Why do many gay men like big dicks so much?

Is it an aesthetic thing, or is it because they feel better when they''re inside you?\ \ I don''t have enough experience with bottoming to judge if it feels better to get fucked by a big dick than by a medium one, but I find medium(-to-smallish) dicks much more aesthetically pleasing.\ \ To say nothing of the fact that they''re much more comfortable to suck. But then I have a very small mouth - do all size queens have a mouth like Julia Roberts?

• As a top I really do not care anything about big dicks. My BF is happy that I have a big dick because it is more fun to play with than a teeny weenie

• Because men are competetive. And we need to prove something

• it''s a male thing, not a gay male thing

  frankly, I don''t give a fig

• Men are visual, which is why they like looking at whatever turns them on regardless of size. However, once the sex act is actaully underway and if the chemistry is good, I think the size issue goes away.

• Why would anyone want a small one?%0D\ %0D\ I hate seeing a pencil dick or tiny little thing and thinking, yuck. Especially when you''re expecting a good one.%0D\ %0D\ Aesthetic yes...just looking at one of those monsters gets my mouth a''waterin.

  straight chick

• Why do straight men like big tits on women?%0D\ %0D\ OP, that is like asking why gay men are turned on by men. I like big pretty dicks because I do. I don''t like vaginas because I don''t. Nothing against them, I just like dicks, big ones are better. If I knew why, then I would have an answer to one of life''s mysteries. %0D\ %0D\ I don''t know any straight men who like big dicks per se. They might want to have one- not sure they care particularly to get up close and personal with another guy''s. Don''t know why except for their being being straight. Please dont tell me straight me want to suck dick- that''s gay men.

  charlie

• Deep Thoughts by charlie.

• It''s a trophy.

• Big dicks feel better in your mouth and ass. I love a thick dick that fills my mouth!!!

  Gary

• Cause I'm a low down dirty whore and I love big dick. Never met one I didn't like or couldn't take.

• This kind of post really brings out the "faggot" population.

• I like small ones myself. Between 2 to 4 inches erect - I guess it's a dominance thing.

• Because it's a big dick? Although, if it's an ugly big dick, all appeal goes away.

  Francis

• Because men like to see something gigantic so they can think about how to compete with it.

• I'm sorry miss, but with all due respect, I've got problems of my own.

  Mariah%20Carey

• I think anesthetics may be one reason. Showers tend to look better naked than our grower friends. As for the sex part, I think anything under 6 just can't get the job done. My personal preference is 7 and up, but I would never turn a nice 6er away.

• I'm half and half. I like to SEE big dicks, but I like to PLAY with normal-sized dicks.

• "Anesthetics" I love the idea of a penis spraying knockout gas.

• My favorite soda ain't 7up for no reason....

• It reminds them of their missing masculinity.

  Cheryl

• Don't men have a prostate, so it makes sense? I can never figure out why a straight women would care (since almost none actually have a g-spot, and none have a prostate), but it makes perfect sense for gay men. As for oral, must be psychological.

• Aaaaaannnddd DL hits a new low.

• True, when the big man goes up in the woman they're both going to be uncomfortable because she's only able to accommodate so much and no more, whereas when the big man goes up in the man he's got more room to stretch out, so to speak.

• I have to agree with R3. Lots of men are focused on size. I love the feeling of my big dick swinging between my legs. Why, who knows? BTW, I F&F'd R11 given the choice of words.

• Not ALL straight men like big tits, some like small ones and others are more into legs or behinds. SOME ladies like big dicks and some like big hearts better.

• Size is a factor, but the shape is more important, as well as what he does with it.

• Fills me.up I feel it more

• R21, because even though we don't have a prostate (and I don't believe that g-spot bullshit either), getting fucked by a tiny dick is like getting fucked by a tampon. You want big, but not too big. That said, there are more important attributes in a man. I'd never turn a small-penised man out of bed if he had other sterling qualities.

  Breeder

• my bf has a big cock and is a big guy full stop but i have found small built guys have lovely well proportioned cocks. ive had guys with big cocks who are hopeless in bed and vice versa so it doesnt always pay to be a size queen !

  graham northampton england

• R22, there can be no new low. We bottomed out around here years ago.

• Big is better, honey!

  Christina%20Aguilera

• As a bottom, guys with 7-9 inches are the best. Anything under 6 inches, unless there is a lot of girth, just doesn't feel as good. Over 9 inches and it is a lot of work to get in, which can ruin the fun. If the top is over 9 inches but patient and lets me get used to his size, it can be fun. As other posters have noted, though, size really isn't everything. If you're big and you don't know what to do with it or you are lazy and think your size is everything, the sex won't be so great.

