I hate it when big guys bottom.

Sorry, I just needed to vent.

• I feel ya, OP. I''m a big guy myself, and wouldn''t dream of bottoming for anyone smaller than me. It''s degrading.\ \ So, what''s the story? You had to top a big dude?

• Oh, no, I LOVE when that happens!

• No R1. I just hate it is all.

• Are you a midget, R2?

• Have to agree with R2, love it.

• I agree. It''s so un-natural and clumsy, like a flea fucking an ape.

• A fat or wide butt is just not appealing.

• No, r4, I''m 6''2", 210 lbs. I''m versatile and as long as the guy has a nice dick, I don''t care if he''s bigger or smaller than me, I''ll lift my legs right up in the air. Conversely, if he has a sweet ass, I''ll lift his legs right up in the air.

• What if he was 4'' tall, R8? Please tell me you wouldn''t.

• Exactly R6. I''m only 5''9" and I always meet these nelly-assed big dudes who want me to fuck them. It''s either that or I meet a pocket-gay munchkin who wants to fuck me! I can never win.

• My ex was about an inch shorter than me, but wide and heavily built. When I tried to top him it was difficult. I couldn''t even straddle him. I definitely want a guy smaller than me next time.

• I hate it when masculine guys want to bottom. I like the prissy ones.

• In a perfect world, all guys under 30 and under 5''9" should be bottoms, all guys over those limits should be tops. %0D\ %0D\ But alas....

• Oh, please! Stereotypical much?

• sorry that you are so uncomfortable with your sexuality op that you are bound up in rigid conventions

• I have the opposite perspective. I''m 6''2 200 pounds of muscle and love getting fucked. In my ideal world every gay guy is 6''3 or above. \ \ I''m a very, very happy camper when I go to Amsterdam or Berlin.\ \ Small, short guys should be weeded out of the gene pool, plain and simple.

• [r10] that''s tragic

  how old are you? 13?

• I fucked R10 and it was good.%0D\ %0D

  The lollypop kid

• [quote]Small, short guys should be weeded out of the gene pool, plain and simple.\ \ Small, short guys are more environmentally friendly.

• Small short guys are sexy, only if they are prissy queens. Butch small short guys are not sexy.

• R10... thanks I needed a good laugh. LOL!!!

• Blind people are lucky since the holes are the same size regardless of their presentation array.

• [quote]I''m a big guy myself, and wouldn''t dream of bottoming for anyone smaller than me. It''s degrading.\ \ Where did you receive your sexual education--Egypt?

• You have pedophilic tendencies. You know its true.

• let''s keep it simple, you''re a bottom who eroticizes bigger guys, so you want them to want to top you, and when they don''t, you feel deprived. and this seems to happen to you a lot, so you feel frustrated.\ \ therefore, keep looking for that bigger hot guy who will fuck the shit out of you, enjoy the hunt for it even when the quarry seems to allude you, and stop whining about it.

• I won''t bottom for any guy who can''t beat me in a fist fight.

• So anyone will do, R26?

• One of the reason bottoms like guys bigger than them, is the anti-bully theory. \ \ They grew up being called every gay slur in the book by these bigger jocks and now, they have an emotional need to undue that damage - aka if they are having sex with me, they don''t hate me anymore. Kinda twisted, but most if not all, short bottoms, won''t touch other short guys.

• That is not true R28. I was the "big" bully in school. It has nothing to do with psychology, and everything to do with choreography and aesthetics.

  op

• What does Choreography have to do with being a bottom, other than Choreographers are highly likely to be feminine and thereby exclusive bottoms.

• I''m a 5''10 top and I love plowing bigger guys.\ \ It also helps that I''m a bigger built, muscular guy with an 8" dick and I''m generally more hung than the 6'' and over guys I fuck. \ \ Nothing better than making a big, tall muscular guy whimper like a bitch when I put it in.\ \ Oh yeah...

• R31

  http://www.joegage.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/af3.jpg

• LOL R32!

