Is it an aesthetic thing, or is it because they feel better when they''re inside you?\
I don''t have enough experience with bottoming to judge if it feels better to get fucked by a big dick than by a medium one, but I find medium(-to-smallish) dicks much more aesthetically pleasing.\
To say nothing of the fact that they''re much more comfortable to suck. But then I have a very small mouth - do all size queens have a mouth like Julia Roberts?
As a top I really do not care anything about big dicks. My BF is happy that I have a big dick because it is more fun to play with than a teeny weenie
Because men are competetive. And we need to prove something
it''s a male thing, not a gay male thing
frankly, I don''t give a fig
Men are visual, which is why they like looking at whatever turns them on regardless of size. However, once the sex act is actaully underway and if the chemistry is good, I think the size issue goes away.
Why would anyone want a small one?%0D\
I hate seeing a pencil dick or tiny little thing and thinking, yuck. Especially when you''re expecting a good one.%0D\
Aesthetic yes...just looking at one of those monsters gets my mouth a''waterin.
Why do straight men like big tits on women?%0D\
OP, that is like asking why gay men are turned on by men. I like big pretty dicks because I do. I don''t like vaginas because I don''t. Nothing against them, I just like dicks, big ones are better. If I knew why, then I would have an answer to one of life''s mysteries. %0D\
I don''t know any straight men who like big dicks per se. They might want to have one- not sure they care particularly to get up close and personal with another guy''s. Don''t know why except for their being being straight. Please dont tell me straight me want to suck dick- that''s gay men.
Deep Thoughts by charlie.
It''s a trophy.
Big dicks feel better in your mouth and ass. I love a thick dick that fills my mouth!!!
Cause I'm a low down dirty whore and I love big dick. Never met one I didn't like or couldn't take.
This kind of post really brings out the "faggot" population.
I like small ones myself. Between 2 to 4 inches erect - I guess it's a dominance thing.
Because it's a big dick?
Although, if it's an ugly big dick, all appeal goes away.
Because men like to see something gigantic so they can think about how to compete with it.
I'm sorry miss, but with all due respect, I've got problems of my own.
I think anesthetics may be one reason. Showers tend to look better naked than our grower friends. As for the sex part, I think anything under 6 just can't get the job done. My personal preference is 7 and up, but I would never turn a nice 6er away.
I'm half and half. I like to SEE big dicks, but I like to PLAY with normal-sized dicks.
I love the idea of a penis spraying knockout gas.
My favorite soda ain't 7up for no reason....
It reminds them of their missing masculinity.
Don't men have a prostate, so it makes sense?
I can never figure out why a straight women would care (since almost none actually have a g-spot, and none have a prostate), but it makes perfect sense for gay men.
As for oral, must be psychological.
Aaaaaannnddd DL hits a new low.
True, when the big man goes up in the woman they're both going to be uncomfortable because she's only able to accommodate so much and no more, whereas when the big man goes up in the man he's got more room to stretch out, so to speak.
I have to agree with R3. Lots of men are focused on size. I love the feeling of my big dick swinging between my legs. Why, who knows?
BTW, I F&F'd R11 given the choice of words.
Not ALL straight men like big tits, some like small ones and others are more into legs or behinds. SOME ladies like big dicks and some like big hearts better.
Size is a factor, but the shape is more important, as well as what he does with it.
Fills me.up I feel it more
R21, because even though we don't have a prostate (and I don't believe that g-spot bullshit either), getting fucked by a tiny dick is like getting fucked by a tampon.
You want big, but not too big. That said, there are more important attributes in a man. I'd never turn a small-penised man out of bed if he had other sterling qualities.
my bf has a big cock and is a big guy full stop but i have found small built guys have lovely well proportioned cocks. ive had guys with big cocks who are hopeless in bed and vice versa so it doesnt always pay to be a size queen !
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R22, there can be no new low. We bottomed out around here years ago.
Big is better, honey!
As a bottom, guys with 7-9 inches are the best. Anything under 6 inches, unless there is a lot of girth, just doesn't feel as good. Over 9 inches and it is a lot of work to get in, which can ruin the fun. If the top is over 9 inches but patient and lets me get used to his size, it can be fun.
As other posters have noted, though, size really isn't everything. If you're big and you don't know what to do with it or you are lazy and think your size is everything, the sex won't be so great.
