Do you think that gym management are aware of the sexual activity that goes on in their gyms?
Last night, I was telling a straight personal trainer who''s an acquaintance about gym sex, and he seemed shocked. He said he doubts that goes on in the gym where he trains, one of the Bally''s clubs in NYC. Do you think management and trainers are aware of what goes on? It''s hard to believe, at least when it comes to some of the gyms in NYC that are essentialy glorified bath houses, that they''re clueless.
Everyone knows. Sexual activity or at the least--sexual cruising--in gym showers, saunas and steamrooms is kind of an unspoken secret. It happens in some gyms more than others. Sometimes it can be rampant; sometimes it can be minimal. But a sexual element of some sort when men are naked together has been a factor since the Greek and Roman days.
please, if you couldn''t get cruised in the steam room, probably a quarter of all gym memberships would be dropped.\
sex sells, and gym owners are more then willing to take your money for it.
and Bally''s is the worst ...everyone of them is a bathhouse.
The nacreous layer of permacum on the floor was my first clue.
Wait, really?! All gyms are like this?
please GYM ATTENDANT. The first person I saw playing at my gym WAS the gym attendant. And I have personally fingered and fondled front desk personal and have seen certain trainers play musical steam room chairs.
This must be one of those NYC-centric threads.
R7, it''s common in Chicago too.
The Ballys in downtown SF was THE hot spot for steam room cruising.%0D\
Then they renovated it, and removed the steam room.%0D\
I think the spot now is Club One Fillmore.
I belong to Bally''s and have to be to all the locations in the NYC and Westchester. Cruisiest one is 55th St. A total bath house. I don''t think anyone works out there! The guys are more subtle in the Bronx locations (Riverdale & Fordham), but a ton of cruising goes on there. They have a heavy Dominican clientele and so many are on the DL. Btw, a chunk of the then dance downtown and escort on the side. Ironically, it''s been my experience that the Chelsea locations is one of the least cruisy. Guess it doesn''t help that there''s no sauna. It was shut down years ago by the board of health.
Why can''t elderly trolls have sex in bedrooms like normal attractive gay men do?
I would be shocked...SHOCKED!...to discover any sort of sexual activity going on in the steam room of a gym!
I thought the Bally''s location on 55th had closed. I will definitely have to check it out. Thanks for the heads-up!
I''m tempted to reactivate my Bally''s membership just to use it as a bath house every other month or so. They sent me an invitation to reactivate it for less than a hundred dollars a year, fixed on renewal.
Pretty sure 55th St is still open. It''s really notorious. A lot of the guys are troll-ish, but there are some hotties there. Once sucked off this muscled black guy with what must''ve been 10-11 hard inches. We''d flirted on the gym floor in the Chelsea location, but never did anything. First time we saw each other at 55th, we had some fun. Traffic was light that day so we weren''t caught. I found out later that he''s on the DL and a huge pussy hound with the ladies.
Never been to Ballys on 55th, but its IMPOSSIBLE that it could be any more cruisy than NYSC on 23rd. Any NYSC in NYC is bad enoigh, but that one takes the cake. Full blast orgies in the suanas, steam rooms, showers almost daily.
Wow. This definitely doesn''t happen at my gym. I''ve been there a year and have seen fewer than 10 guys naked. No steam room/sauna, and probably 10% of the guys use the showers. The majority are under 30 muscle-heads who leave right after they''re done lifting.
I doubt the owners of The Club FtLauderdale have any idea.
Bless you, R4 ! I always get such a laugh, when I read that immortal line.
Worked out at NYSC tonight. Usually head on home afterward, but decided to sauna and steam afterward. Tons of action and flirting going on. The person I feel sorry for is the maintenance guy who picks up the towels. Guys leave their cum-soaked towels in the sauna and in the corners of the showers. Ick.
How about the rest of us who use those towels the next day and wipe our faces with it. No laundry is going to clean them that good.
[quote]How about the rest of us who use those towels the next day and wipe our faces with it.%0D\
R21 = idiot du jour
yall some gym hos
r16 is right on the money. I walked into the steam room which was tiny, 8 or 9 guys in there all pulling on their dicks. even the guys standing had their dicks out. Only some were playing with the others however. Mostly it was just solo action, and it was not under the towels. There can be more action there than at the west side club. The NYSC on madison and 36th is similar but not as overt. I worked out there one weekend very early in the am, and there is this overly muscled queen who must walk around for hours in and out of the steam and sauna with a raging hard on without a towel. Otherwise I jerked and sucked in the showers with a few great looking guys.
The Public Sex Troll hasn''t missed a week in 10 years. Quite an impressive record.\
Why not step away from the computer more and actually have sex? Surely you could find someone.
There is no sexual activity at The Mission Fitness Center in Mission, Texas.
and My pussy stinks
R23 works in laundry.
the 23rd and park NYSC was simply scary- its so out in the open, and its only a sauna (not a steamroom) and there was no hiding anything! I''m all up for fun in the lockerroom but discretion!
r26 is actually the one who can''t get any sexual satisfaction so he doesn''t want to read about others who are having a good time.
In San Francisco Golds is the bathhouse gym. Sex everywhere in the Castro location.
What about Equinox at 50th St? It once had its own thread here. I went to check it out -- all the trainers seemed straight, some were in great shape.%0D\
Low-key cruising (not like at, say, David Barton) but it was so busy that I don''t think anything could have gone on.
Genuinely straight people might honestly be oblivious to what goes on in showers and steam rooms. \
I travel a lot for work and my co-workers (around my age...late 20s, early 30s) are always telling me which hotels have nice steam rooms or saunas. I''m also careful to stay away because of the stories from DL (nacreous layer of permacum!), but their minds aren''t even thinking of stuff like that.
I guess guys who have gym sex aren''t interested in ever having a boyfriend or a decent reputation. You do realize, don''t you, that you get a bad reputation for those kind of activities?
Why would you care?
R35 has "prissues"
The general manager at my gym gives the best head, and loves to be fucked on one of the benches in the locker room.
R35 yes, because in a city with millions of people everyone knows if you have a wank with a hottie in the shower.
The PST is not the sex in the gym troll
I hate it when the seniors take Viagra and parade around like we want to see that. Hunched up old men with wood is not pretty.
I''ve never encountered that, and I go to an extremely gay gym (12th street, in Philly)
R40 is a troll
"is actually the one who can''t get any sexual satisfaction so he doesn''t want to read about others who are having a good time."%0D\
The operative word here is read, as in that''s all these old farts, like R31, are doing is reading about sex cause that''s the closest they going to get to it in the rest of their lifetimes.%0D\
Its always the old trolls and pudgy middle aged closet cases doing this shit.
I hear rumors all the time about my gym, but in 15 years of going at various times 24/7 I have never seen anything beyond what might have been some cruising. No contact ever.
At one of the gyms in NY, my friend once walked into the steam room to find two guys fucking raw. In the same gym, I once encountered one guy fingering another guy in one of the bathroom stalls whose door doesn''t close all the way. Trashy!
It must be different in Manhattan. Here in LA, at the Y I use, I have never seen any sex. That said, I know that there are guys who spend a lot of time in the steam room. I might mention that I have good reasons to think that several of he management workers and the trainers are gay.
And why were you telling him this, OP? Are you trying to get him to put a stop to it?
It is odd that YMCA directors and leadership are fundie Christians while their showers and steam rooms teem with the homosex. YMCAs are listed on cruising-for-sex websites, the subject of Craigslist postings, etc. Yet the leadership acts like Ys are wholesome, family-friendly places. My friends who go to our local Ys -- in a mid-size, very fundamentalist community -- say nobody bats an eye at the sex goes on. Is management really unaware of it -- or do they just ignore it to maintain member counts?
Believe me it does not happen in every New York Gym. I%0D\
go to the NY Health and Racquet Club on 23rd street; there is no public (or private) sexual activity. It is very straight-acting and gets a better class of men. None of the trash R44''s friend unfortunately experienced.%0D\
Now there is definitely eye contact going on, but that happens everywhere and is hotter, IMO.
A gym where you''d expect there to be a ton of crusing and hooking up is 19th St. Gym, just because it''s in the heart of Chelsea. I worked out there a few times, and while there are looks exchanged, the locker room is tame beyond belief. There''s no sauna or steam, just a couple of very compact showers with curtains that make it impossible to hook up. I expected to see some hard core locker room hookups there, but nothing. I was almost disappointed LOL.
The NYSC Crown Plaza upstairs locker room was just remodeled, for the worse I fear. %0D\
First of all, the lockers are bigger, but there''s fewer of them and the layout means you are all up in someone''s business no matter what (maybe not a bad thing, but I don''t care for it).%0D\
And the steam room has been replaced w/ a well lit sauna who''s glass door is right by a heavy traffic area. I don''t forsee much action happening there now.%0D\
Also, shower curtains have been replaced w/ translucent doors, so no inviting anyone into your shower w/ you or even putting on a little show.
Steam Room Stan
Ballys practically encourages sexual activity. Their showers are mostly curtainless stalls that face each other, making JO and whatever else very easy, esp. in those gyms with light traffic.
[quote]the NY Health and Racquet Club on 23rd street; there is no public (or private) sexual activity. It is very straight-acting%0D\
Most of the NYHRC''s are more straight (compared to other gyms in NY), even the one on 23rd, which technicaly is in Chelsea. But, there is a lot of eye-contact cruising going on in the sauna on 23rd.
R43 What gym?
I was browsing Craigslist and it seems like a majority of the missed connections ads are posted by guys who saw other guys at the gym.
[quote]It is odd that YMCA directors and leadership are fundie Christians....\
Link please, Miss.\
Maybe when it was founded over a hundred years ago.
Few of them even reference Christian anymore. \
However the ones with the MOST sex are typically in the midwest in conservative christian areas. White married daddies give awesome head at the Y.
"the NY Health and Racquet Club on 23rd street; there is no public (or private) sexual activity. It is very straight-acting"\
I laughed out loud when I read this. At *night* - yeah, it is packed to the gills with frat boy douchebags. But during the day and weekends is a COMPLETELY different story. I''ve had fun there on a few occasions - and I''ve walked in on others doing the same.
"The mission of the YMCA is to put Christian principles into practice through programs that build healthy mind, spirit, and body for all."