• I love it when big guys bottom. Ted Colunga is a great example. I think it''s really hot, and fucks with stereotypes.

• I think that 2 guys who get together for sex and are different sizes should do whatever makes both of them happy- and of course that means turns them on. If the larger guy gets on the bottom, fine- and they have a ball, more power to them. In may sex life, variety and experimentation have been what has kept sexual relationships alive and fun. %0D\ %0D\ I think a heterosexual couple that enjoys the female sitting on top and controlling the thrusts should well, enjoy themselves. I don''t think if they enjoy it that the male is immasculated or any silly prejudice like that.%0D\ %0D\ If you don''t like the big guy underneath when you fuck him, or you only like to fuck guys smaller than you- well then find someone who agrees and have fun doing whatever you want to do. %0D\ %0D\ But do not presume that your likes and dislikes in bed are the right way and the way it should be done. Isn''t that really kind of silly, prudish and exactly what is at the core of people telling other people the correct who how and what of sex?

  charlie

• I like pocket gays and tall men too. Sucking getting sucked, rubbing boners, licking bodies: it''s all good

• It''s cool as long as they sit on it.

  zac efron

• Adorable if not a bit creepy, R32!!!!

  Ouch

• Wait. Whose the bottom in R32''s picture?

• R32 proved my point. Can you even imagine that pocket gay topping Hercules?

• That photo is fake. Eduardo is not that big.

• Watching Dancing With the Stars, all I can think about is plowing Chris Jericho.

  He''s easily six inches taller.

• The sexiest thing in the world is a big tall buff hairy masculine bottom who loves cock and is aggressive about it. I''ll still fuck a twink if he''s hot enough but I prefer guys who are bigger/stronger/older than me. I found a unusual video on gaytube that is a good example of the type of guys I''ve allways been attracted to. NSFW

  http://www.gaytube.com/media/110331/School_Fantasy/

• sex is degrading (and I LOVE it that way!)

  you all need to get over yourselves

• I''m 5''7" 165lbs. My boyfriend is 5''10" 225lbs solid mass and there is nothing like having sex with him. It is like heaven. There is something about feeling his power and strength. It''s very emotional for me. I only prefer guys like him.

• I saw a funny vid on xtube once: this young nelly guy wanted to be plowed, and the person who responded to his Craigslist ad was even smaller and nellier.\ \ They had an extremely difficult time fucking; the top was so damn much smaller, he could only get in a few strokes before having to change position. \ \ It was insane, there was like 30 seconds of actual fucking in a 10 minute vid, lol.

• I think I saw that one, R46. Were they both blond?

• Luckily my husband had the balls to personally investigate what would happen if a tall, skinny corporate lawyer tried to top a big, brawny landscaper... he does it well, and often, thanks... of course, his having a big, thick, cock factors into the equation... and that he''s not all that averse to being flipped doesn''t hurt.

• OP = Japanese woman drawing gay porn\ \ Small tops and talls bottoms are hot!

• that''s because you are a bottom.\ \ next!

• OP, are you talking about guys that are bigger in height, build, weight, penis size? Or all of the above? To each their own, but I''ve always found the whole bigger top/smaller bottom thing very predictable. My former fuck buddy was a few inches taller than me and I loved the feeling of dominating a guy who was bigger than me. I would''ve bottomed for him from time to time, too, but he wouldn''t even consider it - he HAD to bottom all of the time. Now I have the desire to bottom for a guy a few inches shorter than me, which I''ve never done before.

• "Honey, remove the pocket gay from your ass; we''ll be late for brunch!"

• In my experience, big guys with big cocks normally can''t work it well enough to top. It''s a shame.

• How old are you people with this top and bottom shit? What''s the point of being gay if you can''t take advantage of versatility? %0D\ %0D\ Me and my bf are the same size as you can see, however, we refuse to define ourselves by the sexual positions we enjoy. We switch off, anyway.

  http://www.flickr.com/photos/addadada/1473678589/

• I like how some posters think the world should adapt to their preferences.\ \ r16, replace "small, short guys" with Asians, blacks, gays, or Latinos. You''re incredibly ignorant.