[quote]Why do many gay men like big dicks so much?
Because big dicks hurt.
Size does matter. I have a very small penis. Less than a inch hard. I can't even penetrate. I'm stuck being a bottom, but inside I feel like a top. I would love to be able to fuck, when I fantasize it's always as a top but I've never been able to. It's really limiting. I met the perfect guy once. We were friends. We connected. He was into me. But I never acted on it because he was a "power bottom" and I was embarrassed.
A dick that's too big hurts. I will never understand size queens. I think they are nuts.
Another thing, how can you get a huge dick in your mouth and give it a good blow job? It's stupid..."he's got a big dick, I've got to have him!" Well you can have him, I sure wouldn't want him.
The most important attribute to me in a man is if he gives good head, and wants to suck me off. I have a physical reaction to seeing a big dick, it turns me on. I love to stroke big ones, but I won't even try to give head if it is too big. I have a strong gag reflex, and can give good head only if they have a small one. I don't do anal sex, either way. If they have a big dick that they want to rub between my legs, that can be good. I am real plain vanilla, and like other men who are as well, and we stay very healthy with frottage and 69. Size of dick is no problem.
Was R34 actually meant to be a girl? I mean hard and an inch long? Is that even possible? I'd like to see that (to believe it).
Shakespeare spoke of "an inch of raw mutton." It's not the best attribute, but it remains possible.
R11 and R22 you are aware that enlarging breasts on women is a multibillion dollar industry ONLY because straight guys like em big too? Take your homophobia elsewhere please.
This poll probably received more votes than any other in DL history!
R2 sums it up.
Big cocks are great, smaller ones are fine, even a small one can work out nicely, if he's really hard and he's into me.
gay men? how about everyone whether they would openly admit to it or not. it's called fascination.
I hate sucking a big dig. They are jawbreakers. I can give a much better blowjob to a medium-size dick.
Well, as an openly gay guy with a smaller penis (4.5" erect), I find most (if not all the above) comments rather sickening.
Yes, I would agree that aesthetically a 'huge' cock is nice. But I've always maintained that anything more than a hand full, is a waste!!.
In the past, I have turned guys down, due to their size...(if too big).
I don't want to be split in two thanks!!
[quote]In the past, I have turned guys down, due to their size...(if too big).
Which reminds me....
A little Irishman gets into an elevator, looks up and sees this HUGE black guy standing next to him.
The big guy sees the little Irishman staring at him. He looks down and says: "7 ft tall, 350 pounds, 20 inch penis, 3 pounds of testicles, Turner Brown"
The little Irishman faints and falls to the floor.
The big guy kneels down and brings him to, shaking him... The big guy says, "What's wrong with you?"
In a weak voice the little guy says, "What EXACTLY did you just say to me?"
The big dude says, "Well, I saw your curious look and I figured I'd just give you the answers to the questions everyone always asks me... I'm 7 ft tall, I weigh 350 pounds, I have a 20 inch penis, my testicles weigh 3 pounds each... and my name is Turner Brown."
The Irishman says: "Turner Brown?!... Sweet Jesus... I thought you said,'Turn around!'"
r46, that's the worse joke in the world. It just sounds like something that would be said in a smokey dark gay bar circa 1945.
I like being stretched open by a big cock.
I'm the quintessential WASP. I love to get fucked by hung, uncut, Latinos. Guys I would never admit to even knowing if I saw them in public. Best sex is getting done a just a mattress that's on the floor. It isn't good sex unless the cock has power over me. If it doesn't hurt I don't feel a thing. I can't be treated like shit with a four inch dick.
"Guys I would never admit to even knowing if I saw them in public."
Just being honest with you.
1 AND 2.
I WANT WOMYN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm sorry, but if a man don't have at least 8 inchs he's gettin no play with me. I specify in my Grindr profile that I accept nothin less than 8" and if a scrub shows up with less (I don't care how pretty he is) he is shown the door. Guys with less than 8" have no confidence and can't fuck for shit. There are no exceptions to that rule. I gave up on needle dicks after years of bad sex. The only good sex was with more than 8". Any body who says they like less than 8" is just being "nice" or just aint had the good stuff.
