred to it as "Man Love Thursday" because that was the day you could have unrepentant sex (many within the culture view men for fucking and women for procreating) and then pray it away on Friday. There was one man, very timid and petite, who the soldiers started noticing was getting a lot of grief from the others. It turns out he would get raped every Thursday after his shift. My husband's commander would start sneaking him off post at varying times so he could get a head start and get away from the others.
- That's really sad, R139. He never got to choose the man he wanted to have sex with?
- Here are two porn videos on one video.The two male couples who are Israeli soldiers having sex, and they are super studs!!!! They seem like they are soldiers in real life.The second song later in the video, is a song sung in Hebrew. Does anyone know what the singer is repeating in the song? what is he saying? I love the song a lot!
http://xhamster.com/movies/1179425/army_boys.html%3Fembed%3Dview
- h0t
- Time for new tales
- Arab fucking
http://www.xtube.com/watch.php%3Fv%3Dqrg8j-G577-
- Ewwwwwwwwww! Just ewwwwwwwwwww! Gross!