• r54 is that really you, because I''m pretty sure I fucked that guy on the left at a sex party in midtown.

• 5''10, 8 1/2 inch dick r31 here again. I fucked another big, tall guy last night just to piss OP off. \ \ 6''4 of solid muscle. 8 pack and a delicious ass. Said he usually tops but couldn''t resist me. I had him on his back and those looooooooong legs wrapped right around my waist. \ \ And just to REALLY piss you off, I''m black and he was a tall white guy with blond hair and blue eye.

  Hot Black Top

• r57 we will need to see a pic of your dick for verification purposes.

• [[R54]] I think the guy on the right is Dirk Caber, a.k.a. Jack. %0D\ %0D\ Here''s the thing, though. As ridiculous as it sounds, some cuties just have that quintessential NELLY BOTTOM face, which I personally find it hot. EVEN hotter when ''em cute nellies get plowed by the handsome army types. %0D\ %0D

• "I don''t think if they enjoy it that the male is immasculated or any silly prejudice like that."\ \ \ Hey Charlie (R35), if you use Firefox, it does a spellcheck of your posts. You might want to look into that. Then perhaps you can impress more people here with your brilliance.

• R57=TJ

• "Versatile" is code for "I couldn''t find a top so I will do what I have to"

• I love it when my big butt opens wide for a furry 5''7" stud who porks me until I am jello! When we come I wrap my big--muscular--legs around him as he pants into enormous pleasure. Fuck yea.

  6''5" I am a solid 220#

• Me too OP. big and muscular dudes should be total tops who never bottom.

• Muscle Mary Bear?

• Who notices height?

  Size%20Queen

• Big dudes should be total tops.

• I agree with OP. I'm medium-sized in terms of frame, ht., wt. and I would only want to top a guy smaller than I am and I only want to be topped by a guy bigger than I am. Sadly, I find little of either.

• I am a strict bottom. This is going to sound awful, but I lose total interest and don't want them any longer if I find out that a guy I perceive as being a total masculine top is into bottoming in any way shape or form or even wants to suck my cock. Hooking up with another bottom or someone who proclaims to be verse is totally different, but if you say you're a total masculine top, you can't do anything else.

• r69 there are a lot of dudes who are like you. That is why in porn, so many tops don't want to ever bottom. It taints their fantasy appeal.

• f

• The great dark man.

  Quentin

• what is the maximum height at which a dude can bottom?

• I love it when they do. I think the whole mental aspect of that is hot. When a guy who no-one expects to bottom bottoms, that's something that's always been a turn on to me, role reversal. I've never felt quite the same way when it comes to guys you expect to bottom topping, though. I'm somewhere around 6'3 (although I do have a lean build) but although I've never considered myself a top or bottom and *legitimately* like it all, I end up bottoming like 75% of the time because guys want to fuck me. Guys who identify as bottoms in the past have hooked up with me and ended up topping me. Body size doesn't matter too much unless the size difference between the top and bottom is ridiculous.

  Francis

• I just view it as ruining a hot buff masculine guy by popping his cherry. Once it's popped, the guy is a masculine icon or fantasy anymore. At least Mike Branson never got popped.

• I prefer a short, petite guy for a BTM with a BIG Bubble Butt to play with...so, there is plenty of room in the gene pool for them to play! LOL It's ALL good, guys! Enjoy life!

  Topgun

• I'm the opposite of OP. As a top into masculine men, I love seeing strong hot men dominated. Especially by a slighter guy or even a twink - the role reversal thing. You don't see this in porn much, but it's a common thing in erotic ficiton. It's a niche no one has exploited in porn yet. God knows everything else has been picked up on.