None Under Eight
R54 To each their own, but I tend to judge the man by whether I'm attracted to him intellectually or conversationally first. Dick size does not matter. I have had great sex with smaller ones and great sex with larger ones. Of course, I tend to only fuck guys in relationships, so what they are like as people is far more important to me than how large a body appendage is. Incidently, the best sex I ever had was with a guy who was packing just under 5", so it's what you make of it.
Amen, R55. I agree 100%.
A nice six incher is all I need (give or take an inch). I'm easy to please.
Most men are obsessed with the size of their own penises. It only stands to reason that gay men should be obsessed with the penis size of the men they have sex with.
I love r54, even though his hole's diameter is probably the size of Lake Michigan.
R59 - That's exactly what I thought when I read that one. That fucker's hole probably never snaps shut. Fucking Carlsbad Caverns back there.
I don't know, but I like my partner's small one just fine.
I am a tall 7" top with a gag reflex that won't budge, and my partner likes my dick, says it is "perfect husband size" -- so (to paraphrase Babs Bush) this works out very well for me. Truly happy.
As you get older you need penes to be increasingly larger in order to be able to feel them inside. Average size dicks don't even touch the sides.
I hope R62 is joking. Regardless, I love his usage of the correct plural of 'penis'.
I guess I am something of an anomaly in the gay world. I do not like huge dicks. I dated one guy with a massive dong and it was misery. No matter how much lube we used, it always hurt like fucking hell and my jaws were always sore. Give me an average sized shooter any day of the week over that oversized shit.
You can tell who the guys with small dicks are just by reading their responses.
Everyone loves to look at a big dick, might it be harder to blow, maybe. But we know if there was a way all these bitter posters could get a bigger dick overnight they would take it IN AN INSTANT.
Every guy, gay and straight are obsessed with big dicks. In straight porn guys do not want to see a girl getting screwed by a small dick. Straight guys want to see a big dick on camera just like gays. Its not a gay thing its a GUY thing.
Lie to yourself if you want to but we all know the truth.
I'm not one of the 'bitter posters' R65 alludes to, but I also don't want a bigger dick. It just isn't a priority for me - I'd rather inherit a million dollars, acquire a PhD, or travel the world, for starters.
Surely there have to be other gay guys who think this way?
I like looking at big dicks in porn. They are visually stimulating. But handling them in practice is just more trouble than they're worth
Or they were, at least. I have to go back a lot of years to reach any personal experience with them. I've been happily and monogamously partnered with an average sized guy since I was twenty-one, for thirty four years now. Overall, it's been a great life, though the size-obsessed whores will be unable to comprehend that.
I have a gag rlex that makes it painful to suck a big cock. I am also very tight in the ass and big cocks are again very painful. So I am very happy with men who have small to medium cocks. And yes, I am small to average in cock size myself.
Every now and then you just want to get ripped open by something like this. NSFW
I'm a bottom and I love big dicks especially big black cocks cos I feel dominated when getting fucked by a big dick. It feels like I'm safe as I'm being breed by a strong man.
I am a bisexual dude. Not only do I not care about big penises, I dont care about dicks period. The only reason I encounter them is because they happen to be attached to dudes I am attracted to. The things that attract to a dude are non-phallic: face, butt, pecs, abs, and biceps. It has nothing to do with genitals. Thankfully, I just get serviced by dudes. I don't suck or get penetrated. Thankfully, a lot of guys are totally receptive.
It is interesting that there's an overemphasis on the length measurement--here, in profiles, in porn, in conversation.
Width plays a big role in the hole, but is more difficult to gauge or quantify visually.
I vote for little ones. Cut. Nothing hotter for me than a cute little cut erection on a hot naked jock (who is fit without being too muscular like some gym rats get).
way more interested in load size than hose size
I don't care except for abnormally small ones. I don't have a measurement size in mind just that reaction in my mind: oh, that's it?
I used to love big cock, then I had one was that was just gross and Voila! (that's French for 'How about that!") I was tired of the big cocks.
It was like the time I ate a cinnamon roll at the fair when I was 7. It made me barf and Voila! I didn't like cinammon rolls anymore.
R76, you remind me of the grandmother in Sixteen Candles, who opens a box of donuts and proclaims: "Voila! Breakfast is served!"
She reminds me of me too. I typed my reply while holding a cigarette.