Of course they know. That''s why the saunas and steamrooms are continually closed down and notices go up about it.\
I think your trainer may have to say that for liability purposes, OP. Either that or he is new or extremely naive. Or perhaps you are not at a NYC gym.
Any Chicago guys remember the Bally''s on the top floor of Illinois Center (corner of Michigan and Wacker)? That was definitely a bathhouse with a gym attached. All of the shower stalls faced each other without curtains and the steam room had a double door, so you could hear the outer door open a few seconds before the inner door, giving plenty of warning -- not that it mattered since everyone was there to cruise. It made today''s NYSC, even 23rd & 8th, look tame.
Not only are they aware, but some clubs are designed to facilitate it. \
There are some clubs that clearly have mirror and shower placement to make cruising easy.
I just got back from the gym. Anyone want to smell my finger?
I thought of this thread this AM - this guy was standing stark naked at one of the four sinks. I just walked past and snickered to myself.\
I wonder if he''s one of the posters on here. But he''s gorgeous so I doubt it.
What is the etiquette if one stumbles upon a couple? Do you leave? Do they stop? Do they let you watch?
R65...sometimes they leave, sometimes you leave.\
Some stop, some do not. \
Some want you to watch, some do not. \
So the answer to all of your questions is ...it depends.
I always say, "Sorry, guys," turn around, and leave them to their fun. I know some other guys offer to serve as a "watcher", to warn the two men when someone is about to enter the steam room.
And how often does someone freak out and complain to management?
I know a troll (not me, seriously) who got banned from a gym (fitworks) for masturbating in the shower. The gym staff didn''t see it but they believed the nearly hysterical, clearly shaken guy who saw it.\
I know the guy who did it (acquaintance, not friend). He said he didn''t have the nerve to ask for his money back so he still pays the monthly fee and does not go to the gym. I asked why he doesn''t go to another location but he said he''s afraid to see the guy who reported him.
too boring for EST so you know it''s true
What are the women''s locker rooms at gyms like?
some straight men get freaked out at just being cruised in the locker room. And they complain to the management.
I have a feeling that you are all old queens that do yoga positions in the steam room to present your holes. Now that is something to complain about.
For you NYers, does anything go on at the Equinox on 53rd?
Not at the 53rd St equinox but the 63rd Street one is practically a sex club.
I love these threads.%0D\
I can vouch for the fact that there can be some really hot guys cruising and messing around in these situations. Sometimes it''s frustrating though when you get a troll that lingers. In those situations, the troll likely got lucky one day, years ago, and is still trying his luck...to no avail.%0D\
But the average to hot guys all mess with each other, and stop when a straight guy or old troll or obese person walks in.
I never see any sexual activity at my gym. Maybe sometimes some furtive glances but that''s it. (To be honest, it''s more fun that way.)%0D\
But there are plenty of gay men that work out there including Graham Norton (in London).%0D\
I do like flirting with the straight men and they appreciate the attention. I saw a gay friend of mine there last Saturday afternoon whom I hadn''t seen since the new year and I went instinctively went to kiss him on the cheek, as we would any other time in the morning during the week, and not only recoiled from me but he threw me a "What are you thinking, freak...!?" It didn''t surprise me, he''s such a little bitch, so I punched him a few times in the arm. Thought he was acting like an idiot and I said, loudly, "WHO are you afraid of here?" He said something about it being too public. Same gym, different time.%0D\
Never seen any sexual activity though.
I used to belong the NYHRC. First, the 13th Street location is an old man''s sexual nirvana. Second, at the Cooper Square location, a masseur offered me a free massage then proceeded to tongue-fuck me and swallow my load. Third, I rarely walk in on flagrant sex acts, but one of the few times I did was at the NYHRC 23rd Street location. Two rather hot boys were sucking each other off. I just watched.
Don''t know if mgmt is aware of hanky-panky, but there''s a coin-op dispenser of condoms, lube, and poppers in the locker room at my gym.
Couple of years ago, this troll was thrown out of Ballys at 106th & 3rd for JOing the sauna. I was in the sauna when he was JOing and a straight guy who was in there freaked out. He got a bit over-the-top about it, with hysteria bordering on homophobia, and claimed that the guy probably has AIDS! The troll in question IS gross, but I did feel a bit sorry for him listening to this probable phobe go off on him. %0D\
That gym has open showers facing each other that get little to moderate traffic most days, and one day said troll went to the back shower stall, bent over, and motioned to me (I was in an opposite-facing stall) to fuck him. I assume he wanted it raw, since none of us had condoms.
Love this thread. Only one time in 18 years of going to different gyms did I witness some overt cruising. It was in Bally''s in Peabody, MA. I was in those open showers and I swear there were 5 hot guys staring at me and getting hard. None of them jerked off, but I got hard as well. \
Never happened again.
Those of you not getting action (or even witnessing it) at the gym must be ugly as sin. I''m a pretty average guy and I''ve seen cruising/overt action at every single gym I''ve been to (and participated a few times, of course).
I nearly fooled around with a hot guy in NYSC last week. Only the two of us in the sauna. Stares at first. He made the first move and started rubbing his cock thru his towel. He was standing look-out at the door. I was too nervous to do anything. I''m such a pussy. In theory I''d like to participate, but when push comes to shove, I get very nervous and can''t get hard.%0D\
btw, does NYSC purposely put out towels that are impossible to fully get around your upper legs if you have more than a 28-inch waist or have anything other than the flattest of asses?
"I was in those open showers and I swear there were 5 hot guys staring at me and getting hard"%0D\
r80, did you accidentally wander into a gym for the legally blind?
Yes, r82, and I give thanks for that every time the blonde twink at my gym heads for the showers.
I like the idea of gym sex but it also scares me to death getting caught
The hottest is when a guy opens one valve and gets only a 1/3 hardon. Shows some heavy sizemeat and exits... Best if the nuts are proportionate
Cock and ball whore
R82 the towels are not THAT small. I am sure they can handle up to 34 inches. They are 36 inches long. \
The reason they and other gyms use them is because they are fucking cheap. The smaller and cheaper they are the fewer that will be stolen.
I''ve got a 33-34 waist, and the towels fit around my waist just fine. The problem is that I have a meaty ass and big thighs from doing squats, so they don''t wrap fully around my upper legs.
R88 so what?\
Why does it need to wrap around your thighs?
I''m the bane of all your gym nellies. I''m a bear, sorta. 5''11" and 200 lbs. Not a twink, and only here am I considered morbidly obese. Normal, white boy cock. The towels do not wrap all the way around me, so I don''t even bother. I just walk naked to the showers and then back to my locker. I just don''t care.
R90 Bear or hog?\
Seriously if that is all muscle good for you, if it is not all muscle then you are obese.
R91, BMI works out to be in the overweight range, not obese. You do not get to define a medical term all by yourself. Besides, pigs don''t have as much hair as I do.%0D\
My problem is that I have all muscle legs from biking all my life (except recently) and a flabby torso due to two shoulder surgeries. Not that I am moderately healed from the second surgery, I am back in the gym working it off.%0D\
To top it all off, I''m 46. So, a middle aged, overweight white guy walks around the locker room naked. I''m your worst nightmare, and I love every minute of it.
I''d cruise you, r92. ;)
R92 you are not a worst nightmare, you are probably bared seen as much as you love it most folks are more interested in their mirror image than they are of you. \
I bet 9 out of 10 men from your gym would not be able to id you in line up.
I noticed this evening that for the first time, at least the first time I''ve seen, the maintenance guy was wearing latex gloves to scoop all the discarded towels. Maybe he read this thread LOL!
91: Skinny. 20ish. Tres femme. Hands wave constantly when he talks. DREADS getting old. Eats "healthy" (i.e, will not go near a cheeseburger)and "adored" Natalie Portman in "The Black Swan."%0D\
Give me that bear anytime, lol.
[quote]91: Skinny. 20ish. Tres femme. Hands wave constantly when he talks. DREADS getting old. Eats "healthy" (i.e, will not go near a cheeseburger)and "adored" Natalie Portman in "The Black Swan."\
Wrong, but you guessers are always making shit up. Muscular 30''s, masculine, never do the hand thing. Eats healthy in that my cheeseburger will be grass fed grass finished beef but I am going ot have that burger. Never saw Black Swan and am not even sure who Natalie Portman is.
[quote]Muscular 30''s, masculine, never do the hand thing. Eats healthy in that my cheeseburger will be grass fed grass finished beef but I am going ot have that burger. Never saw Black Swan and am not even sure who Natalie Portman is.\
r99, you forgot: MARY!
I forgot nothing...Mary is an expression I do not use.
I''m a younger dude and I workout everyday, and I don''t cruise. I know what cruising is, and I am cruised, but I don''t respond to it. I know I am in the minority because I am just a gay guy who only uses the gym and that''s it... but, I was curious, if you didn''t cruise, were some how not worthy of friendship, something serious, or even just genuine conversation with gay men at gyms? I feel most gay men at my gym don''t speak to you, - only cruise you. If you don''t respond, they don''t show interest in you...at all. But, they still cruise you. They don''t give up. I did meet one gay guy out of many years of working out, but he wore a wedding ring so nobody assumed he was gay... But, the gay men I know who fuck/suck at the gym or in the parking lot, they are all in clicks and hang out (fuck). Has anybody else not into cruising and this kind of "exile" - haha from the other gay/bi men at the gym?
My bad... r101 uses manly words like "buddy" and "stud" and "dude" when he''s taking it deep.
**Is anybody else not into cruising and experienced this kind of "exile" - haha from the other gay/bi men at the gym?%0D\
...sorry. I didn''t fix my edit.
Yes, R102. I''ve never hooked-up with someone from the gym in all my years of working out, even though I''ve been cruised thousands of times. Once you start fooling around at the gym, your desirability drops like a stone. %0D\
Everyone knows who the gym sluts are, and they develop a bad reputation very quickly. Nobody wants a bf with a bad reputation.
R105. your gym seems normal. You're lucky. My gym, Lifetime Fitness, the gym sluts have many friends and seem rather liked. The gay men who aren't into random sex are ignored or talked about in a negative way. %0D
There was this guy, I was probably cruising me now that I look back, who I liked however. He was always stairing at me in person or through the mirrors, he would always work out near me, follow me, he was sweet to me too when we chatted. This went on for months - almost a year, everyday. So, finally, I wanted to get to know him more and I told him. This guy freaked out. He told all of his friends and they were all homophobic, and so now he ignroes me like crazy, but still stairs at me...lol. But, I heard he gets his cock sucked by another male member, who claims to be straight. I am really confused by this guy. But, stuff like that I am talking about. Just normal stuff of friendship/relationship. %0D
I would love a gay friend to work out with. That would be awesome, but where I live - they don't exist. It's no big deal.