• I love it too R77 - sends me over the edge. A big, muscled, hairy, hung, masculine guy being dominated by a slender twink is absolutely the hottest thing. [quote]It's a niche no one has exploited in porn yet. God knows everything else has been picked up on. I know! You do come across a similar themed scene every now and then, but so far it's been pretty rare. There [italic]has[/italic] to be other guys that feel the same way we do. Right?

• R78, there seems to be a whole sub-genre devoted to that kind of role reversal in sex stories, just not in porn. And in a straighter - kind of an odd word for kink - form of porn, femdom is all about role reversal. Well, when the guy is a strong male and not some fat slob.

• I have friend that is 5'6" who is a strict top. He only dates dudes shorter than him because he thinks taller guys would not want to be topped by him. He will not date a taller dude because he fears people will think he is the bottom in the relationship.

• ok im a small guy who is 5'6inches i like a big muscle guy to top and i hate to differ but im small and have a country butch side and everyone tells me that im sexy as hell but i keep my self clean up along with it.

• Op what a profound statement. I feel shocked by your depth. Lol.

• I just got off fucking a hot, 6'-8" tall masculine guy with hairy legs. I want to do it again.

• R83 hehe, you sex maniac. You are so carnal...

• I LOVE a big tall guy who is friendly and lovable. If he has a nice bouncy ass that is all the better, more cushion to the pushin'. I wouldn't say no to someone 5'6" or 7 though, but it would be the same kind of vibe. I also love spanking a tall guy (or short one for that matter)--snug jeans are the key. I wonder if this is why marines like it up the ass so much? They must figure that if a little pansyish guy can take it up the ass then surely they, big bad marines, should be able to with no problem.

  anon

• Guys, what do you think of females asses? You find them fuckable? Female asses possessed by women i mean...

• I don't understand. Is OP a pervert, and the relative sizes of the couple he spied on while they fucked displeased him?

• I met a BIG beautiful, friendly guy who I want to top me so badly b/c I feel safe and trapped at the same time. The idea of topping him just makes me laugh.

• r88 Do you top at all, though?

• "Female asses possessed by women i mean" Which men possess female asses?

• feminine men. :)

• r90 Joe Jonas has lady hips. Does lady ass follow?

• You got my point, stop bulling me! :P

• r93 I'll bull you, and you'll love it. Though I am 4ft11.

  Brendal Ee

• Lol...i need really to relax. You want sex and sex causes tension before it happens... now, excuse me but leave me alone R94

• This thread must be about porn or one night stands, that's the only time that people are so superficial about appearances. If you are in a relationship with somebody, you want to please them, you're not going to say, "Sorry you are too scrawny to fuck me."

  Dear%20Abby

• Not necessarily, r92. Who has lady ass then?

• Ok guys...i was just wondering if a gay man could find a woman attractive enough to fuck her from behind, that's all... God, you are all so nerdish with words and sentences...i need to know the plain truth...

• Some gay men, R98, yes. Others no.

• Hmm...ok. At least some can and want then.

• R96 and R99 are you happy with a man? Do you believe in monogamy or you find it not possible or funny?

• [quote][R96] and [R99] are you happy with a man? Do you believe in monogamy or you find it not possible or funny? Yes and yes. I can also appreciate the beauty of a woman, but that doesn't mean I will stray.

  R96/R99

• R96/R99...that's cool.

  http%3A//www.glamquotes.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/smile.jpg

• Wow. Okay. I wouldn't date someone who felt bottoming is "degrading" Anal sex is an important part of gay sex, and if you don't partake in it, then what kind of bed partner would you be? Someone who isn't considerate, and interested in variety... AKA a Boring Lay.

  anon

• big man = big, warm, moist inviting anus!

• It truly is heart breaking.

• I luv it

  http%3A//www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2235381/Mary-Kate-Olsen-26-dwarfed-boyfriend-Olivier-Sarkozy-42-stroll-getting-cosy-NBA-game.html

  Mary-Kate%20

• I'm 6'1" muscled at 220 lb, and I'm a total pillow-biting bottom. Contrary to the PC police on this board, I have absolutely no interest in topping. People assume I'm a top by the way I look. Truth is I love big dicks and the way they feel in my vaguyna.