I like ass, not cock
To be honest I like feeling it stretching me,and the feeling of something big going in.The feeling of something huge going deep inside is total turn on. The pain is also a turn on. They can't just be a long cock, it has to be really really thick as well.The feeling of just purely being penetrated and long stroked by a hard c*** is the best turn on ever.
I'm a bottom and I've always been with bigger than average guys. My ex-partner was very thick and the guys I've dated have all been about the same as my ex or bigger. For the first time, I'm dating a guy who is just average and not that thick. I really love him and the sex is good for the most part. He turns me on and I love getting fucked by him. But boy, does it take a while to cum. I feel like he's just not hitting the prostate like the bigger men I've been with. The last guy I dated was pretty big, about 8.5 and thick. He'd stroke it in and out in the missionary position and I could feel it hitting my prostate and stretching me out. Missionary with the guy I'm dating now can't even get me off. I have to ride it and really angle things before I finally cum. When I cum, though, it's intense. I don't want to hurt his feelings and ask if he can use an extender. Anyone else dealt with this?
a perfect man to me comes with a cock size between 5,9 to 7,09 inches. If perfect but comes with a big dick, well, I will try to find a soluction. ;-)
while being single before, the more less-interesting was the person, the more I would expect for a big dick for compensation. I remember that!
I sometimes worry about my anal structure, as someday I will be old. That's why the preference for an average dick is also for prevention.
Big dicks rule!
Not all big dicks look better but some look amazing. For me the biggest turn on with a big dick is that it feels so amazing in my hand.
Some gay men like big dicks for what they lack. Some do however, measure up. For the posts that I read some of you need a real adjustment. You want pain then get into the bondage, BDSM crap. I am a gay man with a 4.5-5" inch hard dick and it's truly sickening to read some of what I read. Just because it's bigger doesn't always mean it's better. Ya size queens need a big slap upside the head. Sorry to say, but you all are ridiculous. It's people like you who make people like us have low confidence in the first place not to mention the media portraying bigger as better. So maybe when ya say that we've got no confidence maybe look in the mirror and realize you size queens are one of the problems to that.
Big juicy penises and bull testicles make me weak in the knees and cum like a MOTHERFUCKER. Nothing else compares.
It is the reflection of gross vapidity, vulgarity, crudeness, and superficiality that is rampant among SOME, *not all, gay dudes.
OP, women like big dicks, too. Humans have the largest penises (by far) among the primates. It's obviously a product of sexual selection.
Don't want no short, short, man.
grow up, dudes
Hey therr big cocks are so hot they look good feel awsome just alittle pain it makes me feel like the women i should be but its all good because my big cock and my dd tits give me the best feeling also makes me feel like the women i should be
Forgive my naivete (I've never been cornholed) but wouldn't a small dick feel more comfortable in one's ass? Seems like it would be an easier fit.
If you have a giant cock, you aren't topping me. I'd much prefer a hot body over a big dick.
Hey so why do gay men like big dicks. Im 29 years old i have this freling that doesnt leave me alone. Its that feminine feeling im atracted to female products everything in general and i saw myself in the mirror and i fell inlove with a hot feninine women i was so passable as a women in reslity i looked like a women it was like a 78 percent. First time i used a 8inch dildo it hurt for a little then i bought a 10 inch long one inch thick it hurt a little but it was something making me real wet wentbout on my first sexual encounter i recieved another 10 inch real cock my god it feels so erotic felt like making me feeling i wanted more non stop having sex with another man is a great feeling. So do i sound or u guys think i am gay.
So is anybody reading these posts. I love having sexuall encounters with other shemales crossdressers its very intresting erotic i love it its very comfortable .does that make me gay
I actually like them smaller than average and uncut. If it's over 6 inches, it's kind of a turn off.
R40 i love ur post about the big boobs cant decide wat size is the best for me i want a dd size fits me perfect matches the rest pf my body nervous of how my life is going to change and ill look more attractive of a feminine look so am i still concidered a gay man. Then i will feel a cock between my 38 dd.
Some gay men are so immature and vulgar. They lack any depth, so they fixate crudest, basest things. Thankfully other gay men have depth and morals.
I don't know Rose.
it's the competition aspect. other than that I really don't care about the size, if it's HARD and he is INTO to me, I'm all for the cock regardless of size.