**Who was probably cruising me now that I look back,%0D\
I can''t type today.
When I joined a first gym and was in the lockerroom to change I wondered why all the guys were looking at everyone else. I wasn''t out and clueless. This was the Bally''s in Hollywood. Obviously I know now everyone was cruisting each other. I only used the lockerroom a few times and never went in the sauna so I didn''t get to witness any action.
Gym sex is fun, and anyone who is prudish about it and judging others over it is nobody I want to associate with OR cruise anyhow.%0D\
That said, there''s a time and place for it, and discretion and consideration are hot. No need to make others uncomfortable about it. I''ve never been caught cruising, and I don''t engage if I think that I will get caught. %0D\
All the above said, I actually switched to a non-cruisy gym a couple years ago, just because I don''t want the distraction. I need to spend more time in the gym, and my switch worked for me. But I wouldn''t judge the cruisers at all for cruising. I do, however, judge the few people who LIVE in the sauna, and NEVER get action, and are gross, and NEVER LEAVE...which makes it more awkward for the true shower users and the discrete cruisers.
That is one of the nicest photos ever posted on DL. I wish more men looked like that.
the management at my gym sucks dicks on call
I got pretty good head from one of the trainers last night. He kept staring at me on the mirrors while I ran on the treadmill. Followed me into the steamroom and went for it.
True story: couple of years ago, I met one of the NYSC sale guys online. I guess he was online chatting when he had nothing else to do. He tried to get me to come down to his club location, pose as a prospective new member, and let him take me on a tour of the gym (for appearances'' sake). Then we would retire to his office, with blinds on the window, where we could suck each other off. He sounded hot, but I never took him up on it.
R99 / R101 you come across as lifeless.
lifeless...wow amazing that you can make that determination via the net based on two posts.
I just trolldared R117, and I have to agree with R116. Lifeless.%0D\
You''ve made more than two posts darling.
I''m pretty lucky. One of the very hot trainers in my gym works out before his clients come, and she showers in between. His body is sick.%0D\
Most of the showers have curtains, except for two in the back, and he always takes one of these stalls. I don''t know if it''s because he likes putting on a show or what! Whatever the reason, I''m just glad he does. I take one of the curtained stalls across from him. Thankfully these curtains have holes in them to peek through. The gym has no sauna or steam, so the showers get little traffic, which means at least one of the stalls across from him is always vacant. This sounds a bit stalkerish, but I''ve got his routine down to a tee.
does he jack off for free?
R119 your post is confusing is the trainer male or female?
Yea but you have to keep the scorecard to map his progress.
No, but I jack off, all the time to him. I''m blind as a bat without my glasses, and I wear them in the shower when I know he''s there. They keep getting fogged up, but whatevs! He is just my type. Black, heavily muscled, extremely handsome, and a big ole dick swinging between his muscled thighs. He''s blazing hot and he knows it. Again, he''s in an open shower and I''ve got a curtain shower with peek-a-boo holes. It''s my perfect storm for JO.
Funny what we see as hot. I find pale white men with copious amounts of body hair and small penises to be very hot. \
A muscular dude with a big one...I would pass.
This is happening in every gym I trained in many pats of the world. Muscle adn sex go together - it is man to man who care if you are str8 or gay, married or single - just enjoy the male company and the incredible release of tension in the company of men who know how to make you shoot cum the way you really want to. It is nothing to be embarrassed about - all men wank and like to suck cock. It is a male "thing". So, be good at it and enjoy it at low risk and high pleasure.
[quote]I''m pretty lucky. One of the very hot trainers in my gym works out before his clients come, and she showers in between. His body is sick.\
Did he have HIV?
bump because the front page is so fucking boring today and maybe a little sex will inspire better threads.
dildos were found int he locker room at my gym
R115 can you tell us which location?
I live in NYC and there is a TON of sex and cruising going on at all the gyms. I''ve been going to the Equinox for quite some time now and I''ve seen and participated in countless encounters.\
One of my favorites was at the Equinox on Greenwich Ave. It was mid week and on the quiet side. After working out, I went into the steamroom, and it was empty. After a minute or so, two hot guys came in and sat on either side of me. They began making eye contact with each other and after a little self groping, they began to maturbate. I was absolutely in shock (not prudish at all) as both these guys were freakin'' HOT! Eventually, they both shot off roughly at the same time on to the floor. When done, they quickly wrapped their towels and exited the steamroom. The last guy to leave turned his head, smiled and winked at me. I almost shot my load right then. Damn...
r126 you are a freak.
Anyone who is having sex, jo or otherwise, has no right to privacy in a public area and shouldn''t cop an attitude when someone watches. \
I work out at David Barton. I have seen two of the front desk guys making out, jacking and sucking each other in the steam room. I sucked one once and hand my finger up his butt when he shot.
R130, if you go back to that Equinox gym steam room, be careful you don''t slip on the nacreous layer of permacum.
I''ve seen gym staff members engaging in sex in the steam rooms. I was sitting in the corner of the steam room and it was pretty steamed up. The prissy queen from the front desk didn''t realize there was anyone else there and started blowing the other guy in the steam room. I took great delight in standing while he was mid suck and letting them know by my presence that I witness the encounter. Now he runs when he see''s me coming to the front desk.\
Don''t care who sucks whom
They are ALL whores at DBG. King Troll frequents it now. A lot of old queens frequent it now and are so obviously out of place, but they are quite obviously going to procure the "talents" of the muscled whores there. So blatant.
Does it make me a slut if I check for online cruising postings and cruising possibility (segregated steam/sauna rooms, etc.) of a gym when I''m considering joining it? Not that it''s the only factor in my decision, but...
R135 was that at DBG? I have fooled around with a front desk guy there before as well in the steam room.%0D\
Which front desk guy are you talking about?%0D\
And what guy is King Troll?
R138 Yes it was David Barton Gym. That place has a schizophrenic attitude towards sex in the spa area. A large part is based on whether the staff thinks you''re hot and you bring a hot sleazy vibe or a trollish sleazy vibe. It''s all kinda sad.
3 cute boys
R92 has me MOIST! Yum!
Is that queen [italic] EVER [/italic] at the front desk? Is she an intern or what? I can''t imagine her being paid. Well, you know what I mean....
given that gym saunas and steamrooms are frequently shut down by the board of health and the management for sexual activity, I would say - call me crazy - that the management would have to be aware that people are sexual active in them.\
Is there a NYSC in the city that is not overrun with trolls? Has anyone ever seen any action at the b&t locations? Queens? Staten Island? Long Island?
R135, which front desk guy was it? Wonder if it''s the same guy I played with once in the steam room.
Bally''s in East Providence, RI and North Providence, RI. \
Both cruisy places. I will say North Providence is the crusier of the two. \
When I was working out at the North Providence location I attracted a lot of attention from black an Latino guys. Never did partake, it''s just a little too tacky in my book.
Hi, What does a tramp stamp with biohazard symbols on each butt cheek represent? The guy is really cute but I''m wondering if this is an advertisement that he may be HIV positive. Any help is appreciated.
What? Are you so naive - men with hot muscle of any sexual inclination respond to nude steamy muscled flesh. It is natural and normal and has been since man has been man. The Greeks and Romans accepted this as normal, why should be do different? It is natural and manly, nothing to do with being gay. There is nothing wrong being gay but not only gay guys favour beautiful masculine men. It is a matter of getting pleasure from a man who knows how to please in a way no woman will ever be able to do - rough, yet passionate and fulfilling. Be natural and all your inhibitions will disappear. Enjoy being male and forget what the artificial society dictates.
Thank you, R148.%0D\
The hysteria is about men (gay or straight) not willing to deal with basic male sexuality.
Chelsea Piers- what''s the story there? My company is relocating to that behemoth of a building on 27th and 11th and I was thinking of joining... \
It being ''chelsea'', I have never heard anything about that being a hot place for steamroom action... it seems in chelsea its all about NYSC... are folks just really serious about their workouts there???
[quote]t''s common in Chicago too\
What isn''t common in Chicago, darling?
love and laughter
What gym doesn''t have sexual activity? That would be a very short list.
But what do you do with your earrings and caftans during the hookup? Won''t they get in the way?
All''s I can say is : EEEWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
[R153] Your ability to land a gentleman friend without a gallon of Raspberry Ripple or a stack of twenties, perhaps?
[quote]What? Are you so naive - men with hot muscle of any sexual inclination respond to nude steamy muscled flesh. It is natural and normal and has been since man has been man. The Greeks and Romans accepted this as normal, why should be do different? It is natural and manly, nothing to do with being gay. There is nothing wrong being gay but not only gay guys favour beautiful masculine men. It is a matter of getting pleasure from a man who knows how to please in a way no woman will ever be able to do - rough, yet passionate and fulfilling. Be natural and all your inhibitions will disappear. Enjoy being male and forget what the artificial society dictates.\
I know, and I got semi hard reading your post, but the ancient Greeks only accepted it within the boy learning about manhood context, so it was really not that accepted.
Pat Boone pushes his towel-wrapped ass toward a naked guy in a steam room.
I work out at the NY Health and Racquet Club during the day since I got downsized, and I NEVER see any sexual activity during the day!
I thought this would be one of the few advantages of being unemployed, but even sightings of personal trainers without their shirts are rather rare.
I am so disappointd - especially since I have yet to see some of their hottest trainers shirtless, including a spectacular Latino with a smoking hot body and another well-built stocky African-American guy. I would also add they are all very-straight, and there just never seems to be any sexual activity there.
The more things change, the more they stay the same.
I workout at my University's gym. I have never seen anything sexual happening there -- which is perfectly fine by me.
The men's shower is your typical 12 showerheads in one room. There is one co-ed sauna next to the warm pool.
I am very happy with the non-sexual environment and the price ($19/month for membership to use all 5 campus facilities, all fitness/spinning/yoga classes are $3).
"I workout at my University's gym. I have never seen anything sexual happening there -- which is perfectly fine by me."