• [quote]Why do many gay men like big dicks so much? Because big dicks hurt.

• Size does matter. I have a very small penis. Less than a inch hard. I can't even penetrate. I'm stuck being a bottom, but inside I feel like a top. I would love to be able to fuck, when I fantasize it's always as a top but I've never been able to. It's really limiting. I met the perfect guy once. We were friends. We connected. He was into me. But I never acted on it because he was a "power bottom" and I was embarrassed.

  Sausages%20McGee

• A dick that's too big hurts. I will never understand size queens. I think they are nuts.

• Another thing, how can you get a huge dick in your mouth and give it a good blow job? It's stupid..."he's got a big dick, I've got to have him!" Well you can have him, I sure wouldn't want him.

• The most important attribute to me in a man is if he gives good head, and wants to suck me off. I have a physical reaction to seeing a big dick, it turns me on. I love to stroke big ones, but I won't even try to give head if it is too big. I have a strong gag reflex, and can give good head only if they have a small one. I don't do anal sex, either way. If they have a big dick that they want to rub between my legs, that can be good. I am real plain vanilla, and like other men who are as well, and we stay very healthy with frottage and 69. Size of dick is no problem.

• Was R34 actually meant to be a girl? I mean hard and an inch long? Is that even possible? I'd like to see that (to believe it).

• Shakespeare spoke of "an inch of raw mutton." It's not the best attribute, but it remains possible.

• R11 and R22 you are aware that enlarging breasts on women is a multibillion dollar industry ONLY because straight guys like em big too? Take your homophobia elsewhere please.

• This poll probably received more votes than any other in DL history!

• R2 sums it up. Big cocks are great, smaller ones are fine, even a small one can work out nicely, if he's really hard and he's into me.

  I%20just%20like%20cock

• gay men? how about everyone whether they would openly admit to it or not. it's called fascination.

  Fascinus

• I hate sucking a big dig. They are jawbreakers. I can give a much better blowjob to a medium-size dick.

• Well, as an openly gay guy with a smaller penis (4.5" erect), I find most (if not all the above) comments rather sickening. Yes, I would agree that aesthetically a 'huge' cock is nice. But I've always maintained that anything more than a hand full, is a waste!!. In the past, I have turned guys down, due to their size...(if too big). I don't want to be split in two thanks!!

  Anon

• [quote]In the past, I have turned guys down, due to their size...(if too big). Which reminds me.... A little Irishman gets into an elevator, looks up and sees this HUGE black guy standing next to him. The big guy sees the little Irishman staring at him. He looks down and says: "7 ft tall, 350 pounds, 20 inch penis, 3 pounds of testicles, Turner Brown" The little Irishman faints and falls to the floor. The big guy kneels down and brings him to, shaking him... The big guy says, "What's wrong with you?" In a weak voice the little guy says, "What EXACTLY did you just say to me?" The big dude says, "Well, I saw your curious look and I figured I'd just give you the answers to the questions everyone always asks me... I'm 7 ft tall, I weigh 350 pounds, I have a 20 inch penis, my testicles weigh 3 pounds each... and my name is Turner Brown." The Irishman says: "Turner Brown?!... Sweet Jesus... I thought you said,'Turn around!'"

• r46, that's the worse joke in the world. It just sounds like something that would be said in a smokey dark gay bar circa 1945.

• I like being stretched open by a big cock.

• I'm the quintessential WASP. I love to get fucked by hung, uncut, Latinos. Guys I would never admit to even knowing if I saw them in public. Best sex is getting done a just a mattress that's on the floor. It isn't good sex unless the cock has power over me. If it doesn't hurt I don't feel a thing. I can't be treated like shit with a four inch dick.

• "Guys I would never admit to even knowing if I saw them in public." Classy.

  Hispanic

• Just being honest with you.

• 1 AND 2.

  couldn't decide

• I WANT WOMYN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

• I'm sorry, but if a man don't have at least 8 inchs he's gettin no play with me. I specify in my Grindr profile that I accept nothin less than 8" and if a scrub shows up with less (I don't care how pretty he is) he is shown the door. Guys with less than 8" have no confidence and can't fuck for shit. There are no exceptions to that rule. I gave up on needle dicks after years of bad sex. The only good sex was with more than 8". Any body who says they like less than 8" is just being "nice" or just aint had the good stuff.

  None Under Eight

• R54 To each their own, but I tend to judge the man by whether I'm attracted to him intellectually or conversationally first. Dick size does not matter. I have had great sex with smaller ones and great sex with larger ones. Of course, I tend to only fuck guys in relationships, so what they are like as people is far more important to me than how large a body appendage is. Incidently, the best sex I ever had was with a guy who was packing just under 5", so it's what you make of it.