Dear God R81, You don't need to have your prostate massaged to cum. Just ask billions of straight men. You are just lazy and spoiled. Have your partner work your dick while he's fucking you or do it yourself.
R102, you say that like it's a bad thing.
SOME gay men are rather shallow and immature, which naturally leads, to crude phallic obsessions, which is often expressed in a size fixation. Very stunted emotional and psychological growth.
r94, have you gone to therapy, dude?
Superficial carnality and sex addiction
As feminine as the uterus is long.
Depends on who has it. Love Milton Berle's humor, but no way would I even want to have seen it. Same with other famous superhung actors, and regular people.
You can feel it and see it looks good
I don't understand the question and I won't respond to it.
r38 It is called having a micro penis. It is unfortunate, but it exist.
Immaturity, sexual addiction, vapidness, and profane interests.
Big cocks are nice to look at but since I'm not into anal and trying to suck one requires you to be able to unhinge your jaw,I much prefer average ones when it comes to actual sex. Also most of the time guys with big ones are arrogant jerks due to constantly being fawned over by size queens.
I'm the same as R17. Big 'uns only look good in porn. For real life, I like normal-sized ones.
Most (not all) big ones are ugly. Some of the ugliest ones I have seen are huge, mis-shapen, bent, crooked, and just gross to look at. I dated one guy that had a true 11" cock. It had absolutely NO HEAD on it. It was rounded off on the top and gnarly looking. I almost puked. Needless to say he had to bottom for me and no way would I put that ugly thing in my mouth. No way, Jose!
I have never really cared for large ones. They are painful to my asshole and jaws. I like a nice average-sized one that I can suck on all night long. Mine is just over 7.5" and most guys can't take it (it's really fat). Some guys even cry, no matter how much lube I use. I wouldn't want to have a smaller one, but I would never dated a guy with a big one.
Large ones look better and feel better I won't even talk to a man unless I know he's packing - much less date him I won't even be friends with small dick dudes - too much baggage and inferioirty complesses.
Big dick guys are more intelligent have more swagger are more confirdent better looking - a proven fact - and better lovers no exceptions.
size queen 4 evah
r120 I think you mean inferiority complethes.
But at least your honest.
As a 100% bottom, I love feeling a large man on top of me, and I love when a long, fat dick stretches me open.
I love the feeling of a cock inside of me, and the twitching of a cock when it cums.
I've been riding monstacocks for so long my asshole sounds like an ECHO CHAMBER.
My asshole sounds like the Vienna boys choir.
My turdhole only like da big onez.
R125 I LOL'ed
Micropenis is a pathology; megalophallia is an honor.
I'm a bottom and the big dick just seems to hit the spot for me. I'm sure even among gay men there are all kinds of preferences. I think that it doesn't matter the sex you are or your orientation, it is a personal preference.
Penis is a symbol of masculinity, a bigger one equals more masculinity, so the faires love big dick. I like everything, but a big dick is nice now and again but not required, because I'm no fairy.
I voted for medium. Big dicks are fun to look at and play with and suck, but if it's too big it hurts when you're getting fucked and if the top is too aggressive you might gag a bit if he tries to make you deep-throat against your will. Plus guys with monster dicks are lazy lovers and usually assholes with huge egos. They just rest on their laurels instead of honing their craft.
Sorry, I'm not a full-on size queen but even I can't do micropeen. By that I don't mean average, I'm talking like 3 or 4 inches and really thin like a pinky finger. Just being honest. Too hard to suck, not much to play with, and getting fucked you always have to pretend it's so amazing instead of just enjoying it for real. Plus the top knows he's small so he's insecure about it and always fishing for you to feign compliments.
Give me a nice guy who treats me well with a medium sized dick who knows how to use it but is still grateful to be getting laid at all any day. That's the type of top I want to marry. I wouldn't even make him use condoms if he wants to be monogamous.
Not too big, not too small, just right.
Anybody been turned out by a guy with a big dick who WASN'T lazy in bed?
Yeah I have and he was bisexual and wanted me as a top. But when I had him as a top he was careful and made me take deep breathes so I could thoroughly enjoy his big dick.
Big dicks are nice but size queens are gross.
R134, if you think they are "nice," why do you think you are not a size queen?