I'm guessing your university is not Penn State
Not only does management know in some gyms the mirror placement encourages it.
I was at NYSC last night at Madison and 36th, looked down in the shower and spied the corner of a Trojan Magnum wrapper on the tile. If there is anybody left who reads this and thinks that sex at the gym doesn't happen, think again.
I was extremely turned on by this for some reason. I've never participated, though I've been propositioned. I can't help but think there's something a little too free about hooking up at the gym. I've never seen any couples as some of you mentioned and I'm not sure what I would do if I did.
that pic at r161 is from Life? Nobody noticed that the guy off on the right had his dick hanging out?
r162, NY Health and Racquet Club is probably the straightest of all the gyms in NYC (relatively speaking), so you don't see a lot going on there. NYSC, on the other hand.... The NYSC at Madison/36th is kind of mixed, but a LOT of hot guys work out there. The NYSC on 23rd/8th is a total gay sex club.
OH gawd today at the gym...some one had dropped a used, soiled kotex right in front of the cardio equipment.
I felt so bad for the kid that had to clean it up, disgusting.
Ladies if you are working out so hard that your pad falls out you need to cool it.
Any hot new gym stories?
R70, none of this shit goes on in women's locker rooms except in porn movies.
At the YMCA in Nashville, there's a big sign on the wall warning male members that this kind of behavior can get then kicked out.
I only wish you guys didn't scare the straight guys out of the locker room because they schlep their personal crap all over the gym and store their bags, keys, money clips, iPhone and everything else on the equipment.
A North Carolina man has sued the YMCA, alleging that it tolerated sexual activity at his local branch. One of his two lawsuits says YMCAs have become known as a place for homosexual acts and seeks certification as a class-action suit against the local Y and the national YMCA organization.
Maybe this thread will become part of the evidence!
The hottest, sweetest trainer at my gym was field suddenly. I have no idea why. Any suggestions? It was actually an employee gym that's also open to the community. Mostly seniors cine it's a small gym with limited hours. Serious gym rats go the Y or 24 hour fitness.
R175....maybe we do know why but without you telling us what trainer, what gym and what city we can't help you.
R169 we noticed, but he is an old fat troll so we quickly looked away and then washed out our eyes.
[quote]there's a big sign on the wall warning male members that this kind of behavior can get then kicked out.
There's a similar sign in NYSC gyms as well. You see how effective that is.
It's sexual addicts like you people who give the rest of us a bad name. I don't want to step in your cum or smell your shit in the locker room.
R179 are you suggesting that toilets be removed so that you do not smell shit?
I'm a member of NYSC too, r178, and I've never seen any signs.
I've seen signs like that in some NYSC but not all. I guess maybe it was a response to some complaints at some locations.
The Bally's in King of Prussia PA was a hotbed of sexual activity during the 80s and 90s. The steamroom was right next to the showers and it was very easy to hook up. Some of the straight boys complained and the bathroom was reconfigured and the steamroom was relocated to the pool area - complete with window.
Do the trainers every partake in the action?
Forgot to mention that the Y in Nashville also has a sign up that foul language on the gym floor will not be tolerated. It's actually kind of nice working out in a place where guys aren't shouting fuck this and fuck that 24/7. LOL.
r177 i misstated my question, which was: Was that sauna pic really published in Life magazine? Seems odd they would publish a pic of some naked guy in a popular national magazine.
Bump after watching the locker room attendant bust two trolls and threaten to get the manager if they didn't stop wanking each other in the sauna.
Bally's!!?? Couldn't have been the one in the 50s circa 1995. Served steamed wieners everyday.
Various YMCAs in San Francisco, especially the one on Steuart Street (I hear; haven't lived there in 4 years)
R72 has me laughing hysterically; love it!
Chicago here, but havent seen any action yet, where?
I manage a high end gym and we don't get many complaints about overt sexual activity in the locker rooms. The only time we have had to expel a member was a middle aged crazy lady who was caught several times openly masturbating in the steamroom and showers.
I used to go to a very straight, non-gay, gym in the San Fernando Valley and I was amazed at the amount of stuff that went on in the steam room and the spa.
I've been thinking about joining the 24 Hour Fitness Denver-Lowry, and after reading this thread I did some Googling. Sure enough, it's listed as a cruising spot. Supposedly Sunday afternoons and latenights are best. (Why Sundays? Are the str8 guys watching sports on TV?) Now I'm really curious.
That's pretty funny, R194. That's the gym I go to. But I go early in the day and never see any sexual activity. There's too many people in and out.
[quote]a big sign on the wall warning male members that this kind of behavior can get then kicked out.
What is the wording on the signs? Fellatio-Free Zone! No Suprise Anal Allowed! No Cumming in the hot tub.
NYSC has to walk a fine line: a lot of their members are NYC gay men who either partake in sexual activity (steam room or sauna) or don't want a police-state thing where staff constantly looks at its gay members with suspicion.
But they could get sued if they do not take reasonable steps to cut down on it. So they put up signs and peep into the sauna every so often. It is funny in there if you are part of a j/o group, it's all wank-wank-wank-STOP, someone new came in and we do not know if he's a wanker (so to speak). Then ascertain that he is, wank-wank-wank-STOP, someone new comes in again, or the gym attendant is peeking in. It is a never ending wankus interruptus.
[quote]One of his two lawsuits says YMCAs have become known as a place for homosexual acts and seeks certification as a class-action suit against the local Y and the national YMCA organization.
I remember that case -- all surviving members of the Village People received subpoenas to testify. (kidding)
Does anybody know if the NYSC in Harlem is cruisy?
I've hooked up in many different NYSCs.
Never seen staff partake. Attendants are definitely aware of it in the locker rooms, but I've never seen them cross that line. Maybe they do, I don't know. It's always peak times when I'm there, so they're always busy.
Some gyms are more than others. One of my friends got in trouble once for it, but I don't know exactly what that means. I'll need to ask him.
I once saw an attendant brush off what he saw when he caught people fooling around. He seemed to encourage it. I think he got some on the side. 86th st I think.
BSC, the Boston equivalent to NYSC has a sign in the locker room now saying that they will be monitoring the steam and saunas more because of inappropriate activity.
As I was walking to the showers I saw an attendant open the sauna and say "could you please cover up sir?". He then went back a few minute later and threw them man an extra towel. ( the guy had been cruising me).
It's in their brochures
Someone asked that the NYSC troll thread be revived...NYSC and troll and this is what comes up at google.
anybody know of anything going down at planet fitness on 27 street
[quote]I used to go to a very straight, non-gay, gym in the San Fernando Valley and I was amazed at the amount of stuff that went on in the steam room and the spa.
Tell us more.
Most of these posts are bullshit fantasies.
[quote]It is funny in there if you are part of a j/o group, it's all wank-wank-wank-STOP, someone new came in and we do not know if he's a wanker (so to speak). Then ascertain that he is, wank-wank-wank-STOP, someone new comes in again, or the gym attendant is peeking in. It is a never ending wankus interruptus.
R197. Your post made me laugh. How true...haven't we all been involved in Wankus Interruptus?! It's annoying, but it's one of the challenges of your job as a gay man.
And then it can get rather hot (I mean sweating to death) when a troll walks in and won't leave so that Wankius Interruptus can become Wankus Continuous leading to Wankus Climaxus.
an NYSC member here and it i've been going to the tribeca and park slope locations recently. the T steam room has some "tension" but i've never seen or experienced anything. PS on the other hand, is very interesting. last eve was the first time i went after work and watched as the same group of guys rotated from steam, shower, and sauna. two made moves in the room towards me...the same two that i had seen before (weekend) so they def are trolling hard. either it's a jacked up steamroom, or mngmt was trying to control things because it kept going back and forth from blazing hot to no steam at all. guys kept having to fiddle with the controls.
R60, I never went to that Bally's, but I used to go to the one at Washington & Wabash back in its heyday in the early 90s. Talk about blatant action. I walked in on full-on orgies in the steam room many times. One time, two guys were fucking bareback in the middle of the room with a crowd playing around them, and they didn't even stop when the door opened. Good times.
does anything go down at spa castle? when's the best time to go there?
Thank for telling him so he can alert them & ruin it for everyone
[R211] I experienced that Bally's too, including one of the trainers sucking cock and taking it up the ass in the sauna. With the showers around the corner and way in the back of the locker room, it was a free for all in the stalls.
They don't care so long as nobody complains. I've been a member of Equinox, NYSC, 24 Hour Fitness, and Ballys in NYC at different times over the past dozen years. Staff was involved at Equinox that I knew of anyway.
Just don't be nasty and try to play with those not interested. I may like to play but not with everyone and not every time I'm there.
It isn't just in the big places - even the Bally's in East Providence, RI is pretty cruisy.
I once blew the manager of the equinox on columbus circle in the sauna one morning. it was hot
r222, the 24 hour on Pico in BH is pretty cruisy. They have a VIP locker room that also has its own sauna and is totally private and you can hear the main door open first. I've seen plenty of stuff in both saunas and shower. Including a pile of shit in the regular showers. Seriously...who the f does that?
[quote]Including a pile of shit in the regular showers. Seriously...who the f does that?
Tony Thomas, the son of Danny Thomas.
Just saw this thread by accident..man its been going on for a while. LOL
Sure Mgmt knows.. many gyms have signs now that say as much.
If you work out in NYC or LI at a gym like NYSC or a similar gym, you cannot be surprised by this thread if you shower there or want a steam depending on the time. Ive see it a gazillion times, mostly just that dopey walk back and forth between the sauna-shower-steam rooms 20x hoping someone follows you LOL. I have never seen outright sex...but i have seen the ever popular and subtle dick pull/semi showoff to see who looks, and the the inevitable JO. It is what it is...if you just want a steam/sauna and you have no interest in it, instead of making a scene all you have to do is just be like dude not interested. It ends right there.
Ill admit a few times i've joined with a dude if I thought he was hot and it was safe. Just some light JO. It is what it is, exciting etc. I'm sure gay dudes do it but I have to say its a LOT of str8t/bi closeted guys where it is an outlet for them.