• So which men have lady asses?

• [quote]Anal sex is an important part of gay sex, and if you don't partake in it, then what kind of bed partner would you be? Someone who isn't considerate, and interested in variety... [quote]AKA a Boring Lay. The irony is beyond belief. Having sexual preferences and making choices makes a person inconsiderate and not interested in variety? It sounds quite prescriptive actually.

• Will Zeb ever bottom?

• I like it like that.

• r104, you are a hot mess, dude

• Me too OP

• Is this a porn thread or (real life) sex thread?

• I knew a big girl who bottomed. But then she died.

• Birth, r115

• Both

• I hear you. I'm five foot and change and I love finding men 6 feet and over that are interested in me. And 95% of them, once we are behind closed doors, want me to fuck them. I am versatile and I am into many other things about a guy, but I'm usually a little bummed because they presented themselves as something else in the beginning.

• Geez - some of you are so self-limiting. Who the fuck cares what size someone is? Get over your hangups - life will be a lot better.

• [quote] Get over your hangups - life will be a lot better. Smell you!

• R120 = Thumbellina

• I myself find it very hot when big muscular guys bottom(and seem to genuinely enjoy it). Who are some good beefy bottoms that seem to love what they do?

• Beefy bottoms are the hottest thing there is.

• I knew this would be a completely stupid thread.

• 6'5" 254 muscle boy with 9 inch cock though I only bottom with my hairy jumbo ass, always cry when I cum

• Im a pocket gay.

• dd

• Well I sure the hell like it. Especially when I'm balls deep inside him!

  Hung%20Skinny%20Top

• Chihuahua on a Great Dane, not pretty.

• how tall, r129?

• [quote] Chihuahua on a Great Dane, not pretty. Ah, so it's a porn thread. Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

• R131, I'm 6'3" Love throwing a fuck into a strong beefy guy.

  Hung%20Skinny%20Top

• I have a friend who is 5'6. He will not let a dude his size or shorter top him. He says it is dehumanizing to let a guy smaller than you get on top of you.

• [quote] He says it is dehumanizing to let a guy smaller than you get on top of you. He obviously has a healthy attitude to sex. Preference is one thing. His reasoning however, is fucked.

• R132...that big hunk is exactly the man I have been searching for! Who is that specimen?

• R136, I think you meant R32 and that pic is photoshopped. The smaller guy is Dean Coulter. The bigger taller guy's head is Eduardo, and he is (in reality) the same height as Dean Coulter. They were in a scene in a Titan flick way back in the late 90s. They are both short, like 5'7". If you know porn, the pic is pretty funny.

  Porn%20hound

• chihuahua on a great dane is definitely not cool.

• Whose the largest(tallest/most muscular)bottom/versatile guy in porn today?

• R140: That honor might have gone to Kevin Falk (6'4") of the huge long DL thread, except I think he left porn. There is a huge new guy on RandyBlue named "Austin Wolf", approx the same dimensions as Kevin Falk and he is versatile in real life but I don't think he has bottomed on camera... yet.

  Torta

• Has anyone else ever cried while having sex like R126? I have heard women say they do or even that their straight guys do...but do gay guys cry during sex out of the sheer release or pleasure? (I never have.)

• I hate it when big guys poop.

• [quote]bottoming for anyone smaller than me. It's degrading that's the fun part, stoopid!

  big%20guy%20who%20loves%20getting%20fucked

• Subjugation, degradation, feminization=being topped by a guy smaller than myself.

• *slapping R126 across his face when he cries during sex* SNAP OUT OF IT!

  Loretta Castorini

• I used to hate it when big guys bottom also.... But now it is the total opposite for me. I love when big guys bottom and when the skinny/slim twink is a top. I am a masculine bottom myself who loves twinky tops but I do have urges to top a bigger guy which I think is hott!! =)