I took a cooking class and I thought the chef was a hottie. I saw him in his t shirt before he put on the white coat and felt lust in my heart. He did not really flirt back but seemed receptive with smiles etc. \
When he left the room for a minute one of other students who knew him told me that he was straight and very married. \
After the class I apologized and he said that one should never apologize for being complimentary and kind. I think he meant it. \
I wish everyone felt this way.
He''s totally whooping on you after class.
What does it mean to be whooping on someone?
You apologized for flirting?
What the hell did OP do? Flit her eyelashes and twirl her hair?
Was the "other student"''s name Cheryl?
OP, for gods sake you didn''t do anything wrong.\
You are way to hard on yourself. I''m sure a good looking man like that gets flirted with a lot. He''s a grown up and works as a chef. Put two and two together. He is probably around gay men and woman all day long.\
Don''t feel guilty.
I was going to type the same exact thing as R3.
He sounds like a nice guy. Maybe you can still trick him into bed with you. Bribes are also an option.
Buttering your bundt pan like that was probably a little over the top, OP.
Totally hawt men are always a little gay, OP.%0D\
Keep at it, and at the least, you''ll probably get to blow him.
Unless you grabbed his junk while flirting, there was no need to apologize.
He''s the epitome of bi.
Well, maybe you are just too...ugly...for him, OP?
R12 is right.
[quote]He''s the epitome of bi.\
Oh, god, the "epitome of bi" troll has escaped from his "home" and is back online. :-(
"Totally hawt men are always a little gay, OP.''%0D\
No they''re not, Noodles. %0D\
Did we lose responses during the downtime?
Have straight men/women ever flirted with you?
I almost only flirt with straight dudes.
He just likes attention, OP.
Alot of people who are a little narcissistic or have a career based on pleasing others thrive on attention, compliments, and praise. So OP, if u were giving him compliments on things other than his cooking, he probably really appreciated it for a change, instead of praise about his food.
I'll scramble your hole after class, OP.
Flirting = Muumuu lift.
Cooking class = "Yum."
lmao @ R10
Straight guys are the best
[quote]He did not really flirt back but seemed receptive with smiles etc.
I think most men seem receptive with paying customers.
Your flirting was so blatant that third parties intervened? You sound like a real class act.
Lust is typically felt in one's loins and love in the heart.
So which one was it?
Putting lipstick on your asshole in full view of the class probably wasn't the best way to go about flirting.
He was nice about it because he sees you as easy cash. He knows you think he's eye candy and you'll keep coming back just to stare at him. He's hoping you'll also bring some of your gay friends so he'll be able to afford that vacation he's been promising his bitch they'd go on.
As a straight male preyed upon by closet cases forever, I'd say don't do it.
We don't want gays, we're not gay, we don't need your sex-addicted mnd trying to convince us otherwise, we don't hate you, we're not afraid of you, and if you think we aren't tolerant, women have other men beat the living shit out of men who can't take a hint from them.
Have a nice queer day.
Who cares. Your gay/the chef straight-BTW: does he have a wedding ring?
If so, keep stepping. Find someone who is available. And not pining after someone who isn't-or if available, doesn't meet the fantasy ideal of him you've concocted.
Point blank, you don't know him. Get to know him first, then pine after him if he is receptive and available.
Plenty of fish in the sea.
And yet r31 finds himself on a gay message board, you know, just hanging out.
Poor guy! "Preyed upon"! Usually the guys who think all the gay guys want him is a hideous troll who takes great pains to hide his junk when changing in the locker room, when in reality NO ONE wants his ugly ass.
You do know this is a gay commenting board,
I sense a recurring trend here.
Based off your visit, and the post you left for us sickly/perverted/hyper sexual-aggressive predators- I'm left with a a certain impression:
That, you troll nightclubs and other establishments for gay men...only to be insulted when they make a pass at you. That is sound logic there.
Yes. YOU ARE VERY HETERO! STRAIGHT-GUY/TOUGH-GUY; Manly-man. And us "fag" predators can't have you!
[quote]We don't want gays, we're not gay, we don't need your sex-addicted mnd trying to convince us otherwise, we don't hate you, we're not afraid of you, and if you think we aren't tolerant, women have other men beat the living shit out of men who can't take a hint from them.
You are deeply disturbed.
I think R31 is likely an actor, a model or an altar boy. Who else would be in a position to be constantly preyed upon by closet cases?
Mental illness runs in families.
R31 has a point and this is coming from a gayan. Why would gay guys go after guys that they know are straight and then cry homophobia when they're rebuked?
A straight guy will never ever ever hook up with another dude, shit they would pay a gorgeous call girl if they were desperate enough for no strings attached sex
Queeny delusional gay who flirt with amd try to hook up with men that they know are straight embarass me and set the gay rights movement back 50 years.
And if they take it one step further by touching a straight guy in an inappropriate way, they DESERVE to get the shit beat out of them.
[quote] Why would gay guys go after guys that they know are straight and then cry homophobia when they're rebuked?