What can you say, I totally understand the 100% str8 guys hating it who just want to steam without all that..but I also know a lot of 100% str8t guys in NYC who just realize its part of going to a gym in NY and if you don't get into that you just say no and that's it. But don't be fooled.. it is all over and a ton of closeted guys
I haven't done it in a while, but I've hooked up at my gym in NYC. It's pretty cruisy. My only rule has been (and always been) that I must work out for at least an hour before I cruise. There's a lot of guys who go to the gym and never leave the locker room.
i don't think there is anything wrong with some level of play as long as everyone present and involved is ok with that. what always shocks me is how far some guys will go with complete disregard for how fast the door can swing open and someone will walk in. there's no denying it when someones head is down in a lap
This basically never happens in all-female gyms. The lesbian hookups take it to a classier setting.
I think they know, but money talks. I don't bother with the sauna at my gym. I go the weekly pool/sauna party, clothing optional, for men in NY city. It's called BANYA MONDAY. Plenty of hot naked dudes in the pool, Jacuzzi, steam room, saunas, showers, etc.
R230 is right, it's a good time, tons of guys of different ages and body types.
I'd do it.
r229...a U-Haul lobby is classier?
r230 is the Banya Party's online marketing guru.
R233, You're obviously not familiar with the classy, femme and FIT variety of woman up for a lesbian fling. I know it's hard for you to comprehend that nice, pretty, homo/queer/curious females exist. But you'll be fine. Just sit with it for a little while and breathe. Gross, who DOES do it in U-Haul lobbies? Oh, that's right. Fat, sweaty gay men. Truck stops, same thing.
i've never heard of banya monday...is it similar to the bottom area of spa castle? or cruisier?
I'm with you 235.
R218 lick his hairy hole
Can someone explain Spa Castle?
Spa Castle is a spa in College Point, Queens. It is modeled after both Asian and European style spas. The ground floor contains men's and women's facilities that include tv lounge, beautiful locker rooms, a wet area including Asian sit-down showers and stand up open showers, tubs of 7 different temperatures, sauna, steam room and body scrub area. These areas must be used nude and you know what tends to happen in heat with nude people. But it is a family place, people bring their kids, etc.
Very mixed crowd, different ages, races, body types. Two more floors are co-ed and require you to wear a uniform they provide. There's body services, food, a bar, a gym, rooftop pool, several saunas.
It's a fun place and a great escape from this toilet of a city.
So is spa castle very cruisey? Are the guys hot? When is the best time?
[R240], i went on a thursday evening and there were a lot of guys there. definitely some cruising, along with one guy flat out jerking off and all the guys really just there for the experience. i had some under water action that lead to a brief moment in the wet sauna. all in all, it's not the type of place to get it on. more the tension and dance of it all...which i actually really enjoy. the guys ran the full gamut...some really hot, some average, and a few really nasty. the ages and races also varied. there was also a whole crew of young hasidic guys which was very interesting to watch.
I haven't been to Manhattan Plaza Health Club in 3 1/2 years. Should I rejoin? What's the scene like there now in the locker room?
The locker room attendant at Equinox at 19th St. used to blow me on the mornings I went there. Good times.
Any gyms in Chicago with action?
Is it possible for a good looking white guy to get any action at NYSC 125th St.? There's so much hot black cock to be had, but they seem to only want one another. I've tried, but no takers. What's the deal there? I worship black cock, so it's been pretty disheartening not to be able to get any there.
You're being too subtle. You need to bend over and show them your hole. That's the only way they're going to know that's what you're looking for.
Bump for gym sex
You NYC queens are quite something. You'd be amazed at what goes on in gyms (major chains) in the fucking San Fernando Valley.
Don't give up 245. You'll luck out one of these nights.
i really like the tension of a steam room filled with guys, especially when they all have been coming and going from the room and it's clear what's up. something dirty doesn't always have to happen, but the watching and waiting for someone to be the first to make a move is exhilarating
[quote]Last night, I was telling a straight personal trainer who's an acquaintance about gym sex, and he seemed shocked.
"But it's wrong! SHOCKINGLY wrong!"
I fucken jerk off at the ymca and got sucked off at the y
I upgraded my NYSC membership to passport recently, which means I can go to any location, and not just the one near my home in NJ. This week I started going to a location in NYC near my job, and I can't believe the amount of sex that goes on. Tonight, three guys were taking turns fucking this one guy in the middle of the steam room, while a bunch of guys stood around them jerking off. At first I was fascinated by it, but that fascination quickly turned to stomach-turning sickness. I ran out and stayed in the sauna, where thankfully nothing was happening aside some harmless stares and some tugging. That's good enough for me. btw, I didn't notice any condoms on the guys who were screwing.
R245, Go in and yell "anyone in the mood for an Oreo cookie?" You'll be sandwiched between 2 hot black guys in no time
r254, which location was it?
[r254], which location in NYC was this? And which gym in nj do you go to? It is shocking how much more goes on in the city than in nj.
yummy all those hairy hunks fucking
muscle jock boy with the cute turned up nose walked into the steam room with full hard on and started to
Just joined Curves as part of my New Year's resolution. Any action there?
Curves? Isn't the steam room where hey hide the donuts?
there's always something going down at the NYSC steam
R254 i've never seen it get to that though, where are people taking it that far?
A lot of shit used to go down at the W.94th St. location. For the past year, the homophobic Latin thug maintenance guy does spot checks of the sauna and steam area, and he'll report any hint of "inappropriate" behavior. So not so much goes on there these days. I think a lot of the NYSC sluts have moved down to 80th St.
things get interesting at the irving pl nysc during lunch time
The management at NYSC at 14th St and 5th Ave knows the score. I went there last night. The shower curtains are so short they barely covered my ass and junk. They really want to be sure there's only one person in each stall.
But it didn't stop people from playing. Two guys didn't even bother closing the curtains and were watching each other jack off. One of them was hot. A compact muscular guy with a hairy chest and massively thick cock. I got to touch him a bit in the sauna. He shot in the steam room.
started to what R259? started to what???
The Food Stamp chef just trashed NYSC 80th for the 'Seniors on Cialis'.
I laughed out loud at a straight guy commenting on the crap he has seen.
...and NYSC 80th has closed the steam room. They had so many complaints and now gone...for the moment.
When the complaints about the closure outweigh the complaints about the trolls it will re-open.
a funny tweet: Wesley Taylor @WesTayTay
The real predators, Chris Hansen, are in the locker room/steam rooms at my gym. Bring your camera crew. They are not kidding around.
New York needs more gay saunas.
wheres the action in CA? specifically los angeles.
Fly over state here. Fucked untold guys in the stream room. Fucked several in the tanning room. Had a 3 way in the tanning room also. Got hand jobs in the jacuzzi, Mutual JO in the showers. Seen guys stand in the door of the Sauna to block the view while guys played in the back of it.
Isnt that what gym wet areas are for?
R272, describe your junk for us.
Just got back from Vegas and enjoyed the parade and play at the resort spa over the weekend. The big Consumer Electronics Show was just ending so no shortage of dorks & engineer-looking conventioneers walking from sauna to steam and back again. Lots of wedding bands on these out-of-towners but that didn't stop the play in the "meditation room" or the crotch grabbing in the sauna.
One teenager gave me quite the jerk off show in a sauna but I opted for a friendly IT guy in from Orlando. Told him we could go up to my room, which we did, to fool around in comfort.
LAs Vegas spa lover
Of course...as long as they getting their membership money they don't give a fuck! And besides, what is a gym for?
I wish I belonged to a gym like this - I would alert the management immediately, each and every fucking time.
Just got back from Vegas too... which spa were you at?
R272 About 7 cut thick. 6'2" 185, fit, 35, married.
r276, in many of the gyms, the managers and/or personal trainers partake of the fun.
[quote]Fly over state here.
I cannot imagine the level of troll in a fly over state when you consider that someone described as hot would be quite average on the coasts.
The guys who play in the sauna at my gym in DGB in NYC are usually quite hot.
Not just LA and NYC - the biggest cock I ever sucked was when I was 16 in the changing room of our local gym/racketball club in Toledo Ohio. I always saw this guy there, skinny about 18 with an arm sized hard on every time he was in the locker room. I worked out late one night (lol worked out meaning I used the universal equipment next to the pool) around 7:30. When I went in to shower and change, I heard one other person. I went to my locker and who comes walking out but giganto dick and sure enough he was hard and showing. His locker was next three down from mine so he was right near me. I was just staring at his dick. As he came over I said "hey I think we are the last two in the club" and laughed a little to break the ice. He just said "cool." Never being shy I said "I got to tell you man you got a huge dick." He got a little shy and awkward and said "yeah I guess," but he was not putting on any clothes he just kept toweling off. I asked him if I could touch it and he sort of moved closed not saying a word. I took that as a yes and reached out and grabbed the biggest thickest cock I have ever seen (I was 16 now 40). I just leaned in closer holding it, saying damn man that's awesome and he was not pulling away so I just opened up and starting blowing him right there in the locker room. I think he lasted about 3 mins and I barely got more than 1/4 of it in my mouth. He shot a huge load in my mouth, got all freaked out, threw on his clothes and booked outta there. Never saw him again.
R281 is a total whore who started out being a whore young...
Hey 277, it's me 274, and the hotel was the Palazzo / Venetian. They have a great gym & spa there, "The Canyon Ranch Spa," and I would say that during about 50% of my visits there, I see guys following each other around, or guys quickly moving away from each other when I enter the sauna or steam-room.
I've also enjoyed a hand-job at the Mandalay Bay's nice spa (in the steam room), and a great shower make-out session in the spa at the new Cosmopolitan Hotel. Lots of hot "strait" guys strut their stuff there.
But I hear that the action at Ceasar's Palace can't be beat in terms of Vegas resort spas.
Regarding this thread subject, this is Vegas, and the young guys who staff these resort spas know what's going on and don't give a damn.
274, slutty Vegas visitor
Slutty vegas spa visitors should have their own thread.
Just had a hot conversation.
Co-worker, a straight, married guy always hits the nearby gym during lunch. He comes back and asks me and another co-worker what we do if we had been in the scenario he was just in...
He was in the steam room with about 9 other guys. 2 of the guys started jerking off and slowly but surely the other guys started joining in. Co-worker was completely stunned shit like this goes on and asks us what we would have done.
I say that I would have just gotten up to leave (total lie).
