Feeders and Gainers

Someone mentioned the movie "Feed" in another thread and I took a look. OMG. %0D\ %0D\ I''ve heard of this before - I think Rosie O. mentioned it once - but to find there really are forums such as this one dedicated to something so disgusting is one of the most vile things I have ever seen.%0D\ %0D\ Also, I am fat, about 50 pounds overweight. However, I have lost weight and continue to lose. I want to be normal sized again and will get there. The idea that an entire sub-set of society actually WANT to gain weight...to be as fat as possible for sexual reasons/perversions...is revolting.%0D\ %0D\ I don''t even like to look at other fat people when passing them on the street. Perhaps I am self-loathing but I don''t find huge fatness attractive. %0D\ %0D\ Read the thread "which food got you the fattest?" The things they talk about eating are horrifying!

http://fantasyfeeder.com/cms/forum/view-thread.php?forum_id=26&thread_id=16897
• I''m a gainer and also my own feeder. Cuts out the middle man.

• [quote]The idea that an entire sub-set of society actually WANT to gain weight...to be as fat as possible for sexual reasons/perversions...is revolting.\ \ It''s an odd fetish with a few components, the most obvious of which is finding morbid obesity to be erotic. When you read a lot of the stories, though, most of the men say they dream of having a partner (male or female) they have to care for 24/7. It has elements of both submission and extreme insecurity. If someone weighs 700 pounds he/she isn''t going to walk out the door one day.\ \ Have you ever had friends where one partner has put on a bit of weight during the relationship - just chubby, not obese - and the other partner is happy with it, because Chubby has stopped getting looks and flirtations from other men? That has always seemed to me a mild version of the gainer/encourager syndrome.

• Apparently the feeder-gainer relationship is about the feeder manipulating someone into destroying their body, of gaining ultimate power over another person. There are similar fetishes about amputation and emasculation, and I hope all three are mostly internet fantasies and not carried out in real life.%0D\ %0D\ What I want to know is, what happens to the relationship when the gainer is finally bedbound and helpless? Does the feeder stay, or find a new chubster to start feeding up>?

• Obviously it''s not a harmless paraphilia.

• My understanding is that there is a very wide spectrum involved in the "gainer" community, and that people being fed to immobility or being manipulated into doing that constitutes an extremely small subset.\ \ Most of the guys (and women) who are into this are -- by choice -- either just overweight, fat, or obese (but not immobile), and the men (and women) who are then attracted to a particular body type.\ \ Though I think that the manipulation over someone else''s body occurs mostly (but not entirely) as a fantasy in gainer fiction, it is nonetheless very disturbing. To exert that power over someone without their consent for what is an extremely unhealthy obsession is sick.

• Um thanks but no thanks OP. You can keep that link to yourself.

• OP, I''ve got three words for you: Damn, damn, damn!

• Well I''ll say one damn thing.%0D\ %0D\ Reading a bit of those forums today kept me at 1200 calories for the entire Easter holiday - no sweets, candy, or carbs. That was a huge appetite suppresant...just thinking of those gross fucks shoveling all the shit into their mouths they can in order to deliberately make themselves morbidly obese....omg. It was too much.

• Well, if anything, that forum proves that sugar and carbs will fatten you up!

  Having grilled chicken and veggies tonight

• Word to that.%0D\ %0D\ The top choices were Chinese food of all types, shakes, ice cream, pizza, pasta with thick heavy sauces and donuts.%0D\ %0D\ So happy that today I had only fish, asparagus, spinach and feta salad with hardboiled egg, tomatoes, a cheese stick, a handful of raw almonds, coffee and water. PLUS I swam a mile. I need to go to that forum every day!

• I'm a healthy gainer : i'm fat , lazy , & rich $$ what !