They wouldn't and they don't. Where is the fantasy that this happens coming from?
R39, homophobic about yourself much?
Deserve to get the shit beat out of them?
No one deserves to be assaulted unless you are in fear for your life. Woman get flirted with all the time by men. I am sure not every unwanted touch ends in violence.
If you are straight or gay it dose not matter. Push the guys hand away and say you are not interested. He will get the hint.
As for you R39, Please seek some therapy for that internalized homophobia and self hate.
R41 look asswipe I said if a guy sexually assaulted another guy (like grabbing his junk) without consent, they deserve to get a beatdown and most people would agree with me
If a dude groped a woman and the woman hit him with her purse or even got a good punch in that would be OK wouldn't it? She is defending herself
Apparently, R42 has not sought counseling yet as I suggested.
Look at the rage and anger in his response. Clinical example of projection of self hatred.
He obviously has never been around women in a straight bar. They do not clock off guys left and right with their purses. If anything they call the bartender and have the guy kicked out.
How old are you? This is not 1950, get a grip.
What is a "gayan," R39 R42?
A citizen of Planet Gay, duh.
No, not "duh," R45. He might have been a bro. Or a goy. Or one of those other ungay gays. HTF do I know what a "gayan" is?
[quote] No, not "duh." . . . HTF do I know what a "gayan" is?
Hint: There is no Planet Gay.
LOL R3 and R10
Sorry, meant R5
That was Julie in OP's class. The chef is gay as a goose but Julie thought it would be fun set the trap and sit back and watch.
R42 only if it's been clearly defined they don't want it. Straight men often flirt with gays and only go into the "oh no, not that" routine later, after their orgasm.
whatever, r51. straight dudes don't do gay dudes.
How do you know for sure? Did you try to do one?
[quote]felt lust in my heart
Who are you, Jimmy Carter?
I love it when flirt dudes flirt with me first. Hot
You never know what will get bumped two years later.
I only flirt with straight, bi, or DL bros.
If you think that anyone is going to flirt with a swishy effem-inate, then you have another think coming.
How embarrassing for you, OP. You actually openly flirted with the instructor during class, in front of everyone, to the point where a classmate had to point out that you weren't going to get anywhere?
You sound like a hot mess.
[quote]and if you think we aren't tolerant, women have other men beat the living shit out of men who can't take a hint from them.
Who? Who has "other men beat the living shit out of men who can't take a hint from them"? Who are these people? How do you know of them? Because it sounds like the plot of a bad TV movie, not an actual "thing". Bull-fucking-shit, "straight guy". No ones buying that.
Here's a clue, straight asshole who hangs out on gay websites bemoaning attention from closet-cases while channeling Lifetime movie plots for added drama: gay bashing IS a thing, it's something many gay people have experienced first hand and it happens everyday from playgrounds to boardrooms. So don't come here and spin some bullshit yarn about mafia princesses or "women on the verge" hiring hitmen to beat up unwanted suitors. You are a jackass of the highest order if you think such bullshit is relevant on a thread about actual, cool straight people who don't mind the occasional gay flirt.
Also: everyone knows you're gay. Your repressed homosexuality can be seen rom space.
Death to R31.
"If you think that anyone is going to flirt with a swishy effem-inate, then you have another think coming."
Exactly!! I feel the same. I only flirt with feminine straight or bi gals
So OP who was it?
flirting is only fun if the other person reciprocates
Op didn't do anything wrong. This is the way people should react. Tons of people get hit on by people they're not in to, it's only apology worthy if you keep doing it even after finding out someones not receptive.
Don't view your straight male friends as objects of lust or flirtation. Respect people for who they are.
or just grab their asses
tell us your true stories, dudes
If someone had to tell OP that the man was straight and married to get it to stop than OP made an ass of himself.
"Death to [R31]."
Oh leave the poor dear alone. R31 is a 15 year old girl with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome playing on the computer while diddling herself thru her cotton panties.
It's flattering if someone flirts with you. Don't apologize.
Another example of the demise of DL. Why would someone bump a two year old thread that wasn't all that interesting when it originally appeared.
In my experience, a 100% "straight man" is a rare find indeed, As rare as a Macedonian dodo bird.
Keep at it, OP. If he smiled at you while you flirted, he's open to having you suck his cock after a few beers.
That nosy bitch in your class is just jealous and has no idea that Hot Chef enjoys the occasional meat dish.
What if he doesn't drink beer?
OP: You are a CUSTOMER, paying for his time.
[quote]What if he doesn't drink beer?
Then drink whatever he's drinking. And ask him a lot of questions about himself; they love it when someone wants to make the evening all about them. And it helps a lot if you pay at the end.
Then invite them over for some weed (or to watch some straight porn, or whatever game is on that night).
Works 9/10 times for me.
Outside of the gym context, or any other place where men get nude, do straight men check out other men's package?
R80, I'm a gay-identifying asexual man, and I never check out other men's packages.
A 100% gay man is a rare creature as well, r76, despite what many gay men want to believe!