Other co-worker says he'd leave too. Then he says he doesn't understand why the other guys joined in. Like he was seriously wondering how they'd get turned on if they're straight. He then changes his mind and says he'd probably stay and just go about his business. He then thinks about it some more and says, he guesses that he'd be intrigued by the whole thing and watch and if he somehow got aroused, who knows, he might be tempted to join in.
Co-worker who was in the situation said he didn't know what to do and just sat there. He didn't want to disrupt anything going on.
I found that so fucking hot. Especially the co-worker who kept thinking about it and ended up considering joining in.
They're both straight and good guys and the conversation was just so matter of fact, which made it so hot.
Jerking off in the steam room with guys who might be straight gets me going... but now knowing that a lot of them were straight and what the thought process is behind it is really damn sexy.
I never cared either way. I'm not particularly intrigued, yet not repulsed.
surprised there's nothing on here about david barton chelsea. been a member a few years and the shit ive seen in that steam room. damn. the best way i describe it to people is like being in a porno....and most of the time it involves a porn star or two that you've seen in action at home...
Gym sex is for married men who are afraid to be seen going into the local ABS.
Gym sex is awesome for a number of reasons. Developing friendships with your favorite gym sluts outside the gym is great, too. I've gotten to know some really sweet, masculine, hot guys--bi/closeted and openly gay alike.
And it can certainly be totally safe. It can be "look, but don't touch" if that's all you want. It can also mean fucking raw in the steam or shower if that's your thing.
It can also be fucking frustrating as hell when no one wants to make the first move, or if there's some sort of consensus that nothing will happen until the fat old troll leaves (which he may never do). NYSC at 14th & 6th is usually the biggest waste of time in that regard.
94th & Broadway is pretty hoppin', though. Irving Place or SoHo are your best bets.
Looking for someone to come take this load. Str8 white male. Meet me in the showers. Take my load and go. No talk. No BS. My only time away from her is when I am at the gym.
i go to the gym during the day when i'm on break. the exact time tends to fluctuate from day to day by 30 mins to an hour. i'm always surprised to see a lot of the same troll faces cruising around the locker room at any time of day. don't these jerks have jobs??
I'm going to NYSC today in Manhattan for a great upper body workout, and I will definitely be hitting up the wet areas afterward. I will be shooting my load. I'm 33, fit, handsome, and hung. Will you be there?
Is that what they're called, R295? I guess I know a few of them from certain NYSC locations. I'm definitely not queeny, though.
I haven't heard steam queen before, but I like it. I've heard an old sauna troll referred to as a saunasaurus.
[quote]The big Consumer Electronics Show was just ending so no shortage of dorks & engineer-looking conventioneers walking from sauna to steam and back again. Lots of wedding bands on these out-of-towners but that didn't stop the play in the "meditation room" or the crotch grabbing in the sauna.
Married men love to get away to conventions.
Gym management at mine are all horned up cock suckers so they love it and occasionally join it!
I've not really seen any action at my gym. Thank goodness, there are an abundance of seniors when I go. Years ago though in the early evening I had a particularly sweaty workout and went to shower. A taller blond with a toned but lanky body came in and began showering right next to me. My gym has an open shower area, no stalls or curtains or dividers. We were obscured from view of people just walking by and he began boning up. I noticed and started boning up too. Then I realized I was in a public gym and got the fuck out of there.
I have been doing the "sauna/steam room" quickies for the last 12 years. Initially it was fun and i got very addicted. Now it is a curse. I cannot pull myself out of the addiction and have to suffer the wordless rejections and humiliations that unfortunately are part of the game and i am not getting any sexier with age. I forgot the art or mathematics of dating at bars and on the net. I need help but cannot get any. Suggest anyone reading this and into gym qcuickies to stop before it is too late.
Stroking in the steam room is one thing. Cumming in the steam room makes you a dirty slut.
Anyone else with experiences/stories to share?
"the homophobic Latin thug maintenance guy does spot checks of the sauna and steam area"
I'm sure he's doing all kinds of gay things in his private life. The virulent homophobes always do.
I work out at home, so have only been to the gym once in my entire life (guest of a friend). I went to the sauna, and I was shocked to see everyone masturbating. All guys in their 30's and 40's. I didn't join in, although it was clear that it was a normal occurrence there. I went to another sauna, which was more sedate - a few hard-ons, but no sexual activity. A Marine-looking blond guy came in, took one look at the hard-ons, and went to complain to the front desk. A guy came downstairs, and half-heartedly told the excited guys to 'cool it'. I don't know what happened in the other sauna. I felt like I had just gotten an education on gym life.
I should add that I had just turned 20 when that happened. I guess it's like that in all major cities - I was in Dallas at the time.
There was a very eager beaver in my gym the other day. This muscled guy maybe late 30s, nice body was a horny cocksucker. He started sucking this younger skinny kid, mid 20s. Some cute guy came in and sat down next to the kid and the kid started stroking him while the cute watched the muscle guy suck away. The cute guy came getting a hand job and the muscle dude slurped that up.
I always find it interesting the cock sizes of all involved. The mid 20s guy probably had the biggest, maybe 7.5. The muscle guy was more average about six. I think it's hot seeing a big guy, physically, suck off a smaller dude.
We used to bust the light bulbs for ambience in the steam room.
More stories please.
They just put in a very brite light in our steam room gym. It looks like a tanning booth now. Someone must have noticed.
I am a fairly recognizable actor and belong to Equinox. I can say there is sex going on but not excessively. I avoid the shower/steam areas and just shower when I get home. However I have cruised and been cruised many times at the 50th st location. I will meet up with someone later on that day for more discreet hookups. Works better than a gay bar for me.
To answer the OP, I'm certain that management knows.
r312, if you are recognizable, give some of the guys in the locker room a thrill sometime and strip down and let them see you naked. Guys have a lot more respect for people who aren't afraid to show it off. It will give you some nice press in gay NYC circles.
Whatever you do, don't do the towel dance when you change. You will be talked about forever. George Snuffleupagus or whatever his name is from Good Morning America is a known towel dancer.
r313, what kind of guys are you talking about? certainly, not the vast majority of guys of any sexual orientation. perhaps the tiny minority of guys who somehow admire inappropriate public exhibitionists and people with disorders.
r314, you don't live in NYC, do you?
r314, being naked in a locker room is hardly an act of "inappropriate public exhibitionists." Go back to Victorian England.
R313 George never does the towel dance.
I see him at the gym several times a week...where did you get that bit of fiction.
Will NYSC at 80th ever take care of the troll problem?
I and a host of others have left the chain due to the trolls.
Go back to Victorian England.
even in victorian england guys wouldn't have cared about nudity in a changing room.
Out of curiosity what about the trolls bother you?
I WISH my gym manager knew about sexual activity.
He's the hottest guy at my gym. A hot young daddy type.
[R318], the trolls are definitely annoying, especially the really desperate ones who ignore even the most blatant of signals. at the same time, i can't help but feel bad for them. what other options do they have?
Last time I was at 80th one of the trolls 'accidentally' opened my shower curtain, the third time this particular troll had played that trick.
The sauna was empty I turned it up and went in. Troll followed. I closed my eyes to ignore him, in about 5 minutes he had inched closer and had his hand on my ankle.
I jerked it away, left and joined Reebok.
The trolls at 80th are particularly aggressive and creepy. I'm so disgusted by the overt sexual behavior at the city NYSC's that I now try to work out at the Westchester locations (Dobbs Ferry and Scarsdale) on my way home from work in Mount Kisco.
Yeah, I mean, I feel bad for them too. But I hate the guys who get something going and then get pissed off that a troll or someone else in the room wont leave. That's sort of stupid to me. If I feel like messing around, I don't have a choice but to let a troll watch.
R325 you have a choice, don't feed the trolls. If you let them watch they will want more and more and more.
Point is, either way, I have a choice. If it bothers me that someone else is in there, I can leave. If I want to mess around in a public place, I can't complain and whine and get huffy that someone I find undesirable is in there and won't leave.
People who act on their need to have sex in public places, including the gym, are damaged and possess a ton of psychological issues. Mentally healthy people don't do this sort of thing. Just common sense. Call me a pearl clutcher or whatever, but these people need psychological help.
R328, there's a lot of space between damaged, mentally unstable people and pearl clutchers
r328, you sound like the people who have always described homosexuals in the same exact terms. They are idiots and you are too. Amazing how people can buy into such arbitrary nonsense.
I've been away from New York the last few months. Any hot action going on at any of the NYSC? Any locations overrun with trolls or that have gotten shut down for locker room hyjinx?
I occasionally suck off the gym manager in the showers. He's a hot little muscle mary, nice uncut cock.
ListeningToBeethoven? Really? Today has been a Bach day.
I said NYSC not NPR.
They do spot checks at 94th St. NYSC. The maintenance guy is a virulent homophobe from what I hear. One of the trainers plays around occasionally. He's married with kids. One of the guys who teaches one of the classes plays around a lot. He's on the femme side, but has a beautiful body. Some of the guys who play regularly are married or with gfs. They come to the club together, and some of these guys will fool around in the sauna after a workout. I don't play myself...just not my thing, but I do like to watch occasionally.
They are doing aggressive spot checks, one of the clubs had a member take legal action against them because of the aggressive trolls.
Which club is that?
[quote]Some of the guys who play regularly are married or with gfs.
You mean nasty, cheating closet trash. Good luck at the clinic next time you go.
It's interesting to read these thread about gym culture. I live in a town with no gyms, just hiking trails, river kayaking, and ocean beaches to keep in shape. When I see posts like R339 with "Good luck at the clinic next time you go," it reads like some bitter old woman who hasn't felt the warmth of another body in decades.
I have played before at my gym. It is mostly stroking and mutual stuff. Sometimes it leads to sucking. I have never seen anyone fucking. I have sucked dick on three different occasions and one of them I will never forget.
It actually was a threeway. The one guy in the middle worked the front desk at the gym. He was about 26, lean tight body and a 7.5 inch dick. I was watching him suck on this other tall lanky dude next to him with a fat 8". Both of these guys were totally hot, but I won't go on, because you would never believe me.
Anyway, I just casually started playing with the guy in the middle, stroking his cock. Since he didn't mind, I started sucking a bit. After that I just continued to watch him suck the other guy and stroke his own cock while I played with his ass. He came that way.
That little scenario made up for about three months worth of dry spell nothingness in the steam room.