  Joey

• Amen, R55. I agree 100%.

• A nice six incher is all I need (give or take an inch). I'm easy to please.

  Mike

• Most men are obsessed with the size of their own penises. It only stands to reason that gay men should be obsessed with the penis size of the men they have sex with.

• I love r54, even though his hole's diameter is probably the size of Lake Michigan.

• R59 - That's exactly what I thought when I read that one. That fucker's hole probably never snaps shut. Fucking Carlsbad Caverns back there.

  LOL

• I don't know, but I like my partner's small one just fine. I am a tall 7" top with a gag reflex that won't budge, and my partner likes my dick, says it is "perfect husband size" -- so (to paraphrase Babs Bush) this works out very well for me. Truly happy.

• As you get older you need penes to be increasingly larger in order to be able to feel them inside. Average size dicks don't even touch the sides.

• I hope R62 is joking. Regardless, I love his usage of the correct plural of 'penis'.

• I guess I am something of an anomaly in the gay world. I do not like huge dicks. I dated one guy with a massive dong and it was misery. No matter how much lube we used, it always hurt like fucking hell and my jaws were always sore. Give me an average sized shooter any day of the week over that oversized shit.

  LC

• You can tell who the guys with small dicks are just by reading their responses. Everyone loves to look at a big dick, might it be harder to blow, maybe. But we know if there was a way all these bitter posters could get a bigger dick overnight they would take it IN AN INSTANT. Every guy, gay and straight are obsessed with big dicks. In straight porn guys do not want to see a girl getting screwed by a small dick. Straight guys want to see a big dick on camera just like gays. Its not a gay thing its a GUY thing. Lie to yourself if you want to but we all know the truth.

• I'm not one of the 'bitter posters' R65 alludes to, but I also don't want a bigger dick. It just isn't a priority for me - I'd rather inherit a million dollars, acquire a PhD, or travel the world, for starters. Surely there have to be other gay guys who think this way?

• I like looking at big dicks in porn. They are visually stimulating. But handling them in practice is just more trouble than they're worth Or they were, at least. I have to go back a lot of years to reach any personal experience with them. I've been happily and monogamously partnered with an average sized guy since I was twenty-one, for thirty four years now. Overall, it's been a great life, though the size-obsessed whores will be unable to comprehend that.

• I have a gag rlex that makes it painful to suck a big cock. I am also very tight in the ass and big cocks are again very painful. So I am very happy with men who have small to medium cocks. And yes, I am small to average in cock size myself.

• Every now and then you just want to get ripped open by something like this. NSFW

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• I'm a bottom and I love big dicks especially big black cocks cos I feel dominated when getting fucked by a big dick. It feels like I'm safe as I'm being breed by a strong man.

  Joel

• I am a bisexual dude. Not only do I not care about big penises, I dont care about dicks period. The only reason I encounter them is because they happen to be attached to dudes I am attracted to. The things that attract to a dude are non-phallic: face, butt, pecs, abs, and biceps. It has nothing to do with genitals. Thankfully, I just get serviced by dudes. I don't suck or get penetrated. Thankfully, a lot of guys are totally receptive.

• It is interesting that there's an overemphasis on the length measurement--here, in profiles, in porn, in conversation. Width plays a big role in the hole, but is more difficult to gauge or quantify visually.

• I vote for little ones. Cut. Nothing hotter for me than a cute little cut erection on a hot naked jock (who is fit without being too muscular like some gym rats get).

• way more interested in load size than hose size

  his%20milk%20does%20my%20body%20good

• I don't care except for abnormally small ones. I don't have a measurement size in mind just that reaction in my mind: oh, that's it?

• I used to love big cock, then I had one was that was just gross and Voila! (that's French for 'How about that!") I was tired of the big cocks. It was like the time I ate a cinnamon roll at the fair when I was 7. It made me barf and Voila! I didn't like cinammon rolls anymore.

• R76, you remind me of the grandmother in Sixteen Candles, who opens a box of donuts and proclaims: "Voila! Breakfast is served!"

  http://ruggerjay.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341cf11753ef0168e515057e970c-500wi

  Samantha%20Baker

• She reminds me of me too. I typed my reply while holding a cigarette.

• I like ass, not cock

• To be honest I like feeling it stretching me,and the feeling of something big going in.The feeling of something huge going deep inside is total turn on. The pain is also a turn on. They can't just be a long cock, it has to be really really thick as well.The feeling of just purely being penetrated and long stroked by a hard c*** is the best turn on ever.