I'm a 100% gay man.
r76, you sound desperate, thirsty, and slutty, bro.
Why thank you, R84. I live to pleasure!
uh ok, dude
Flirt dudes straight with me.
I love lightly flirting with attractive straight dudes. It boosts both our egos.
If a hot straight guy notices you looking at him in the gym, and then keeps adjusting his package and flashing his abs, knowing quite well that you are staring (and salivating!), does that mean he wants you? Please say that is what he intents.
Any Youtube videos of this?
Yestreday at zgym this superhot guy in late teens went to water fountain before goign to shower. He had a mouthwatering upper body. My locker was right next to fountain so I took in an eyefull. i know he saw me oogling him, and he pretended not to notice, but he started flexing his pecs. I think he liked the attenton.
[quote]Why would gay guys go after guys that they know are straight
Because straight guys are real men, and that's what we all want. I'm only attracted to straight guys. The minute a guy says he's gay, or I get any inkling of such, my dick goes limp.
And who doesn't love it when the straight guy gets a little rough? It's part of the attraction.
[quote]Because straight guys are real men..
When did Kordell Stewart start posting on Data Lounge?
If a straight guy is horny enough, he'll at least let you blow him.
That's been my experience, r96. And those times when you get the privilege of blowing a straight guy, it's just amazing. Again, it's a real privilege.
I especially love when a straight guy calls me filthy names when he cums on my face.
I like to flirt with random hot dudes on subway who appear non-gay.
I don't think r31, is a straight man at all. The language reads like a straight woman. Pay attention to the language and sentence formation people. I think she either has a man that has made her question his sexuality or she actually is with a closet case. No way this reads like a man wrote it. This coming from a woman, frauen, if you like.
Ugh that sux!
Married with children.
Of course that doesn't neeeeeeccccceeesssssaaaaarrrrrriiiillllyyyyyyy mean...
[quote]When he left the room for a minute one of other students who knew him told me that he was straight and very married.
Wow. You must work some kind of subtle.
[quote] I like to flirt with random hot dudes on subway who appear non-gay.
I completely undress them with my eyes
If a dude identifies as straight, I always let him initiate and lead the flirting.
I'm the opposite. I flirt shamelessly with a avowed straight guy. He's of course off the hook as far as reciprocating.
R108 Me too and the way they know I am undressing them. I mean only the hot guys, who seems to like and enjoy it.
Only flirt with people who flirt with you
:complimentary and KIND"?!?!?!?
]bold] MARY!! [/bold] [italic] YOO HOOOOOO!!!! [/italic]
Ya wanted to suck his cock, Miss THANG!!!
"complimentary and kind" OH MY SIDES!!!!
Frankie on Big Brother is embarrassing trying to get dudes who clearly do not identify as gay to have sex with him. Have some self respect.
You can't bake your cake and eat it, too.
I'm an old gay guy over 50 and we have a young straight guy that is so hot it's ridiculous. I thought I was impotent for the last ten years, but when he was around I had to hide my shame and run in the bathroom.
And he has no idea he is even hot, which makes him all the more hotter.
He's only 22, but man I am so grateful when he's not around so I can go back to being old.
As more bi/gay dudes are open to their straight bros, I wonder how prevalent romantic overturns between the groups.
I like to flirt with straight Arab and Hispanic dudes.
I was just to post about Arabs, R124.
I was just in Middle East recently and it's so funny how easy it is to flirt with most of them.
I guess being sexually repressed and frustrated, they are ready to flirt back to any foreigner who has shown any interest with them.
I love heteroflexible brahs
I do it everyday
r125, are they being flirtatious or platonically friendly or curious?
There's a guy at my office who is, to be honest, perfection. He's warm, funny, good-looking, charming and an all-round decent guy. And yeah, I started by thinking he was gay. Turns out he's not. I was embarrassed, told him this and he got angry with *me* because I was apologising to him for flirting. He's probably my biggest ally in that office and definitely one of the loveliest, sweetest guys I know - except when you steal the last chocolate Hob-Nob. Not all straight guys get offended when you flirt with them - I've often found them to respond either by flirting back, or taking it as a joke, or a compliment, or just as harmless banter. Just don't expect them to always replace the biscuits.
Gay men flirting with obvious straight dudes, is painful to watch. Why do gay men embarrass themselves that way?
More painful are straight dudes flirting with lesbians.
And straight women flirting with gay men.
I know a lot of lesbians that flirt hard with straight dudes, particularly lipstick ones.
I flirted with a str8 guy once.
He kicked me in the face.
Son of a bitch.
Is having sex with a straight man, an honestly straight man, the ultimate power trip for a gay man?
"You have awfully big FEET for a master chef!"
i think it was nice you apologized, but heres my question, would you have apologized if he had been bi. you cant justrandemly compliment people
Why can't you randomly compliment people? Most people like to be complimented.
I don't understand why gays humiliate themselves by flirting with obvious straight men. It's seriously cringeworthy.