Why don't you pervs just go out and give blowjobs in church? Church is always open, ya know.
Oh, and at the same gym there is this lean totally muscle guy who is a complete steam room slut. He doesn't do much with other guys, but he has very sensitive nipples and enjoys getting his pud pulled. He is like a puppy, because is someone is aggressive enough, he just lifts his leg and lets you play with his ass. I guess he gets off on being pawed. He kind of looks like Christopher Eccelston.
"Why don't you pervs just go out and give blowjobs in church? Church is always open, ya know."
Actually, it's not, which shows you don't know anything about whores OR saints.
My best friend and I are members of the city’s oldest (well over 100 years) men’s athletic club. The pool and sauna are clothing optional; it’s nice to swim and not worry about storing a wet swimsuit. You know who is swimming in the next lane by their body hair pattern. There are some goings-on in the sauna. Some members are freaked out by it, but the general feeling is “If you want to go in, go in. You can participate or not.” Local celebrities like TV personalities and retired pro athletes are members, as are the mayor, judges and major local business leaders. In twenty years, I’ve never heard of any of the well-known members getting frisky. But, I’ve seen most of them walking around naked. They have their “followers.” It’s always fun to watch new members realize they are seeing a “celebrity” full-frontal. It’s like they are star struck. My best friend is the longtime weatherman at a local TV station. He is SO well hung, he gets a reaction every time. He jokes about it. “They’re going to go home and tell their wives about it. I’m propping up our ratings.” I have heard about his size from others who aren’t members of the gym. I wonder what it’s like to have a reputation like that.
I was at my favorite NYSC branch yesterday and walked in on two guys playing in the steam room. They immediately jumped and stopped. I told them to relax, grabbed my crotch to show them I'm cool, then they went back to playing. Sometimes I like a little show.
After this three other guys came in separately at different times, all of whom I've seen play before. (One was an incredible whore, bringing people into shower stalls with him.) Apparently in the past few months they've all entered into committed relationships or become celibate or something. They gave the guys the "I know what you were doing look" but didn't give them the OK to play. Apparently these two weren't hot enough to play in their steam room. Judgy queens.
Men playing around in saunas and steam rooms has gone on, still goes on, and will go on as long as there are saunas and steam rooms.
In the late 1980's, I worked as a lifeguard at one of the prominent YMCA's in Atlanta. There was ALWAYS stuff going on in the steamroom and sauna, not only at that Y, but also at the ones in Decatur and Dunwoody, as well as the one downtown off of Spring Street-it was an old, run down Y a the time, since closed, that may as well have been designed to be a bathhouse-the pool and showers downstairs, with the sauna and steamroom upstairs. At night and on Saturday, the downstairs showers were pretty much an orgy. No one batted an eye, or complained. At the one where I worked, the manager would sometimes walk through, cover his eyes and say something along the lines of "okay, guys cut it out!" in a rather joking way. They were perfectly aware of what went on, and it was tolerated because the men doing it were often the older, rich, and very prominent members. There were even a couple of the young trainers who were being quite obviously used by escorts by a few of the older men.
The same was true of the Y and other posh health clubs in DC in the 90's and Naught's.
Never gonna stop it, and why should they? What's the harm?
prisspots will have apoplectic fits, that's why
I would agree that when it is with the consent of all in the room it is fine.
However it must cease if someone comes in and does not consent.
NYSC on 80th has lost a ton of members because the trolls terrorize the straight men, grabbing ankles, opening shower curtains etc. I am surprise no one has sued them yet.
It's the trolls that do ruin it for everyone. NYSC on 36/mad has a sign up now that says if staff or member catch you they will call the police "no questions asked" and you can explain yourself to the police.
r347, just because something has always occurred and will continue does not mean it should not be punished. Wrong is wrong, no matter how inevitable it is amongst a certain subset of people. I am glad my gym has no tolerance for such revolting behavior and will prosecute all who engage in such disrespectful behavior.
R351 sounds really fat.
Do birds fly? Where ever men work out, sauna, shower in gyms, clubs etc there will be varying degrees of hanky panky. Has always been so will always be so. I have been going to public and private clubs since the early 70s and nothing much has changed. Some say it is a function of dirty old geezers, but in my experience about 20 to 1 it is horny younger men, the better looking ones among them.
R351 lives in a very uptight bubble. He thinks sex is nasty, dirty, etc. Offends him. Interesting, isn't it?
As you get older it sort of takes on the same meaning as laughing, taking a crap, sneezing, swallowing, crying- just another physical need and action. The difference is that you can do it with someone else or alone. That's all.
While I realize if everyone had sex in gyms things could get out of hand- but I would ask R351 why it is wrong and why it should be punished? I think asking people not to do it is the best approach. One or two time offenders need not lose memberships- perhaps only serial "offenders". Otherwise the gym might lose significant membership! Hell, the West Side Y in NYC would close.
Perhaps R351 is a troll if night in his glass bubble.
[quote]I closed my eyes to ignore him, in about 5 minutes he had inched closer and had his hand on my ankle. I jerked it away, left and joined Reebok.
That's wonderful R323. No doubt a loud "No!" would have ended the troll's approach, but you really taught him a lesson that he'll never forget. The minute you flounced out of that sauna, he knew he had gone too far without your uttering even one word. Congrats! The best part is that you can relate the unfolding of this colorful drama to all the people you'll be meeting at Reebok. That's a major success.
R351 I have to sk what yr doing on DL when you describe guys naking out as wrong, revolting and disrespectful ?
I'm curious as to how a gym can revoke someone's membership for something like this because how do they prove you were doing it? It's one member's word against another's.
r354, I think your public sex is nasty, dirty, gross, repugnant. Like most normal people, I view sex as a private, personal matter that is great when shared in the confines of intimate, private environments. Your public sex compulsions should be treated, not indulged.
R358 so are you against porn too?
Have you ever had sex when totally naked, R358? Do you make sure you're under a blanket while having sex?
I am, R359, it's total degrading filth
and yes, R360, I do, and ALWAYS with all the lights out! We can't have people even knowing what might be going on at that time of the night.
Most gyms in LA are too dirty for this kind of shit. I mean, not clean to the point you don't want to "hang out". And a lot of old trolls swingin' their tired pachyderms, acting like they're waiting for a bus, nude. They might as well be whistling innocently. It's simultaneously "naughty" and pathetic. It might be different if they were actually attractive, at any age. There's one famous actor in that herd, too. He is in many big films but comes across as retarded. I will not name him because I almost feel sorry for him.
R362 What gyms in LA does this even happen in? I've been hard pressed to find any in the area that offer non-coed Saunas/Steam Rooms.
Yeah, it's bad enough they are acting like desperate perverts, but it is even worse that they are not even hot. If you are gonna act crazy and freaky, at least be hot.
You would think that since they are already at the gym they would work out a little and maybe try to attract the type of guys they seem to want instead of just flashing, following and harassing them.
R357 thus the problem.
One of the biggest trolls in NYC named 'kind troll' has streams of complaints about him for ankle grabbing, following men and jerking off, opening shower curtains etc.
He has been terrorizing NYSC at 80th for a decade and management refuses to eject him (despite the loss of members) because they never catch him in the act.
They are idiots if you ask me, once 100 complaints come...you know there is a problem.
r366, what does this king troll look like? I go to 80th St once in a while. Agreed that most of the guys are trollish and aggressive, but curious as to who this guy is.
King Troll is older fattish, with an marine haircut circa 1960, purple brithmark.
White hair stands up thinning. He has a big organ and expect that if he shows it men will love him and they never do.
Sits in a corner of the sauna, staring, jacking, and gets aggressive if no response (there never is).
I work out at home so I don't have to deal with this nasty shit.
The NYSC on Madison and 36th has officially turned into a sex club. I see the same guys there every time I go whether it's morning, noon or night. One is kinda hunky but has a huge spare tire. If he did more cardio and less cruising he wouldn't have to suck cock in a steamroom.
I complained to the lifeless manager on duty and he said 'oh. is something going on down there? we can't do anything about it.'
It's obvious the manager doesn't want you to complain, R371. If you're not propositioned, why do you care?
Um, maybe, R372, because he knows what's appropriate in public and what isn't? It's a gym, not a bath house. Lots of people - gay and straight - actually go the gym with no interest in watching other people get it on or advertise their availability. It's really pretty simple.
If it's "really pretty simple", then why is it still happening, dear? Why has it happened throughout history, in any place where men congregate nude? Stop it with your powers of persuasion, and then get back to us.
Yeah, lots of things have happened through history, darling, and if that's good enough to justify your vulgarity, rock on. But make no mistake: it's a vulgar way to behave and you're vulgar if you do it. It's that simple.
It's weird that the 36th and Madison NYSC ignores complaints from members since they stuck a big sign on the steamroom door saying if you're caught doing anything inappropriate you're going to have to explain it to the police.
Or maybe it's not so weird.
All I know is I'm tired of waiting in line for a shower because the steamroom diva's go back and forth back and forth back and forth.
Bitch/R375, I've never hooked up with anyone in a gym or sauna before. I'm just more realistic about what to expect there, and about what kind of behaviors I can change with my own attitudes and efforts.
Join reality, hon. Because reality ain't going anywhere.
And you just keep striving for the lowest common denominator. You're going places!
It's going on in every mens gym.
R379 to some degree.
At Crunch it goes on, however no creepy old men grabbing ankles. Stuff happens, and if a new person comes in and is not going for it, it ceases.
I got my juicy on last night at NYSC 23rd St. Deliciously muscular black man fucked my facepussy with a 10 inch magic stick. That steamroom has such a variety of mans, I could live there taking it from a different type of guy each day. A pakistani with a tight swimmer's build heads my menu tonight.
[quote]if a new person comes in and is not going for it, it ceases.
That sounds reasonable.
This Saturday at d Barton, OMG! There is this sexy guy who takes my spin class - tall blond, cross between matthew mcconaughey and Patrick Wilson. he wears those tank tops with the low cut sides that open reveling his pink nips and tight lean golden body when he bends forward on his bike. Anyway I've seen him before and I know he is an exhibitionist horny fuck. Hell stand in the locker room with his ass hanging out forever. No towel dance for him.
He was sitting in the steam room legs spread. Another guy sat down next tohi and his legs kept getting wider and wider. Unfortunately the steam started and I lost a clear view but the sounds coming out from that corner. The wet bologna slap. This guy is sexy as hell and doesn't need to hook up in a steam room, but you can tell it turns him on and that makes it hotter.
New sign on the door of my gym's dry sauna, located in the men's locker room- "In the interest of health & hygiene, and common courtesy, please wear shorts in the sauna."
Common courtesy? What the hell? I understand the need for, and use, a towel, but shorts in the sauna so others don't have to see my junk? Not sure if it's in reaction to activity (I admit I've played once or twice), but ridiculous.
What gym was that r384.?
You caused that R384. Cause and effect
Will my victoria's secret edible laffy taffy crotchless shorts be OK?
No, I didn't. I don't go often enough to have caused any issues.
"The NYSC on Madison and 36th has officially turned into a sex club"
Oh please R371 - Madison and 36th street? - that gym is in the middle of nowhere, so of course it has to be a sex club to survive.
Madison and 36th is dying because Equinox and a few other gyms have opened in the area during the past few years so now they're desperate for business. Same with 23rd and 8th. They lost all of the hot $$$ gays to David Barton down the street. Most of the guys who workout there now look homeless. Slutty members are better than no members at all.
How can these new members who look homeless afford to live in Manhattan? It's not likely they live elsewhere if they got to a gym in midtown, right?
The NYSC on 23rd and 8th is near the projects. I'm sure there's some sort of discount. No, really. They do look homeless and more than a little scary.
Where do the HK whores work out?
[R9] Funny about Club One Fillmore since I've heard people online say that was the new SF cruising spot as well, but after going there for a year and using the saunas quite a bit, I've never seen any shenanigans. The place is so busy that I don't know how anyone could get away with it.
There is some longing energy sometimes, but it seems to come from guys I would think might be closeted (younger and from ethnicities that don't accept gay guys as openly).
I'm really bad at sensing cruising though and could be an unwitting cockblock in the room when I'm in there. I have an average slim body, but get told I have a handsome face, so not sure if my lack of abs kills it. Open to the possibility that my looks are ho hum and a buzzkill for guys looking for better. I'm not there to cruise, so maybe I seem like a guy that doesn't want anyone to start anything.
I do wish the guys in general were more chatty though. The steam room seems like a great place to socialize, but the energy gets kinda awkward. Could also be because I'm a nerd.
Good lord r394! You're awful in every way.
r394, the last thing I want to hear in a steam room is chatter. I go in there for a little peace and quiet and a few minutes of restful silence after a workout. (And sometimes to release some testosterone.)
Unfortunately, men from the former Russian republics have taken over the steam rooms in Brooklyn, Queens and Staten Island are your type of men...never shut their big mouths with their mean-sounding chatter.
They have cracked down at 80th and Broadway NYSC but the trolls are still there. It is the regular sex hounds who have moved on.
NYC is another world. Why so many sleazy gyms up there? It's like another bizarro world up there.
Every gym is a little bit sleazy, it's the nature of the beast.
I heard Curves has lesbians licking labias.
Do women hook up in gyms too, or is it just a guy thing?
Mostly a guy thing.
not every gym. not even most.
Something weird is in the air at my gym. Suddenly, more dudes are walking about jay bird naked in the lockerroom, at the sink and urinals like they are at home. Some friends of mine mentioned how weird is it and how it just seemed to happen overnight.
What gym R404, what city?
Come back R404
My gym is a veritable boathouse. Just a very erotic vibe. Even the average to below average guys like me get some play.
Tell us more R408.
Aware of it?.....They married me for it!!!!!!!
Lol, veritable boathouse...
Crunch has more stand around and pose than actual sex. They are all on grindr and run back and forth to their lockers, to check who else is on so they can see your profile and pics.
An actual naked man in front of them had less appeal than a pic.
Things got rather crazy today in the steam room. This was early afternoon after spin class and I went to relax in the steam room. It's always weird when it's relatively quite in the gym and you walk in the steam room and it's packed.
I took a seat and could tell by the energy that me opening the door had interrupted something. Everybody soon got back to stroking. Then walks in this muscle dad guy, about 45-51, nice body. He sits down and a long semi hard dick flops out - his way of saying I am cool with whatever's going on. Soon after this younger guy walks in, 24 years old at most, lean/skinny build, smooth chest and takes a seat in the crowded steam room right at the older guys feet.
Instantly he leans back and starts milking and sucking on the older guy's cock right in front of me. He does this for a a while before the older guys leans forward, basically cradling, and starts fingering his ass while the kid jacks off. Between moaning and sucking on the older guys nips, (as if he were a baby nursing), and a lot of dirty talk about "daddy dick", the older guy fingerbangs a load out of the kid.
I guess the kid got what he was looking for. He was in and out in 10 minutes. I left shortly after that figuring it wasn't going to get any better than that today.
I also think boathouses are erotic.
New York Sex Club on 36th and Madison has started shutting their steamroom down for the day if they suspect inappropriate behavior.
Bad move since that's why most members go there. Gym is always empty (good for me) but Steam is always full (good for them).
NYC is so weird.
It's a catch 22, if you let the steamer get out of control, it is disgusting, if you are militant and abolish it, you lose clientele. It's a fine line.
the trolls who can't take a hint are the ones ruining it for all
Crunch on Sunset?
I did a temp membership there and couldn't believe they have showers where you can totally see the shadow of naked men from the main entrance.
Recently, Craig's List missed connections has had ads talking about an Italian muscled guy who sucks everyone's dick in the mornings and another guy who posted saying he had some std like gonor. or something and said sorry to everyone he possibly gave it to.
R418 knows the score.
Please continue with further updates later this week R413.
I have sex right out on the gym floor. What do think all those mats are for? I do wipe up all of my sex juices after I'm through. I am considerate of other members.
Juices? Don't you mean sex dust R422?
One of the sales reps at an NYSC in Manhattan would regularly go to the steam room and join the action. I haven't been to that location in almost a year but I'd be surprised if he hasn't been fired yet. Management was well aware of what was going on in the steam room and I'd see him in there at least once a week.
r425 Is he hot?
Which location r425? At least give a neighborhood.
Take me back to Manhattan, that dear old dirty town!
[quote]One of the sales reps at an NYSC in Manhattan would regularly go to the steam room and join the action.
Do people have morals in NYC?
[quote]Do people have morals in NYC?
Yes, a lot of them do. There was a sale on morals at Bloomies last week and they sold out.
'One of the sales reps at an NYSC in Manhattan would regularly go to the steam room and join the action.'
LET ME GUESS... 36TH AND MADISON?
[quote]'One of the sales reps at an NYSC in Manhattan would regularly go to the steam room and join the action
86th and Lex? Dave or Rob?
Going to gym now
[quote]LET ME GUESS... 36TH AND MADISON?
I wish. There's a hot East Indian guy who works there.
[quote]Crunch has more stand around and pose than actual sex.
They're the S&M crowd.
Standing & Modeling
A writer for the New Yorker recently shared a story about his joining a gym on 14th Street, going there with his teenage son, and walking in on two guys having sex in the steam room.
He thought his son didn't see what was going on, but he did.
He complained to the manager, who told him steam room sex is the biggest problem facing NYC gyms.
So yes, OP, they know.
Why is NYC such a hotbed of such aberrant public behavior?
Steam rooms were invented for mansex, get over it people.
My NYSC has put up signs limited towels to one per person. I wonder if it's because of an actual towel shortage or because they're trying to cut down on sexual activity (the ones fooling around are constantly grabbing new towels...it's almost ritualistic).
R442 doesn't limiting towels to stop sexual activity seem counterintuitive? If there aren't towels to grab then everyone's just gonna be naked and you know what happens in a room full of naked men!
No one wants to walk around in a cummy towel.
How many guys cum and stick around?
r438 here, he told it to a theater full of people at the Moth on Tuesday night.
No link to a live performance, sorry. They may post it on their site or their podcast. They did record the event.
[quote]Why is NYC such a hotbed of such aberrant public behavior?
Because NYC has more gyms than your village. NYC also has more people jogging in Central Park than other cities because that's where Central Park is located.
r447, but that does not explain the proportion of people engaging sexual antics in NYC gyms versus everywhere else.
R448, you are wrong. There is sex in steam rooms all across America. This is not a problem that is 'bigger' in NYC.
Boys will be boys. Thank God.
[quote]but that does not explain the proportion of people engaging sexual antics in NYC gyms versus everywhere else.
What are the percentages that compare sexual antics in NYC gyms vs everywhere else? I've never seen a publication of those figures.
[quote]There is sex in steam rooms all across America. This is not a problem that is 'bigger' in NYC.
Lord knows except in Los Angeles. But that's only because good luck finding a non-coed steam or sauna there, or really anywhere in CA.
That's probably why there's so much activity in NY.. because they still have the non-coed facilities.
I go the 36th and Madison NYSC. I had no idea there was so much steam action there. It doesn't strike me as a particularly gay gym either. I'd say 90 percent of the guys who go there are straight.
[quote]What are the percentages that compare sexual antics in NYC gyms vs everywhere else? I've never seen a publication of those figures.
No, but common sense would dictate that it is more acceptable/less risky to attempt sex in a NYC steam room then a steam room in some small midwestern town. If you are caught in NYC, you might get bounced from the gym. If you are caught in a small midwestern town the consequences could be much greater.
If John Travolta walks into a gym, management knows there will be attempts at sex for certain.
R440 because there are a lot more horny hot guys living on top of each other in NYC than anywhere else. And a proportion of those horny guys like to have public sex. And the easiest, risk-free place to have sex in public is in a steam room.
NYC is perfect if you are into hooking up a lot. If you go on scruff, grinder, manhunt. whatever the first 50 guys in your list will be within a quarter of a mile from where you live. God there are a least four guys in the building across from me who I've fucked. It's just too easy if that's your thing.
I agree that most of the guys who go to 36th and Madison are straight. They also like to fool around in the steamroom. They really should just burn that branch down. I walked in last night and the guy who was covering reception was standing to the side of the desk and, through hand gestures (because he either didn't feel like talking or didn't know how) had me scan myself in. A few weeks ago I showed up early one Saturday morning to find the door open, no one at reception and no one else in the gym. wtf.
Oh, and the NYSC on Mercer St got rid of the steamroom during renovations and installed a sauna. With a big glass window so everyone can see in. Smart move.